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Bribery vs. Reinforcement
I agree. Bribery does not work. However, parenting experts continue to tell folks to reward their children’s behaviour. The experts talk in terms of “reinforcement” but sometimes the parent hears “bribery” and as such, parents do not want to participate. Parents learn ... Views: 1874
Baby shower is a function hosted to celebrate the birth or the impending birth of a child. Traditionally such functions were organised so that women can share tips and advices on motherhood. The term shower is used here because the expecting mother is showered or rather presented with many baby ... Views: 1871
In our own life experience, we have discovered this to be the ultimate truth. Life is not meant to be difficult, wrought with illness and pain, sorrow and suffering. Life is meant to be fruitful and joyous, in a word, heaven. The universe provides such a full abundance for all, all we need do ... Views: 1869
The most helpful thing you can do at home for your speech delayed child is to make them feel as good as possible about their speech and themselves. Accept whatever you child says and if it is right, you can praise him. If it is wrong, do not continually ask him to correct it. If you ... Views: 1869
Although everyone has their own truth on this planet, it doesn’t mean that each one of them finds it easy to express their truth. And this includes what one says to others and what one says to themselves. There will be things that one needs to say to another or others and there will also be ... Views: 1869
Many parents talk to me with frustration about their children who strew their things throughout the house and then cannot find what they need when they need it. Some of these children have ADHD or a learning disability that we know makes it hard for them to organize stuff. Others are simply ... Views: 1868
What is classed as meaningful can vary from person to person. It is not something that is set in stone or fixed. The meaning that one has in life can change as one grows older and has different experiences.
The countries and cultures of the world can have meanings that are vastly different to ... Views: 1866
During the first few years of one’s life, they are emotionally dependent on their caregivers. And so it is vital that they are not left alone for prolonged periods of time, because if they are left it can be extremely overwhelming and therefore traumatising.
But this doesn’t mean that one’s ... Views: 1863
Do you have to like or love someone to be considerate, kind and courteous? The answer to that question is simply- No.
You can be respectful without agreeing with, or even liking another person. One reason this is such a vital life skill for our children, is for the rest of their lives they ... Views: 1860
When there is an absence of trust in a relationship there is inevitably going to be certain problems that arise. Whereas although there is still going to be problems when trust does exist, there is less chance of jealousy appearing or if it does exist, then its effects will be minimal.
As ... Views: 1859
Fashion is an indispensable part of everyone’s lives today. Living in a fashion conscious world, we cannot afford to stay unaware of fashion trends that are ruling the fashion scene today. Dressing for the occasion is the new code to create that perfect first impression on your potential ... Views: 1856
Of course we want what is best for our children, right? How outrageous the thought of anything contrary to that belief. However, most people commonly remark to their children to "do as I say, not as I do" or "don't do what I did son, take your own path", and other phrases just like this.
We ... Views: 1855
While having emotional stability is the ideal, it is not something that everyone can relate to. But this doesn’t mean that the people who do experience emotional stability are always stable and go through life unscathed.
To be human means that we are emotional beings and so unless one has ... Views: 1854
Oppositional Defiant Disorder is a real condition that children can be cultivated, but the good thing is, there's help. The main thing to effective raising a child of the difficult child, is knowing. Knowing the methods that work well, those who don't, the actions and attitudes to stop, and the ... Views: 1852
The desire for enrichment classes geared towards babies and toddlers have become very popular in the United States. Teaching sign language to children as young as 6 months, and in some cases younger, is a growing industry, and the demand for baby-signing videos and classes have gone up a over ... Views: 1852
Parents and their children have a complex relationship.
As children progress through the stages of development they are bound to experiment with countless forms of challenging behavior.
What their parents do in response to their behavior operates on the child’s development on many ... Views: 1851
10 BOOKS FOR PARENTS OF HIGHLY SENSITIVE KIDS
by brendadronkers
I have compiled a list of great books for Parent’s of Highly Sensitive Kids.. enjoy!
THE HIGHLY SENSITIVE CHILD
Dr. Elaine Aron
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With the publication ... Views: 1851
A playground is an outdoor area designated for children’s activities. There is a variety of heavy-duty equipment in an open space for children to climb, crawl, dig, slide, jump, hang and run. The function of the playground is to stimulate the child’s physical bodies and get them active and ... Views: 1850
Turn your words into gold, by using enforceable statements without threatening, reminding or nagging your children/teens to do what you ask of them.
Do you as a parent often find yourself repeating yourself to your children/teens?
Do you often find times when you have to be stern, mean or ... Views: 1850
Sometimes when we are little and things go wrong, we think we have to take charge and fix things. We feel it’s up to us to make it better. We think we have to be the big one and we’ll show the adults how to do it. Or we feel like no one else is seeing what a mess things are, or how unsafe things ... Views: 1849
Although there is some controversy in using sign language for a child with severe verbal apraxia, I found it to be extremely useful. Some experts seem to think that non-verbal children with rely only on their signs and not be motivated to speak. In our experience that wasn't the case, using sign ... Views: 1847
Crime graph is increasing day by day and latest trend is criminal activities show that even kids are not spared by unsocial elements. Children face physical abuse in addition to loot and snatching by the goons. In this situation it is mandatory for every parent to care of its child. Ideally ... Views: 1845
Before we talk about team building, we must have a fair idea of the word “Team”. Team is a collection of people, often from Mindfulness and Mood Swings: 7 Secrets For Successful Mood-Watching
I consider myself a pro when it comes to watching mood swings. After all, I've had plenty of my own, and ... Views: 1844
Some of you may have seen the old Bill Murray movie, “What About Bob.” Murray plays a man who is very dependent on his psychiatrist, played by Richard Dreyfus. Dreyfus encourages his patient to make progress in his life by “baby steps.” He has even written a book by that name. It’s a good ... Views: 1843
To see or hear about someone who is being abused in a relationship and yet continues to stay in the relationship is hard to comprehend. Logically it makes no sense whatsoever and sounds completely dysfunctional.
The type of abuse can vary from what may seem to be fairly moderate, to extreme ... Views: 1841
Did you know that anxiety symptoms and disorders are the number one health problem among children and adults in America? Anxiety disorders are more common in children today, than in their parent’s generation. The Anxiety Disorders Association of America states that one in eight children are ... Views: 1839
The Naked Truth about Emotional Intelligence
By Margaret Altman
Nancy came to work the other day in a pretty good mood. It ended when her boss suddenly threw a fit over a simple typo in the first draft of a letter that he had dictated
Red-faced and irate her boss flung the letter on her desk ... Views: 1837
As the summer is slowly approaching and UK sees sunny days more and more often, the online market has many surprises in store for all the lovely mums to make the summer enjoyable and happier than ever before!
Every mum hunts the most fun and good looking kids’ swimsuit every year, to dress ... Views: 1836
Giving up a child for adoption can be an emotionally difficult process. If you're pregnant and thinking about giving your baby up for adoption, you have likely thought long and hard about your options, weighed the consequences of each, and decided that this is the best route for you to ... Views: 1835
There are people who have relationships that are generally: supportive, secure, loving and what could be described as functional. And there are others who are in relationships that are: unhealthy, dysfunctional, disempowering and even abusive.
Functional
Now, for people in the first ... Views: 1834
It’s holiday time and we’re all so excited! We can’t wait for get togethers with the family and out of town guests, holiday shopping, coking and traditions, maybe a visit to Disneyland … tree trimming, carols and New Year’s celebrations with poppers and party hats! What a ball we’re going to ... Views: 1829
They say that the first six years of a child’s life are the most important for learning. Children can learn different languages, and so many other things. It makes you wonder if it’s exposure to different situations or if a parent is just drilling them and turning them into little sponges. ... Views: 1828
Studies and researches have shown that initial five years of a child are the most critical ones from the point of view of learning. Their capacity to learn new things is at its highest ebb during this period. Children of this age group can be compared to a piece of sponge that is ready to absorb ... Views: 1823
Earlier this week I read a summary of a newly published study about the increased prevalence of Attention Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD). The study was conducted by Kaiser Permanente in California and covered a time span from 2001 to 2010. It got me thinking about the diagnosis, its ... Views: 1823
If defence mechanisms were mentioned, it is likely that regression would be spoken about and this is because it is one of the more common ones. But no matter what defence mechanism is used, they all have the same purpose. With the purpose being that they allow one’s mind to avoid the emotional ... Views: 1822
Previously I discussed the WHY of teaching children from babies onward to read. Now I shall discuss the HOW of achieving this in the easiest, fastest and most successful way possible.
You now view teaching your child from a different perspective and are ready to take those first positive steps ... Views: 1821
There are many things parents can do for their children. They can offer lots of activities to facilitate their creative skills , they can explore new places to give their children new exposures, they can provide them with lots of books to read and write, and they can play with them or provide ... Views: 1821
I thought when I chose this topic that I would dash it off quickly, but I found myself doing some research about what we know about how much children in the US use electronic entertainment and the research on what the effects of this are on children. It turns out that we know a lot. We know ... Views: 1821
It is often said that in the very beginning of a relationship, one doesn’t see the other person for who they are, what they see is their own projections. So here, one will create all kinds of associations in their mind and attach these to the other person.
The other person may even posses one ... Views: 1820
Sometimes we women just need a break every now and then. Sometimes if the smallest chore is done for us, it will totally make our day. Sometimes a compliment will carry us through a hard day. Sometimes when we face a challenge we have the self confidence that we need to conquer it. Sometimes ... Views: 1818
How many parents really know how to properly raise their children? I personally believe that there are many parents out there who are really struggling. Just take a walk on the park and try to notice the interaction between the parents and their children. You will hear things like:”Stop that. ... Views: 1815
When ones relationships are running smoothly and have very little, if any, conflicts, one is unlikely to look deeper into them. And this is to be expected, as the need to look deeper generally arises when something is not working. This need could still be there, but it won’t be as strong because ... Views: 1814
Yes, even hackers care what their children do online. As for those who are immersed in the technology industry, their caution concerning the online activities of their children makes sense as well; as people highly invested in tech, they know exactly what lurks on the internet.
Yet not all ... Views: 1813
There are many contributing factors to the development of shyness. Most timid people become that way in childhood or adolescence, which is why it’s reasonable to assume that family and peer groups have a major influence on this.
Of all the people we interact with as children, parents play a ... Views: 1811
It is often said that people shouldn’t have expectations and this is partly because it will cause them to be disappointed or let down. And while this can’t be denied, having expectations is part of life in many ways.
For example: when someone expects more from life, they are likely to ... Views: 1810
One of the greatest joys for any parent is hearing his/her infant child speak for the first time. As Speech Language Pathologists, one of the medical history questions we always ask a parent is, “At what age did your child speak his/her first word?” Without fail the majority of parents can ... Views: 1809
Have you a one year old at home? Do you wonder if your older children can understand the little one’s needs? Here are some ideas of what it might be like to be that age again so you can enter a one year olds world and see it through their eyes.
Now that I am one year old I can do so much ... Views: 1807
ReParenting Children By Art Martin Ph.D. (article #3 in a series on ReParenting)
This is the most critical factor in our culture today. With most children growing up in a dysfunctional family (90%) they do not get a good start in life. If we could set up a method to teach parents what is ... Views: 1803
While some people can stay in abusive relationships and have a hard time leaving, other people can leave an abusive relationship, only to return shortly after. And this is often hard to comprehend. Why would anyone return to something that is clearly dysfunctional and even dangerous?
The ... Views: 1802
Oh yeah! The nine month wait is over! Your new baby is finally here! Now what? It is difficult to imagine that you have brought a new life into this world, isn’t it? You want to give your baby the finest life you can! You have brought a new being into this world, and you will be responsible for ... Views: 1800