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Three Myths of Sexual Desire - by Valeria ChubaHow Unusual Are Your Sexual Fantasies? - by Valeria Chuba- 3 Things You Must Do If You Want a Sexy Voice - by Submitted on Oct 21, 2014 from Nancy DanielsHave you ever noticed that the best speaking voices in the business are deep, rich, and warm? Think of those actors – both men and women – who are known for having a great sound. Who is your favorite? James Earl Jones or Sean Connery or George Clooney? How about Angelina Jolie, Felicia ...
Views: 1744 - Dear Dr. Romance: Please help me before I totally screw up - by Submitted on Oct 03, 2014 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: For several years, I’d been a self proclaimed lesbian who was only attracted to women and only involved in intimate relationships with women (the idea of intimacy with a man, even when one hit on me in public, literally made me nauseous)The one exception was my childhood ...
Views: 1294 - Sexual Complexity Calls for new Therapy - by Submitted on Sep 30, 2014 from Freja NjordenEvolving Relationships and Sexuality Calls for a new kind of Therapist Sex is simple, except it's not. As our society becomes increasingly exposed to sex, increasingly educated and connected, and more aware of sexual potential, a gap in the area of education and teaching has become glaringly ...
Views: 1109 - Erotic Hypnosis -- What is it Good For? - by Submitted on Sep 30, 2014 from Freja NjordenThe term Erotic Hypnosis invokes mystery and allure, a tantalizing combination of words that sounds extremely exciting, and more than a little dangerous. So what is it? I use erotic hypnosis in my practice as an intimacy educator and consultant, and will outline the most common uses, then go ...
Views: 3348 - Sensual Massage for Women Goes Mainstream - by Submitted on Sep 30, 2014 from Freja NjordenNot long ago within our culture, there was a myth that women were not very sexual. If they were, they did not enjoy it, much. It was also not long ago that sex toys were hidden and shameful. It is safe to say that toys and aids have gone main stream. Women are inherently sexual beings and it is ...
Views: 2461 - 5 Things Men Think (But Do Not Say) About Women - by Submitted on Sep 23, 2014 from Bave New Man1. Your bubbliness and extroversion does not distract us from the fact that you are fat. Observe a group of girls in a bar. There is always one who is louder, acts crazy and seems to dance and drink more than everyone else. She's very talkative and laughs a lot - she's the centre of attention ...
Views: 2018(2 votes) - Can You Be Happy in a Sexless Relationship? - by Submitted on Sep 15, 2014 from nancy traversIf you have a happy, stable, fun, loving marriage, you should count your blessings, right? Right. But what if that marriage is happy, stable, fun and loving without sex? Would you still count your blessings? In other words, can couples be happy without sex? The answer is, it depends. ...
Views: 2149 - An Introduction to Retroactive Jealousy - by Submitted on Aug 28, 2014 from Rick DaviesJealousy can be one of the most and disruptive and harmful of emotions. Often jealousy in relationships is directed at the present or the future. It is rooted in a fear of future loss - fear that one may lose their partner to something that is happening currently, or might happen in the ...
Views: 4190(2 votes) - Sexualised Behaviour: Does Women’s Sexualised Behaviour Cause Aggression In Men? - by Submitted on Aug 08, 2014 from Oliver JR CooperWhile some things have stayed the same over the years, there are other things that have radically changed. For instance, it could be said that today’s world is far more permissive than it used to be. And this can be seen with how children are raised and how sex is generally viewed. It wasn’t ...
Views: 1516 - Re-awakening Intimacy after Childbirth - by Submitted on Jul 24, 2014 from Dr. Elsbeth Meuth, EdD & Freddy Zental WeaverThe time during and post childbirth for a mother is signified by GIVING. No matter if you nurse or not you give continually to your baby for months. The first step to returning to intimacy is to give to yourself: This starts with listen more deeply to yourself and having moments and practices to ...
Views: 1144(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: he can't forgive me because I did it first. - by Submitted on Jun 30, 2014 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I'm in high school and going through a rough patch in my relationship I have been with my boyfriendFor 17 months, sort of on an off, but 5 months ago we broke up and I slept With another male an yesterday he told me he had sex with another female after I told him ...
Views: 1474 - Dear Dr. Romance: I discovered she is lesbian - by Submitted on Jun 23, 2014 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: Nine months ago, I met a girl on Facebook. my words about many subject attract her , then she add me as her friends, and I discovered that she is lesbian. Before that, I didn'tknow there was lesbian world but when we chat I get to know her very ...
Views: 1504 - Why Am I Always the One Who Initiates Sex? - by Submitted on May 15, 2014 from nancy traversIf you are the one—male or female—who is always the first to ask for sex, you may begin to think your partner doesn’t want it. But there can be all sorts of reasons why he or she is more reticent than you. They could be medical, psychological, relational or just that you’re off kilter. Your ...
Views: 5509 - 3 Ways to Put the Spark Back in Your Sex Life - by Submitted on May 15, 2014 from nancy traversSex is a basic human need, but as your partner and you grow, you may evolve at different rates. The desire for sex becomes unbalanced in your relationship—one partner wants it more than the other. And over time, sex may become predictable and the excitement fades. If you don’t have the sex ...
Views: 1544 - Top 8 Hidden Spiritual Reasons for Bad Sex - by Submitted on May 12, 2014 from Scott & Stephen PetulloGreat, mind blowing sex can be healing and transformational, making you feel alive and full of energy, but unfortunately, it’s rare. Common complaints about sex that is less than satisfying are selfishness, lack of interest, poor hygiene, low energy, being too quick or slow, being too ...
Views: 2397 - Promiscuity is Spiritual - by Submitted on May 12, 2014 from Scott & Stephen PetulloMyths abound surrounding the topics of sex, promiscuity, and spirituality. Consider this anonymous feedback we received from "Emily": "So two guys who obviously aren't into commitment write about what a less-than-desirable ideal sexual commitment is, with no thought of feeding the kids. How ...
Views: 1450 - Aromas for Lovers and Love Making - The Six Most Powerful Attraction Oils in Aromatherapy - by Submitted on May 09, 2014 from KG Stiles“Lovers don’t just finally meet somewhere. They’re in each other all along.” -Rumi In this article you’ll find out how the power of scent can help: Attract your soulmate/life partner Strengthen your love connection Enhance your love making experience Get unstuck from creating the same ...
Views: 4577 - Women, Sex and Power - by Submitted on Apr 17, 2014 from Dr. Elsbeth Meuth, EdD & Freddy Zental WeaverIt’s said that the feminine is rising. While having developed their 'masculine' capacities over the past 50 years since the onset of the women’s movement, women are re-connecting with their 'feminine' essence. However, women are often still socialized to be ashamed of their sexuality. So what ...
Views: 1566(3 votes) - O M G-Spot - by Submitted on Mar 21, 2014 from Tom BlairOh My G-Spot! What is the G-Spot? Do you know? Do you know where it is? Now days it seems if you are not a G-Spot expert you are just not the lover you think you are. Funny thing many women don’t know either. They are pretty sure they have one and they have been told that G-Spot orgasms ...
Views: 1710 - Dear Dr. Romance: I am in my forties, and hadn't had sex in years. - by Submitted on Mar 18, 2014 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. RomanceI am in my forties, and hadn't had sex in years. I met someone and we CLICKED. We had sex on the 2nd date, I know you can't unring the bell, and I'm betting that was probably a mistake, but there is a serious physical attraction between this man and myself ...
Views: 1600 - 3 Ways To Flirt Without Getting Rejected - by Submitted on Dec 07, 2014 from Chris ChandraFlirting is a language of its own. It doesn’t make sense logically. And most guys fail at it when trying it with women. Often times the girl will give that casual laugh of “yeah nice try”. That direct approach to flirting rarely works, especially if you’re a shy guy. Direct approach ...
Views: 2341 - Friends With Benefits - by Submitted on Feb 17, 2014 from Tina TessinaIf you’re thinking about having sex with a friend, be very careful, because it is not easy to preserve a friendship once you have sex. We think we can control our feelings, but it's not so simple. • If one of you becomes romantically attached as a result of the sex, ...
Views: 1505 - Dear D. Romance: I've learned my lesson - by Submitted on Feb 10, 2014 from Tina TessinaClick here for video Dear Dr. Romance: I saw your video "Don't Call Your Ex" Great video post, good advice. I couldn't agree with you more. It was a very timely message for me. Just recently, I decided to let go of my partner...for ...
Views: 1473 - Dear Dr. Romance: I do not want to have to choose between family and love. - by Submitted on Feb 02, 2014 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I need some of your advice. You're the only one I could think of who would give me a sensible answer. Well, this situation might seem easy when viewed from the outside, but going through it myself really created stress for me. I DO NOT WANT TO HAVE TO CHOOSE BETWEEN ...
Views: 1824 - Eight Highly Unusual Sleeping Disorders - by Submitted on Jan 31, 2014 from Josh TalWe’ve all heard of sleep disorders, but not many realize that there are literally hundreds of types of sleep disorder that can affect people’s rest. Sleep is one of the most essential human activities and is vital if we are to get enough energy to get through the day. In addition, sleeping is ...
Views: 1805(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: Should I stay in this relationship? - by Submitted on Jan 13, 2014 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I had a really bad ending on my last relationship we were engaged. I moved into another relationship a month after he ended it. I was very lonely and my new relationship seemed perfect. Now I'm starting to get mixed emotions about my man. We have together now 1 ...
Views: 1423 - Dear Dr Romance: he said I was expecting too much from this relationship - by Submitted on Jan 03, 2014 from Tina TessinaDear Dr.Romance: I can't get over this man, he is 61, I'm in my mid thirties, he is Europe and I'm in North America, we started corresponding and we stopped I was suffering but time healed me after a year. This year we re started talking back, by facebook, and when ...
Views: 1823 - Let's Talk about Sex - by Submitted on Dec 19, 2013 from Robyn VogelI have sex on the brain! Now, it's not what you think (or rather, I don't really know what you are thinking!) --- well, it is my "work" after all. It's also because I'm going to a talk on Friday night on how to talk to teenagers about sex. I'm interested in hearing what this woman has to say ...
Views: 2374 - Don Jon: A Transformation from Sex to Intimacy - by Submitted on Dec 18, 2013 from Dr. Elsbeth Meuth, EdD & Freddy Zental WeaverFor many people sexual and romantic education is derived a great deal from television, movies, and, particularly for men, pornography. Objectification, one-sidedness, and unrealistic expectations take hold resulting in a loss of intimacy and connection. The movie, "Don Jon," written, directed, ...
Views: 1618(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: I just got my girlfriend pregnant and I might be gay. - by Submitted on Dec 09, 2013 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I've just gotten my girlfriend pregnant and still have doubts about my sexuality, whether I'm gay or bisexual. She wants me to get some clarity before she decides to keep the baby or not. Can you help? Dear Reader: Your girlfriend is right to want you to know what ...
Views: 1614(4 votes) - ***Watching pornography. What is normal? - by Submitted on Nov 18, 2013 from Julie HartDuring the last 10 years, the sheer volume of pornography available on the internet has grown exponentially, along with how easy it is to access. Often, Pornography’s promise of easy, commitment free, sexual gratification can be just too hard to resist for many men, when pornographic images, ...
Views: 3429 - Masturbation Benefits - 5 Ways Self-Touches Make Her Touches Even Better - by Submitted on Nov 14, 2013 from John DuganEverybody masturbates. It's just a fact of life. However, articles that discuss the male art of manual stimulation seem to suggest that the activity is a form of theft. Rather than spending time alone, these articles suggest, men should find willing partners and get busy in some kind of paired ...
Views: 2775(1 vote) - Psychology of The Lifestyle (Swinging) - by Submitted on Nov 17, 2013 from Sam VakninThe Lifestyle involves sexual acts performed by more than two participants whether in the same space, or separately. It is also known as “swinging”, “wife-, or spouse-swapping”, “wife-, or spouse-sharing”, “group sex” and, where multiple people interact with a single person, “gangbanging”. ...
Views: 6926(1 vote) - Understanding Penis Health - 5 Reasons Mom Was Totally Wrong About Sex - by Submitted on Nov 13, 2013 from John DuganMoms don't have penises of their own to care for, and much of the information they pass down to their sons concerning penis care could be out of date or just inaccurate. These five "mom" phrases, in particular, could be detrimental to penis health. 1. "Scrubbing is required for ideal ...
Views: 2050 - Docking Can Be Pleasurable, but Beware of Penis Pain - by Submitted on Nov 12, 2013 from John DuganAs all men know, the penis is a resilient source of incredible and ecstatic pleasure, but some activities may also produce a bit of penis pain if not practiced carefully. Many men engage in the practice known as penis docking or male docking (or simply docking). For most of these men, docking is ...
Views: 63828 - Fabulous Penis Sensations - How Acetyl L Carnitine Boosts Sensitivity - by Submitted on Nov 11, 2013 from John DuganIf 100 men were polled about their sex lives and asked what would make it better, it’s not too hard to imagine what types of things would be on that list. Most men desire to have a bigger penis, last longer in bed, be ready for back-to-back romps in the hay, and achieve mind-blowing orgasms for ...
Views: 9000 - Better Sex Tonight - 7 Tips for Sex-Cess - by Submitted on Nov 10, 2013 from John DuganWhether a man is planning a 1st time intimate evening with a new partner, is celebrating a 25th wedding anniversary with a spouse, or is just celebrating the fact that it is a Tuesday night, there are a few things he can do to making the evening a sexy success. Read on to learn 7 easy tips to a ...
Views: 2662 - Accidental Ejaculation – A Surprising Side Effect of Exercise - by Submitted on Nov 08, 2013 from John DuganWhen a man is busy pumping iron, the last thing he wants to worry about is starching his gym shorts while he’s doing it. Surprising though it may be to the unsuspecting gym rat, accidental ejaculation is not an indication that something is wrong with a man’s sexual heath. Learn more about this ...
Views: 7369 - Enjoying Oral Sex - Foods to Use with a Partner - by Submitted on Nov 08, 2013 from John DuganFew things excite a man more than the prospect of receiving oral sex, but partners facing a plain dry penis may not be as delighted about the activity. Granted, there are many partners who really "get into" giving their guy some oral gratification and are often equally sexually aroused by ...
Views: 5339 - Dry Penis Emergency Care – 7 Lubricants to Avoid at All Costs - by Submitted on Nov 07, 2013 from John DuganA dry penis is not a man's best friend, so it's no wonder that many men may employ external lubrication before engaging in sex, whether with a partner or alone. In the best circumstances, a guy has a stash of proper lubricants available at his beck and call; however, in some cases the ...
Views: 5570 - Relieving Pain during Sex – Dealing with Vaginismus and How Men Can Help - by Submitted on Nov 07, 2013 from John DuganSex is supposed to be fun, and it’s supposed to feel good. But sometimes it’s not, and it doesn’t. In fact, sometimes pain during sex can be downright excruciating, making enjoyment impossible. One such condition that can make sex unbearable for a woman is known as vaginismus - it is a painful ...
Views: 2258 - The Death of Traditional Sex in a Unisex World - by Submitted on Nov 07, 2013 from Sam VakninTraditional sex – the heady cocktail of lust and emotional bonding - is all but dead. In a culture of casual, almost anonymous hookups, suppressing attendant emerging emotions is the bon ton and women and men drift apart, zerovalent atoms in an ever-shifting, kaleidoscopic world, separated by a ...
Views: 1831 - Too Much Masturbation - Moving from Curious to Compulsive - by Submitted on Nov 06, 2013 from John DuganA man who walks up to his peers and questions how often they masturbate might well be rewarded with a smack in the teeth. Personal habits concerning a man and his penis just aren't part of polite conversation, and men are encouraged to keep their business to themselves. Even so, most men ...
Views: 1760 - Penile Pain and Sounding - A Risky Auto-erotic Adventure - by Submitted on Nov 06, 2013 from John DuganMany men are perfectly content to stick to "typical" auto-erotic entertainments involving their hands, a little lotion and their penises, but others crave a more adventurous experience, even if it results in penile pain. Those interested in the much more adventurous masturbatory experience of ...
Views: 11668 - Penis Function and Indigestion – Even a Healthy Manhood can be Affected - by Submitted on Nov 05, 2013 from John DuganPenis health is crucial for a good sex life; that much seems obvious. But many men forget that overall body health also plays a factor in the quantity and quality of one's romantic activities. Many guys think about keeping their bodies in good shape for their trips under the bedcovers, but not ...
Views: 2903 - Keeping Penis Pain at Bay with Post-sex Hygiene - by Submitted on Nov 05, 2013 from John DuganWhen the bumping and grinding is over, and a feeling of safety and relaxation begins to set in, the last thing an amorous couple wants to do is hop up, get into the shower and rinse off. In fact, it's safe to say that the majority of people in this situation would prefer to simply roll over and ...
Views: 1531 - Secrets to Penis Health– 5 Ways Vitamin C Benefits Sexual Well-being - by Submitted on Nov 04, 2013 from John DuganIf asked to list the vitamins and nutrients the body needs most, few people would miss vitamin C. That’s because vitamin C is one of the more talked about vitamins; it is a household name - if there is such a thing in the vitamin world. If asked what vitamin C is good for; however, the most ...
Views: 5890 - First Time Sex - A Beginner's Guide for Men - by Submitted on Nov 04, 2013 from John DuganWhen it comes to first time sex, whether it is the FIRST first time or the beginning of an intimate relationship with a new partner, there is almost as much anxiety as there is excitement. Both men and women may worry about whether their partner will find them attractive, whether they will be ...
Views: 13479 - Avoiding Penis Bumps - The Secret to a Firm, Smooth, Sexy Rod - by Submitted on Nov 03, 2013 from John Dugan"It's not what you have; it's the way you use what you have." Supportive lovers have whispered these words to their partners for decades, and often, these willing mates aren't simply being kind. Human bodies often nestle together in surprising ways, so what one might consider a defect could be ...
Views: 1660 - Zen + Sex = Starting Over? - by Submitted on Nov 03, 2013 from Tina TessinaReady To Get Back Out There? 3 Must Knows Men and women have to redefine themselves after a relationship ends, and reinvent their lives. If they do it well, it can lead to the most satisfying and successful years they've had. Dating successfully after divorce or a breakup require several ...
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