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Undoubtedly, if someone has the ability to not be caught up in what is going on around them, their life will be far better than it would be otherwise. They will be able to stay centred and to be the ‘calm in the storm’ so to speak.
This will allow them to stay focused on what matters and to ... Views: 263
One of the ways that a lot of people find out about what is taking place where they live and the world as a whole is via the mainstream media. So, by watching a screen and/or reading a paper, someone will be informed.
Along with this, there will be those that primarily look towards the ... Views: 290
When someone has an inner sense of safety, it will be possible for them to be in their body and to express themselves. What this comes down to is that in order for someone to inhabit their body, they will need to feel safe enough to do so.
As this component is in place, they will comfortable ... Views: 290
When it comes to what has been taking place in America and other parts of the world, it is clear to see that a lot of people are enraged. To use an analogy; it is as though a number of small volcanoes have erupted and have continued to erupt as the weeks and months have gone by.
Still, in the ... Views: 280
If someone’s mind and emotions were settled and they felt at peace, they may wonder what it would be like to experience life in this way more often. Then again, thanks to how rarely they experience life in this way, they could be totally consumed by what is taking place.
Perhaps they have ... Views: 281
If someone was abused as a child, they could be in a very bad way now that they are an adult. What they experienced will have taken place many, many years ago, but they won’t have truly put the past behind them.
There is a strong chance that what they went through during this time left a mark ... Views: 284
In order for a man to assert himself and to stand his ground, he will need to have a strong connection to his fight instinct/aggression. Ultimately, this part of his being will provide him with the vitality and the power that he needs to truly embrace life.
Having this connection doesn’t ... Views: 313
The top 5 tips and advice for traveling to Japan are featured in the content below. Although it seems very simple, people can forget it somehow. I hope this serves as a little reminder for you.
1. Time difference
Japan's time zone as if set to GMT is +9 hours. So it is 1 hour faster than ... Views: 165
When it comes to how someone behaves and what their life is like, there is the chance that these two things are a reflection of what is taking place internally. In other words, there will be a connection between their inner world and their outer world.
This is not to say that their behaviour ... Views: 293
For as long as a man can remember, he may see that he has been passive, easy-going, and found it hard to assert himself. Consequently, he will have most likely spent a lot of time around people who are the complete opposite.
He may find that he has spent a lot of time around both men and ... Views: 271
Try six research-based tips for turning the page to the next chapter of the adventure story we are truly meant to live.
1. Live Your Greatest Passion Despite Inevitable Risk
"Life is like a 10 speed bicycle. Most of us have gears we never use," Charles M. Schulz once wrote. Gretchen Rubin ... Views: 289
If a man was to think about his early years, he might end up thinking about some of the good moments that he shared with his father. Then again, this could be a time when he will remember moments that were far from good.
What this may illustrate is that, during this phase of his life, he had ... Views: 281
Due to what someone went through as a child and even before they were born, they can believe that they don’t deserve to be on this earth. However, while this core belief, along with others, will be defining their life, it doesn’t mean that they will be aware of it.
Like a fish in water, how ... Views: 250
If someone was abused and/or neglected during their early years, it doesn’t mean that they will be aware of this. Due to how much time has passed and the defences that they have in place, they might not be able to remember what took place at this stage of their life.
Then again, they might ... Views: 275
A long-lasting relationship is a healthy relationship. A healthy relationship brings joy to everyone around them. Stable relationships are beautiful, strong houses, which take time to build. It requires specific materials to come together brilliantly.
So many people want a long-lasting ... Views: 321
Unless someone has been living under a rock or in the middle of nowhere and had no connection with the outside world for a number of years, they will have probably noticed that there are a lot of people that want to change the world. Or to be more exact, they will be aware that there are a lot ... Views: 269
Have you ever noticed that allergies are more prominent today than they were fifty years ago? It can be said that at that time we did not have the technology to treat diseases, but that is not the case. People had allergic reactions to rag grass, allergies to certain foods, and a very small ... Views: 127
Now, if someone was to take a step back and to reflect on how they see themselves and their life, they may come to the conclusion that they have a ‘negative mindset’. If they were to open about to someone else, this person could also say the same thing.
If they were to make a note of how they ... Views: 246
Critical Thinking: How Can Someone Change The World By 'Healing Their Inner Wounds'?
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According to Robert Johnson, a Jungian analyst and author, Carl Jung was often asked if humanity would survive. This is what Robert said in relation to this question, "People often ... Views: 270
Once something has been pushed out of someone’s conscious mind, it can seem as though it has disappeared. This could be something that takes place in a very short period of time or it could take a little while longer.
At one moment in time, then, it will have been there and in the next, it ... Views: 282
In general, it is believed that once someone is an adult, their childhood years will be well and truly behind them. It could be said that this is to be expected, considering that they will look like an adult.
That phase of their life will be over and it simply won’t be possible for them to ... Views: 271
On one side, there is the internal world, and on the other, there is the external world. The ideal will be for someone to be aware of what is going on within and to be aware of what is going on without.
Through being this way, they will be able to tune with their needs and feelings, and they ... Views: 291
The more self-aware I became...
There was an experience I had in 2010 where my whole life seemed to flash before my eyes. It was like a condensed version of all the things that I had done that were selfish and hurtful. It was so vivid. The interesting part was that during this same period, I ... Views: 251
Journey of self-discovery...
I came across this book in 2012. I was in Federal Prison at the time and was 7 years into my journey of self-discovery. Being able to answer questions about myself, who I am, what makes me do the things that I do…
Fear of letting go
Motives. What drives ... Views: 283
One thing that someone may find, that’s if they are able to mentally detach from how they experience life, is that they don’t feel good about themselves. If they were to take an even closer look, they may see that they feel like a bad person.
Even so, this doesn’t mean that they have the ... Views: 259
Blue hues have long been a favorite choice for bedrooms and living spaces alike. However, the latest market trends depict how this dreamy shade has made way to grace kitchens, like never before.
So, why does everyone wants a touch of blue in their lives?
Well, for starters, blue as a color is ... Views: 133
While there are some men who grew up with a father who did what he could to protect them and to provide them with a sense of safety and security, there are others who had a radically different father. As a result, this would have been someone who they didn’t feel safe around and perhaps did ... Views: 254
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The merchant cash advance industry provides working capital to small and medium-sized businesses in need of financing for reasons such as the purchase of new equipment or inventory, expansion or remodeling, debt or tax payments, or emergency financing. The commercial advance ... Views: 168
If someone was to think about the main thing that the mainstream media was focusing on at the turn of the century, they could think about terrorism. What could also come to mind is how much of a focus there was on the Middle East.
Further, it could occur to them that thanks to what this ... Views: 262
If someone was asked to talk about some of the biggest global challenges, they could mention the things that most people are aware of. For example, they could talk about climate change, poverty, inequality, and terrorism.
These are the challenges that are often highlighted by the mainstream ... Views: 250
If instead of doing what they usually do, someone was to take a step back and to reflect on their life, they may see that it has been one big struggle. Nonetheless, this is not to say that they won’t have ever experienced good things or have good things in their life.
There is the chance that ... Views: 302
Two Types of Self-Awareness and Tips to Be More Self-Aware
By Kara McDuffee
The benefits of self-awareness are endless. Studies have proven that self-awareness leads to more success, stronger relationships, and better decision-making. Being self-aware also allows us to manage our emotions ... Views: 323
Although someone’s early years will have left a big impact on their whole being, it doesn’t mean that they will realise this. In fact, they might not even think about what took place at this stage of their life.
Still, their body, their inner world and their view of the world could all ... Views: 224
What someone may find, that’s if they were to take a step back and to reflect on their life, is that they find it hard to assert themselves. This won’t just relate to standing their ground and saying no, though; the usual things that are associated with this expression.
No, it will relate to ... Views: 242
For as far back as one can remember, they may see that they have had the inclination to save or rescue others. As a result of this, they will be used to being there for others and doing what they can to ‘help’ them.
For so long, it would have seemed as though they were doing the right thing, ... Views: 336
By taking a step back and thinking about how some of the people in their life behave, one could come to the conclusion that they are very different. The reason for this is that one could see these people as being very emotional.
If they were to describe themselves, they could say that they ... Views: 265
If someone was to take a step back and to look at their life, they may see that they have the tendency to please others. Therefore, instead of paying attention to their own needs and acting as an individual, they will act as though they are merely an extension of others.
After having behaved ... Views: 259
Each person has a way of spending their free time or weekends. Some spend it outdoors and others just stay home and probably read a book. Others spend their weekends watching movies at home. As people get busier and busier every day, their movie-watching habits change as well. If you ever loved ... Views: 122
After living a pretty miserable existence for many, many years, someone may come to see that feeling powerless is a normal part of their life. This means that they are unlikely to feel this way from time to time, they can more or less always feel this way.
If they don’t feel this way, based ... Views: 258
When it comes to something that someone fears, there are at least two things that they can do. One option is for them to face what they fear and resolve it; another option is for them to avoid what they fear and to try to make sure that what they fear doesn’t take place.
Not only can someone ... Views: 247
After many, many years of pain, one could find that they have the need to keep people at a distance. At this point, it will be clear that it is not other people; it will be the person who they see whenever they look in the mirror.
But, although they will now understand that they are the ones ... Views: 309
After having been out of touch with their needs for as long as they can remember, one could now be in a position where they have decided that enough is enough. Perhaps the pain of living in this way has got too much for them to handle.
Now, this doesn’t mean that they will be out of touch ... Views: 297
Birmingham City produced a huge surprise by beating Arsenal in the Carling Cup final at Wembley Stadium to win their first major trophy since 1963. Arsenal, who have not had a trophy since 2005, were the firm favorites to win the cup before the game. taking into account their high position in ... Views: 119
Now that some, or all, of the structure from someone’s life has been removed, they could be in a very bad way. In a way, it could be as though they were on solid ground and now they are trying to keep their head above water.
To be clearer, their emotional self will be all over the place and ... Views: 283
Playing poker takes more than just passion and betting money. You also need to have a strategy in order to win. In fact, no poker player worth their name ever goes to a poker game without a strategy in place.
Strategies on winning online gambling games
Online gambling is a favorite ... Views: 307
Goalkeeper
Arsenal have been blessed with great goalkeepers like David Seaman, Jimmy Rimmer, John Lukic, Bob Wilson and Jens Lehmann. But I have chosen Pat Jennings. Not only was he excellent with 1-handed parries, but he was also quite adept at making leg parries.
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When it comes to what someone fears as an adult, it might not seem as though it has got anything to do with their early years. In fact, one might struggle to remember most of what took place during their early years.
Consequently, when it comes to what they fear, it could seem as though these ... Views: 298
If someone was to watch an old black and white film, they could describe it as being a bit one-dimensional. There will be two colours, black and white, and there will even be some grey, but that will be it.
After this, they could end up watching a film that has recently been released, with it ... Views: 321
On one side, there is receiving, and, on the other, there is giving. Now, although it would be easy to say that each of these elements is as important as each other, this is not the case.
One of these things is more important than the other and this is because if one of them doesn’t take ... Views: 338
For some people, their early years were a time when they received what they needed to receive in order to become a resilient, integrated and secure adult. Thanks to what took place during this stage of their life, their adult years may be pretty ‘normal’.
So, they could have gone through the ... Views: 314