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Three Myths of Sexual Desire - by Valeria ChubaHow Unusual Are Your Sexual Fantasies? - by Valeria Chuba- Tantric Massage | Tantra Massage by Andro - by Submitted on Jul 18, 2007 from ANANDA Tantra Massage Germany .The Tantra Massage is a method developed by Andro Andreas Rothe, the founder of the first German Tantra institute (Diamond Lotus Tantra Lounge, in Berlin since 1977). In an integrative way it combines well-founded massage techniques from various schools of massage with elements from ...
Views: 9205(3 votes) - A Sex Therapist’s Guide to Passionate Sex - by Submitted on Aug 03, 2009 from Stephanie BuehlerWant passionate sex? The first step is to figure out what you mean when you think about sex that is passionate. You could think that sex is passionate when your partner: Acts like they want you right now Is more aggressive than usual Goes slower than usual Takes the time to ...
Views: 13301(3 votes) - How to Be Noticed and Get More Respect – The Art of Sensuous Seduction - by Submitted on Oct 08, 2011 from Allura JoyIf you’re single looking to find the guy of your dreams, or you already have a partner but feel overlooked at times; then listen up for some great tips on enchanting those around you. Seducing a man doesn’t necessarily mean stealing him from someone else, or convincing him to do something he ...
Views: 3187(6 votes) - Is Your Relationship Sizzling or Lukewarm? - by Submitted on Nov 09, 2010 from Dr. Erica Goodstone* Is YOUR Relationship bubbling, simmering or lukewarm? * Are you feeling sexy, desirable, and passionate? * Is your partner showing you the interest and attention you desire? In a recent professional list serve discussion, one of my colleagues, Julian Slowinski, PsyD, shared with us ...
Views: 4287(3 votes) - Let's Talk About SEX - by Submitted on Jan 11, 2005 from Danish AhmedLet's talk about sex, baby Let's talk about you and me Let's talk about all the good things, And the bad things that may be Let's talk about sex - Salt N Pepa (1992, Written by Herby Azor) - - - - - - - - - - Let's Talk About Sex... Sex can be an uncomfortable topic for some people. How are ...
Views: 1964(3 votes) - Losing Her Interest In Sex? Cure Your Premature Ejaculation - by Submitted on Apr 30, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraMen hate to talk about this. It’s either they deny the problem and shove it off in the back of their minds or they are too embarrassed to discuss it. For those with innocent minds, let me explain to you what premature ejaculation is, it is the most common sexual dysfunction. It is a man’s ...
Views: 970(3 votes) - Lust / Good or Bad - by Submitted on Jul 31, 2009 from Larry PierceLust Train For More Info Please check out www.rpa365.blogspot.com Lust is a human emotion that relates to sexual desire. Like all emotions our lives seem easier when they are not running out of control. Lust can run out of control like a train. Think about this. Lust, like a train, starts ...
Views: 5127(3 votes) - Millennials and Intimacy: What’s not adding up? - by Submitted on Nov 12, 2015 from Dr. Elsbeth Meuth, EdD & Freddy Zental WeaverFor the past few years, publications like Mic, The Atlantic, and even TIME have pointed out that millennials have been defined by “hookup culture.” Michelle Adams writes that “hook-up culture is definitely something entrenched in the millennial generation” in her 2012 article for Mic ...
Views: 2740(3 votes) - Overcoming Fear of Commitment and Creating a Long-Lasting, Healthy, Happy Partnership - by Submitted on Apr 09, 2011 from Allura JoySo how do you feel about the “C” word? – no, not THAT one. I’m talking about commitment. It is one thing to choose to date someone exclusively, as you both may agree to be monogamous and fully committed to one another – until you get bored with it and move on to someone else. But to level up and ...
Views: 2668(3 votes) - Sex Whys Versus Relationship Why - by Submitted on Oct 15, 2009 from Jan DeniseINSIDE RELATIONSHIPS BY JAN DENISE RELEASE: FRIDAY, OCTOBER 16, 2009 Sex Whys Versus Relationship Why Despite all our science, many men still talk about what women want as though it's beyond their comprehension. In light of new research, perhaps some of it's because men confuse what ...
Views: 1265(3 votes) - Sexual Pleasure Your Man Would Love For You To Know - by Submitted on Apr 27, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraEver been curious to know what mind blowing sexual pleasure your man would truly appreciate? More important, what tricks a girl does to really thrill him and maximize each level of bliss he hits. We’d probably think that one has to know how a guy thinks and understand his bodily function. ...
Views: 6367(3 votes) - What is God’s Purpose for Sex? - by Submitted on Apr 19, 2010 from Angie LewisGod created us with the desire for sex, and we ought to understand his design that was meant for us in our relationships with others about sex. Christians absolutely need to seek God’s purpose in this area of their lives. God created us male and female and because of that we will be attracted to ...
Views: 2843(3 votes) - Are You Missing This Essential Attraction Secret? - by Submitted on Mar 21, 2011 from Kara OhHow attractive you are on the outside is what gets his attention. But how attractive you are on the inside is what keeps him coming back for more. When you’re positive, kind, appreciative and gracious, your energy glows and that’s what he will begin to crave. At the core of the energy you ...
Views: 1770(5 votes) - Let's Talk About SEX, Baby!! - by Submitted on Sep 20, 2009 from Danish AhmedLet's talk about sex, baby Let's talk about you and me Let's talk about all the good things, And the bad things that may be Let's talk about sex - Salt N Pepa (1992, Written by Herby Azor) - - - - - - - - - - Let's Talk About Sex... Sex can be an uncomfortable topic for some people. ...
Views: 3813(5 votes) - Women’s Shoes for a Happy Marriage: Take Inspiration from a Victoria Beckham Ad - by Submitted on Feb 03, 2010 from Dawn BonnerWomen’s shoes can be the catalyst for a long and happy marriage. One type of women’s shoes in particular can be a big boon; the iconic and enduring high heel. Victoria Beckham may have lost her contract with Armani for underwear ads, yet it is doubtful she is going to lose her husband anytime ...
Views: 2741(5 votes) - *** Men and Women Foreplay and Orgasm - by Submitted on Sep 02, 2009 from Executive Image InternationalArt of Stimulation: Leave Her Begging More, More, More “Yes! Yes! Yes!” she cries while one had beats heard and steady on the dinner table and the other hand tussles her thick head of hair. This is the scene from When Harry Met Sally, when Sally demonstrates how easily a woman can fake an ...
Views: 20066(2 votes) - ***How to Rekindle a Relationship - by Submitted on Jul 20, 2010 from Carla TaraTo rekindle a relationship when it has become stagnant is very important. Let’s face it. It takes a lot of time and emotional involvement to start a relationship. Do you remember how much quality time you dedicated to the relationship? How you used to dress up for each other and take time out of ...
Views: 8060(6 votes) - Attraction Anxiety - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2011 from Jonathon AslayAs a Heart Protector of Women, I feel it necessary to address the attraction anxiety many of you encounter. Oftentimes women believe that even if a man is not initially attracted to her physical appearance that he will eventually become attracted to her once he gets to know her. I am sorry to ...
Views: 4293(2 votes) - BDSM: a new sexual orientation? - by Submitted on Jan 03, 2010 from Bay WhitakerThe term ‘sexual orientation’ is mostly used about being lesbian, gay, bisexual or transsexual (LGBT). This powerful concept - ‘sexual orientation’ - pioneered courageously by members of the LGBT community, has empowered people, within the last 50 years or so, to think of themselves as not bad, ...
Views: 6052(4 votes) - Birth Control – A Not-So-Fun Fundamental of Physical Intimacy - by Submitted on Mar 05, 2011 from Allura JoyIt starts with her alluring and curious glance at him. Her expression is full of desire with a soft inviting smile. He feels a rush of impassioned energy throughout his body as he approaches her. She has his full attention as he fervently extends his arms toward her. They warmly embrace, as ...
Views: 1945(2 votes) - Challenging Stereotypical Sexuality - by Submitted on May 06, 2010 from Shahrazad @ the INNER FIRE TEMPLEOne thing I hear often from clients is that they are afraid to communicate their particular fetish, fantasy, or desire to their significant other. In a perfect world, partners would hold for each other a space of unconditional love within which the couple could explore together like children in ...
Views: 3204(2 votes) - Do You Know Where Your Pleasure Spots Are? - by Submitted on Jun 22, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraWomen are notorious for their need to be touched. In fact, any man who wants to make their partner smokin’ hot in the bedroom must first learn the art of touching and have the patience for it. But, anyone who has mastered this skill can attest that it has awesome benefits, not only in the ...
Views: 1396(2 votes) - Dr. Romance on Friends With Benefits - by Submitted on Nov 17, 2014 from Tina TessinaDr. Romance writes: If you’re thinking about having sex with a friend, be very careful, because it is not easy to preserve a friendship once you have sex. We think we can control our feelings, but it's not so simple. *If one of you becomes romantically attached as a result of the ...
Views: 1297(4 votes) - Fertility Tourism - by Submitted on Jun 08, 2011 from Fredrik AndreassonFertility or reproductive tourism is a form of medical tourism, but involves traveling to a foreign country for the sole purpose of fertility treatments. The treatment sought could be in-vitro fertilization (IVF), donor sperm insemination or the implantation of donor eggs. The drive behind ...
Views: 1578(2 votes) - How to Tell if Someone is a “Leaker” or Really Likes You! - by Submitted on Aug 24, 2009 from Maryanne ComarotoHe loves me, he loves me not, he loves me… and her too? I can’t tell you how many times friends or clients have complained about their disenchanting, painful encounters with “leakers.” Men and women who seem so great at first, almost to good to be true and then…wham, bam, ouch, waah… What’s a ...
Views: 1747(2 votes) - Is It Possible To Stay Lovers For Life? - by Submitted on Mar 21, 2011 from hanna brulskaIs It Possible To Stay Lovers For Life? For twenty years Sharyn Wolf, LCSW has been a marriage counselor and psychotherapist practicing in Manhattan New York City. She is considered a relationship expert whose advices and suggestions have supposedly helped married couples to build successful ...
Views: 2562(2 votes) - Laozi's (Lao Tzu's) Secret Teachings on Sex - by Submitted on Oct 01, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsOne of my favorite accounts of sacred sex is contained in the Hua Hu Ching, a little-known collection of teachings attributed (as is much Daoist wisdom) to master Laozi (Lao Tzu). In the Walker translation, which includes material passed down orally, Laozi warns: Although most people spend ...
Views: 4590(2 votes) - Learn the Top five Ways of Seducing Women - by Submitted on Jun 14, 2011 from Kobi AdatoSeduction is a process of building up attraction and developing trust to your woman. Just like any other reaction that requires a catalyst to reach the optimum standards, seduction is a catalyst that helps you to win a woman over. In most cases, man bears the responsibility of seduction. You ...
Views: 3388(2 votes) - Living in the House of Yes - by Submitted on Dec 31, 1969 from Amy Jo GoddardI grew up hearing “NO” a lot. As much as I rebelled against the ideas that I can’t have what I want, that deprivation is somehow noble, and that I certainly can’t have it all, I internalized those ideas and lived them out for years and years. Yet a part of me always knew it wasn’t true. I ...
Views: 1087(2 votes) - Never Be Fooled Again- Know The Signs Of Real Orgasm - by Submitted on Apr 22, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraFace it, when it comes to giving a woman real orgasm is like being in the episode of CSI- elusive, mind-boggling and requires hard evidence. On the contrary, some cocky men brag that giving women real orgasm is like a walk in the park. But the truth of the matter is that, 75% of women cannot ...
Views: 8005(4 votes) - Pornography: Why You Must Not Look – 8 Tips for Overcoming This Evil - by Submitted on Jan 11, 2010 from Matthew TooneEach of us is exposed to and bombarded by – on a daily basis – an evil that is extremely enticing and appealing, so selfishly gratifying (temporarily), so unavoidably addictive, and so incredibly damaging to our thoughts, lives, families, and society. It is a plague and modern day slavery that ...
Views: 17243(4 votes) - Sex and the Single Girl ~ How Long Should I Wait? - by Submitted on Nov 18, 2011 from Jonathon AslayAs a Relationship Confidant, I often hear that women wonder how long they should wait before having sex. My answer would depend on what the woman wants out of the relationship. If she is looking for a solid committed relationship and she just met the guy I would answer very differently than if ...
Views: 2917(2 votes) - Sex Equals Sleep? - by Submitted on Aug 19, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsMost men snooze after sex, but do women? Personally, I become energized in a relaxed, relieved, happy, “let’s go get some things accomplished now” kind of a way. I recently heard about a study on The Today Show where men and women respond differently to partnering, mating, and being ...
Views: 1100(2 votes) - The Vicious Cycle of Adult ADD, Shame, and Sex Addiction - by Submitted on Apr 16, 2011 from Dorothy HaydenBrian is an investment backer in his early forties who, in graduate business school, first began to visit prostitutes, spend money on phone sex, compulsively masturbate and, finally spend as much as 5-10 hours a day looking at internet porn. When sexually acting out, he would feel that someone ...
Views: 3966(2 votes) - Three Ways of Increasing Your Communication for Greater Emotional and Sexual Intimacy in Your Relationship. - by Submitted on Dec 22, 2010 from Jim BowenAren’t sexual intimacy problems everywhere? People who have come in for emotional intimacy issues can be communicating clearly to their partner: “Get lost!” “It’s all YOUR fault!” It’s so very normal to get caught up in these communication pitfalls. It’s a negative loop of hope, desire, ...
Views: 2469(2 votes) - Top Ten Tips for Better Sex in the New Year - by Submitted on Feb 03, 2010 from Cynthia PerkinsWant to have better sex in the new year? Apply these principles to your life and you'll not only have a more pleasurable sexual relationship, but a healthier, richer, more fulfilling relationship all around. 1. Keep Priorities Straight Your intimate relationship with your partner should ...
Views: 1793(4 votes) - What is sex addiction? - by Submitted on Dec 09, 2010 from Beth SocialHere are ten characteristics that can indicate sex addiction: Uncontrollable sexual behaviour; Considerable consequences caused by sexual behaviour; Not be able to stop despite these considerable consequences; Persistently pursue self-damaging behaviour or behaviour that carries with it big ...
Views: 1423(2 votes) - Women Get Better With Age – and So Does the Sex! - by Submitted on Dec 02, 2010 from Allura JoyJust like fine wine, women get better with age – and so does the sex. During our younger years, social time is spent either in excessive party-mode or completely focused on academic and personal development. Curiosity about sex is generally fulfilled by amateur experimentation, books, films, ...
Views: 5258(4 votes) - 3 Easy Tips To a Better Sex Life - by Submitted on Nov 13, 2009 from Dingane .The sex usually starts off great. It’s fresh, it’s exciting and you worship your partner. Why then does this excitement fade away? Why does the sex and the relationship fade out over time? Well, there are many reasons but keeping your sex life healthy is all about self growth. As a guy, the ...
Views: 1390(5 votes) - Ancient Sex vs. Modern Day Sex - Has Anything Changed? - by Submitted on Apr 29, 2010 from leonard rosmarinI learned about the destruction of Pompeii back in Grade 10 in 1954 when I was translating the ancient Latin text by the writer, Pliny, about the eruption of the volcanic mountain, Vesuvius, and the subsequent burial of the town. The devastation unleashed was the equivalent of a nuclear ...
Views: 5096(5 votes) - Is It Important To Discuss Your Sexual History? - by Submitted on Apr 30, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraIn just about any kind of relationship, honesty is one of the qualities that many people want, hands down. After all, who doesn’t want a truthful, genuine and honest partner? These traits are very important, particularly in an individual’s sexual relationship with another person. While sex for ...
Views: 1909(5 votes) - Sex, Drugs, CNN & You - A Blueprint to Eliminate World Poverty - by Submitted on Sep 20, 2009 from Danish AhmedHi there everyone!! You've heard of living in the moment and the Power of Now, right? Does it make sense to live life that way 100% of the time? It actually wouldn't work. There are times when we want to contextualize the past, anticipate the future, and be conscious of impact that we ...
Views: 3952(5 votes) - "Why Won't my Partner Have Sex With Me?" - by Submitted on Jun 09, 2010 from Margaret PaulI have worked with individuals and couples for the past 42 years, and I have heard this question countless times: "Why doesn't my partner want to have sex with me?"Over and over, I discover that there is often ONE major reason he or she doesn’t want to have sex.Take Lawrence as ...
Views: 4961(3 votes) - *** Male Sexual Supplements and Their Functions - by Submitted on Sep 04, 2009 from Executive Image InternationalDo not be fooled, women are quick to criticize the shortcomings of their partner. Throw out the comforting notions that it is not the size, but what you can do with it. Women are not buying into it. In fact, over half the women asked say they want a man with a fuller, larger and firmer penis and ...
Views: 3863(3 votes) - ***Want to Heard in the Club Scene? - by Submitted on Jun 07, 2011 from Nancy DanielsYes, your lack of volume is the issue. I can’t tell you how many people get in touch with me because of this problem. And, it doesn’t just affect those who are soft-spoken. The amount of volume needed in a loud bar or club (or even a wedding) is at least 50% more that what I refer to as ...
Views: 2305(3 votes) - Can You Handle An Open Relationship? - by Submitted on Apr 30, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraOpen relationships are otherwise known as polygamous or polyamorous relationships. It is defined as a situation wherein couples go into mutual agreement to date and engage in sexual activity with other people although they still continue being in a relationship with each other. In the past, ...
Views: 3032(4 votes) - How to Escape the Friend Zone - by Submitted on Jun 09, 2011 from Eduard EzeanuIf you’re a guy and you’ve been hanging around a girl you like quite a lot, but nothing sexual happened between you, chances are you’re in the friend zone. Here’s how to escape it. The friend zone is an emerging concept in to world of dating and male-female encounters. This term is used to ...
Views: 3243(4 votes) - Sex Drive Boosters - by Submitted on Apr 30, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraSex isn’t just something that a lot of us enjoy; it’s also something that could improve health. Yes, sex is actually good for everyone! Studies prove that having sex regularly helps increase immunity from viruses, reduces stress, and also helps protect a man’s prostate gland by emptying the ...
Views: 1639(4 votes) - Words for Lovers: Erotic Appreciation - by Submitted on Nov 23, 2009 from Bonnie GabrielWith Thanksgiving drawing near, I believe this would be an ideal time to discuss the role of gratitude, validation and appreciation in the art of lovemaking. Of course, when we feel validated and appreciated in any aspect of our lives it deepens our sense that we truly matter in this crazy ...
Views: 5564(4 votes) - What To Do If Your Man Rarely Initiates Sex: Make Yourself An Irresistible Sex Goddess He Worships - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2017 from Katarina PhangI want to address an important issue from my reader, about guys who lose their sexual mojo when they're settled with you (something that isn't very uncommon -surprise, surprise- which is the main reason why my marriage fell apart). So here it goes: I have been with the same man for almost 3 ...
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