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From the first time we open our eyes we begin imitating our parents. When our caretakers smile at us we learn to smile. When our caretakers get frustrated we learn frustration. When we meet other children, especially in early elementary school, it is often comical how much they act and talk like ... Views: 4274
The best thing to do when your child has a negative behavior that needs to be changed is:
1. Assume good intent. If you assume he meant to do something bad, then he might end up continuing on with the negative behavior and/or becoming defensive. It is better to assume positive intent and ... Views: 1427
Your Toys Wholesaler can be a reliable source of what’s new and exciting in the baby toys segment. Building on traditional elements, as well as adding dynamic approaches to classic playtime they can help you offer your market something new.
Making a preferred supplier out of your favorite ... Views: 1470
If you have a prodigal child, releasing isn't your first response. Your first response is to hold on tighter and try to force change any way possible. God has prodigal children too. He feels the same about them as you do yours. Releasing your prodigal child God's way is healthier than holding on ... Views: 1326
The landmark day you became parents- it's pretty clear that the day of your adoption is not like any other day. It's the day you became a mother, your husband became a father, and your parents became grandparents. Your life is forever changed by your child and no other event will ever compare to ... Views: 1337
Reparenting Article #1
Article one in ReParenting series by Dr. Art Martin
If you have seen the TV presentations by John Bradshaw from the late 1980's and 1990s, you can understand why most adults never grow up. As adult children it is very hard to be competent parents when we did not ... Views: 2138
ReParenting Children
Art Martin Ph.D. (article #2 in a series on ReParenting)
ReParenting is not just about learning how to be functional adults and parents and pass on a healthy world view; it is about learning how to ReParent ourselves delete and unload the programs that we have ... Views: 3251
If your son or daughter is going off to college, don't think that your laundry problems are over. Especially if their school is nearby, chances are, a tightly packed bag of laundry will arrive in your laundry room on Friday night, and a very disinterested student will quickly disappear to hang ... Views: 910
As a kid, I always loved New Year’s Day. There seemed to be a freshness in the air that I couldn’t quite get enough of. Maybe it was the fact that so many folks tried to quit smoking that the air quality actually improved…who knows. What I do know is that ever since an early ... Views: 939
As I continue my quest to uncover the long lost art of living a virtuous life, readers have begun to comment in wonderfully articulate ways, about how, they too, want them back in their lives. One word keeps popping up as I hear from you that I had expected to espouse on sooner or later, but ... Views: 1144
People tend to fall into two camps when it comes to relationships. Those who care too much about what others think and those who say they don't....but still do.
The truth is, we all care deeply about people's responses to us. And we should. If a person truly didn't care what type of response ... Views: 866
Restorative Justice is a discipline program that is gaining support in urban schools across the nation. The reason it is gaining acceptance is that a disproportionate number of minority students are being punished for inappropriate and irresponsible school behaviors, and federal guidelines are ... Views: 1718
Would you allow the person behind the counter at the burger place to make your lunch selection for you?
Would you let the girl folding T-shirts at the mall select clothing for you?
Would you let the manicurist at the salon choose your nail length and color?
For the majority of people, ... Views: 1201
Having trouble understanding what to look for in a retirement home?
If you've been spending time looking around for an assisted living facility then you have no doubt noticed not one of them is the same as another. Just as with all other businesses around, senior living locations choose what ... Views: 706
Financial freedom isn't just about money. Financial freedom is about deciding what type of life you want to live and then settling for nothing less. It also involves doing whatever it takes to create that life.
Let's consider a philosophy that I call 'question everything' and see how it fits ... Views: 936
Childlessness, or the inability to conceive, is an often unappreciated source of pain amongst much of the general public.
A study by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) found the number of women aged 15-44 with impaired fecund city (impaired ability to get pregnant or carry a ... Views: 1707
I went to a conference over the weekend that was aimed mainly at therapists who treat adults. However, one of the presenters talked about how children learn to understand their own feelings and those of others in the course of interactions as they grow up. I found the talk was really relevant ... Views: 1329
From Aaliyah to Zvi, the range of name choices is dazzling. If you're a sleepless parent-to-be, it can look like a vast landscape with no roadmap. To make sure you keep your bearings, here are some basic principles for understanding names -- and finding that one perfect name that speaks to your ... Views: 1153
When raising and disciplining children, many parents rely on rules. In reality, though, the use of the term “rules” in parenting is often counterproductive. Rules are used to control, not inspire. Although essential in games, rules are counterproductive in relationships.
Think of it this ... Views: 1524
S.T.E.P. Into Step Parenthood
Becoming a stepparent can be a tough role to take on. You are entering a family situation where there was divorce, abandonment or death. The children that may feel neglected, angry, guilty or stay with one parent more than the other. The children may place high ... Views: 1790
As a parent, have you ever thought about websites that are safe for your children? Anyone can post whatever he wants on the internet. In some ways this freedom of publishing any content on the internet is a good. In other cases, it isn't so good, especially when mentally disturbed people post ... Views: 1346
These days, children are seen spending most of their time on the driveways playing games such as skating, basket ball, riding bikes, hide and seek and many others. Young children are naturally very curious and love to move here and there to find out what is going on around them. In most of the ... Views: 870
Staying home with your young children is ripe with daily, simple pleasures -- and profound challenges, as well. Here are six tips that helped me maintain my sanity (and be the best mom I could be) when I was home full time with my three kids:
1. Stay focused on the bigger picture. If you're ... Views: 749
Unlike the rest of the girls in her preschool class, our daughter did not want to be something pretty last Halloween. Among the princesses, fairies, and ladybugs, our little hippo did not go unnoticed. It went without saying that she would need a hippo costume for Halloween as well as a hippo ... Views: 815
A few months ago, I was with a group of friends, and while talking with two women, I learned how one was now caring for her Mother In Law. It was a change in plans for her and her husband, and it meant putting some things on hold. The other friend talked about how her mother would likely come ... Views: 1190
Fun Santa Activities for the Preschool Classroom
Christmas is a very fun and creative time of the year for a primary grade teacher. The excitement seen in the eyes of your preschool children will be well worth the completion of these Santa preschool activities.
Christmas Count Down
Give ... Views: 1304
Our role as a parent is to guide our children through life which means setting boundaries and saying “No” quite often. I would like to suggest a slightly different approach, or at least one that puts the emphasis in a different area.
Here’s what I mean. My approach to dealing with children ... Views: 1753
One of the most encouraging things a parent can do for their child is to spend regular, scheduled time with them. Many parents may think they already spend a lot of time with their children, however there is a difference between "family time", "have-to time" and "scheduled special ... Views: 1211
Rick travels by his neighborhood schools everyday without giving them a second thought. He is 30 years old and has two children ages three and one. He is not concerned about the schools' atmosphere now because it does not affect himself or his family. He is a manager in the accounting department ... Views: 804
The continuing financial and economic problems in many parts of the world, record levels of personal debt and many individuals experiencing the misery of financial hardship have highlighted the need for better financial education across all parts of the population. By providing financial ... Views: 1557
The most important role of nanny agencies is ensuring that the nannies or babysitters they provide are professional and trustworthy. This is currently done by screening nannies through interviews, reference checks and background screening. Not every agency uses all three screening methods and ... Views: 765
There are parents who consider baby naming an important task but there are also parents who ask questions like, what’s in a name? And the answer for such parents is that there is a lot of significance in a name. A name provides you an identity in this world. It stays with you for the rest of ... Views: 960
Second Chances. The title sounds like you screwed up on the first try and are graced with another shot. The trick is to not give that first experience any more credit than it deserves. I have made plenty of mistakes as a daughter, woman, mother, and wife. If I wore my flaws like a medallion I ... Views: 1585
Have you ever said or done something to your child only to question whether you could or should have said or done it better? Being reflective is an attribute of a highly successful parent, but that is very different than second guessing oneself. Second guessing can be so detrimental to a ... Views: 1198
Every year in December, magazines cover the same old story, how to survive the holidays. Every year they generally say the same thing; keep it simple, have a plan, be
HoEvery year in December, magazines cover the same old story, how to survive the holidays. Every year they generally say the ... Views: 1386
Have you a one year old at home? Do you wonder if your older children can understand the little one’s needs? Here are some ideas of what it might be like to be that age again so you can enter a one year olds world and see it through their eyes.
Now that I am one year old I can do so much ... Views: 1904
There are thousands and thousands of children who under perform in school. As one who did not speak until I was almost five years old and who struggled in elementary school, I empathize with children who have learning difficulties.
Why don't some children do well in school? Is our educational ... Views: 1218
Is there such thing as the perfect stroller? Yes---and no. There is a stroller out there that is perfect for your needs in most situations and is the best one for you to buy but there is no stroller that is perfect for every need in every situation. There will be situations where it will be to ... Views: 610
Teenagers often appear to be something that they are not. They appear confident,even aggressive at times in order to cover up what is going on inside of them. If as parents you can ensure they have high self esteem then they will be able to cope with all that life throws at them in a confident ... Views: 1043
What every parent wants for their child is to give them the tools to become mature adults, that know how to make good decisions for themselves.
So how can we help our kids learn how to make good decisions for themselves? When they leave the house at 18 years old, when we are nowhere around, ... Views: 2807
What is Self Respect?
It is to have pride and knowledge of one's own worth, to value one's self. To have due respect for oneself, one's character, and one's conduct.
With self respect we like ourselves because of who we are and not because of what we can or cannot do. Respect is earned, not ... Views: 2703
The demands of family life are exhausting. Carpooling, school activities, and birthday parties are just some of the many things we support in our children's lives. As parents, it is easy to become so inundated taking care of our children that we forget to nurture ourselves. This month, let's ... Views: 2217
Co-parenting after a separation can be challenging, and sometimes it's necessary to take a step back from conflict and disengage. Disengagement refers to the act of stepping back from an argument or situation to reduce its negative impact on your emotions, relationships, and overall well-being. ... Views: 834
When we talk of self help, it usually brings the image of a grown up person trying to improve himself. But self help is not limited to grown ups. Even teens need self-help training. Why? Because of 2 important reasons.
Here are two crucial reasons why your teenage son or daughter should start ... Views: 1540
If you like to play, then you certainly love the internet. Having the latest game console with the latest games is of course ideal, but not everyone has the luxury or the financing to do so. To get games quickly and easily, there is nothing better than using the Internet and your own computer. ... Views: 181
The hectic lifestyle of working parents makes it difficult for them to give a head start to their child before school. Many parents nowadays prefer to send their child to Preston child care centers that focus on early childhood education and development. Sending your child to reputed child care ... Views: 759
Disturbed sleep patterns, anxiety issues, a decrease in physical activity, slower development of social skills, inability to maintain strong relationships and susceptibility to manipulation represent the main negative effects associated with smart devices. Unfortunately, generation Z spends ... Views: 851
It can be difficult to decide if you need to bring in senior care specialists for your parents. Many times, you want to continue seeing your parents as younger adults that raised you. However, there may come a point where you need to consider bringing in professionals to help. What signs should ... Views: 824