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- I Do But Not With You - by Submitted on Dec 09, 2009 from Delete DeleteWhy your man is stalling commitment, and what you can do to set him straight. As a spiritual counselor, I've been asked this question many times: How can I make my man commit? The cold truth is that you can't. You can't make someone do anything that they don't want to. Well, you can, but ...
Views: 1448(3 votes) - I Don't Need a Man - by Submitted on Mar 19, 2013 from Joyce Dolberg RoweWhen a woman has been hurt deeply she sometimes develops a strong, tough, or negative attitude about relationships and trust in general. If she stays single for a long time, she may tend to believe that she can only rely on herself to the exclusion of all others. She can go so far overboard ...
Views: 1074(2 votes) - I Love You, You’re Perfect, Now Change - by Submitted on Nov 21, 2011 from Kelly ChicasHow often have you heard the phrase “opposites attract”? This principle is based on the idea that we are attracted to other people not because they are similar to us, but because they possess certain talents, skills, and qualities we lack. When we are fascinated with someone, we often hope ...
Views: 1149(2 votes) - I Need Something That’ll Work – Hurry! - by Submitted on Aug 26, 2009 from Dr. Dennis NederDear Dr. Neder: I’m a senior in high school and there’s this really cute girl in my psych class. I want to find a way to talk to her or get her to notice me or something but I don’t know how. Most stuff online would say to see her outside of class and just walk up and say something like, ...
Views: 1318(1 vote) - I Want To Get Married - You Truly Don't Have To Mislead Your Boyfriend To Wangle A Proposal - by Submitted on May 25, 2012 from Tony CimbaYou don't have to put a great deal of exertion into getting your boyfriend to want to marry you. You genuinely shouldn't have to hoodwink your boyfriend to finagle a proposal. A permanent relationship focuses on two individuals that share the same beliefs and love one another. As a matter of ...
Views: 1609(3 votes) - I Want to Sext with my Ex. - by Submitted on Feb 01, 2016 from Madeline FosterA divorce, separation or formal break up is a tough situation that people find themselves in everyday. There are always hard feelings between the parties involved and anger or hurt feelings can sometimes take over common sense. With mobile phones and SMS text messaging things can turn ugly ...
Views: 2424(2 votes) - If Your Man Is Distant Read This - Relationship Advice for Women - by Submitted on May 17, 2011 from Sarah MichaelsThis woman is experiencing the pain of her man withdrawing from her, and wondering what she can do to turn her relationship around. Let’s read her story, and then I will explain what this woman can do as Rori Raye has taught us in Have the Relationship You Want…. I have been seeing this guy I ...
Views: 8454(2 votes) - Importance of the Dating Advice Online - by Submitted on May 23, 2012 from Max WardThe on the internet press these days has indeed obtained a lot of reputation among the individuals. There are a lot of elements that individuals want to do on the web such as discovering their dram relationship associate. There are a lot of on the internet flirt websites that have popped up ...
Views: 716(2 votes) - Improving Confidence through Online Dating - by Submitted on Nov 03, 2012 from Joshua PompeyOne of the toughest parts about being single if you are a male is going out and meeting women. Women are beautiful, but they can also be very scary. We've all been in a position at some point in our lives where we are out at a bar and pondering about whether or not we should approach a ...
Views: 1078(2 votes) - Intellectual Emotions - by Submitted on Apr 05, 2010 from David SamuelThis article is a transcript of a talk with a male student. It starts with a discussion of an exercise he has been given and then expands into the subject of the intellectual and emotional centers, feelings and thoughts. He is very shy and lacks self confidence. He has been given the exercise of ...
Views: 6377(9 votes) - Internet Dating 101: Be Proactive and Attract Your Perfect Match - by Submitted on Sep 09, 2011 from Denise Duffield-ThomasI don't think I need to explain, but internet dating is one of the most popular ways to find love. Unless you've got access to an old-fashioned matchmaker, logging on and being matched to other singles is virtually the only sensible option! Why is a life coach writing about internet dating? ...
Views: 3278(3 votes) - Internet Dating: Can I Make It Work? - by Submitted on Jul 11, 2005 from Owen JohnsonInternet Dating: Can I Make It Work? In a word: maybe. But if you want to have any success in online dating, you’re going to have to do something totally different from what all the unsuccessful women are doing. Considering most of them are doing the same stuff and continue doing it even though ...
Views: 756(1 vote) - Internet Relationships: Build Chemistry With Sparkling Conversation - by Submitted on Sep 03, 2008 from Kay HutchinsonCreate a Space for Deep Listening and Sharing Email and online chat provides opportunities to discover communication styles and determine if there is enough chemistry to have a phone conversation or meet in person. In surveying my life coach clients about online dating, they report that they ...
Views: 2193(3 votes) - Introvert to Extrovert : 4 Ways to Take Control of Your Shyness - by Submitted on Jul 23, 2009 from Mark ShepardHave you ever been tongue tied at the thought of approaching an attractive person and introducing yourself? What about feeling awkward and out of place at business or social gatherings? How about hesitating to raise your hand in class or pick up the phone to make a sales call? Before we go ...
Views: 2390(3 votes) - Is It Good To Date A Married Man Who Is Not Happy In His Marriage? - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2011 from Francis NmeribeOut there, there might not be any issues with the question of whether it is good to date a married man who is not happy in his marriage. However, in some religious orders, this is completely unacceptable. Dismissing with a wave of the hand any questions asked by young single adults, no matter ...
Views: 5299(2 votes) - Is it really possible to find love online - by Submitted on Apr 15, 2010 from Dean HopkinsOnline dating sites and social media sites are exploding so is it really possible to find love online or is it just filled with too many cheats liars and scams? Well I have gained a lot of personal experience this last year on this topic and I have spoken to hundreds of people looking to find ...
Views: 2554(6 votes) - Is it Time to Break Up Your Relationship? - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2011 from Suzanne WiebeI like to talk to people for a few sessions, and let them determine why they want to break up. In many cases there are good reasons for the break up. In others, the emotional reasons are superficial leaving regret and pain on both sides after the break up. Sometimes a little ‘house cleaning’ and ...
Views: 1358(3 votes) - Is Technology Really Helpful When It Comes to Relationships? - by Submitted on Apr 12, 2012 from Amanda DiSilvestroAs someone who works in a social media department and spends countless hours per day working with new technology and new websites, it’s nice to get a break. I quickly begin to feel as if my entire life is absorbed by the Internet because I spend so many hours each day looking at the computer ...
Views: 2063(2 votes) - Is the Economy Affecting How Men Date? - by Submitted on Apr 08, 2011 from Kara OhIf you find men not paying much attention to you lately, it might not be you, it might be money worries. With what is going on in the economy men tend to go inward when they are concerned about their finances or their jobs. They aren’t thinking about dating other than maybe to get laid, ...
Views: 1377(1 vote) - Is There Any Benefits To A Rebound Relationship? - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2010 from Yvonne FinnYour first reaction might be to answer the above questions with a resounding "No!" However, before you do, lets define what a "Rebound relationship" is and why people engage in them. If you have broken up with the love of your life and either one or both of you fall into a "rebound ...
Views: 5317(3 votes) - Is Your Partner The Marrying Type Or Not? - by Submitted on May 28, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraWhen two people are in a relationship, it is often because of the love and special bond that they share. Whether or not there is an outright affirmation of commitment, the question of whether the partner is the marrying type or not will somehow cross the mind of anyone involved with another ...
Views: 673(2 votes) - Is Your Relationship on Lockdown With Too Many Rules & Regulations? - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2016 from Christina MichelleTransitioning from “single” to “in a relationship” or “married” has its share of joys and struggles. It seems that when you are single, you long for someone to come home to, someone who’s waiting for your phone call and someone who anticipates the next time they’ll see you again. However, when ...
Views: 3100(2 votes) - It's Saturday Night... Home Alone Again? - by Submitted on Apr 11, 2004 from Giuditta TornettaIt’s Saturday night… Are you home alone again? How long has it been since you have been kissed? Loved? How long since you have felt those butterflies in your heart? We know you don’t need a relationship to feel whole, or complete. You simply would love to share the joy and sorrows of your ...
Views: 5359(1 vote) - I’m Too Picky for Love - by Submitted on Feb 09, 2012 from Cheri ValentineI remember when I thought after two marriages that I would love being single. I could not imagine that I would want to give up my space and freedom again. That was true for a while. Then I realized that deep down I like being coupled, but not for the sake of being with another – I had a strong ...
Views: 1040(1 vote) - Keep Your Mind Open To Find Your Perfect Partner - by Submitted on Jul 02, 2020 from Amanda HarveyTo find your perfect partner you need to keep your mind open and be willing to take a chance. If your expectations are unrealistic, or your requirements are too rigid, you many pass up many opportunities for happiness. Most of us have probably met potential partners that could have really ...
Views: 1183(3 votes) - Killer Conversation Starters To Break The Ice With Women - by Submitted on Sep 25, 2007 from Rod CortezMany men struggle coming up with witty, clever, and entertaining things to use as a conversation starter. Without engaging a woman in conversation then you'll never be able to meet them. Let's say that you see an beautiful woman and you want to sweep her off her feet with the perfect ...
Views: 20319(2 votes) - Law of Attraction: 7 Steps to Create a Fulfilling, Loving Relationship #3 in a series - by Submitted on Nov 11, 2009 from Lorna Sophia LevyGet yourself a nice notebook – one that you can write in and make notes. Let it be one that makes you feel good when you look at it. Then follow the steps below. 1. Make a list of all the qualities you want your partner to have – looks, personality, job, attitudes, etc. Make it as long as ...
Views: 1227(3 votes) - Learn to Overcome Being Shy - by Submitted on Sep 10, 2009 from Royane RealAre you shy? If you are shy, then you are aware that shyness can sometimes be a problem. People who are very shy, miss out on a lot of life. They miss out on relationships, on fun, and on career opportunities. Fortunately, there are treatments. Most of us are shy on some occasions. For ...
Views: 2340(1 vote) - Learning about Yourself While Going on Blind-Dates Will Help You Develop Better Relationships - by Submitted on May 29, 2011 from Doron GilIf you have been going on blind-dates for quite some time now and haven’t yet succeeded in extending a date into a meaningful relationship, you may want to take a careful look at yourself and understand the reasons. OBSERVE YOURSELF WHILE GOING ON A BLIND-DATE Looking at yourself doesn’t ...
Views: 870(1 vote) - Learning to Make Small Talk With Strangers - by Submitted on Aug 24, 2009 from Royane RealDo you find it difficult to make small talk with strangers? Most of us do. Talking with someone we don’t know can make many of us feel very anxious, especially if we happen to be shy. Why is it so hard to make conversation with strangers? When you first talk with a stranger, you don’t know ...
Views: 4658(5 votes) - Lesbian Dating Tips - by Submitted on Feb 02, 2011 from Michele OMara“You can explore the universe looking for somebody who is more deserving of your love and affection than you are yourself, and you will not find that person anywhere.” – Unknown 1. Speak confidently, honestly and well of yourself. Repugnant and worthless won’t get you dates… well, at least ...
Views: 1394(2 votes) - Letting Go of Love - by Submitted on Apr 11, 2011 from Christine Arylo3 ways to feel super loved even when your relationship is ending Most of us have been trained to believe that when a relationship ends, we lose the love of the person who we once felt so loved by. This belief is an instant misery-creating lie that is simply not true. The truth is, love is ...
Views: 1728(1 vote) - Letting Go of Love, Part II - by Note: "He" and "him" is used throughout this article to make for easy reading. However, the article is applicable to both genders, so any "he" can be substituted with "she."
Last week we talked about letting go of a particular kind of past relationship. It was the kind of relationship where ...
Views: 4603(2 votes) - Life Of Boys With Girls - by Submitted on Dec 28, 2009 from Enrique WilkinsonAs the era progresses, more and more children are living lives devoid of exercise and outdoor fun, and scooters are just the thing to get them moving and enjoying life away from a TV screen or computer. Reactions to you, projections, squabbles and interactions with siblings and peers, provide ...
Views: 877(1 vote) - Looking for Love - by Submitted on Aug 13, 2015 from Natalie MooreI was recently in a New York City café, sipping a cappuccino and observing couples at different stages in their relationships. The age-old story: two people meet… and the ritual of courtship ensues. They’re looking for love. Some couples will find “love” for a day. Other couples will create a ...
Views: 740(2 votes) - LOOKING FOR LOVE? Love starts with you - by Submitted on May 22, 2003 from Marguerite TennierYes, I know. You've heard it before. You can't love someone and you can't accept true love in your life unless you love yourself first. It does not apply to you, you say. You already love yourself. Well, do you? Or do you secretly fear that you will not be loved the way you want because you ...
Views: 1660(1 vote) - Love - How To Find , How To Keep It - by Submitted on Jan 31, 2010 from Candace CzarnyThough we hear that all we need is love, why is it so difficult to find the right woman or the right man? While it can seem as though we might never find the perfect person for us, this is far from the reality of relationships. There are many happy couples and many more happy married couples. ...
Views: 856(1 vote) - Love Vs. Attraction- The True Unmasking - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Menno Spijkstra“Anyone can love a rose but it takes a great deal to love a leaf... it is ordinary to love the beautiful, but it is beautiful to love the ordinary...” it’s right what they say about clichés, they tell the truth. Before we decide to get involved into something- may it be in business, in ...
Views: 2833(2 votes) - Low Self-Esteem And Christian Singles - by Submitted on Mar 21, 2011 from Dorian MilonChristian singles the same as other singles can experience low self-esteem, which creates serious barriers when trying to seek a significant other. When one does not think highly of themselves, no one else is going to think highly of them either. Low self-esteem cannot only affect one’s social ...
Views: 2187(1 vote) - Make HER Fall For YOU - by Submitted on Sep 29, 2009 from Chris TylerFellas, knowing how to make a woman fall for you is about the most valuable skill that you can have. Yet, the sad fact is that most guys have no real clues as to how to make a woman fall in love. Even most of the so called expert advice that you see does not produce results in the real ...
Views: 1174(3 votes) - Make Men Fall for You - Being the Woman He Can't Resist - by Submitted on May 01, 2010 from Nicole GayleAre you frustrated and feeling lonely because you're not getting what you want with the man you want? I have good news for you. Today you can learn how to get rid of the obsessive thoughts that make you feel totally hopeless with guys and start to get the results you want. Drawing a ...
Views: 11405(1 vote) - Make Someone Fall In Love With You In 3 Easy Steps - by Submitted on Jun 18, 2008 from Michael LeeTo make someone fall in love with you is a very tedious business. It involves a lot of fact-finding missions, as well as extreme ways to get the person to notice you. This is quite true in both male and female species - even animals do it in the wilds. The process to make someone fall in love ...
Views: 726(1 vote) - Make Women Approach YOU - Ways to Entice and Attract Any Woman You Desire! - by Submitted on Apr 30, 2010 from Chris TylerWant to know if there is a way that you can make women approach you? Most men know what it's like to feel the fear of approach anxiety. It's not easy to get yourself to just walk up to a beautiful and sexy woman without experience a little fear and doubt about how she is going to react to you. ...
Views: 1909(2 votes) - Make Your Difficult Ex Boyfriend Reverse The Breakup - by Submitted on Oct 20, 2016 from Joan RiversMake Your Difficult Ex Boyfriend Reverse The Breakup; Psychological tips on how you can make difficult to handle ex boyfriend reverse a breakup. Men are desirous of pleasure. A complete solution to help you get your ex back into your life is provided at the end of this write-up (Author's ...
Views: 13959(2 votes) - Make Your Ex Boyfriend Desire You So Much - by Submitted on Oct 20, 2016 from Joan RiversMake Your Ex Boyfriend Desire You So Much; If you are one of the thousands of women in the world today who are heart broken because they think the man they love is gone for good, you need to find a way to make him desire you again. Remember when he first met you and couldn't stay away from you? ...
Views: 2930(2 votes) - Make Your Ex Boyfriend See How Much He Needs You - by Submitted on Oct 20, 2016 from Joan RiversMake Your Ex Boyfriend See How Much He Needs You ; The moment your boyfriend breaks up with you is a terrible time in your life, but the next day can be even worse. That's when the shock begins to wear off and you realize exactly what has happened. You have lost the only man you can ever love. ...
Views: 4030(2 votes) - Making a Move? - by Submitted on Mar 17, 2010 from Dr. Dennis NederDr. Neder, My good friend has asked you a few questions and spoke very highly of the advice you've given him and the results he's received. I’ll take his word for it, and try to keep this brief, but I do want to give you the some background. I’m 23 and have a good degree and career. Two ...
Views: 1196(4 votes) - Male Body Language Flirting Signs: Reading A Man’s Body Language To Know If He Likes You - by Submitted on Apr 19, 2009 from Michael LeeDon’t you just wish you can read what men are thinking sometimes? Unless you’re in a movie or a comedy sitcom, that is very unlikely. But if you know how to decipher male body language flirting signs, who needs ESP? There is nothing complicated about reading body language, and interpreting ...
Views: 2915(4 votes) - Male Psychology Works To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back - by Submitted on Oct 20, 2016 from Joan RiversMale Psychology Works To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back; If you have been looking for advice to get your ex boyfriend back, you should be familiar with the term male psychology. You might have thought it sounded complicated and tried some other tactic to get your ex back. However male psychology ...
Views: 6259(2 votes) - Man of My Dreams Versus Answers to My Prayers Series No 1001 - by Submitted on Apr 28, 2010 from Rachael Robertson, Ph D CanidateThere are quite a few people out there looking for congeniality. There are those who pursuance for human beings who share there same code of morals, values and self interest. So here it is!! We go backward and forward; men and women, about what we really want in a companion. We change-over our ...
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