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Is it shocking? No, that's exactly what you'll find in this article. You shouldn't or don't have to feel guilty, embarrassed, frustrated, depressed, or anything of that kind though you have problem with premature ejaculation (PE). Here's why.
First reason is that your PE is not a disease. ... Views: 3204
The time during and post childbirth for a mother is signified by GIVING. No matter if you nurse or not you give continually to your baby for months. The first step to returning to intimacy is to give to yourself: This starts with listen more deeply to yourself and having moments and practices to ... Views: 1139
To many people, the words sacred and sex do not belong in the same sentence. To others they may imply sex used for purposes of procreation. To the mystic, sacred sex is a way to improve our health, strengthen our energy bodies and help manifest our heart's desires, with the ultimate goal of ... Views: 1622
Today I would like to explore pleasure. When I say the word pleasureeeeeee what is the first thing that pops into your head? For me it is the tingling sensations in my body, mmmm delightful yumminess, tears of joy and movement from the sounds around me, the giddy glee of feeling the warm rain ... Views: 1153
I’d like to share an amazing resource with you from one of my favorite authors, Dr. Christiane Northrup, an internationally known expert on women’s health and wellness. Dr. Northrup explains the “7 Secret Keys That Open the Door to Wonderful Sexuality and Sensuality around Menopause”. Here is ... Views: 2676
Has seduction become a lost art? In a society of strong women with powerful careers and tight schedules it may have lost it's place of importance. Being aggressive is not necessarily considered sexy by the man on the other end of the couch. Alluring him with hints of desire can whet his ... Views: 2178
As a Tantric Sexuality Educator, one of the fundamental methods that we teach for prolonging sexual pleasure is the art of semen retention. But what is semen retention and why would one bother learning it, much less incorporating it into everyday sexuality?
Semen Retention has several different ... Views: 9969
It seems like almost every day another celebrity – actor, professional athlete, or politician – holds a press conference or has a publicist send an announcement to the press stating that he or she is a sex addict. But what exactly is a “sex addict”? Is it just a blanket term for someone who ... Views: 1618
Understanding Sex Addiction: A Depth Psychology Approach
An Introduction to Sex Addiction
It is well known among people in the 12-step sex programs that of all the addictions, sex is the most difficult to master. Far from the notion that sex addiction is the “fun” one, the suffering of ... Views: 3379
All the times you’re disinterested in sex or just too tired, consider this: Sex doesn’t have to be about orgasm. Wrote Thoreau, “We need pray for no higher heaven than the pure senses can furnish, a purely sensuous life.” (The Writings of Henry David Thoreau, 1906). Yes, through lovemaking, ... Views: 2575
While most men would like to think of themselves as a smoldering fire just waiting for the right invitation to burst into flame, the truth - as even many younger men are aware - is that the fire is prone to fizzle from time to time, leaving them feeling embarrassed and unsatisfied. Lack of sex ... Views: 1140
Sex is a learned act. That’s right: l-e-a-r-n-e-d.
I remember contributing an article to an online portal a few months back. I had written the sentence: “For most people, sex is a learned act.” When the portal owner’s edits come back, she had written: “Don’t you mean, ‘For most people, sex is ... Views: 1030
Gay male couples feel a lot of pressure to remain sexually fresh, new, and exciting. That’s the popular stereotype. “All gay men love sex and have it a lot” trumpets the popular press. “If I were gay,” straight men joke, “I would be having sex all the time with my partner! Guys always want it!” ... Views: 4255
Phone Sex and Sexting have become a huge part of our society over the past decade.
It has become such commonplace among young adults that no one is surprised when they run across sexually explicit material on another person's smartphone. They most likely do not even think twice about it. ... Views: 1998
You can stimulate the sexual excitement and lust both in yourself and your lover by the surrounding you choose for making love, by the atmosphere you create at that place, by special actions and by using special products targeted for this purpose.
HERBAL PREPARATIONS TO INCREASE AROUSAL
On ... Views: 5607
I have been through my own arduous journey of sexual healing, and now my passion is to assist you on yours. Having made a full recovery from childhood sexual abuse and adult sexual addiction, my life's work is now helping others do the same. While I acknowledge that the journey is never really ... Views: 2124
Mention the word “tantra” and the first thing that comes to mind is sex. While it is true that sex is an important aspect of tantra, it is just one component of this ancient spiritual path. Known as the path of the householder, tantra practices are beneficial to our physical, spiritual, ... Views: 4563
What's available when we learn from the ancient wisdoms and bring them into our modern life? TantraNova, a branch of Neo-Tantra as it's called in the West, is a blend of ancient Eastern traditions (see writings by Tao Master Mantak Chia or Tantric Master Lama Yeshe) as well as contemporary ... Views: 2165
How Can a Man Improve His Performance in the Bedroom?
Believe it or not, men and women are not intuitively able to fall into each other’s arms and engage in passionate, mind blowing sex each and every time - starting with the first night they hook up. No, it is actually a case of practice ... Views: 942
Are there ways to tell if one’s partner is sexually satisfied?
In a word, yes. The easiest way to tell if one’s partner is sexually satisfied is to ask. Unfortunately, bashfulness and fear of hearing the wrong answer prohibits most men from taking the leap and just asking their partner. ... Views: 926
If the thought of vaginal atrophy worries you, know that you're not alone. For many women, the post-menopause years can mean a sexless marriage. But if sex is sometimes more painful than pleasurable, it doesn't mean it's over for you.
If you're currently in perimenopause, or that period in a ... Views: 1263
The Sexual Revolution, a la "Playboy", now behind us, as well as the Victorian attitudes which it rejected, perhaps we are ready for a new conception of sexuality, one not dividing, but embracing, both body and spirit.
With few exceptions, such as the Tantric tradition, for centuries both ... Views: 3099
I remember hearing years ago from a man I studied with, that he and his wife had an agreement: she was to say "yes" to him every time he wanted sex. It was the condition for the fulfillment of their monogamy promise. "If you want me to only have sex with you, then you need to provide for and ... Views: 10242
A client recently had the scare of her life when her husband of 22 years admitted to a 10 month affair with a colleague. He was fed up with "always being the initiator" and had decided to seek out an equal partner. The wife was anguished. She admitted she was warned by her parents "good girls ... Views: 1194
It’s normal that after spending years as a couple, your sex life becomes a little stale. The urge to do it with your lover has reached its plateau. Sex has become a part of the chores. Those sizzling, sweltering, tantric, sex has somehow become the thing of the past.
Although there is no ... Views: 901
Generally speaking, Peyronie’s disorder means occurrence of scar tissue in the male organ. The problem is so called as it was initially tagged by a French surgeon Francois Peyronie about 250 years ago. Nowadays, in line with the commonly accepted reports, Peyronie’s disorder has an effect on ... Views: 1792
We all know that there are quite a few misogynistic fatphobic men on here who need to body shame you. They take pleasure in eliminating obese girls and criticize their physical appearance. But they don't know, most people like curvy girls. From the SD perspective, there are plenty of guys that ... Views: 625
Women tend to spend a lot of time and money on skincare. We want our skin to look youthful, supple and smooth. The key to younger healthy looking skin is sufficient moisture. In humid tropical climates, our skin naturally looks and feels healthier, and the women of the tropics generally look ... Views: 4868
Stop selling your love. Be You - The Greatest Gift of All. Become a love consultant, share your love freely and openly, and watch love easily and effortlessly rebound to you.
Have you ever met someone who keeps telling you how wonderful they are, how caring and loving they are, and how ... Views: 2304
Why is it that some women struggle with attaining sexual satisfaction? Why do some women have difficulty achieving orgasm? It has been reported that over 50% of women have some concerns about their sexuality and are not completely satisfied in this area. Most women have a sexual ‘problem’ at ... Views: 3464
NASCA (North American Swing Clubs Association) defines Swinging as, "social and sexual intercourse with someone other than your mate, boyfriend or girlfriend, excepting the traditional one-on-one dating.
Swinging is not the same as swapping, because lots of swingers (men and women) are still ... Views: 1271
Swinging Heaven is place of freedom of expression. All that you want to explore is available there. I enjoy knowledge that it gave me, so I decided to share it with others as well. What does Swinging stands for? Well I first got introduced to the Swinger lifestyle through UK swinger friend. I ... Views: 4328
Tantric sex activates energy centers in our spine affecting our health, mind, emotions and spirit. But, just like driving around in LA, getting around this tantra grid is impossible without some guidance, a map to follow, good eyesight and a reliable car. Then all you have to do is fasten your ... Views: 2275
Single heading into the New Year? You may be wondering how Tantra applies to you. How can you practice Tantra without a partner? How could Tantra enhance your single life?
Tantra is a practice for everyone to first and foremost create a loving relationship and deeper connection with ... Views: 2180
Tantra Massage is one way to worship the divine within you and your partner, and an intimate way of communicating that Divine love through deliberate, attentive, loving touch.
Tantra massage is a sexually charged meditation experience, one of several sensual tantric techniques to connect and ... Views: 2773
Here in LA we are bombarded with false information about tantra. Tantra is the union of two souls, the art and science of joining body, mind and spirit. It is the study of vibratory energies, the union of opposite polarities, the feminine and masculine conjoined in a harmonious duet of love and ... Views: 3870
The vision of “Living an Organic and Orgasmic Life” is about the transformative natural healing that happens when you live your life going with the flow (organically) and squeezing the juice (orgasmically) from every moment.
When we tap into our pleasure centers and experience the ... Views: 1189
Wholeness is defined as an undivided or unbroken completeness or totality with nothing wanting. Because our sexual energy is the life force that creates us and animates us in our bodies, I believe sexual wholeness encompasses all of who we are. When we free our sexual energy and use it to feed ... Views: 1794
Man's life can not be complete if he is experiencing problems with potency. It's not just that man's strength turns into his weakness and a man can no longer enjoy everything his life has to offer. The fact is that by enclosing himself in a shell, believing that impotence is a purely personal ... Views: 1753
“The pleasure of living and the pleasure of the orgasm are identical. Extreme orgasm anxiety forms the basis of the general fear of life.” ~ Wilhelm Reich
Orgasms have been cherished, misunderstood, feared and indulged throughout the ages.
Let’s first understand the history of orgasms, ... Views: 916
A few, who have been sexually active, which is not all of us, know only after the fact what it is like to stress over a condom that broke.
Before we are wise enough to think through this dilemma, we instinctively take to panic mode — for a good reason. Our minds races through the STIs and ... Views: 957
Nitric Oxide (not to be confused with nitrous oxide) is a very simple but important molecule that can actually determine how long you live and the quality of your life. Nitric Oxide is made by the blood vessels’ lining, or endothelium. The endothelium is extremely sensitive to the physical and ... Views: 8435
For most people, sex is a sensitive and difficult subject to talk about.
I have come across a man who, after 15 years of marriage, admitted that he and his wife have never talked about sex. Don’t get me wrong. They do have sex. They just don’t talk about it.
In other words, they never ... Views: 1149
What is this mysterious ‘G-Spot’ we’ve been hearing about, and how exactly can it help women to experience more pleasure than we’ve ever thought possible? For years, the clitoris was considered the only trigger for the female orgasm, and with that we do celebrate the all-mighty clitoris as the ... Views: 3791
Testosterone is the key hormone that is responsible for men’s optimal health.
Biologically, it’s an androgenic male sex hormone that is primarily produced in men testicles. This hormone plays an essential role in the development of male growth and masculine ... Views: 905
The majority of adult men have got a moderate curvature or sideways "hang" to the male member. Yet about 400 adult men in every 100,000 are afflicted with the problem of seriously bent or curved erect penile, so serious that it makes sexual activities painful for each partner or totally ... Views: 3489
A diet packed with sugary, sweet, high-calorie foods can lead to multiple health issues, from obesity to heart problems to loss of sexual function. Tamping down the calories is an excellent step toward penis health, not to mention general well-being; but amending the diet still more could bring ... Views: 4246
She chased you to the back of the playground and told you she'd share her new crayons with you if you showed her what you had "down there". You tried kissing her with bubble gum in your mouth to see if you could share a "bubble". He often played "doctor" with his next-door-neighbour, always ... Views: 4667
Fueled by pure primal instinct, our sex drive is a compelling physiological desire for copulation. Unlike most female mammals, women can enjoy immense pleasure from sexual activity. Of course a partner is not necessarily needed to achieve sexual satisfaction and orgasm, however it always more ... Views: 5553
Today’s society offers no shortage of sexual and erotic material that is easily accessible to interested consumers. More than ever, we are inundated with images, written words, and discussions of what sex is and what sex could be. Sexual fantasies exist in the minds of all of us, but finding ... Views: 1114