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One of the most common questions I receive in my work is:
How do I know the difference between fear that’s coming from anxiety and fear that’s coming from intuition alerting me to a real problem?
It’s the million-dollar question, the one that drives people to my site in a middle-of-the-night ... Views: 1051
For this discussion, we are going to stick with our understanding of codependency as a system of distortions that exists on a continuum. Codependents learn personality traits that interfere with knowing one’s self and others. The people-pleasing aspect of codependency might drive the ignoring of ... Views: 1425
Boxes are never again square and massive; in truth numerous in the event that them are round or triangular so they can deal with the majority of your stockpiling needs. Outline stockpiling boxes could be portrayed as 'second era' boxes, these fairly cool stockpiling units have been intended to ... Views: 637
Dear Dr Romance:
I hope you will be able to provide me with an insight. I was in a relationship with a man I genuinely loved and wanted future with. Our relationship was lovely to start with but after a few months problems started to emerge: another woman told me he was in a ... Views: 1083
The definition of truth should be such that it is acceptable by all, in every single circumstance and with each relationship. The truth should not change from people to people or from situation to situation. The truth should not hurt or divide people.
However, many truths in this world ... Views: 906
Dear Dr. Romance:
I am a gentle young graduate of about 30 years. Throughout my staying on the campus, I decided not to enter into any real relationship that could eventually lead to marriage (I mean I had nothing in common with girls). Now, I need a life partner, wish must be a graduate like ... Views: 838
Can I Trust a Man Who Cheated on me But Promises Not To Do It Again? by Beth Shepherd the psychic. A case study. Names etc changed.
My boyfriend Jeff has been dating me for six years, we got on great until a few months ago I found a note in his pocket from another woman with her name and ... Views: 792
How To Get A Woman To Leave Your Husband Alone: Exactly How To Get Rid Of The Other Woman In Your Husband's Life For Good
Every woman who has a cheating husband has this mental fantasy of forcing her husband to ditch the other chick and beg her for a second chance. It could happen to you. ... Views: 2532
Relationships are everything...simply because they are all that exist. Nothing has meaning until you decide how it relates to you or how you relate to it. It is the process of making these associations that will determine the outcome of our experiences in life.
We are creatures of love that ... Views: 1125
Dr. Romance writes: Many people ask me, “How will I know if I'm in love?”
Answer: Anyone who's in love usually knows it; the real question should be are we mutually in love, or am I wasting my time? If you want to be secure in your primary relationship, knowing how to create mutuality and work ... Views: 1004
Nursing homes are a place where the elderly and the seniors should feel safe and protected. However, it is unfortunate enough to note that there are considerably large numbers of nursing homes where patient abuse has become too commonplace. From stealing money to physical abuse to restricting ... Views: 975
Dear Dr. Romance:
I met a cute guy that's a foreigner in the USA from Russia so....... How do I make sure he's not looking for a visa green card marriage?
Dear Reader:
Whether or not he wants a green card isn't the real question. The real question is, does he have good character, and does he ... Views: 948
Fun Way to Learn Faster Together
As a kid I spent much of one summer, sitting on the curb in front of my home, watching Mike, the cute boy across the street, riding his bike on daring ramp jumps in his driveway. (My “surprise” bike wouldn’t arrive until my birthday). Then Mike would speed out ... Views: 1031
Dear Dr. Romance:
We'd been really close and intimate. I thought we were going to be in a special relationship soon because he told me we were having something special. No matter how tired he was, he'd had his dinner with me.
He got paranoid everytime I threatened to stop talking to ... Views: 910
If you are going to visit a sick friend, it will be kind to bring along a bouquet of flower. Even though you cannot stay by your friend's side, your friend's spirit can be cheered up when he sees the flower. Putting a plant in the hospital room can also make the air fresher and healthier for the ... Views: 794
How Christmas Secrets
Christmas isn't an action it's a state of mind and heart. In fact, Christmas isn't enjoyed that at all for many lonely people, particularly if they've suffered any loss. It's starting to look a good deal like Christmas! Christmas isn't the time nor a season, but a mindset. ... Views: 1067
Dr. Romance says: I can’t escape it, it’s in the news every day, and it fills my counseling office. Recently, the news told of a four-year-old who was shot to death by his own father, because the father was jealous of his divorced wife’s new relationship. "O, beware... of jealousy; ... Views: 991
Dear Dr. Romance: I met this guy through a phone call, but he contacted or got my profile through a friend of mine and he is satisfied through that, and he is convinced that he could have a relationship with me, he needs my affection, fear of God, caring, true feeling of sharing, happiness, ... Views: 954
December 21, 2018 is our 50th wedding anniversary. We got married during a snow storm in Buffalo, New York at 7pm in the evening. The church was filled with candlelight and poinsettias. My uncle played the organ, my sister-in-law sang and the minister learned Hebrew prayers for our combined ... Views: 1051
On average, every household in America carries over $137,000 in debt. That totals in the vicinity of 1.02 trillion dollars of collective debt.
Debt can be something that is a necessity when you run a family and have important expenses that need to be addressed. Debt can also be a byproduct of ... Views: 1275
Are you having trouble getting approved for that midnight blue, 2018 Honda Civic? Been saving up for years to put that down payment on your dream home, but can't seem to qualify for the loan? You're not alone. Bad credit haunts the lives of millions of hard-working Americans like ... Views: 1054
It makes us happy when someone ask us to send them the video uploaded as status on WhatsApp. We all have someone in our contact list who always upload unique and amusing videos as their status that we all enjoy. You can upload short clips as status but also upload songs and long videos with ... Views: 825
1. The biggest danger of on-line relationships is that you’ll become a simulacrum or a one-dimensional media appropriate version of yourself. Rather than living an authentic life, your every move becomes curated for public consumption through social media. But life can’t be summed up in emojis ... Views: 1405
If we are in confusion to take a decision or if someone passes information unexpectedly, then we tend to believe them and act so.
During childhood we listen to our parents and as we grow old, we tend listen to our friends, teachers, well-wishers, etc.
But many of us will have received a ... Views: 878
On the last round of Open Your Heart a participant asked:
“So if I don’t trust these anxious thoughts then what can I trust? If my truth was really that we are not right for each other then how would I know if I am teaching myself not to listen when doubts arise?”
And then she wisely ... Views: 917
“I’m always comparing my relationship to other people’s relationships. Why does everyone else look like they’re so in love?”
“I have such a hard time making decisions. Sometimes I can’t even decide what to order at a restaurant!”
“I worry about whether or not my family likes my partner. I ... Views: 884
Dear Dr. Romance: I actually forwarded him the conversation by accident
Dear Dr. Romance:
I am a woman in my thirties. It's been over a month since I last spoke with my ex-boyfriend of one year. He gave me the silent treatment because I hurt him. Or it might be his ... Views: 1117
From the statistics it is apparent that our consumption rate is rising at a staggering pace. We are quickly depleting natural resources such as water, energy, food, etc. in a bid to meet the rising demands. It has become necessary for everyone to make changes in his or her lifestyle to help our ... Views: 739
No human relationship comes without its challenges. Just like a crossword puzzle, some words which could change the game for you seem quite hard to come by. If you ever find yourself, your partner or loved one(s) down, here are some nice and amazing collection of relationship quotes to lift ... Views: 912
The process of finding the ideal adult care home is not easy. You need to list down some of the top options that you have or the place where you’d like to approach. You need to start visiting them and then start evaluating the place. We will give you the top things you need to evaluate as they ... Views: 926
There are so many things to think about when it comes to colleges. Starting from an application, then waiting for a response and getting anxiety attacks whether to open the envelope or not when it finally arrives.
Moreover, that is not the end of it. In life, you will confront tough ... Views: 1577
To be honest, we are all worried when it comes to giving our trust to someone. No one knows if the other person is worthy of it and so many times it happens that they’re really not. Once someone plays our trust, we don’t give it away so easily anymore.
But to the person who stole our heart, ... Views: 1469
Let’s look at the definition of betrayal so we can understand why it hurts so much.
Webster’s definition: To hurt (someone who trusts you, such as a friend or relative) by not giving help or by doing something morally wrong.
“The saddest thing about betrayal is that it never comes from ... Views: 1945
“But dad, all my friends have phones and I don’t. Kimberly’s mum got her one for her 12th birthday just last week and I don’t want to be the odd one out,” pleaded my daughter.
I reluctantly looked up from the gift I was struggling to wrap - a Bosch mixer I bought for my wife this ... Views: 1797
Many couples bicker over all sorts of trivial things. Especially when they have become more disconnected, this is where ridiculous arguments, over pointless things can become big issues. For example I’ve heard couples bicker about the “right” way to pack the dishwasher, whether a colour is red ... Views: 1514
This arrived in Dr. Romance 's e-mail:
“There once was a little boy who had a bad temper. His father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, he must hammer a nail into the back of the fence. The first day the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence. Over ... Views: 1387
After I had got back from Bali and Australia, towards the end of 2009, I was no longer the same person. What had also played a part here were the experiences that I had when I was on a course in Belgium, which took place just before I went away.
Ultimately, I wanted to continue from where I ... Views: 1786
Snooping comes up time and time again in my work with couples from all over the world online. Arguments over discoveries after snooping on phones are frequent. This has included
1. Facebook messages to ex’s,
2. Whats app messages sharing intimate details or marriage complaints to friends, ... Views: 1584
Having worked with 100’s of couples now looking to repair the relationship or heal themselves after an affair, most want to know how long does it take to heal and what are the stages of healing after an affair. Like when dealing with a significant loss, loss of a loved one, financial loss or ... Views: 1855
Having worked with 100’s of couples now looking to repair the relationship or heal themselves after an affair, most want to know how long does it take to heal and what are the stages of healing after an affair. Like when dealing with a significant loss, loss of a loved one, financial loss or ... Views: 1572
One of the most common, yet most complex diseases that afflict people across all demographics is depression. The combination of psychosocial and biological factors that cause depression makes it one of the most prevalent medical and mental health conditions today. We all have our ups and downs, ... Views: 1569
Truth or Dare is mainly a party game played with teenagers and adults. In this informative article, you will find the fantastic truth or dare questions to your sport. So that you are able to make a note of them and perform without the pressure of awfulness, and escape from humiliations.
Great ... Views: 1298
While there are certain aspects of a relationship that you should be taking time to think about, if you are overthinking every aspect of your relationship, there’s a good chance that you’re going to kill it sooner or later.
People who overthink everything tend to be a lot more anxious in ... Views: 2514
Dr. Romance says: I can’t escape it, it’s in the news every day, and it fills my counseling office. Recently, the news told of a four-year-old who was shot to death by his own father, because the father was jealous of his divorced wife’s new relationship. "O, beware... of jealousy; ... Views: 1197
Learning how to get your husband to be more romantic can change the entire landscape or your marriage. It's difficult when the dynamic between you and your man changes and he's not as attentive or loving as he once was. You long for the days when he'd surprise you with a bouquet of fresh flowers ... Views: 2149
How to Keep a Man Happy In a Relationship
The question of how to keep him in love with you is one that many women have wondered about in relation to their boyfriend. Unfortunately men aren't always as emotionally invested in the relationship as we are. You may find that you are often silently ... Views: 1122
Secrets of How to Build A Strong Relationship with Your Boyfriend: How to Make A Relationship Last Forever
Do you need some help learning how to build a strong relationship? Would you like to leave past mistakes behind, and do things differently this time? What are some secrets you can use to ... Views: 2004
I always felt that using sincerity to buy love isn’t sincerity. I came across incidents where people demanded, saying, I have done this and that for you, yet you have the cheek to treat me otherwise!
They use what they have given freely out of love to demand similar treatments of love. Many ... Views: 1121