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So many couples are now separated part-or full-time because of military deployment and/or work travel and schedules, I get a lot of questions about faithfulness. Your marriage vows may have said, "'til death do us part" but no one said anything about what happens when a military career or ... Views: 1867
Absolute trust is the cornerstone for cultivating intimacy in our relationships. True intimacy is based on mutual absolute trust and requires that both people are willing to be open, vulnerable and uninhibited with each other. Moreover, we find that the more we open ourselves, the more we ... Views: 1673
You cannot make yourself love yourself just as you cannot make you love another person. Loving yourself is a result rather than a cause of a changed personality. When you have rid yourself of qualities that you dislike or are no longer limited by fears and inhibitions, or you just happen to have ... Views: 1358
One of the many drawbacks to western culture is the lack of involvement and devotion on a deeply personal level to anything or anyone.
When I was in Cambodia I spent a few days with a group from Singapore who was there as a charity project bringing cloths and supplies to the poor.
There is ... Views: 2042
Start With a Clean Slate … and aim for perfect love
For the best summer—and relationship—ever, start with a clean slate. Wipe away the black marks and start fresh, aiming, once again, for perfect love. Only this time, do it with perfect love in clear view. Know what you’re going for, ... Views: 5244
So May has been declared National Masturbation Month. Although the movement is gaining awareness and media attention, it most likely will not be officially recognized, or show up on your yearly Hallmark calendars anytime soon.
The proposed observance and hype was created by a San Francisco ... Views: 3194
Forget the Spanish Fly, Rhinoceros horn or other rumored aphrodisiacs, the most natural libido enhancers are easily accessible and good for your overall health. For thousands of years, humans have been experimenting with various foods and herbs to improve health conditions and support sexual ... Views: 3441
Learning how to talk dirty can be a fulfilling and rewarding journey that the two of you (you and your man) can share together. However, it'll only work if the two of you have a solid foundation by learning how to talk dirty the right way. Many times, when a woman tries to learn how to talk ... Views: 1465
If you’ve ever danced the night away, then you know how truly liberating, invigorating and therapeutic it can be to just let it loose on the dance floor. Music has a way of touching the soul in an extraordinary and profound way. Whether fueled by a DJ or a live band, dancing is quite similar ... Views: 2331
When the word Tantra comes to mind, one may think of ancient Eastern practices, intricate sex or images of naked gods and goddesses bursting with light and twisted into most difficult Kama Sutra positions. When you break it down, however, the word Tantra means “weaving” in Sanskrit. Tantra is a ... Views: 1831
Cacao
Cacao, raw chocolate, has long been known as an aphrodisiac and has been used as one in South America for thousands of years! In addition to its ability to put you in the mood, cacao is a heart healthy treat that also contains an abundance of antioxidants, electrolytes, and magnesium. ... Views: 984
Remember the days of that sizzling hot/heart-thumping/I’ve never felt this way before/best sex you’ve ever had in your life/can’t eat, can’t sleep, “can’t live without” relationship that you had?
Census bureau says it probably turned into a baby, or two...or three. And that, like it or not, ... Views: 1213
Healthy relationships are dependent on the health of the people in the relationship. This is not exclusive to physical health; in fact the physical health is lower in importance for realizing a healthy relationship. Mental and Spiritual health are the most influencing factors when it comes to ... Views: 1036
A man I spoke to today told me that he thinks men are making way for women in the business world.
Maybe - but mostly in a masculine way, which means simply that there is less active resistance. But women need more than a mute standing by the doorway - we need an invitation to come in, and ... Views: 1129
Now I’m first going to say that there is no textbook answer here. A wife who seems to be good for one husband may not in fact be good for the next one. The thing which makes any mate good whether it be a husband or wife is their compatibility to the other. My trash may be your treasure. I’m not ... Views: 3242
Keeping the passion high in any relationship depends a lot on how safe you make it for your partner to say the truth to you. We like to say we want to hear the truth, “even if it hurts us,” but actually we often act in ways that make it difficult or even impossible to do that.
If you tend to ... Views: 2725
Are you and your husband having problems? Is seeing eye to eye these days more difficult than usual. Does it feel like whatever you say or do, you just can't seem to get your marriage on track. If you're looking for help in a marriage, please read on.
Have you ever wondered why some ... Views: 643
“The decision to kiss for the first time is the most crucial in any love story. It changes the relationship of two people much more strongly than even the final surrender; because this kiss already has within it that surrender”-Emil Ludwig.
The depth of a kiss can say so much. It can open up ... Views: 6147
When we are in a close relationship with another person, sometimes we can feel the walls between each other. Sometimes, one of us may be trying to protect ourselves or hiding what we really are from the other person. After a while, this behavior becomes normal and thus is prolonged. If you ... Views: 1511
Introduction
Kegel exercise got it’s named after Dr. Arnold Kegel (Arnold H. Kegel M.D., F.A.C.S. (1894–1981), he was a gynecologist who invented the Kegel exercises as non-surgical treatment of genital relaxation. Kegel exercise consists of contracting and relaxing the muscles that form part ... Views: 2048
For all type of business it is necessary to arrange their data in to respective order in any format. Disordered data can decrease efficiency and speed of work and that surely effect progress of the whole organization. In the globalize world, to get maximum gain in business all organizations need ... Views: 2224
A kiss should be not just for a sign of foreplay; it could be a way to express your passion, enthusiasm and devotion to your partner. It can certainly attract two people experience the charm of being with each other.
Why "French Kiss"? Charming, highly intimate and sexually stimulating, a ... Views: 3553
Featured in the September / October 2009 issue of Kindred Spirit Magazine, the UK's leading mind, body and spirit publication.
In spring of 2009 I was sitting in a room with about a hundred other people from across the world who had come to Hamburg, Germany to immerse themselves in ... Views: 2075
Having been born in the 60s, I grew up during the time when women were rebelling against their traditional roles.They went to work, got divorced, called for equality and marched for the ERA.
With deep gratitude, I celebrate all of those women who forged the path before me, who brought me to ... Views: 1332
SEX
1) A pleasing woman pleases her man.
2) Lips of wine— a wine drinker.
3) A woman who ignores her man ignores herself.
4) The man who has a heart of stone is a pebble brain.
5) Let not the tomorrows use up today.
6) Space and time do not exist for lovers.
7) Every rose has its thorn ... Views: 1010
Very rarely do we take time out of our busy schedule to sit back and indulge ourselves for a few minutes. Usually, a soothing cucumber mask or an oatmeal, almond and avocado body scrub are fleeting fantasies during the day. As soon as the stoplight turns green or a telephone shrills ten we must ... Views: 1356
I want to address an important issue from my reader, about guys who lose their sexual mojo when they're settled with you (something that isn't very uncommon -surprise, surprise- which is the main reason why my marriage fell apart). So here it goes:
I have been with the same man for almost 3 ... Views: 24649
Many of us have hard times keeping relations. Here are a couple of tips on how to keep your woman happy. These steps are fairly basic, all you need, is to follow these simple steps and you are off to building robust relationships.
1- You want to begin with making sure you're emotionally ... Views: 2233
Hey girl. There's no reason for your boyfriend to cheat on you or even think about leaving you if you know how to keep him happy and satisfied in your relationship. How do you do that? The answer may sound shallow, but it's the truth. It's sex. And not just good sex, but truly amazing sex.
If ... Views: 9084
Do you want to learn how get a guy literally addicted to you? No problem. You can do it, all you need is the right information. I've been with more women than I can remember, and I'm not telling you this to brag. I don't care if you believe me or not, I just want to help you become more ... Views: 15801
Hey girl. You and I both know that the best way to keep a man coming back for more is by giving him the best sex humanly possible. I'll give you 3 straightforward, no-nonsense sex tips for pleasing your man better than any other woman out there. They may sound strange at first, but if you apply ... Views: 18848
Since I was a child I have worn a red cape and enjoyed the experience. It was not until recently that I realized in order to wear the cape; I had to be an “enabler” and put the needs of others before my own. It all started innocently enough. According to the Myers Briggs Personality Test, I am ... Views: 1126
On your next anniversary, her birthday, or just a special Friday night, give a gift that will make a difference in your relationship: a couple's night at a yoga studio.
Some yoga studios have special workshops for couples which include soft lights, music and sensual massage. No prior yoga ... Views: 3319
Research shows that yoga helps manage or control anxiety, asthma, arthritis, back pain, blood pressure, carpal tunnel syndrome, chronic fatigue, depression, diabetes, epilepsy, headaches, heart disease, multiple sclerosis, stress and other diseases.Yoga also helps improve muscle tone, ... Views: 2031
Ladies, if you are serious about satisfying him better than ever before - listen up. Men aren't as complicated as they may seem at first. If you want to conquer him and make him go insane over you, you have to give him the best sex humanly possible. You have to give him more pleasure in bed than ... Views: 37277
Marriage can get boring. And when it's boring - it's usually because of bad sex. Your husband's maybe just not that into you any more. Or he is - you just don't know which switch to turn on in him. Spice it up a bit, your sex life could be far more interesting. Here's 5 real life ways to make ... Views: 13781
Ladies, you can find a bunch of tips out there on the internet on pleasing your boyfriend and being a better girlfriend for him, but most of the advice out there is missing the essence. You have to focus on pushing the right buttons in your boyfriends mind so that he'll literally go mad of ... Views: 21812
I bet a lot of you ladies out there worry whether you husband is cheating on you or not. I don't know if he is, but what I do know is how you can prevent it from happening and how you can become the ONLY woman he's interested in. I'm not going to lie to you and tell you some fairy tales about ... Views: 8518
Ladies, let's get real here for a second. You've probably read dozens of magazine articles on making a guy fall in love with you and let's face it - most of them are complete nonsense. They are missing the essence of what makes men go nuts, like, for real and only touch the whole topic on the ... Views: 14395
Hello Ladies,
Some of you believe to have figured men out, while others are clueless when it comes to understanding men. Even though most men are different, they have similarities at the same time. Every good woman should know how to satisfy and keep her man happy in bed. Believe it or not: ... Views: 4635
The Tantric path is to reunite with our Divine spark. It encourages us to identify with our Higher Self, our Divine essence. When you identify with your Higher Self, you live in a heightened vibrational field and you are open to the intuition coming to you from your Divine self, guiding you ... Views: 2400
After some time of being with your boyfriend, it's natural that your sex life may get a bit monotone. But no worries girls - there is a solution for every problem, you just have to know where's the right place to look for it.
I'll give you 3 ideas to surprise your boyfriend and make your sex ... Views: 10188
There is always a way you can be more exciting to your boyfriend. Even if you have been together for a long time, there is no reason he shouldn't still be attracted to you - even more than he was the first day you met.
Usually, people lose interest in each other after some time, since they ... Views: 4761
The first thing is that you have to know your boyfriend a bit better. Find out what his fantasies are, what he likes and what turns him on. You can do that by asking him questions once you get on the phone. You should initiate things, so he knows he has a green light to back dirty to ... Views: 12440
Are you fed up with all the nonsense advice you get from popular female magazines out there? Of course you are. You and I both know that they'll rarely give you any valuable ideas that work in real life. As a guy with probably much more experience than the average Joe I believe I can tell you ... Views: 19244
This man doesn’t make the headlines. He won’t steal your money or kill you and dump your body on the side of the road. But he can steal your heart, rob you of your time and kill you slowly from the inside out like radiation that eats at your heart and soul.
Does Your Man Act Like ... Views: 6624
Tantra wants you to have pleasure and guides you to have the Divine pleasure of merging the male and female energies into One. It uses this pleasure to bring more joy and light into your life.
If you are living a disconnected life, you will experience the opposite – being separated from ... Views: 3844
Ladies, pleasing your boyfriend in bed shouldn't be that complicated. All those female magazines out there want you to believe that figuring out a guy is rocket science. It's not. You can make your boyfriend go absolutely insane in bed by doing for simple things. I'll tell you what they ... Views: 18217
Do you want to get ex girlfriend back? In three quarters of break ups, ladies are the ones who call it quits. As you're most likely aware by this time in your life, girls are irrational creatures. They don’t always say or do what is in their best interest. Often, within days of a break up, a ... Views: 1102
Common symptoms such as depression and a general lack of self-esteem are typically related to a sexless marriage.
Be sure to work to mend these emotions if they are currently present because they can only deter the effort you can produce to fix a sexless marriage.
Avoid Playing the Blame ... Views: 818