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No one will deny that wedding costs can quickly get out of hand. A budget is essential—and so is the ability to stick to that budget! Here are a few tips for planning your wedding on a budget.
The first thing you should do is to set up some kind of notebook or folder where you can keep your ... Views: 638
Your wedding is just six months away, and it’s time to get planning! Take a moment to peruse this checklist, which will help ensure that you get all of your planning done in time. You may want to print this checklist so that you have it available for easy reference. Each time you complete a ... Views: 834
Destination weddings sound glamorous, exotic and uncomplicated. After all, you just pack your suitcase, fly to an exotic locale and say, “I do.”
Right?
Wrong.
Actually, there is the matter of out-of-state or out-of-country paperwork, as well as travel arrangements to be considered. ... Views: 1844
Newly engaged couples have plenty of wedding planning to do. You have to first get over the excitement of getting engaged! Take your time and enjoy it. Then once you announce your engagement and set your wedding budget, you can begin talking about the wedding guest list. Here are some helpful ... Views: 875
Think about all the time people spend shopping for engagement rings and writing their wedding vows. Since your wedding band is such an important part of the wedding day, you want it to be just as special. There are lots of options to consider when buying wedding rings. Forget plain bands! Use ... Views: 639
It should be no surprise that she is expecting a diamond ring that will knock her socks off. So you must pay special attention to choosing the perfect diamond. And the only way to pick right is to do your homework. You should become well acquainted with the four C’s: color, clarity, cut, and ... Views: 560
By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.
My wife and I had a wonderful trip to the Los Angeles area last week. We enjoyed the sun and fun – even rented a convertible. The ocean off Malibu Beach and Santa Monica was grand and glorious – resplendent in sunshine.
We got married on ... Views: 3722
Why is it that some women struggle with attaining sexual satisfaction? Why do some women have difficulty achieving orgasm? It has been reported that over 50% of women have some concerns about their sexuality and are not completely satisfied in this area. Most women have a sexual ‘problem’ at ... Views: 3461
Dear readers...I have created my ferris wheel analogy in response to years of observations in friends and my own love relationships.
This is the scene....you are in a relationship that is beyond the honeymoon period, where the rose coloured spectacles, viewing your once perfect partner, are ... Views: 1839
When you wake up in the morning. What do you expect to happen ? I expect my alarm to go off in the morning. I expect daylight to have arrived. I expect that I can move my body and get out of bed. I expect my breakfast Radio 2 programme to be on and I expect the kettle to boil when I switch it ... Views: 810
A battle field for the heart and emotions...insecurity. It plagued my life and the men I dated, so many times in the last 25 years and was the source of great angst too many times, often with disastrous consequences.
Insecurity is a feeling that can't always be intellectualised and virtually ... Views: 2625
Once upon a time, in a land far far away, there lived a princess. A princess so beautiful, her Light shone, mesmerizing the people of the land. They talked only of her purity and kindness and regularly left gifts at the steps to her castle to show their appreciation for her being in their lives. ... Views: 944
Leading nicely on from my last piece about how to "tool up" to communicate properly in your relationship, I find myself compelled to mention the wonderful world of non-verbal communication, in particular, texting. Daily life seems to cocoon us more and more within the world of laptops and ... Views: 797
When it comes to building a healthy marriage/relationship, one of the best resources is to hear from couples who have been together for many years and, most importantly, would do it all over again with the same person.
In the marriage/relationship enrichment workshops I run, there are often ... Views: 2397
Many interfaith/Jewish weddings include the Seven Blessings. I was asked to officiate a ceremony, with a Secular Humanistic non-theistic Hebrew/English version of the Seven Blessings. I searched for a Hebrew version (I found only one or two), and nothing I found felt right, so I resolved to ... Views: 3942
Daily Insight from the Story of The Little Prince
The announcement from Clarence House in London, city home of Prince Charles, of the engagement of Prince William, eldest son of Prince Charles and Princess Diana, to Ms. Kate Middleton has already captured the attention of much of the ... Views: 1294
Money makes the world go round. It’s also is the number one reason why couples fight.
Here are 7 ways or guidelines for handling money issues throughout your relationship so you don’t have to end up fighting about money. Consider these guidelines to be your relationship tools for keeping the ... Views: 750
Marital Problems
I’ve never seen a marriage in which the couples did not enter with a lot of optimism about the future. We’ve all been confronted on a daily basis with the conflicts which couples go through, either by our hearing gossip, or seeing the drama played out on television or in the ... Views: 867
Women, in particular, are looking for commitment. Hollywood, the media, and dating websites all focus on getting a marriage proposal. The art of seduction pre-dates expert Cleopatra. Dozens of books have been written about getting an unavailable man to say, “I do.” For six years, Carrie Bradshaw ... Views: 1533
By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.
Over the past several days, we have been in sunny southern California conducting interviews with selected celebrities including a former priest and his wife and couples with very famous last names. Tomorrow, we tape a segment of the television show, ... Views: 4241
Happiness is synonymous to having a sound health and a calm mind. It is a valuable present and the pursuit of happiness should make us look at the love around us. It should also direct us to look within our hearts. Despite living in a nuclear society nowadays, man is still a social being and all ... Views: 662
With love shining from his eyes, the handsome groom vows, "I take you to be my wife, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish; from this day forward until death do us part."
Smiling tenderly ... Views: 4288
There are many fantastic ways to spark romance and intimacy in your relationship that are simple, inexpensive and virtually guaranteed to bring back that lovin’ feeling – whether it is gone, gone, gone; hanging by a thread; or desperate for a fresh breath of creativity or new life!
Here are ... Views: 1062
We all have come across that time in our life when the grass looks greener on the other side. Well, this is to help you decipher exactly what it is that you are missing in your life.
You first have to think; has there been anything major that’s happened in your life that has upset you? This ... Views: 1309
Most singles want to find a soul mate, but aside from the common romantic assumptions about this elusive magical bond, they generally don't stop to think about the spiritual purpose of soul mates or the true meaning of the term.
Thanks to movies, TV, and romance novels, the perception of a ... Views: 4123
Women assume many roles throughout their lives – as daughters, sisters, wives, mothers, and grandmothers. Women’s roles have been largely determined by the rules and expectations of culture, religion, and the patriarchy, as well as biology. Have you considered to what extent your roles have ... Views: 1739
Modern Marriage has higher expectations!
Why has the divorce rate risen significantly over the past fifty years?
I feel that modern day relationships require more maintenance than those from past generations and many couples lack the skills and desire to succeed in marriage and partnerships. ... Views: 3417
Is there an issue about which you and your partner can't seem to see eye-to-eye?
Perhaps you two try to avoid talking about or even looking at the tough topic because, in the past, it has only seemed to cause tension and arguments. The trouble is, these sensitive and challenging issues ... Views: 3273
It is important to remember that in most cases affairs are symptoms of something deeper that is going on in intimate relationships, of which couples may not have been aware. And here is where I can see the silver lining. The affair is such a shocking event in their lives that couples cannot ... Views: 1482
Save My Marriage Today Review: What is the book anyway?
Over the years I have reviewed many save marriage type products, some of which didn't even seem to be concerned with helping people. However, when I came across Amy Waterman's course - Save My Marriage Today I began to get excited. ... Views: 850
By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.
Frankly, if we hear yet one more person talk about infidelity in a relationship as if it were okay, not a big deal, and forgivable, we are going to get angry!
We have studied the best marriages for nearly 28 years and we know this – the best ... Views: 6899
In my close to 20 years of being a marriage counselor, I’ve come to the conclusion that relationships often fall into one of four very broad categories. Do any of these sound like you?
Fulfilled: You are best friends and lovers in every sense of the word. You feel supported by and are ... Views: 823
We all know the evils of infidelity. In previous blogs I wrote about them, citing statistics, characteristics of who is most likely to cheat, and what can be done to address these issues.
Here I want to approach this subject from a different perspective: infidelity as an alarm system about ... Views: 2363
It's never about the other person....there's no one doing it to us....every things an inside job. No matter what we are experiencing, no matter how it appears to be someone else’s fault, someone else’s personality defect, someone else’s manipulation or lie, it isn’t. Everything in our lives ... Views: 6301
By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.
With our fast paced society and the ever increasing demands of everyday life, more and more couples are finding that negativity is taking over their relationship. An abrupt interject of positivity into a relationship is the only way to change the ... Views: 3930
In the business world we know "innovate or perish" we know "nothing ventured, nothing gained". In our intimate relationships what we seem to prefer is "leave well enough alone" and "if it ain't broke, don't fix it". What's that all about? We know that a business, allowed to chug along will ... Views: 657
One of the greatest problems that families have in improving the quality of their lives together is the common reality that the parents themselves don’t always agree on what the family priorities should be.
In fact many men find themselves confused and saddened by their family life; especially ... Views: 1164
One of the coolest things about being in a committed relationship is having someone to grow old with, someone with whom you share so many memories that sitting in the rockers on the porch won't be boring at all, you'll have so much to talk about. Equally as cool is how, if you open your mind and ... Views: 1529
Anger is one emotion we all have. Anger can be both a blessing and a curse. Those who get out of control with their anger are often described as having low emotional intelligence. Emotional intelligence (EQ) is the skill of being able to understand and regulate our emotions as well as sense ... Views: 1806
Whether you have been in a relationship for 20 years or 20 days, celebrating your relationship is one way to unleash the power within your relationship and add gallons of enjoyment to your life. When you notice other couples who you admire and would like to have what they have, what do you ... Views: 1358
The start of a relationship can be a slippery road to navigate. Young lovers can be overwhelmed with their anxiousness and excitement. They tend to over think their new relationship, and sometimes depend on guessing games on what their partner thinks or wants. Since new lovers are taking the ... Views: 1174
Perhaps every woman dreams of having a wonderful husband, adorable children, and white picket fence house in the suburb. A life so ideal and simple, but is it really that simple?
When a woman marries, and decides to have children, it is anything but simple. Marriage is far from easy. It is ... Views: 854
We are all guilty of forgetting about how important anniversaries are in reflecting on how you and your partner met and to rekindle that buzz of the first time you got together. Below are some suggestions on what you could do for your special anniversary.
Remember that first date?
Plan a ... Views: 774
It takes is some planning and organization but you can get everything done on time for your wedding day and also have some fun doing it. I'm going to assume that you have done all the necessary ground work to make your wedding day special…booked the reception, the caterer, the ceremony location, ... Views: 603
John Gottman is a psychologist in the US who has studied married couples in great depth. This man has got the art of reading couples so off pat that he can tell within three minutes of observing them interact whether they will stay together or separate. He's spot on 96% of the time! When ... Views: 1480
There’s a saying that trust is like a mirror, once it’s broken, you might get hurt trying to put it back, and when you get it back, you can never look at it the same way again. Trust is a very delicate, profound and essential thing to have in a companionship. That’s why when trust is gone, the ... Views: 25661
We all dream of having a perfect life, where people we love get along and help each other out. But unfortunately, life doesn’t work that way. As much as we wanted to bring harmony and balance in our life, some people just can’t get along. Now, we really don’t mind when other people around us ... Views: 927
One of the shows that I have been borderline- obsessed with lately is the animated series of Nickelodeon’s Avatar: The Lastairbender. I discovered this when my 7 year-old nephew asked me to watch it with him, I was instantly drawn to the story and the characters. For a “kid’s” show, it has the ... Views: 712
7 Steps for happy relationship
How can you have a happy relationship? What are the steps you need to learn about to have a prosperous relationship?
Every relationship faces changes and challenges, so it is necessary for you to learn about what makes a relationship happy and successful. ... Views: 1486
Rianna and Joel consulted with me because they kept getting stuck in their relationship whenever there was a conflict. It wasn't the issue itself that kept creating a problem, but how they were dealing with the issue.
Married for 7 years with three children, they loved each other deeply, and ... Views: 4566