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“The pleasure of living and the pleasure of the orgasm are identical. Extreme orgasm anxiety forms the basis of the general fear of life.” ~ Wilhelm Reich
Orgasms have been cherished, misunderstood, feared and indulged throughout the ages.
Let’s first understand the history of orgasms, ... Views: 916
Psychological ED hits men of all ages, young and old.
In younger men, psychological ED generally hits due to the newness of sex... it is all so overwhelmingly exciting, combined with the unfair pressure of being expected to know what they are doing (when deep down they know they are ... Views: 6819
Recently, clients have been coming in to Dr. Romance's office with questions about their cell phone use: either it is creating a problem in their relationship, or with getting work done, or even health problems. Here's how to tell if you have cell phone addiction; and what ... Views: 1322
Dear Dr. Romance
A question for you: I have a female friend that I dated for 7 months - she dumped me - and is, I think, dating some other guy.
The question is: I have tried to ask her for 5 or 6 different events - and have gotten turned down for each one - with some excuse - the excuse sounds ... Views: 1134
It was always one of the more depressing aspects of aging, at least to me... an inevitable loss of "manliness" and potency as one gets older. Well the good news is, a decrease in testosterone levels is NOT something that has to be accepted as you age.
Studies have shown that it is ... Views: 1143
If anyone googles "Stephanie Adams" they will find that I am the first Playboy Centerfold to come "out" as a lesbian...who eventually married a man and started a family. Is sexuality "fluid", something that is forever changing, never the same? I will elaborate more on that topic...Sexuality is ... Views: 1810
When I think about cheating in relationships, a wide range of scenarios ranging from the woman who confides her deepest desires and fears to her coworker instead of her husband, to the highly sexed “player” that will bed any woman who spreads her legs for him, come to mind. There’s emotional ... Views: 2112
Dear Dr. Romance:
I was browsing the net and came across one of your articles "No Strings Attached Sex" which I found very interesting as it relates to a situation I am facing currently.
I am a young male and I cannot handle having sex for a while with a person ... Views: 1384
Dear Dr. Romance:
I am considering being a licensed psychotherapist. What was your education track if I may ask?
Dear Reader:
Of course you may ask. I was licensed in 1978, so things were quite different then. I took an independent study curriculum at Lindenwood Colleges, and I used ... Views: 1444
Dear Dr. Romance:
I was hoping for a little advice on my relationship now that is truly wonderful and appears to be the best relationship of my life. Things are souring from my end, which I could not understand why, until this morning when it dawned on me. I have never been as happy as I am now ... Views: 1320
SACRED SEXUALITY
DR. BARRY HAMMER
The energy of sexuality and erotic sensual attraction is a physical expression of the sacred energy of love, or the urge for union, and the actual experience of union, or intimate communion of our energies at every level of our being. The urge for physical ... Views: 6690
What is my ex boyfriend thinking; You have broken up with your boyfriend a few weeks ago. You have not talked to him at all during that time and you have been thinking that you would like to get back together with him. At this point do you know how to go about it? If not, you are in the best ... Views: 1306
How to make your ex boyfriend come back to you; If your boyfriend has dumped you, you are probably thinking "Now what do I do?" Do you feel like you are the only one that has had their boyfriend dump them, well you’re not? It happens every day all over the world; no one is immune from this ... Views: 773
Will I get my ex boyfriend back; Trying to get back together with your ex is a very difficult thing for anybody after a break up. If you are in this position, most likely there were mistakes made by both of you that led up to this break up. If you say that you did nothing to cause this, then you ... Views: 1942
Text messages that get your ex boyfriend back; Have you found yourself in the place of wanting to get your ex boyfriend back? Maybe you now understand you broke up with him over something really unintelligent and need to find a way to make things right. If the two of you had been together for a ... Views: 1118
i want my ex back what do i do; How to get an ex-boyfriend or girlfriend back is something many men and women think about. You have been single for a while now and having left your ex, you now understand what a good thing you had going with them. Now you are in a place that you would like to get ... Views: 1062
Is Your Ex Thinking About You; If you agree with your ex to get back with each other, the two of you need to make sure that your relationship will be more successful this time around. Is your ex thinking about you - what to do about your relationship.
What Your Ex Is Really Thinking; A ... Views: 1014
Advice on how to get your ex back; After a separation from your ex do you find yourself missing them? If this is you, you are not the only one to understand this. You are going through a difficult period which happens after someone experiences a break up. For some women this can go much deeper ... Views: 778
A couple concerned about the lack of sexual desire and activity in their relationship, came to see me for a consultation. They had been living together for two years, loved each other and had no problem being affectionate. Sex, however, seemed to have fallen by the wayside after the first year. ... Views: 1015
I miss my ex boyfriend so much it hurts; You had been in a relationship with a guy and the two of you broke up, and it was your thought. Now that he is gone you are having second thoughts about the break up and why you initiated it. Why did you break up? This is something you need to take a hard ... Views: 3859
Dream about my ex boyfriend; Your man broke up with you and you don't know how to get him back into your life. Is this the first time a man has neglected you? Or maybe this is your first relationship that broke up. Which ever it may be you need to take a close look at why you want to get your ex ... Views: 882
Dear Dr. Romance:
I am single man, I have question for you, is it natural for a man to masturbate? I normally, do it everyday, sometimes 4 times a day. Tell me if its wrong or normal to fantasize my cousin and she is a woman? Is it that wrong thing to do? I love to masturbate and to me ... Views: 1328
With the first gay marriage to take place last year, I did struggle to understand the widespread opposition to this historic event.
Time after time I would listen to the familiar arguments put forward by prominent members of the clergy and theologians, that marriage is a union between a man ... Views: 1464
If we could all sit down and be honest with ourselves, we would more than likely admit to the fact that at some point or another, we fantasized about adding an additional person into our monogamous relationship. This is not something you should feel ashamed of or embarrassed about, because ... Views: 4862
In order to understand the concept of tantric sex and tantric relationships, it must firstly be mentioned that the Sanskrit word of “Tantric” means “together” or “brought together as one”. In other words, this involves a union, a spiritual linkage with your significant other that will take you ... Views: 5990
Becoming a swinger in Georgia has great benefits. Marriage was always considered to be a sacred institution and people always believed that sex is something that should be done only with your spouse. However, times have changed and so the mindset of people. Today, there are different types of ... Views: 2146
If your relationship is lacking in the bedroom you may want to read this. Our body is a complex system of organs, hormones, tissues and bones. A deficiency in any of these vital components will automatically lead to serious medical complications or to reduced performance when it comes to various ... Views: 4052
Needles to say, the trend of swinging lifestyle, often referred to as wife swapping is increasing virtually all over the world. Atlanta swingers have a huge following and since most couples start feeling monotonous having sex with each other in the same manner, they decide to explore different ... Views: 12790
In recent years, the standard perception of relationships has completely changed. Modern relationships are completely different from what they were some years ago. In the modern world, people have many different mindsets, and therefore, take relationships very casually. Divorce rates have ... Views: 5889
We're all looking for that special someone with whom we can have a great time, laugh and be ourselves, but if you really want to meet such a guy, then you sure won't be able to if you're not open minded and don't do something about it. And since many people don't really have the confidence of ... Views: 1622
If you happen to be new in the community of swingers, then there are a lot of adjustments that you have to make. It is perhaps one of the most fitting lifestyles for the stoic calm type of people and in this piece, you will get to know the certain rules, practices and other relevant information ... Views: 12713
Young men and women are increasingly searching for women or men of older age from them not only to date with them but also making them their life partners. The concept of dating with MILF's gained traction after the popularity of certain TV shows including Weeds, Desperate Housewives and Sex in ... Views: 14243
If you've always been involved in just normal sexual activities, you may be unaware of the number of sexual fetishes that exist. In fact, you may not have any idea how widely these fetishes are used. Usually, fetishes are something which you execute a lot of times, take delight in observing them ... Views: 2376
Whether you have in the swinging lifestyle for a while or you are just curious about the lifestyle, SwingLifeStyle is for you. It will immerse you into the culture thanks to the thousands of members, as well as their blog, forums, stories, and much more. By joining the website you will get ... Views: 3664
In your relationship you may wish to become kinky. In such a case you need to select activities where you will all enjoy in our relationship. This will require you to discuss with your partner and come to a conclusion. After you decide to become kinky there are many things that you will ... Views: 2699
You have probably heard very many rumors about the sperm. Forget the rumors. Here are the facts from experts;
They are fast and furious
Sperm are fast and furious right from the start. According to Harry Fisch, A reproductive medicine professor, the first ejaculation usually has the ... Views: 1669
It is official, you would never get the actual number of sexual partners someone has had, at least not from them. This behavior is common in both the male and females reason, still leaves a lot to be desired. There is this dogmatic belief of how the more number of partners a man has had the more ... Views: 2147
Sex can be spiritual, though it’s all too common to forget and feel guilty about sex, and much of the guilt is hidden in your subconscious mind. We’d like to help you escape the baseless sexual guilt trap.
It’s detrimental to your emotional, spiritual, and mental health to possess baseless ... Views: 1191
Preface: I'm making generalizations using the terms woman, man she and he... to simplify things. However any gender pronoun works, it is an issue of dynamics not an issue of gender. I simply see patterns in my practice and am referring to the most common. Anything that deviates from that is ... Views: 1008
Practicing your confident sexual self
Do you feel confident sexually?
We often think of sexual confidence in terms of “skills.” If someone knows the “correct” hand motions or what to do with their tongue, they should feel confident. But sexual skills can be difficult to acquire if you ... Views: 1306
In the first throes of passion, desire never seems to be much of a problem. We are so focused on the
newness of the situation – the person, the sensations, etc-- that our attention can more easily stay on the erotic. That focus on erotic thoughts keeps our bodies primed for sex. But after ... Views: 2079
Dear Dr. Romance
My husband of almost 9 years just told me about 2 months ago that he is in love with someone else. About 5 years ago I caught him cheating on me with this girl and he told me that it was over and it was just for the sex. Then 2 years later I found out that he was ... Views: 1439
There are those of us who have become obsessed with synthetic pills that manufacturers say increase stamina in bed. Use of these synthetic pills has shown that they have often an opposite impact!. So, for those men who are wondering how to increase stamina in bed, it is good news that there are ... Views: 2832
Sexual Intent
How's everyone doing? Seriously, how are you really doing? How often to you ignore problems in the bedroom, or in your relationship? Well, typically if there are problems in one area, it affects the other.
How many women feel like they are just a "piece of meat" in the ... Views: 1118
SENSUALITY! Do you have an idea of what sensuality entails, or what it means? Everyone has that smirk on their face, contemplating their last sexually fulfilled experience.
Wait, that may be partially true. However, are you sensual outside of the sexual realm? Are you confusion now?
Yes, ... Views: 1063
Dr. Romance writes:
If you’re thinking about having sex with a friend, be very careful, because it is not easy to preserve a friendship once you have sex. We think we can control our feelings, but it's not so simple.
*If one of you becomes romantically attached as a result of the ... Views: 1301
Alan and Donna Brauer wrote a very fascinating book, “Better, Safer Sexual Intimacy and Extended Orgasmic Response.” Here’s what they found and reported:
• The average human orgasm (not lovemaking) lasts only ten seconds
• The average frequency of sexual intercourse for most couples is once ... Views: 1192
Alan and Donna Brauer wrote a very fascinating book, “Better, Safer Sexual Intimacy and Extended Orgasmic Response.” Here’s what they found and reported:
• The average human orgasm (not lovemaking) lasts only ten seconds
• The average frequency of sexual intercourse for most couples is once ... Views: 965
There are many “red flags about women” articles floating around on the internet. This time though, I will address the amber flags – not good, but not absolute deal breakers either. These can go both ways, but are flags to keep in check, just in case.
Fashion
I was slightly confused for a ... Views: 1860
What do “sexy” women do differently?
Have you ever seen a woman who is physically less-than-perfect, maybe touting a larger schnozz or carrying an extra ponch, and yet somehow she manages to steal all of the glances in the room -- oozing sex appeal?
On the other hand, the physically ... Views: 9698