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- Single and Scared: Debunking the Scarcity Myth - by Submitted on May 31, 2010 from Lisa Steadman“There are no good men left.” Sound familiar? If you’re feeling freaked about being single, you don’t need to give up on your search for Mr. Right. You may just need to debunk your attachment to the scarcity myth. How? By participating in a fun 3 week experiment. All you need is an open mind, ...
Views: 2249(7 votes) - Rules For Safe Dating Russian Ladies - by Submitted on Nov 20, 2012 from lisa yungOn the Internet there are different cases of online dating scams and for the purpose of safety and effectiveness of dating Russian ladies, precautions and some rules of safe online dating are a necessity for new online daters. If you are using a niche and safe dating platform, that is better. Or ...
Views: 2247 - Opening To Your Life Partner - by Submitted on Jul 09, 2008 from Barry and Joyce VissellIn our book, Meant To Be, thirty-three year old Kat Trueblood describes herself as tired of dating. It was the spring of 1989, and while visiting a friend near where she was living in Colorado, she picked up and started reading a copy of our first book, The Shared Heart. Unable to put it down, ...
Views: 2243 - Tantra for the Single Life - by Submitted on Jan 02, 2016 from Dr. Elsbeth Meuth, EdD & Freddy Zental WeaverSingle heading into the New Year? You may be wondering how Tantra applies to you. How can you practice Tantra without a partner? How could Tantra enhance your single life? Tantra is a practice for everyone to first and foremost create a loving relationship and deeper connection with ...
Views: 2235(1 vote) - The BIGGEST Mistake Women Make with Men (without even realizing it!) - by Submitted on Jul 13, 2009 from Cherry NorrisGina is a great coach. She's smart, beautiful and successful. She's well traveled and well respected. She has great friends. Gina's life is full. Gina loves to make people feel special. She loves sharing ideas and giving advice. When Gina meets a man she likes, she gives him phone calls, ...
Views: 2235(5 votes) - Dr. Romance Video: On Dating in the Workplace - by Submitted on Nov 08, 2012 from Tina TessinaTo view the video, click here. Work can be the ideal environment for falling in love: you are in close proximity for a long period of time, you may have developed a good working partnership, and from there it is a short step to romance. However, workplace romance can present big problems. Dr. ...
Views: 2230 - A Realistic Approach To The Common Question: "How Do I Get A Girlfriend?" - by Submitted on Jul 31, 2009 from Jesse AllenI love this question: "How do I get a girlfriend?" Fundamentally, this question is inefficient and leads to a dead end. It's the same when someone "wants a family" or "wants lots of money". It is the perfect example of asking the wrong question while at the same time not knowing what you really ...
Views: 2228(2 votes) - How to Find Your Dream Man - by Submitted on Nov 22, 2010 from Susan SheppardHow to find your Dream Man To find your dream man when you are serious about wanting a committed relationship, just follow the steps below, and then apply my strategy. 1. Visualize the perfect mate for yourself. Get very specific. Be sure to include the values and principals that mean the ...
Views: 2225(9 votes) - Don't Sleep through your Sex Life - by Submitted on Jun 07, 2012 from Bobbi PalmerHave you ever found yourself in a sexual lull? Maybe you're in one right now. During my oh-so-many single years, I used to call my gaps in dating and intimacy "being on hiatus." And the hiatuses were often pretty long. (Sorry…TMI?) The truth is that extended periods of celibacy are somewhat ...
Views: 2220(5 votes) - ***The 6 Keys To Spiritual Dating - by Submitted on Sep 03, 2008 from Jill Crosby“Spiritual Dating” or “Conscious Dating” is an enlightened way of meeting and dating. There are no “rules” or expectations, and it’s about being true to oneself and staying in the flow. Conscious dating is more fun than the traditional style of dating, and it yields much better results! As we ...
Views: 2219(4 votes) - Double Your Dating Review - Learn David DeAngelo's Secrets To Dating Women - by Submitted on Aug 24, 2011 from Andy YangIn Double Your Dating, David DeAngelo, a dating expert who coined the words Attraction Is Not A Choice, will teach men the way to possibly be naturally effective with women. When I initially heard of Double Your Dating, I recall it was just after I had come home from being refused by a ...
Views: 2218 - ***How to Know if He is Merely Hot...or Maybe Husband - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerLooking for a life partner but keep picking players, paupers, or just plain zeros? Finding a partner is like finding a good job: you only need one, but making a bad choice wastes your time and sticks you in an unpleasant situation. To avoid that, you need to make a grown-up decision about ...
Views: 2217(14 votes) - Are Seduction Techniques For The Confident Or The Awkward Individual? - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2017 from treena murphyImagine that you are already in your college days and still you can’t find a date. Or even asking someone for a date is a misery for you. In short, you find it hard to approach women and lack confidence in yourself Seduction techniques in this new millennium are on the rise. ...
Views: 2216 - Low Self-Esteem And Christian Singles - by Submitted on Mar 21, 2011 from Dorian MilonChristian singles the same as other singles can experience low self-esteem, which creates serious barriers when trying to seek a significant other. When one does not think highly of themselves, no one else is going to think highly of them either. Low self-esteem cannot only affect one’s social ...
Views: 2216(1 vote) - ***Living Single Is Not A Condition To Improve - by Submitted on Apr 11, 2008 from Dr. Jackie BlackMany of us find ourselves un-partnered at various times in our lives. How do you experience being single and uninvolved? Do you worry that you are unloved, or will never find that special someone to love? Did you feel relief at the end of a marriage or relationship that was contentious or ...
Views: 2214 - ***Please Be Kind to Frogs - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerThink about the clever line we women often use: it takes some form of “I’ve kissed so many frogs I’ve got the warts to prove it!” or “How many frogs do I have to kiss before I find my prince?” You know what I’m talking about. It’s cute, and although we don’t really laugh at it, it tends to ...
Views: 2211(10 votes) - Getting to Know Yourself is the Best Way to Succeed in Developing a Satisfying Intimate Relationship - by Submitted on May 03, 2012 from Doron GilIf you are single and on the dating scene wishing to find a partner with whom to develop a successful relationship, you have probably listened to and practiced many dating-tips you read in advice columns, found on the internet and received from friends, such as: * Write the perfect profile * ...
Views: 2210 - 5 Different Types of Flirting – Which One Describes You? - by Submitted on Sep 16, 2016 from Madeline FosterIs Your Flirting Technique Up To Par? How we flirt says a lot about who we are and what our chances of finding love or starting a relationship. Take a look at the top five flirting styles and see which one best portrays you. 1. The Traditional Flirt. In traditional ...
Views: 2208(1 vote) - Love or Lust at First Sight - by Submitted on Aug 23, 2011 from Stella SinglesIntimacy and Dating Advice 101: In our modern society there is a great disconnect in the dating world. What is it? Its how men and women view love, and lust. This is important for many reasons, but none more important than communication. It is plain and simple, communicate better and your ...
Views: 2185(1 vote) - Relationships: Why Are Some Men Attracted To Women Who Need To Be Saved? - by Submitted on Mar 23, 2018 from Oliver JR CooperIf a man was to find out that a woman is unable to handle life and needs other people to prop her up, he could soon come to the conclusion that it would be better for him to move on. It will be only too clear that being with a woman like this is going to be more trouble than it’s worth. Two ...
Views: 2181 - ***The Secret to Being a Happy Dater - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerWhy is it that when we date — even at 40, 50, or 60 — we can become an alien woman from planet WTF? If you’re anything like I was, it’s sometimes difficult to recognize yourself when you’re in the presence of a hot, nice, or simply available man. The beliefs and habits of our 25 or 30 year ...
Views: 2178(3 votes) - The Perfect Women - What us men look for in a Women - by Submitted on Feb 02, 2011 from Ed WalkerLast month The Tooth published its findings from a survey that aimed to discover what it is that women want from a man. Now it’s time for the blokes to dish the dirt and tell the fairer sex what we really look for. Yes, of course, it’s common knowledge that we all love blow jobs and no, despite ...
Views: 2169 - What *Sign* Are You Wearing? The Truth About First Impressions - by Submitted on Nov 23, 2009 from Janice BennettIt’s not uncommon for singles to ask, “What’s your sign?” when meeting someone new. Depending on the extent of their belief in astrology, knowing someone’s astrological sign can aid in making assumptions or conclusions about someone’s personality, character, and consequently, their potential ...
Views: 2160(3 votes) - 7 Dating Tips for Women from Men - by Submitted on Sep 02, 2012 from Marni BattistaWhile our male counterparts can confuse the heck out of us Dignity Daters, sometimes they can be the best when it comes to dishing out dating advice. Now that you have access to the Dating with Dignity’s Men’s Advice Column (Starting with these seven dating tips for women from men!), you’ll ...
Views: 2158(2 votes) - Abandonment: Does The Fear Of Being Abandoned Control Your Life? - by Submitted on Jun 13, 2014 from Oliver JR CooperWhile the ideal is for someone to live their truth, this is not always possible. And one reason why this is not possible is when they have a fear of being abandoned. Their choices and decisions in life are then going to be defined by this fear and what is actually right for them is going to be ...
Views: 2147 - Needing Love & Being Desperate and Dependent Might Kill Your Relationships - by Submitted on Oct 05, 2012 from Doron GilIntroduction If you are driven by neediness and dependency you might be “pushed” into unhealthy, even abusive relationships. These might bring uncomfortable, terrible consequences in terms of depression, feelings of worthlessness and of loneliness. Becoming aware of your needs and conquering ...
Views: 2146 - Ten Things to Do in February If You're Single - by Submitted on Feb 05, 2010 from Meghan GehanValentine’s Day. Here it comes again. Last year we ran a list of things you can do if you’re single in February, and got a great response. So this year, we’re updating the list with some new ideas for how to spend this highly commercialized ‘holiday’. Because even though you may not want to ...
Views: 2137(4 votes) - ***Dating Tip: First Decide Whether You Like Him - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerIt’s pathetic how easily I can find my self acting like the insecure kid I was in high school. These days it doesn’t come up too much, but can happen when I meet someone I especially like and admire, and get the sense they don’t return the feeling. I can get to feeling so hurt and undeserving ...
Views: 2136(8 votes) - Confidence in love: How to find true and lasting love ~ part 2 - by Submitted on Feb 09, 2012 from Anna Aparicio7 billion of us on Earth, and yet so many people feel so alone. With more avenues than ever to connect with each other, quicker than ever before, many people find it harder than ever. We can Skype, twit and poke people on the other side of the globe. So far, yet so close. So close, yet so far. ...
Views: 2129(2 votes) - 5 Guaranteed Ways To Turn a Man OFF! - by Submitted on Jun 26, 2011 from Kara OhThere are some really simple ways to get a man’s attention and cause him to want to get to know you. But I thought it would be fun, and maybe drive the point home in a more powerful way, to tell you how you can turn men off, guaranteed. Clearly, this is all tongue-in-cheek, but it’s still ...
Views: 2112(1 vote) - Ladies, Which of the Three Types of Single Are You? - by Submitted on Dec 29, 2011 from Rachel RussoLet me guess, if you had a dime for every time a random guy asked "Why is a pretty girl like you single?" you could buy yourself a lot more than a Happy Meal. (Filet mignon, anyone?) Indeed, there are typically a plethora of explanations women could offer these poor saps who are just trying to ...
Views: 2112 - The 5 Questions to Ask When You're Meeting Your Girlfriend's New Man - by Submitted on Aug 30, 2009 from Katie KrienitzThe 5 Questions to Ask when You’re Meeting Your Girlfriend’s New Man I pulled up to the restaurant and sat in my car for a moment. I couldn’t believe that I was actually nervous! One of my best girlfriends, Angelina, had been talking about Charlie for a few weeks now. They had shared ...
Views: 2105(1 vote) - Change the Way You Do “The Dating-Game”- and Succeed in Developing an Intimate Relationship - by Submitted on Oct 28, 2011 from Doron GilINTRODUCTION If you have been in the dating-game for quite a long time now and still are not successful to develop a successful intimate relationship, maybe it’s time for you to change tactics. Having the courage to do things differently may prove to be “the right way” to succeed in finding a ...
Views: 2096 - ***5 Tips to Help You Stick to Dating, Even When It Sucks - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerYesterday I wanted to quit. This is too hard. There are days things seem to be clicking and I’m finally getting it…marching boldly toward my goal. Then there are days like yesterday when I feel clueless…like a failure with no hope of success. And I can’t help but take it personally. I know I ...
Views: 2090(5 votes) - Depression Help - by Submitted on May 05, 2012 from Rosemary PriceDepression help... Let us assume that you know for a fact that you really are suffering from this awful illness and now need to find a way to be cured or at least feel better. You can help yourself and you can get outside help. If you have people that you live with or are in regular contact ...
Views: 2083 - Answering the $1 Million Question: Is He In To You? - by Submitted on Nov 29, 2012 from Bobbi PalmerAnswering the $1 Million Question: Is He In To You? At least half of all the emails I get from wonderful women who are over 40 and looking for love are about the same question you’ve probably been asking since you were a teenager: “Is he in to me?” Often the answer is: If you have to ask, ...
Views: 2076(2 votes) - Dear Dr. Romance: I'm Lonely and Hate It! - by Submitted on Apr 12, 2012 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: Almost all of my friends have boyfriends, (we're 22, turning 23) and I don't. I never have. I feel really alone during the week because all my friends are with their boyfriends. I basically work, take classes, and that's it. I either need a boyfriend or more friends, because ...
Views: 2075 - Meeting Women in Places beside Bars and Clubs - by Submitted on Dec 30, 2011 from Richard LisoFriday or Saturday Night, and again you and your buddies go out to a night club to pick up some chicks. But odds are that you're like most of men – because picking up women is easier said than done. Most guys go out to a night club, and they will approach very few girls during the whole ...
Views: 2064 - Let Him Know You're Interested: How to Let a Guy Know You like Him without Being Obvious - by Submitted on Sep 01, 2017 from Banks RobertWould you like to know what a man considers as the "complete package"? Does it ever happen that you seem to lose the attraction from a guy by the minute and don't know what to do about it? Are you able to clearly state your interest without looking too aggressive? Those are the kinds of ...
Views: 2061 - What Men Want in a Relationship - by Submitted on Aug 25, 2012 from Marni BattistaWhat DO men want in a relationship? It's an age-old question. If you've already read "Dating with Dignity's Guide to What Men Really Want: Three Myths and Three Truths to Stop Wondering Today!", you're headed in the right direction. The problem is, women think the obvious answer to this ...
Views: 2060(2 votes) - Single and Happy – Finding Contentment from Within with the Right Mindset - by Submitted on Apr 01, 2011 from Nelson BerryBy The Pioneer of Subliminal Messages Online. A lot of single people are dissatisfied with their lives. They spend most of their time lamenting the fact that they are not in a relationship, and the rest of their time looking for a relationship. Thus, they become discontent, dissatisfied, ...
Views: 2057 - Date Excessively, Mate Exclusively. - by Submitted on Mar 22, 2012 from malti bhojwaniDate first Mate later - by Malti Bhojwani Men and women fall in love differently, while women feel an immediate affection and care for the man, men are usually only physically attracted at first. They like the way she looks or they think they could bed her easily. Men think about sex every ...
Views: 2045 - 12 Conversation Starters with a Girl - by Submitted on Nov 30, 2016 from Joshua UebergangThe right conversation starters with a girl are a topic of hot debate and leave most of us confused. You don’t want to come off seeming too strong and yet striking the right balance between being subtle and not being notice at all is pretty hard as well. It's a good social skill. This article ...
Views: 2044 - How To Become More Attractive To Girls - by Submitted on Mar 12, 2011 from Dingane .If you are like me and you were not born with the Brad Pitt gene, then you probably know what its like to be overlooked by girls. Although "being attractive" is a relative term there certainly are guys who have little or no trouble attracting women. One of the biggest mistakes guys make however ...
Views: 2043 - 3 Steps For Getting Through Hard Times - by Submitted on Mar 27, 2011 from Kara OhWe all go through difficulties now and then. The tricky part is not getting stuck thinking it will not improve. Here are some steps you can take to help yourself not only get past the hard times, but actually learn and improve because of them. 1.Get a journal just for this event. Write ...
Views: 2042(2 votes) - First Date Conversation Tips: 9 Horrible, Awful Conversation Topics and What to Talk About Instead - by Submitted on Nov 12, 2010 from Tracey Bennett1. Your Pet Peeves Drivers who cut you off in traffic. Long lines at airport security. (Yawn.) You might as well get a forehead tattoo that says BORING WHINER. On the other hand, if you can tell a story about an impatient traveler who convinced 43 people to let him or her cut in line, then ...
Views: 2037(7 votes) - Manifest Your Mate - by Submitted on Jun 06, 2007 from Jill CrosbyFinding the love of your life can be a daunting challenge these days, without having a little help! Most of us on a conscious path are relatively happy and content with our lives; however, having a loving spiritual partnership with a person who enhances our life gives us the opportunity to grow ...
Views: 2035 - How to Develop Self-Awareness & Succeed with Your Relationships 2: The Importance of Observing Yourself - by Submitted on Aug 26, 2011 from Doron GilINTRODUCTION Observing yourself enables you to become aware of your thoughts, feelings, attitudes, reactions and behaviors in relationships (or in staying single). You can then understand how these drive you to sabotage your relationships. This enables you to make the necessary changes and ...
Views: 2032 - 300 Creative Date Ideas You Probably Did Not Think Of.... - by Submitted on Feb 25, 2011 from Dan ThompsonIf you are looking for a collection of expensive dates to really impress your sweetheart then this ISN'T IT. But if you want 100's of inexpensive dates that cost from $5-$20 then you have found a goldmine of information. Whether… …you want to make a big impression to secure a second date, put ...
Views: 2030 - The Key to Getting Past Your Breakup - by Submitted on Sep 09, 2012 from Marni BattistaWe’ve all been there. You just broke up with a boyfriend, husband, or long-term partner. Whether you thought he was The One, or the one for the year or month, it never feels good. Breakups are hard because they represent the loss of a shared commitment. Even breakups that make logical sense ...
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