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- The One Decision, and How I Discovered It. - by Submitted on Feb 27, 2007 from Judith WrightI first discovered the One Decision almost by accident. Now, as I look back, I see that I had already been living my life in accordance with my One Decision, but I didnt have any inclination that I had actually made such a choice. In fact, I didnt even have a name for it. It was only after ...
Views: 949 - Why Always Having to Be Right Can Poison Your Relationships - by Submitted on Feb 07, 2007 from Nancy WassonWhen someone feels that he or she always has to be right, you can bet that there’s trouble ahead in the relationship arena. It doesn’t take a fortune teller with a crystal ball to predict the future when a person is determined to win every argument or disagreement at any cost. Always having to ...
Views: 16113(1 vote) - 25 Inexpensive and Romantic Ideas for Valentine's Day - by You can be romantic this Valentine's Day without spending too much. All it takes is a little creativity and forethought. The key lies in personalizing your celebration and letting your loved one know how special you feel each ordinary day that you are together.
Here are 25 ideas for ...
Views: 2672 - Why Love Relationships Fail - by Submitted on Dec 21, 2006 from Bob MakranskyLove relationships fail because at no time in our training by society are we given a factual model of what a love relationship is, or how to make one succeed. There are fundamentally three levels on which intimate relationships operate, and our social training only prepares us to deal with one ...
Views: 1136 - Why Retaliation Affairs Only Make Things Worse - by Submitted on Dec 12, 2006 from Nancy WassonIt’s not unusual for a partner whose mate has had an affair to have a “get even” or “retaliation affair.” The feelings of betrayal and the emotional pain are so devastating that the partner may want to hurt the mate like he (or she) has been hurt. In some cases, the affair is planned out in ...
Views: 6170 - What women should know when dating - by Submitted on Nov 12, 2006 from Nathalie FisetWhat women should know when dating Unlike before, when the total outcome or atmosphere of dating solely depends on the man, women of today have learned how to take part of the entire process. They have realized that in order to make most out on a date, they have their own “roles” to play. They ...
Views: 947 - Unique Wedding Ideas: Everything Old is New Again - 5 Fun Tips for a Retro Wedding - by Submitted on Nov 09, 2006 from Lesley MattosMagazines and websites are bursting with the latest trends in wedding ideas and themes - and just trying to sift through them can be as overwhelming as actually planning an entire wedding! So take a deep breath, relax and consider this: some of the most unique wedding ideas can be found by ...
Views: 1170 - How to Cope with a Critical Partner - by Submitted on Nov 06, 2006 from Nancy WassonDo any of these statements describe your feelings? ___ You often feel that your partner criticizes you unfairly. ___ You feel that your partner consistently looks for nit-picking things to criticize. ____You feel that your partner routinely criticizes you for things that have been blown out ...
Views: 14035 - If Money Matters - by Submitted on Oct 18, 2006 from Johanna DocenaTrue enough, a wedding is the most difficult event to plan and prepare for. And it gets even more challenging if the budget is tight. But don't fret, we have come up with some tips to help you stay on track money-wise. 1. Limit your invites to the most important people in your life. Less ...
Views: 866 - How to Keep Jealousy from Destroying Your Relationship - by Submitted on Oct 09, 2006 from Nancy WassonJealousy has often been called the “green-eyed monster,” and with good reason. The “monster” is fueled by envy and can over time devour the trust and harmony in a relationship. According to B.C. Forbes, “Jealousy…is a mental cancer.” It spreads quickly and can be fatal to a relationship. Once ...
Views: 11350(1 vote) - The Real Secret of Attraction - by Submitted on Sep 28, 2006 from Abe KassThe secret of attraction is the unconscious hope for healing and understanding. This is why we are so discriminating in our choice of a marital partner. Not just anyone will do. And when we find the right person we become infatuated and fall head over heels for him or her. Our passion and hope ...
Views: 1158 - What Can You Do About Control Issues in Your Relationship? - by Submitted on Sep 25, 2006 from Nancy WassonIt’s so much easier to blame your partner than to look at yourself—and this is especially true when relationship control issues are involved. If you’re the more controlling partner, it’s tempting to blame your passive mate for waiting so long to speak up about her (or his) distress over the ...
Views: 13181(1 vote) - Don't fall; Rise in love! - by No topic has been discussed more than love. For ages we have been the audience to great love stories, some happy and some tragic. The mere mention of love puts a shine on some people's face while a layer of sadness appears for those who failed in love relationships. People "fall" in and out of ...
Views: 6390 - I Need You…I Need You Not: Is Needing Part of the Love Equation? - by Submitted on Aug 28, 2006 from Gabriella KortschWhy is it that so often when we feel we are in love, we also feel we are in bondage if anything happens to shake the feeling of “security” in the love? Why does love so often make us dependent on the other person? Shouldn’t love be a marvelous and freeing feeling rather than these other ...
Views: 848(2 votes) - Love - by Submitted on Aug 16, 2006 from Yolanda CardenLove He may not look like it, but that Elmo's a love machine. When parents tell me, "My child lives for Elmo," I tell them that Elmo lives because of their child's love for him. I don't just mean that Elmo is alive in their child's imagination, though that is certainly a part of it. That child ...
Views: 1219 - How long does it take to rebuild trust? - by Submitted on Aug 02, 2006 from Gary DirenfeldHow long does it take to rebuild trust? Sometimes it’s couples where one partner has had an affair. Other times it’s between parents and a teen where the teen has stolen, lied or has been doing drugs. The issue is trust and the question is, “How long does it take to rebuild trust when ...
Views: 6518 - Biology of Love - by Submitted on May 21, 2010 from Janis EricsonIn light of current biological research, it seems that the phrase "madly in love" is not merely a metaphor. There is ample evidence to suggest that falling in love is physiologically similar to mental illness. Disorders like OCD are associated with an imbalance of serotonin, and when studied, ...
Views: 9456(2 votes) - Reflections on Healing a Broken Heart - by Submitted on Jul 19, 2006 from elizabeth spring“You seem to have led a charmed life,” her words echoed uncomfortably in my ears. Yes, after twenty years of marriage all the visible markers of a charmed and successful life were in place: a healthy child, a thriving business, and a beautiful home. But something was wrong, and I knew that ...
Views: 4479 - Everything I Know About Relationship Success I Learned At The Playground - by Submitted on Jul 06, 2006 from Stanley LeffewIt happened again! I was enjoying an evening with my little 2-yr. old son at the playground when, BAM, it happened. You ever have one of those moments in life when you know you are being taught an important lesson? Picture in your mind a chaotic atmosphere of over fifty little children ...
Views: 1030 - The Informal Normal In A Black-Tie-Affair World - by Submitted on Jun 30, 2006 from Stanley LeffewWhen it comes to defining love, life and relationships, have you noticed the trend? You ever notice how on programs like "The Bachelor" most of their dating episodes are via limousine escort? They travel to lavish destinations amid scenic splendor. The sunsets are so beautiful you can almost ...
Views: 1166 - Challenged by your relationships? Good! - by Submitted on Jun 27, 2006 from John RobsonChallenged by your relationships? Good! by Andrew Schneider Why are our relationships such a challenge? By their very nature, relationships always push us toward duality, toward the opposites. They take us into both the light of our souls and the darkness of our subconscious. They force us to ...
Views: 1099(2 votes) - The First Down - Approaching a Man or Woman - by Submitted on Jun 23, 2006 from Jaci RaeYou see a man or a woman who strikes your fancy but you aren't sure how to approach him / her or get to the "first down." This can be a very intimidating and awkward moment, but you can succeed if you are sincere and confident (but not cocky!). Step 1. Occasionally glance over at him / her and ...
Views: 1589 - Is your Marriage at High Risk for Divorce? - by Submitted on Jun 05, 2006 from mike sheryTake this quick test: · Were either of you under 22 when you married? · Did either of you not get your high school diploma or GED? · Do you make under $24,000/year as a couple? · Are you two of different religions? · Did either of your parents divorce? · Are you or your spouse very ...
Views: 774 - Why do Spouses have Affairs? - by Submitted on May 28, 2006 from mike sheryWhy do Spouses have Affairs? Most husbands and wives who cheat on their spouse fully expect that they can continue their marriage and their affair(s) with little disruption. They sneak and hide to cover their tracks so that their spouse is none the wiser. They want both, the marriage and the ...
Views: 3407 - Ah, Newlyweds… then reality sets in. - by Submitted on May 18, 2006 from Gary DirenfeldAh, Newlyweds… then reality sets in. The wedding day is met with much anticipation. Bright eyed, eager, some butterflies, plans in place. So much thought and preparation for a single event. Then the honeymoon and then back to real life. There is often magical thinking that goes into a wedding. ...
Views: 1042 - The Top 9 Marital Blunders - by Submitted on May 14, 2006 from mike sheryWhen thinking about my patients, I've noticed a pattern to the marital conflicts that they share. Here's my list of the top ten things that put your marriage at higher risk for break-up and the things you must do to strengthen it. 1) Putting-Down Spouse's Friends/Family Don't badmouth your ...
Views: 763 - How To Treat Your Man Like A Man - by Submitted on May 14, 2006 from Angie LewisAre you a controlling wife? Do you take your husband for granted? Most women don’t realize it but they abuse their husbands daily just by their actions. Many women of today feel that marriage revolves solely around them and their husband’s are supposed to give them everything their heart ...
Views: 9199(1 vote) - Wedding Planning 101: Keep It Simple With A Wedding Timeline For Brides And Grooms - by Submitted on May 12, 2006 from Lesley MattosYou’re Engaged! You certainly want to enjoy this wonderful and magical time in your life but you know that planning your own wedding is going to be a big job! The following checklists might make it a little easier for you to keep it simple, keep it organized and keep you sane! The 12-Month ...
Views: 1030 - An Unhappy Marriage: How to Know When It's Really Over - by It's a fact. There are a lot of people who feel unhappy in their marriage. But the real question many of them are asking themselves is, how do I know when my marriage is really over? Is it when your spouse says, "I don't love you anymore?" Is it after an affair takes place? How do you REALLY ...
Views: 6027 - Your Feminine Heart: A New Era of Love (Book Excerpt) - by Moving Beyond Feminism: The New Era of Love & Spiritually Enlightened Women
Women today have entered every facet of industry and business. But the industrialized world is a different place than it was forty years ago. We have evolved. In breaking through the shackles of limitation to gain ...
Views: 1026 - How To Make Yourself Irresistible - by Submitted on May 02, 2006 from Cucan PemoHave you always wondered why do kids resist their parents even though they have their interests at heart? This happens to me when I am young. I find that I am attracted towards my friends and buddies in schools than towards my mentors, teachers or even my parents. I never really explored the ...
Views: 976 - Giten on the Inner Man and Woman and Relationships - by Submitted on Oct 26, 2012 from Giten Swami DhyanWhat are the inner man and woman? Our being consists of two energies: the male and female aspect. Irrespective of if we are a man or a woman, we have both a male and female side. Life develops through opposite poles and tendencies for example yes and no, joy and sorrow, light and darkness, ...
Views: 3343 - Listening 101 - by Submitted on Apr 05, 2006 from Curtis G. SchmittOdds are you're not a very good listener... Why would I say something so seemingly condescending? To shock you and get your attention, of course! Face it, if in fact you're not a good listener, then I need to do something special to engage you, don't I? Not to mention, it's probably true. ...
Views: 1141 - Write Your Own Love Letter in 6 Easy Steps - by Submitted on Apr 04, 2006 from Jill BrennanYou want to tell your partner how you feel about them but you end up staring at a blank screen for so long you give up. Or you try a few lines only to delete them all and start over. Again. Why is it so hard to tell the loved one in our life exactly what they mean to us? Do you struggle to ...
Views: 1176 - Addicted to Love - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2006 from Dr. Ulla SebastianLove addiction is focused on love as the solution to inner pain, loneliness and emptiness. In love addiction, the relationship or the need for romance is all consuming. Nothing else in life has equal importance. The Love addict has very intense emotions including anger, fear, hate and ...
Views: 1090 - KENTRA: The Story of True Love - by Submitted on Feb 22, 2011 from Saintmoses EromoseleThere is little doubt that I have a flair for unique names. My name, Saintmoses, is suggestive to that fact. While I was growing up I met a pretty lady who told me that her name was Kentra. I wasn’t as mesmerized by her beauty and coy essence as by her name. Even though Kentra’s face is lost ...
Views: 2109(1 vote) - Relationships, love and jealousy - by Submitted on Feb 14, 2006 from Linda SimmonLove, Jealousy and Relationships Relationships, love and in particular jealousy and present each of us with a unique opportunity to better understand ourselves. Jealousy is most often the result of attachment and expectations, beliefs, projections, delusions, envy, guilt and low of ...
Views: 1780 - Spirit-Centered Listening: How to Facilitate The Flow of Spiritual Connection - by (Excerpt from “Spirit-Centered Relationships” – By Gay & Kathlyn Hendricks)
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“Spirit-centered listening” occurs when you listen to other people while being aware of your spiritual essence and theirs. Another way to say it is that you listen from ...
Views: 1104 - 6 Tips To A Better Massage This Valentine's Day - by Massage could just very well be the most luxurious gift to give to your loved one this Valentines Day, especially if it's coming from your own two hands. The benefits of massage seem endless : relaxing, sensual, allows you to connect with your mate at a much deeper level, paves way for more ...
Views: 981 - Being On The Path - by Submitted on Jan 04, 2006 from Cynthia Cooper-GriffithCoincidences, déjà vu experiences, finding a parking space on a meter in downtown Chicago, are all surface indicators of being in the “flow.” But for more revealing insight, examine the quality of your intimate relationships. Being “on the path” means that you understand the divine nature of ...
Views: 1073 - The Three Stages of Mending a Broken Heart - by Submitted on Nov 21, 2005 from Dorothy ThompsonThe Three Stages of Mending a Broken Heart You've been dumped. Short of throwing yourself off the nearest bridge, you resort to hiding in your bed for days, comforted only by the fact that at least you have a year's supply of Moonpies by your bedside and your answering machine is on the alert in ...
Views: 4328 - Appropriate Distance - by Submitted on Oct 31, 2005 from Steve TaubmanI’ve been thinking a lot lately about my contribution to others and my commitment to loving presence. In that regard, I’ve adopted a concept I call appropriate distance. In previous articles, I’ve suggested a philosophical stance for our interactions with others and implied that it’s our ...
Views: 1457 - A FEAR OF WOMEN - by Submitted on Oct 23, 2005 from Jard DeVilleHuman sexuality is God's great psychospiritual gift to loving women and men who mature beyond narcissism and selfishness, who open their arms and hearts to each other as lovers for life. Unfortunately, sexuality is also a common weapon of choice that is used by twisted and wicked psychopaths ...
Views: 1879 - Tapping the Power of your Inner Wisdom - by Submitted on Oct 19, 2005 from Neil FellowesWhen was the last time someone sat you down and told you how amazing, special and unique you are? Today? A few days ago? A while back? Never? For most of us it’s been some time… But does that mean we are anything short of magnificent? We easily recall the times when someone tells us we did ...
Views: 921 - 10 Ways to Put Sizzle Back in Your Relationship - by Submitted on Sep 16, 2005 from Patricia FasonIt seems that no matter how much we love someone, and how deeply we are committed, keeping the sizzle alive in a relationship takes a little work. Here are ten ways you can help ignite the flame that was there when you first got together. 1. Don't take your relationship for granted. Everyone is ...
Views: 2890 - Spouse Improvement: Influence Your Partner to Change in just 7 Steps - by Submitted on Sep 15, 2005 from Ellyn BaderEveryone has something they’d like to change in their partner. Here is a 7-step process to create a change in your partner. The key to the success of this process is that it makes your partner want to change — instead of feeling coerced. 1. MAKE A LIST of the top three behaviors your partner ...
Views: 772 - 10 Things You Didn’t Know About Signs of Infidelity - by Submitted on Sep 12, 2005 from Ruth HoustonCertain things about signs of infidelity come as a surprise to most people. Even people who consider themselves knowledgeable about extramarital affairs may be unfamiliar with some of the little-known facts below. This information is taken from Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale ...
Views: 1691 - Write An Apology To Your Spouse: How to Apologize In a Way That Really Works For You - by Submitted on Sep 06, 2005 from Ellyn BaderBeing apologetic doesn’t come easily for me. Unfortunately, being inconsiderate and self-centered does. So I realized long ago that my marital survival would depend on two things: 1) learning to apologize and 2) becoming less selfish and more considerate. It was easier to start with apologies. ...
Views: 930 - Jealousy and relationships - by Submitted on Aug 26, 2005 from Linda SimmonI'm in the process of developing a workshop that deals primarily with relationships and in the process of doing that I've been working on an article about relationships and jealousy. I thought I'd share a bit of it here and more later. I has been very enligtening for me and I hope for some of ...
Views: 1511 - Are You My Soul Mate? - by Submitted on Aug 23, 2005 from Dorothy ThompsonI’m always dumbfounded when someone walks up to me and declares that they either have not found their soul mate or says, “There are no soul mates out there for me.” Obviously, they don’t know how to look for the signs or how to read them once they do find them. There are millions, maybe even ...
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