By Burrow Hill
The location for effective couple communication cannot be in the family home or family car. It is not where the children are around, or the in-laws, or friends or even the dog. In effective couple communication—that is communication within your marriage, each person’s undivided ... Views: 608
By Burrow Hill
Allow me to describe a typical scene, in a typical home, with a typical family. The scene takes place in the den (or whatever you call that room in your house). The man is sitting in a chair. I need to stop right here to ask a question. Has anyone ever seen a man sitting in the ... Views: 1008
By Burrow Hill
The concept of communication is, of course, as old as mankind. To communicate, the dictionary tells us, is “to express thoughts, feelings, or information, easily or effectively.”
Easily or effectively? Judging by that definition, none of us can communicate: An Internet ... Views: 617
By Burrow Hill
How you define “having it all” depends on your priorities, but typically people want accomplishments such as these:
• The perfect spouse
• 2.5 wonderful children
• A beautiful home and yard
• A wonderful, fulfilling career
• A sincere and committed faith
• An incredible ... Views: 568
By Burrow Hill
Most everyone has flown on an airplane and listened to the attendant review safety procedures – including the part that says, “In the event the cabin loses pressure, the oxygen masks will drop down from the overhead. Place the mask over your own face before assisting small ... Views: 644
Everyone has heard the saying “marriage takes work” or “you’ve got to work on your marriage”. Exactly, what does that mean? I never had a class in school for that. In college, I never saw that class listed in my choices. The local community college doesn’t advertise this type of course. On-line ... Views: 563
When you think about marriage tips for making a marriage work, you’re usually thinking about how to make it work when you and your spouse are both healthy and going about the regular business of life. However, it’s important that couples understand that in the most successful marriages, couples ... Views: 945
In the marriage seminars and at the couple retreats I hold for married couples, I stress the importance of communication in marriage as a way of making a marriage more successful and daily life better. However, some events are not every-day events; some are catastrophic! When you pay attention ... Views: 620
There are a number of really good reasons why you must have good communication to make your marriage work. One type of communication--communication about money in your marriage-may be put on hold for a long time, but sooner or later your marriage-and your life-will suffer if you don't have good ... Views: 748
There are certain “talk” tools that can improve any marriage. These tools are often used with couples who sign up for marriage retreat week-ends.
Specific “talk” tools are introduced along with a process known as facilitated communication. With communication facilitated by a third party, ... Views: 781