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The Most Common form of Abuse Experienced by Christian Women in MarriageIs Divorce Harder for Christians than for Everyone Else?What God and the Bible Really Say About Divorce- Go for Gold: 5 ways to avoid the divorce courts and head towards 50 golden years - by Submitted on Apr 02, 2012 from Susan (Teacher Su) McKenzieWhat are you headed towards? The divorce courts or your golden wedding anniversary? BLESSED MARRIAGE BLESSING B: Bonds of love need to be reinforced to keep the bonds strong, stronger and the strongest. L: Loving, long marriages are revered by society when we celebrate silver, golden and ...
Views: 1350 - The Real Divorce: Cutting The Ties That Bind - by Submitted on Nov 17, 2009 from Shelley StileYour divorce decree is only step one in moving into a new life after divorce. The real divorce is the cutting of the emotional, mental and physical ties that still bind you to your ex-husband. This is the real work of divorce recovery: becoming a single woman possessed of confidence, ...
Views: 1349 - How to get over a breakup - by Submitted on Oct 20, 2011 from M.Farouk RadwanBroken hearted? Don’t worry, here 10 things that you can do in order to recover in few days: 1) Kill uncertainty: People usually accept death faster than they accept breakups because when it comes to death people are 100 percent sure that the dead person cant return back once again, in short ...
Views: 1348 - How to Bypass the Road to Divorce - by Submitted on Feb 15, 2011 from Phyllis GoldbergAre you and your partner worried about money in these uncertain times? During any economic crisis, couples have to face tough financial decisions. This can lead to an increase in stress and aggravate problems that already exist in your marriage. As you look back to when you first met, what ...
Views: 1347(4 votes) - Child Custody in Divorce Cases. Should You Make It A Fight? - by Submitted on Apr 17, 2012 from James GarrettChild custody issues are by far the most emotionally charged aspects of any divorce case. In no other area do the decisions made by you, by your spouse, or by the judge have a more lasting impact than those affecting the lives and future of your children. When faced with issues of child custody ...
Views: 1345(1 vote) - Divorce Preparation – Assessing Your Financial Condition - by Submitted on Aug 31, 2009 from David KaneOne of the situations that we see in many family situations is where one spouse is the primary caretaker of the financial obligations for the family. That person may have been in charge of paying the bills, setting up the investment accounts, making investment decisions (stocks, bonds, real ...
Views: 1345(2 votes) - Holiday Blues - by Submitted on Dec 24, 2012 from Diana Weiss-WisdomDear Dr. Diana, Last year, the holidays were a time of great sadness for me. It was the first Christmas and New Year that I have experienced on the heels of a terrible divorce. I was in love with my husband and didn’t want the divorce. A couple of months ago I started feeling better than I ...
Views: 1344(1 vote) - Post-Divorce Alimony in Texas - by Submitted on Mar 22, 2005 from Scott MorganTwo Kinds of Alimony: Contractual and Court Ordered maintenance There are two kinds of post-divorce alimony in Texas: contractual alimony and court ordered maintenance. The Texas Family Code also provides authority for the court to order temporary alimony which occurs while a divorce is ...
Views: 1344 - 5 Most Common Questions about Divorce - by Submitted on Sep 04, 2013 from Eric C. CheshireNot a day goes by without at least one or more of these questions. We hope this list will help you in your decision. 1) Is my spouse entitled to half of everything I own? Generally speaking, yes. Most assets acquired during the marriage are considered marital property and are subject to ...
Views: 1343(1 vote) - Anger ~ It's What's For Dinner - by Submitted on Feb 22, 2012 from Laura SmithAnger - it's a dirty word, isn't it? After all, if you've got too much, you may have to participate in "Anger Management." Being described as "angry" implies something deep, dark and heavy going on inside. When it's used to describe someone, it's NOT a compliment. Ralph Waldo Emerson said, ...
Views: 1343 - Divorce: Pain and Rebirth - by Submitted on Nov 17, 2009 from Shelley StileThose of us who have gone through a divorce understand all too well the pain and grief we experience. We have lost our spouse, what we thought was our life partner, a loss similar to the death of a loved one. What is worse though, is losing all the many aspects of a life lived together as a ...
Views: 1342 - Whether You Stay or Walk, Love Well - by Submitted on Oct 22, 2009 from Jan DeniseINSIDE RELATIONSHIPS BY JAN DENISE RELEASE: FRIDAY, OCTOBER 23, 2009 Whether You Stay or Walk, Love Well (SET ITAL) I hate to give up on our relationship, but to stay feels like giving up on my dreams. (END ITAL) To walk away from what we hoped -- and promised -- would last forever is ...
Views: 1342(5 votes) - Advantages to Doing Your Own Divorce - by Submitted on Apr 21, 2009 from Ed ShermanThere are many advantages to doing your own divorce. Three significant ones are: you'll get a better divorce, you'll save a lot of money, and you'll be able to keep things simple. Getting a good divorce Studies show that active participation in your divorce is the single most important factor ...
Views: 1340 - Believe It Or Not You Can Learn 5 Valuable Lessons From Divorce - by Submitted on Mar 05, 2013 from Carol FergusonDivorce teaches a person many things. Some people take themselves to a place that makes them bitter. People lose a lot in divorces and that’s not just personal materials. A person will lose a piece of himself or herself through the process of divorce. You should know that when you go through a ...
Views: 1340 - Can You Still Win Your Ex Back? - Signs That Your Ex Is Still Interested In You! - by Submitted on May 11, 2011 from Charles UadialeThe pain of coping with a broken up can at times feel intolerable. Ending a relationship with a person you adore can at times lead to hurt and depression. If you still have strong feelings for them and are desperate to win your ex back forever, there is still hope! Knowing the signs that your ...
Views: 1340 - Child Support: Why Don’t People Pay? - by Submitted on Oct 29, 2010 from Brian JamesAs a mediator, I work with many couples who must agree upon a Child Support amount that makes sense to them and benefits their children the most. In the State of Illinois, where I practice, Child Support is based on a fixed percentage of the giver's "net" income. The more children you have, ...
Views: 1340 - Divorced Dads Tips: Problems & Solutions During Christmas And Other Holidays - by Submitted on Jan 27, 2008 from Danny GuspieDISCLAIMER: The following is NOT legal advice, nor is it a substitute for legal advice. If you are in Family Court you will need legal advice, so please see a lawyer. Divorced dads face many problems during Christmas and other holidays with their children. But there are solutions. Let me share ...
Views: 1340 - Problem Marriage Married To Someone With Low Self-Esteem: How To Support A Partner With Low Self Esteem - by Submitted on May 22, 2018 from John BraxtonProblem Marriage Married To Someone With Low Self-Esteem: How To Support A Partner With Low Self Esteem When a wife has low self-esteem it is very probable that there will be marital problems. Self esteem issues can contribute to infidelity, child or spousal abuse, divorce or financial ...
Views: 1340 - Getting Back Together With Your Ex - by Submitted on Jun 06, 2010 from Sean FoleyYou have had a fight and quarreled with your ex over something and now you have had a break up..! Was it worth it? You and your partner love each other mad but these quarrels have been getting out of hand and finally the moment came when you called quits. It is only wise that you work on getting ...
Views: 1339(1 vote) - For Relationship Success, Clear the Decks - by Submitted on Jun 02, 2017 from Marcia Naomi BergerIf you have unfinished business about a former relationship, you're not alone. Many of us enter a new relationship before really completing a former one. However, it’s important to gain a sense of closure about a past relationship in order to succeed in a new one. Closure, in the ...
Views: 1337 - How Divorce Affects Retirement - by Submitted on Sep 10, 2012 from Tom StutzmanThere are few things that can negatively affect your retirement plans more than a divorce in a community property state like California. If you face a divorce, there are many aspects of your short-term and long-term finances that must be worked out between you and your ex, either in the courts ...
Views: 1337 - I Don't Love My Husband but I Can't Leave: Why Can't I Leave My Husband - by Submitted on Jun 02, 2018 from John BraxtonI Don't Love My Husband but I Can't Leave: Why Can't I Leave My Husband You don't love your husband anymore and you want to save your marriage. If you are a woman in this situation you may feel as though you are facing a future in a loveless relationship. Many women find that their feelings ...
Views: 1335 - My Husband Never Does Anything Romantic: My Husband Is Not Thoughtful - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2018 from Jennifer SageMy Husband Never Does Anything Romantic: My Husband Is Not Thoughtful Most often in a relationship, especially marriage, in order to get what you want you've got to give something too. You'll find that if you make the choice to remain calm, refusing to be drawn into bickering or any type of ...
Views: 1335 - Are Guys More happy After They Divorce? - by Submitted on Feb 16, 2011 from Larry MiltonI was speaking with a acquaintance of mine the other day who was a eager ‘watcher of people' as he names it and he asked me “are guys more content after Separation? He was puzzled as I seemed content and well adjusted (currently), while he knew an extra guy who was totally down and lost his job ...
Views: 1334 - Will A Trial Separation Save Your Marriage Or Should You Get A Divorce? - by Submitted on Apr 19, 2011 from Mika MaddelaThe issue of marriage separation and whether or not it can save your marriage is highly debatable. If you're in marital hell and not in marital bliss you're probably considering on getting a divorce. You may want to think about getting separated as a test run instead of ending your relationship ...
Views: 1334 - How to Get Over a Guy You See Everyday - 5 Strategic Steps You Don't Know - by Submitted on Jul 01, 2015 from Alex J. StevensonSo you loved someone from the bottom of your heart, but he didn’t care about it. Or maybe you just got a devastating breakup. Either situation sucks, doesn’t it? However, do you know that it isn’t end of the world? There is a high possibility that you will find someone better than that ...
Views: 1333(1 vote) - My Wife Is Irritated With Me All The Time: My Wife Is Constantly Irritated With Me - by Submitted on Jun 28, 2018 from Henry JosephMy Wife Is Irritated With Me All The Time: My Wife Is Constantly Irritated With Me Everyone has some small habits that are bound to drive the people closest to them a little batty. It may be the foot tapping that never ends or perhaps it's the talking loudly when all you want is peace and ...
Views: 1333 - How to forgive someone? - by Submitted on Oct 21, 2010 from Dia ThabetHow to forgive someone? Do you forgive your friends when they hurt you? Do you remember the positive or the negative from your friends? How can you forgive someone? Many people want to learn how to forgive someone whether it is a friend, a family member, or colleague, but find it hard to ...
Views: 1331(4 votes) - Husband Not Attracted To Me After Baby: How To Attract Husband After Delivery - by Submitted on Jan 12, 2021 from Weston BrantleyHusband Not Attracted To Me After Baby: How To Attract Husband After Delivery Is it unreasonable for your husband to want a sexy wife? What if you just had a baby and it seems like an impossible task to lose that baby belly? You may be thinking, "He should love me just as I am!" The stress of ...
Views: 1331 - It's time to Adapt Your Adaptations - by Submitted on Jul 21, 2012 from Karen FinnAs human beings we have a remarkable capacity to adapt to our environment. Usually, we make adaptations because they help us feel better in some way. I like to think of the natural personalities we're born with as being like an amoeba - not well defined, kinda free-form and readily changeable to ...
Views: 1331 - Overcoming Depression Post-Divorce - A Mans Perspective - by Submitted on Feb 16, 2011 from Larry MiltonCoping With Depression After Divorce for Men can be a difficult thing when everyone seems to have turned against you. I know a couple of months after my separation, after I finally realised that this was not going to go away I fell into a state of extreme sadness that it seemed would never leave ...
Views: 1331 - 5 Principles of Happiness After Divorce - by Submitted on Mar 01, 2011 from Iris FanningMost people are a bit "shell shocked" and anxious after a divorce. Good judgement often is lacking during this time. Learn 5 simple principles to remember so that you can come out of your divorce as a happy, healthy person. Refer to these simple principles when you feel shaky about your future ...
Views: 1330(4 votes) - How to be strong - by Submitted on Apr 28, 2012 from sheron blakeI sat on the hospital bed, whilst the kind nurse was stitching up the left eye well the eyebrow where the blow had made contact and then that was when 10 years of hate had come to the surface...."I want to report an offence", the young nurse looked down at me and nodded and left me there I knew ...
Views: 1330 - Divorced or Separated With Kids? Here Are 3 Tips for Helping Them Through This Holiday Season - by Submitted on Dec 22, 2015 from Michael BroderThe holiday season seems to come upon us earlier and earlier each year. Even before Thanksgiving, I started to notice all of the signs -- colorful lights strung in front of houses, a glimpse of lit trees through windows and cheerful holiday tunes on the radio. Along with the high spirits the ...
Views: 1329 - Get Your Man Back Following These Simple Step By Step Advices - by Submitted on Oct 23, 2012 from Devango BobsIts likely that you have arrived at this article at this time simply because you need to find out ways to get your man back. Clearly you have arrived at the right spot. The truth is that this information is somewhat lengthy but when you simply commit your 10 mins of your time to read through.... ...
Views: 1328(1 vote) - How Can I Tell If My Child Needs Therapy Through Our Divorce? - by Submitted on Mar 07, 2008 from Lois NightingaleMany adults now acknowledge the benefit of a supportive professional as they face the challenges a divorce inevitably brings. But many parents are unsure at what point their child may be exhibiting signs that indicate a need for professional counseling. Many of these signs are similar to the ...
Views: 1326 - Divorce Survival: Seven Surefire Ways To Ensure that Your Friends Get Caller I.D. And Block Your Calls! - by Submitted on Oct 27, 2007 from linda lipshutzDivorce Survival: Seven Surefire Ways to Ensure that Your Friends Get Caller I.D. and Block Your Calls Now, let's be clear about one thing. If you are going through a divorce, I absolutely understand that this is a very trying time in your life. You deserve to have a huge amount of sympathy ...
Views: 1325 - Get Back Your Ex Husband – Learn How To Get Back With Your Ex Husband - by Submitted on Apr 16, 2011 from Kevin TeoAre you trying to get back your ex husband, but yet you hadn’t a clue what to do? Here are four different tips you can use to start getting him back to your life and your family. Cook For Him The first thing you can do to get back your ex husband is to cook for him. There’s a saying ...
Views: 1325 - Tired of your divorce drama? Here's how to ditch it! - by Submitted on Jun 19, 2017 from Martha BodyfeltPsssst, wanna know a little divorce secret? Your daily divorce drama is an illusion. Sure, to you, it can feel all too real, but the fact is we get stuck in the drama mud because we have never been been taugt how to break ourselves away from it. People love to tell you to hold your head ...
Views: 1324 - Breakup Survival - by Submitted on Feb 04, 2011 from Deb KluggerSurely divorce or the breakup of a long term relationship is one of the most difficult emotional experiences we have. Recently, I was working with Carrie Ann who had just painfully decided to end her 5 year relationship to Peter. She loved Peter very much. However, she had reached the ...
Views: 1322(3 votes) - Making Room - by Submitted on Apr 21, 2011 from Meghan GehanYou have to be willing to let go of the life you’ve planned in order to have the life you were meant to have. ~ Joseph Campbell This week, while my boys are with their dad on a fancy Caribbean cruise, I will be home, cleaning my house from top to bottom, inside and out, in that yearly ...
Views: 1322(2 votes) - How To Stop My Wife From Leaving: How To Convince Your Wife To Stay With You - by Submitted on Oct 08, 2021 from Baker JackHow To Stop My Wife From Leaving: How To Convince Your Wife To Stay With You Your wife wants out and you do not know what to do, obviously you still care for her or you would not be asking this question. You are determined to save your marriage, but are lost as to what should you rightly do. ...
Views: 1319 - Sick of being bitter after divorce? Help is here! - by Submitted on Jul 10, 2017 from Martha BodyfeltWhen we are experiencing or recovering from divorce after 50, remembering to find joy in everyday things can be difficult. One of the reasons that, despite our best efforts, we can find it almost impossible to move on is when we are prisoner to one of the ugliest feelings of all. Being bitter ...
Views: 1319 - Divorce - by Submitted on Nov 11, 2010 from Womens Recreation, Inc.In today’s society divorce is prevalent. Either you’ve gone through a divorce, been a product of divorced parents, or you know someone that has gone through a divorce. In the divorce environment a child can feel the hurt and pain as they watch the power struggle take shape. Sometimes as ...
Views: 1318(2 votes) - Letting Go After Divorce - by Submitted on Jun 05, 2011 from Wendy MacKayAt what point do you just let go after divorce? The emotional over whelm can become life consuming with legal issues, child custody battles and financial transitioning. What about the feelings of loss, how and when do you let go of it all? Divorce, as we all know, affects everyone involved. ...
Views: 1318(2 votes) - My Husband Spends All Our Money On Himself: All My Husband Cares About Is Money - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2018 from Jennifer SageMy Husband Spends All Our Money On Himself: All My Husband Cares About Is Money One of the most common causes of arguments between couples is disagreements over money, mostly about how it should be spent, or not spent. Arguments over money generally fall into two general areas, differences in ...
Views: 1317 - Out of the fire and into the frying pan. 5 points to think about before you marry and divorce - by Submitted on Apr 05, 2012 from Susan (Teacher Su) McKenzieSET FORMULA FOR A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE I don’t have a guaranteed formula for a successful marriage but I do have some ideas on how to make a successful life which includes being reasonably happily married. These are principles and ideas taught to me by my mother who has never divorced. She has ...
Views: 1317 - "Divorce Reasons; What Constitutes A Viable Reason For Thinking About Or Wanting A Divorce?" - by Submitted on May 01, 2004 from Karl AugustineAccording to the Center for Disease Control's National Vital Statistics Report of 2002, 50% of first marriages ended in divorce and 60% of remarriages end in divorce. But, the Center for Disease Control also found that 96% of Americans express a personal desire for marriage, and almost ...
Views: 1316 - The Rocky Road to Recovering from Divorce - by Submitted on Oct 21, 2009 from Annie O'NeillDivorce is one of the most traumatic things that can happen to you. Coping with the loss of a partner is incredibly hard and quite often friends and family won’t understand what you’re going through. Whether you’re the ‘dumper’ or the ‘dumpee’ (I apologise for the horrible terms but they ...
Views: 1316(1 vote) - My Husband Cheated On Me But Says He Loves Me: Is My Husband Going To Be Content With Our Marriage After His Affair - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2020 from Kelly LaceyMy Husband Cheated On Me But Says He Loves Me: Is My Husband Going To Be Content With Our Marriage After His Affair Forgiving someone for cheating on you is never an easy task. The feelings of hurt, betrayal and seemingly endless pain can get in the way of honest healing. In this article, I ...
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