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Have you heard the story of the woman who played the lottery for thirty years? All that time she would diligently put the same numbers on week after week.
Never winning a dime, but happy to continue playing knowing that one day, her numbers would come up.
Then one week, for some peculiar ... Views: 958
‘Clear thinking requires courage rather than intelligence’ - Thomas Szasz
When was the last time you were reading a book and after finishing a page had absolutely no idea what you were reading about? Since we juggle so much in today’s lifestyle, multitasking our way through each day, that our ... Views: 1664
One of the very best ways to increase productivity is to clear away many of the barriers you have developed over the years. Let's face it we all have formed habits that impede our personal productivity. Whether it is due to procrastination or perhaps our inability to delegate, we all have ... Views: 1425
Yesterday I was weeding in my back yard and I had a realization. Weeding the yard is so much easier than weeding out our thoughts. Weeding out unwanted thoughts needs tools. What are your tools for weeding out ineffective thoughts? What about ones that actually take you down? Do you have ... Views: 859
Think about your favorite clients... Don't you wish you could clone them? Well, you can, at least sort of. Read on to discover what you can do to get many more clients just like the ones you like best.
When the going gets rough and the economy makes people hold on to their wallets with a ... Views: 719
Bestselling author, international keynote speaker and sales consultant Bob Beck, is offering, for the first time, a new sales training audio series to help sales professionals succeed through these tough economic times. Beck has traveled to ten countries speaking about and training his ... Views: 1244
It’s time to say good-bye to all the drama!
What does it mean?
Sometimes, you will have to change what you’re doing, who you’re “being” and also change who you’re hanging around. Despite the abundance of resources, technology, entertainment, and opportunities that surround us, more and ... Views: 1277
I love the work of Joe Vitale. He has opened my mind and my heart. One of the things he talks about, is how we have to disassociate ourselves from our thoughts and understand we are not our thoughts.
He says it’s a bit like us being the sky and our clouds being our thoughts and that we can just ... Views: 1491
One of my favorite games, when I'm sitting by the fire on a rainy Sunday afternoon, is to come up with new answers to old questions. This Sunday, my questions were about coaching and personal evolution. What is the structure of evolution? How does coaching function as an evolutionary discipline? ... Views: 707
The traditional image of workplace coaching has been for the reserve of executives or individuals with high potential within an organisation. It is now reaching the shop floor with organisations realising that managers using coaching skills in the workplace can provide direct performance and ... Views: 13663
Coco Chanel not only created the fashionable and immortal suit and “little black dress” but she made women believe that they can live their own lives, they can be independent and wear clothes according to their own preferences. So powerful was Coco Chanel’s influence that today, a bottle of ... Views: 2163
Cloths of Summer
Cool, crisp and comfortable describes the new clothing trends for summer. Linen, cotton, bamboo, tropical wools, silk and seersucker are just some of the core group of summer favorites. When the mercury starts to rise, nothing looks smarter than a summer shirt, suit or sport ... Views: 624
Commandism and Tailism are boundaries that are on purpose poorly defined. Let’s say you are part of a political movement, or you are working for a company. The leader of the political movement or a leader in your company asks you to do a special task or project. You approach it with enthusiasm ... Views: 867
Through the invention of the internet, people have been given a platform to express their views and opinions. And while this need is nothing new and has not just appeared, it has made it a lot easier for people to speak out and this is due to a number of reasons.
When one is expressing their ... Views: 3078
The self esteem qualities listed here may mirror you or an individual you are close to even, as well as they'll help you see the power of having high confidence? If not you, why not. People with a healthy feeling of their very own self-regard are typically healthier, a lot more effective, and ... Views: 1944
Common Sense Or Good Sense?
By
Bill Cottringer
“Common sense in an uncommon degree is what the world calls wisdom.”― Samuel Taylor Coleridge.
It seems to be a sad common consensus today that common sense is not so common anymore. But, the validity of that conclusion really depends ... Views: 1653
Commonsense Solutions to Our Three Main Conflicts
By
Bill Cottringer
“Ideologies separate us. Dreams and anguish bring us together.” ~Eugene Ionesco.
To help identify the source that drives our three main conflicts, I am taking the liberty of expanding the meaning of the ... Views: 626
Communicating with difficult people certainly poses a challenge, but that shouldn't keep you from trying anyway. In fact, breaking through these people's barriers can be quite rewarding if you go about it the right way!
Find out how to start communicating with difficult people using the 5 ... Views: 2751
A little tid bit of information I read on Facebook today sparked this blog. A friend reported he had seen his first Colorado Rattlesnake on a popular trail out here. I commented, congratulating him, offering to show him more. He replied that the snake was very unhappy because people were ... Views: 656
There are a number of really good reasons why you must have good communication to make your marriage work. One type of communication--communication about money in your marriage-may be put on hold for a long time, but sooner or later your marriage-and your life-will suffer if you don't have good ... Views: 835
While someone might want to be approached by others, it doesn’t mean that this actually happens. And if it does happen, it could be something that doesn’t happen enough or in the right situations. This is going to relate to all kinds of scenarios and the primary areas are often to do with ones ... Views: 2084
If someone wants to improve their communication skills and to make it easier for them to talk to others, a number of ideas could enter their mind. Firstly, they could think about getting a book on communication, and secondly, they could decide to go to places where they can talk to ... Views: 686
When it comes to talking to someone, how we perceive them usually makes all of the difference. If another person is seen as a friend or someone that one has spoken to before, then it is going to make it easier for one to talk to them.
And this is part of being human, because although times ... Views: 2016
Just because someone can start a conversation, it doesn’t mean that they find it easy to keep one going. And while some people can keep a conversation going, they might find it hard to start one.
There will then be others who have no trouble starting them and keeping them going. However, ... Views: 1853
Just because someone is talking to another person, it doesn’t mean that they are actually aware to what is being communicated. Physically they are there and this is visible to the other person and to anyone else that is around them and yet emotionally and mentally they could be somewhere ... Views: 2659
It is often said that human beings are ‘social animals’ and this is because they are interdependent. So while one may see themselves as being an individual, this is not the complete truth.
The person they have come to be is the result of the experiences they have had with others and in order ... Views: 1885
When one experiences eye contact from another person it can cause them to feel: acknowledged, respected and important. And yet when this doesn’t take place, one can end up feeling: ignored, disrespected and unimportant.
Eye contact could be seen as something that is relatively effortless and ... Views: 2341
Most people have heard the saying ‘’curiosity killed the cat’’ and this has lead to all kinds of meanings being constructed. For some people it will have been interpreted to mean that being curious is dangerous and others may simply dismiss it as just an old saying.
But regardless of this ... Views: 2188
It is often said that human beings not only want to be noticed by others, they also want to be appreciated by them. But while these are two needs that each and every one of us would like to have fulfilled, it does mean that other people will always fulfil them.
Generally, one would have ... Views: 6217
For some people, talking will be something they enjoy doing and this will be balanced out by their ability to listen. But there will also be people who are good at either talking or listening and yet, they will fall down when it comes to the other option. This is going to mean that they are out ... Views: 1941
There are going to be some people who have always had good posture, and there will be others who have developed their posture during their adult years. However, there will also be people who had good posture at one point in time and then ended up going the other way, and others who haven’t taken ... Views: 2571
Although someone may have the desire to improve their conversational skills, it doesn’t mean that they will know what to do next. If they were to think about what they can do to make progress in this area of their life, their mind could end up going blank.
One thing that they could do is to ... Views: 1048
Lograr lo que uno busca en la vida es un gran merito, hay gente que lo hace mas fácilmente sin sentir remordimiento por defraudar a los demás en el camino. Otros sienten culpa y lo logran al final de la búsqueda pero otros por miedo dejan de intentarlo y se rinden perdiendo sus deseos y ... Views: 840
Everything in the world today is about saving the earth and going green. Everywhere we turn we find people talking about how important it is to save the environment and do you bit to help protect the ecosystem that you live in. Well this is not just something that many people are talking about ... Views: 1253
“Never compare your insides with someone else’s outside.” – Hugh Macleod
It is not often that the quotes I share with you come from someone who is still breathing. Today’s quote does and this makes me a bit nervous. See I am not certain if I am using the quote the way that Hugh Macleod ... Views: 1421
Within a busy schedule and a demanding environment, we have commitments to fulfil in order to get by. Sometimes it's completing a project on time, preparing documents for others to use or staying focused on providing good service. Some days are easier than others. Some tasks are tougher than ... Views: 1383
My yoga teacher has said this phrase dozens of times, but one morning it went in differently and landed in the places where breath meets bone, where sinew aches with loss and the water in the pelvic bowl of my hips shimmered like a moonlit lake. The words traveled along ancient blood-lines to ... Views: 1120
While being compassionate can be seen as the right way to be, it is not always the easiest option. What can be easier is to go to the other extreme and to become indifferent to other people’s problems and the suffering they are going through or have gone through.
And not only can one be this ... Views: 1757
These few days before the start of the New Year have a magical and sacred quality to them. I appreciate the lull in activity that often takes place this week and the opportunity we have to reflect back on the year that is ending, as well as to create new possibilities and intentions for the ... Views: 1382
One of the biggest challenges when it comes to acting in ways that are healthy and functional, is something known as compulsive behaviour. This is something that has received wide spread publicity in recent years.
When someone behaves in ways that are compulsive, it means that they are not ... Views: 1836
While we would like to see ourselves as human beings who have control over how we behave, this doesn’t always reflect reality. Because although one has the ability to think before they act, they can also act without thinking.
And this is not ‘bad’ per se; it can enable one to save a lot of ... Views: 1943
“Calm down” have you ever heard someone tell someone to “Calm down”. We need to calm ourselves down when we are in a stressful situation and we are feeling helpless, out of control, and our mind is hitting us with a preponderance of negative thoughts. What if this happens? or What if that ... Views: 1344
Many calculations, victory, few calculations, no victory, then how much less so when no calculations? – Sun-tzu, The Art of War
People take time to plan days or weeks ahead for a party, and even months for a wedding. Yet, it only takes 15 minutes to plan a budget for the upcoming 2 ... Views: 839
Have you ever found that you suffer from low self esteem? If something happens to you, something negative, do you beat yourself up over it constantly?
Do you find yourself thinking 'That was stupid' or perhaps "I'm fat" or even "No one could ever love me"? These are only a few good examples ... Views: 1269
Do you know your desires (impulse of thoughts) can determine your destiny? Before you continue reading this article - think about it. What is it that you desire? What goals or dreams do you wish to achieve in life? Well, do you talk about your desire; have you visualized yourself with it? ... Views: 1325
Throughout life itself, from cradle to grave — and especially often in the world of self-help and (confidence) coaching — we’re often told to love ourselves. And yes, we totally should.
Questioning this principle seems counter-intuitive. Why wouldn’t loving yourself be a means to an ... Views: 1491
In a perfect world, conflict resolution tips are not necessary since people get along with everyone. You like your boss. You get along with your 12-year-old sister. Your neighbors respect you. Your colleagues worship you. Unfortunately, this so-called perfect world does not exist.
What we ... Views: 1977
For a while now, a family member of mine has experienced some ongoing conflict within our extended family unit. It’s gotten pretty ugly at times. In fact, you could even ask what it was all about and not really get a clear answer. Very frustrating for all involved, because with no clear answer ... Views: 1336
It was 4:45pm and the requirements review meeting had already gone fifteen minutes beyond the scheduled end time. Joe was becoming agitated. He needed to get out the door at 5:00 pm exactly in order to pick up his daughter from soccer practice. The meeting was not showing any signs of wrapping ... Views: 1486
We all remember the dreaded question: “What do you want to be when you grow up?” Teachers give aptitude tests, parents have plans for their kids and it seems everyone else has their futures figured out.
For a few people, that whole thing works. But for many of us, discovering meaningful work ... Views: 1330