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- Mother-Enmeshed Men: Is A Mother-Enmeshed Man’s Brain Stopping Him From Being Able To See Clearly? - by Submitted on Nov 30, 2024 from Oliver JR CooperIf a woman is with a man who is caught up in his mother’s world, she might struggle to understand why he is this way. Not only this but if she has tried to talk to him about this, she might not have gotten very far. At this point, she could believe that he is simply in denial and is, ...
Views: 80 - Relationships: Can The Fear Of Abandonment Cause A Man To Stay In An Abusive Relationship? - by Submitted on Dec 25, 2024 from Oliver JR CooperAt this point in time, a man could be with a woman who is not right for him. Then again, it could go further than this as he could be with a woman who is greatly undermining him. If this is the case, it can be normal for him to be criticised, humiliated, controlled and even hit by her. This ...
Views: 80 - Early Deprivation: Can Someone Be Out Of Touch With Part Of Themselves If They Experienced Early Deprivation? - by Submitted on Dec 20, 2024 from Oliver JR CooperFrom the outside, someone will look whole and compete, but that doesn’t mean they will be whole and complete on the inside. Said another way, it doesn’t mean they will be in touch with all of their consciousness. However, if this is just what is normal, they can be oblivious about what is ...
Views: 79 - Mother-Enmeshed Men: Why Does A Mother-Enmeshed Mans Mother See Him As An Extension Of Herself? - by Submitted on Dec 31, 2024 from Oliver JR CooperIf a man is in a position where he does a lot for his mother and has the tendency to overlook a number of his needs, he could wonder why he is this way. He could see that by living in this way, he is being deprived. As a result of this, it is not possible for him to live a life that is worth ...
Views: 79 - Self-Rejection: Can A Man Reject Himself If He Experienced Early Deprivation? - by Submitted on Dec 09, 2024 from Oliver JR CooperWhat a man may see, if were to step back and reflect on his life is that he is his own worst enemy. So, he could see that he often talks about doing things but seldom takes the next step. Moreover, he could see that he is full of doubt and has the tendency to put up with bad behaviour. As a ...
Views: 79 - Child Abuse: Can Someone Find It Hard To Assert Themselves If They Were Abused As A Child? - by Submitted on Dec 30, 2024 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone were to take step back and reflect on their life, what they may see is that they have the tendency to be easy going. It will then be normal for them to do what other people want and to ignore their own needs. As a result, they will often ignore their thoughts and feelings and do ...
Views: 79 - Mother-Enmeshed Men: Has A Mother-Enmeshed Mans Mother Created The Perfect Slave? - by Submitted on Jan 01, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperWhen a man’s priority is meeting his mother’s needs, not his own, it will show that something is not right. In this case, he will be acting like her parent, which will cause him to neglect himself. Of course, this is not the same as a man helping his mother from time to time, whilst living ...
Views: 78 - Relationships: Why Would A Man Suffer In Silence If He Is Being Abused By A Woman? - by Submitted on Dec 20, 2024 from Oliver JR CooperRight now, a man could be with a woman who is greatly undermining him. This could be something that has been going on for a few weeks or months, or it may have been going on for a number of years. But, regardless of how long he has been in this position, he is unlikely to be in a good way. He ...
Views: 78 - Mother-Enmeshed Men: Is A Mother-Enmeshed Mans Mother Embodying The Neediness That He Had To Disowned? - by Submitted on Jan 20, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperWhen a man is not working, he could often be doing things for his mother. It might not occur to her, either, that there are things that he needs to do and that he might be too busy to do something for her. Therefore, thanks to how caught up she is with her own needs, it will seldom if ever ...
Views: 77 - Self-Activation: Can Early Deprivation Stop Someone From Being Able To Activate Themselves? - by Submitted on Dec 30, 2024 from Oliver JR CooperEven though someone is an individual with their own needs and, thus, life to lead, it doesn’t mean that they will typically act like one. Instead, they can have the tendency to act as though they are an extension of others. Thanks to this, it will be normal for them to go along with what ...
Views: 77 - Child Abuse: Can Someone Believe That They Are Worthless If They Were Abused As A Child? - by Submitted on Dec 09, 2024 from Oliver JR CooperDeep down, someone can have the sense that they are worthless. However, even if this is something that is outside of their couscous awareness, it doesn’t mean that it won’t have a big impact on their life. So, there can be the impact that this has on their inner world and on their outer ...
Views: 76 - Early Deprivation: Can Early Deprivation Stop Someone’s From Being Able To Embrace Life? - by Submitted on Jan 06, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperWhat someone may find, if they were to step back and reflect on their life, is that they have the tendency to live a very restrictive life. This can mean that they have had the same job or done the same thing for years, might rarely venture beyond where they live, and when they see their ...
Views: 76 - Mother Wounds: Can A Man Feel Comfortable With One-Sided Relationships If He Had A Self-Absorbed Mother? - by Submitted on Jan 09, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperIf a man were to step back and reflect on his life, what he may find is that he has the tendency to be in relationships that are out of balance. These will then be relationships where he is giving a lot but receiving very little. Thanks to what they have been like, he could be well and truly ...
Views: 76 - Mother Wounds: Can A Man Have A Negative View Of Himself If He Had An Abusive Mother? - by Submitted on Jan 06, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperIf a man were to talk to another person about how he sees himself, they could struggle to understand why he sees himself in this way. The reason for this is that he could believe that he is worthless and unlovable. He could end up being told that these are just beliefs and that they don’t ...
Views: 76 - True Self: Can Early Deprivation Cause Someone To Hide Their True Self? - by Submitted on Jan 03, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone were to take a step back and reflect on how they behave, what might soon enter their mind is that they have the inclination to play a role when they are around others. So, this could mean that they typically come across as easy-going and do what they can to please others. As a ...
Views: 76 - Mother Wounds: Can A Man Feel Uncomfortable Being Treated Well By Women If He Had An Abusive Mother? - by Submitted on Jan 09, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperWhat a man may see is that when he is treated well by a woman, he ends up feeling uncomfortable. As a result of this, he can wonder why he is unable to feel at ease when this takes place. So, if he were to think about when he last dated a woman or was in a relationship with a woman who ...
Views: 75 - Mother Wounds: Can A Man Have The Need To Please Others If He Had An Emotionally Unstable Mother? - by Submitted on Dec 30, 2024 from Oliver JR CooperWhat a man may find, if he were to step back and reflect on his life, is that he has the tendency to focus on other people’s needs and to do what he can to please them. This can be what takes place when he is at work, around friends and is in an intimate relationship. As a result of this, he ...
Views: 75 - Relationships: Why Would A Woman Shame A Man For Expressing How He Feels? - by Submitted on Dec 24, 2024 from Oliver JR CooperIf a woman is in a relationship, what she may find is that she has criticised her boyfriend at least once for opening up about how he feels. Thanks to this, he might have withdrawn and become less available. However, if she were to think about how she behaved, what could enter her mind is ...
Views: 75 - Early Deprivation: Can Someone Have A Fear Of Falling Apart If They Experienced Early Deprivation? - by Submitted on Dec 13, 2024 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone were to step back and reflect on their life, what they may find is that it is a very repetitive life. So, they could work during the week, go shopping a few times, watch TV in the evening, and perhaps see a friend or two. Regardless of if they live in this way or a way that is very ...
Views: 74 - Relationships: Should A Man Stay Single If He Has A Fear Of Being Abandoned? - by Submitted on Dec 31, 2024 from Oliver JR CooperIf a man were to step back and reflect on his life, what he may see is that he is more or less always in a relationship. So, after he has broken up with a woman, he might only be single for a few weeks or months. Assuming that this is the case, he could believe that he just prefers to be in a ...
Views: 74 - Early Deprivation: Can Early Deprivation Cause Someone To Lose Touch With Their Need To Connect With Others? - by Submitted on Jan 20, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperEven though someone is an interdependent human being, it doesn’t mean that they will act like one. Instead, they can typically act as though they don’t need others and are completely independent. The reason for this is that they could spend a lot of time by themselves and not reach out to ...
Views: 73 - Mother-Enmeshed Men: Would A Mother-Enmeshed Man’s Mothers Higher Self Be Pleased If He Broke Away From Her? - by Submitted on Jan 18, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperWhat a man may see, if he is overly focused on his mother and is overlooking a number of his own needs is that he has turned his back on himself. It could go further than this, though, as he could see that she expects him to be there for her. Therefore, what could enter his mind is that ...
Views: 73 - Mother-Enmeshed Men: Is A Mother-Enmeshed Man Trying To Emotionally Attach To His Mother? - by Submitted on Jan 10, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperIf a man spends a lot of time doing things for his mother and his own life is not his priority, he is unlikely to have much of a life. This is then going to be different to how it would be if he was there for her from time to time while being focused on his own life. If this was the case, he ...
Views: 72 - Music: Can Music Allow Someone To Avoid How They Feel? - by Submitted on Jan 02, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone wanted to listen to music, they could listen to the same style that they listened to last time. Then again, they could listen to a style that is totally different to what they last listened to. Either way, when it comes to what they do listen to, it is likely to be a style that has ...
Views: 72 - Early Deprivation: Can Someone Treat Themselves Like An Object If Their Parent Treated Them Like One? - by Submitted on Jan 24, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperEven though someone is a human being who has needs and feelings, it doesn’t mean that they will act like one. Instead, they can act more like a machine that exists to perform one or a number of functions. But, if behaving in this way is just what is normal, they might not be aware of what is ...
Views: 71 - Mother-Enmeshed Men: Is A Mother-Enmeshed Man Stuck In An Emotionally Dependent State? - by Submitted on Jan 13, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperWhat a man could wonder, if he were to see that he is overly focused on his mother and her needs, is why he is like this. He might see that behaving in this way is causing him to neglect himself and his own life. But, although this will be the case, he could find that he is not able to simply ...
Views: 71 - Mother Wounds: Why Would A Man Be Attracted To Emotionally Unstable Women? - by Submitted on Dec 09, 2024 from Oliver JR CooperIf a man were to step back and reflect on his life, what might stand out is that he has been with a number of women who were not very stable. These women would then have often been all at sea emotionally. As a result, when he was with a woman like this, he would have probably spent a lot of ...
Views: 70 - Early Deprivation: Can Early Deprivation Cause Someone To Have A Closed Mind? - by Submitted on Jan 04, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperAlthough there are people who are very open-minded, there are others who aren’t. When someone is open-minded, they can not only be open to new ideas and views, but they can also be open to new experiences. Thanks to this, no matter what they believe or how they see things, they will be ...
Views: 69 - Mother Wounds: Can A Man Be Attracted To Women Who Will Betray Him If He had An Abusive Mother? - by Submitted on Jan 13, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperRecently, a man may have found out that the woman he is in a relationship with has cheated on him. Then again, he might have found out that she is having an affair and that this has been going on for a little while. Alternatively, he might have told her something and asked her to keep it to ...
Views: 67 - Mother-Enmeshed Men: Is A Mother-Enmeshed Man Carrying Split-Off Infantile Parts? - by Submitted on Jan 13, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperEven though a man will be here to live his own life, if he is focused on his mother’s needs and does what he can to please her, this is not going to be possible. His life will be of secondary importance, whilst his mother’s life will be of primary importance. If he is aware of this, he can be ...
Views: 67 - Mother-Enmeshed Men: Is A Mother-Enmeshed Mans Mother A Reflection Of What He Needs To Resolve? - by Submitted on Jan 23, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperIf a man is in a position where he spends a lot of time doing things for his mother and neglects himself, he could believe that his mother is the problem. Therefore, if it wasn’t for her, he would be able to live his own life. Due to this, he could come to the conclusion that until she ...
Views: 67 - Mother Wounds: Can A Man Find It Hard To Attach To A Woman If He Had An Emotionally Unstable Mother? - by Submitted on Jan 20, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperOver the years, a man may have walked away from a number of women just as things were starting to get serious. Then again, this might have been something that has only taken place on one occasion. However, regardless of how many times he has had this experience, he might not want to have this ...
Views: 65 - Early Deprivation: Can Early Deprivation Cause A Woman To Be Drawn To OnlyFans? - by Submitted on Jan 18, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperAfter being a model for a little while and/or a cam girl, a woman might join OnlyFans. In the beginning, she might only share naked pictures of herself but as time passes, she can take things further. Thanks to what she is doing, she could be earning far more than she ever has before. ...
Views: 64 - Mother-Enmeshed Women: What Is A Mother-Enmeshed Woman? - by Submitted on Jan 24, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperWhat a woman may find, if she were to step back and reflect on her life, is that even though she is a grown woman, she doesn’t act like one. Instead, she is more like a little girl who is dependent on her mother and incapable of living her own life. This could mean that she still lives with ...
Views: 64 - Mother-Enmeshed Men: Can A Mother-Enmeshed Man Fall Into Self-Pity? - by Submitted on Jan 20, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperWhat a man may find, if he is overly focused on his mother and neglects himself, is that he has the tendency to feel down. But, as he will spend a lot of time ignoring himself, this is to be expected. If he were to take a closer look at what takes place when he feels down, he can find that he ...
Views: 63 - Early Deprivation: Can Early Deprivation Cause Someone To Have Throat Problems? - by Submitted on Jan 22, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperFor a little while now, someone may have had issues with their throat. So, they might often have a sore throat, find it hard to swallow and have tension in their neck. Thanks to what is going on for them in this part of their body, it could often be hard for them to speak clearly and as ...
Views: 62 - Early Deprivation: What Can Happen If Someone Had An Emotionally Unavailable Mother? - by Submitted on Jan 18, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperAt the beginning of someone’s life, they needed a mother who was able to attune to their needs and typically meet them. The reason for this is that they were in a physically and emotionally dependent state. Therefore, although they had experienced a physical birth, they hadn’t experienced an ...
Views: 62 - Mother-Enmeshed Men: Can A Mother-Enmeshed Mans Split-Off Infantile Parts Cause Him To Be Enmeshed? - by Submitted on Jan 14, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperIf a man is caught up in his mother’s world and his own life is being overlooked, he could have well and truly had enough. He could be sick and tired of acting like her parent and abandoning himself. However, on the plus side, at least he will be aware of what is going on and have the need to ...
Views: 62 - Relationships: Why Would A Man End Up With A Narcissistic Woman? - by Submitted on Jan 26, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperEven if a woman has the tendency to see other people as an extension of herself and lacks empathy, it doesn’t mean that a man will realise this. Due to this, if a man ends up dating or being in a relationship with her, he can be in for a big surprise. Now, it could seem strange as to why a ...
Views: 62 - Child Abuse: Why Would Someone Have Been Abused By Their Parent? - by Submitted on Jan 18, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone has come to see that their early years were anything but nurturing, they can wonder why they were treated so badly. However, it might have taken them years to arrive at this point. The reason for this is that their brain is likely to have blocked out what happened and they might ...
Views: 61 - Early Deprivation: Can Someone’s Connection To Their Emotional Self Be Severed If They Experienced Early Deprivation? - by Submitted on Jan 29, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperEven though someone has a mental, emotional and instinctual self, it doesn’t mean that they are generally in touch with each of these parts. In general, they can be in touch with what is going on for them at a mental level but that’s about it. But, if this is just what is normal, they won’t ...
Views: 61 - Early Deprivation: Can Someone’s Sense Of Self Be Built On Pain If They Experienced Early Deprivation? - by Submitted on Feb 09, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperEven though someone has a body, it doesn’t mean that they will typically inhabit their body. Instead, they can live in their head, with them having a weak connection with their body. As a result of this, they are going to live on the surface of themselves and they won’t have access to all of ...
Views: 61 - Early Deprivation: Can Early Deprivation Cause Someone Believe That They Need To Hide Their True Self To Survive? - by Submitted on Feb 11, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperWhat can be normal is for someone to play a role when they are around others. For example, they can typically come across as easy-going, selfless and do what they can to please others. As a result, they are rarely if ever going to fully show up around others and freely express themselves. ...
Views: 59 - Early Deprivation: Can Someone Need To Reclaim Their Voice If They Experienced Early Deprivation? - by Submitted on Jan 22, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperWhat someone may find, if they step back and reflect on their life, is that they tend to keep their thoughts and feelings to themselves. Along with this, they can see that they typically do what other people want and what they think they want. Thanks to this, it will be normal for them to act ...
Views: 59 - Mother-Enmeshed Men: Is A Mother-Enmeshed Mans Survival Attached To His Mother? - by Submitted on Jan 31, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperIf a man is in a position where he is focused on and does a lot for his mother, he is unlikely to have a life that is very fulfilling. The reason for this is that a number of his needs will seldom if ever be met. Yet, even though he will be depriving himself, this might not be something that ...
Views: 59 - Mother-Enmeshed Men: Was A Mother-Enmeshed Man Brought Up To Be An Extension Of His Mother? - by Submitted on Feb 01, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperA man can be in a position where he not only focuses on his mother and ignores himself but he can be comfortable with this. He can have the sense that he is doing the right thing by being there for her. So, as far as he is concerned, as he is her son, it can be his responsibility to be there ...
Views: 59 - Early Deprivation: Can Someone Feel Worthless If They Were Treated Like An Object During Their Early Years? - by Submitted on Feb 06, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone were to take a step back and reflect on their life, what they may find is that they are often treated badly. Along with this, they could see that they generally don’t treat themselves very well. However, they could see that being treated badly feels comfortable and that it takes a ...
Views: 58 - Early Deprivation: Can Someone Have A Needless False Self If They Had A Depriving Childhood? - by Submitted on Feb 02, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperEven though someone will have a number of different needs, it doesn’t mean that they will be in touch with all of their needs, let alone do what they can to meet them. Instead, they can only be in touch with a few of their needs and they might not always do what they can to meet these ...
Views: 58 - Narcissistic Mothers: Can A Man Be Attracted To Narcissistic Women If He Had A Narcissistic Mother? - by Submitted on Jan 27, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperIf a man steps back and reflects on his life, what he may find is that he has been with a number of women who were very caught up with themselves. These would then have been women who were consumed by their own needs and had very little if any time for him. They would then have expected him ...
Views: 58 - Mother-Enmeshed Women: Has A Mother-Enmeshed Woman Abandoned Herself? - by Submitted on Jan 28, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperIf a woman is in a position where she does a lot for her mother and ignores a number of her own needs, she will be out of balance. But, if living in this way is just what is normal, she might not be aware of what is going on. Due to this, she could often feel low and drained but believe that ...
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