Blessed Situations
People sometimes ask me to pray for them. I always do. But sometimes they wonder: why did I not pass that exam when you were praying and blessing me.
Lessons still to be Learned
The answer is perhaps that was not to be for you at that particular time. Possibly a greater ... Views: 1581
Pursuing Love
A chance meeting can be a turning point in life: This is the story of entrepreneur Abid Beli from Karachi in Pakistan when he met a pretty girl in a park. Smitten, to him she was marriage material but his parents did not quite share the same level of enthusiasm. He was left with ... Views: 1579
You can’t love without getting hurt!
There is no doubt that when a relationship comes to an end, the one who did not want the relationship to end will feel hurt. Even during a relationship when we experience disappointment we may also feel hurt. At these times we should think how we can be more ... Views: 1573
Reality of Life
We are souls and our body is the outer covering or protection. In most societies even the body needs protection for warmth, safety and to avoid unnerving stares or unwarranted advances. Most people will agree on this.
Horsepower
For thousands of years horses were our main ... Views: 1560
Spurts of Growth Blessing
B: Believe your ideas can grow to be great things, that your mind can achieve great things when you let yourself grow. Blast yourself with brimming ideas that you are growing and growing.
L: Life from the growing point of view lets you become more: experienced, ... Views: 1544
IS THERE ONE ENGLISH LANGUAGE?
It is often said that the UK and US are two countries divided by the same language. This comment is usually attributed to playwright George Bernard Shaw. The reason why there are differences is because both are living languages, absorbing words and inventing new ... Views: 1541
Make use of the propelling force of being thirsty
HAVE YOU EVER BEEN THIRSTY?
If you have gone all your waking hours without a drink, you will appreciate that wonderful elixir called water when you do get the chance to quench your thirst. Now take this thirst and have a thirst for ... Views: 1537
Hedging your Bets for successful entrepreneurship
Testing the Waters
Although gainfully employed, Suhail Ahmad wanted to ratchet up excitement in his life, so he decided to ride two boats in his 20s: Full-time employment but starting his entrepreneurship journey on the side.
Q Why did ... Views: 1535
A VOTE AGAINST THE IRAQ WAR
If I had had a vote as to whether there should be an Iraq invasion or war, I would have voted against such a war. I have a number of reasons for this and these include my view that if a person truly practices their religion they experience a degree of freedom of ... Views: 1522
AGE-OLD ASIAN STORY
There is a frequently told story with a moral that serves to shock us to rethink our priorities.
An old man was on his deathbed when suddenly he was overwhelmed by the enticing aromas of cookies punctuating the air. Frail, and oh so ill, he managed to pull himself up and ... Views: 1501
There is a great power in giving thanks and Mike's tips are guaranteed to lift the spirits.
Balancing Act
The expression of gratitude is the ultimate balancing act in everyone’s life. We know whom we receive the good from and we offer our gratitude.
Harmony
The absence of a simple thank ... Views: 1498
MONKEY BUSINESS
Monkeys may be able to do it but can humans? And that is to see no evil, hear no evil and speak no evil.Can you hear no evil, see no evil and speak no evil?
GROWING UP WITH THREE MONKEYS
Three little monkeys in the form of a small ornament took pride of place in the living ... Views: 1478
THE POWER TO BE HAPPY BLESSING
B: Bump up your mind to the highest level by reminding yourself that nothing can make you unhappy.
L: Little things should never take away your precious peace of mind, so reduce every issue in your life to its smallest point and then crush it in your thoughts and ... Views: 1476
WEB WARS
Robert the Bruce was fighting for the independence of Scotland against the English, but he lost a battle and was hiding in a cave. He was downtrodden and perhaps even contemplating that everything was hopeless. He was not alone in that cave. A spider was his companion and he watched ... Views: 1457
WHAT IS THE CALL OF GOD?
Mike Ghouse: “It is a call from God to learn about each other and know each other.”
LISTENING TO THE CALL OF GOD
When we do that, myths about others disappear. We open up to friendships without reserve or fear. Mike shares some practical points about the ... Views: 1444
Hunger Pangs
By Day Four of Ramadan (the fasting month for Muslims) Mike was feeling exhausted and hungry from noon onward.
HOW TO DEAL WITH HUNGER
The solution: pray for hungry children and people around the world in Congo, Haiti, Somalia and Burma.
Mike Ghouse: “The tragedy of Rohingi ... Views: 1434
SHARING IDEAS
An incredible revolution is taking place and it is not always for money but is fuelled by passion. This amazing revolution is the worldwide accessibility of videos and how people are viewing them, creating their videos in response and in effect upping the ante in a particular ... Views: 1434
POSITIVE POWER
1. When you have a choice as to who you can associate with – choose people who are positive, who can help you positively and who give you an energy boost when they are around. Be with people who you are proud of, people you admire and people who like and respect you.
2. ... Views: 1422
EFFECTIVE WRITING IS A LEARNABLE SKILL
THE FACTS OF THE BUSINESS WORLD
Think about it – a significant part of your job consists of communicating with others. This communication will be both speaking and writing. Email, letters, memos, proposals, office materials, promotional copy and a wide ... Views: 1420
To the Americans it is Mom, but to the British it is Mum! (or is it!)
Whether it is Mom or Mum – most of us dearly love our mums. By the way the word Mom is used widely in the Midlands of England (Think Birmingham). Mom and Mummy are old-English words. In some parts of Scotland they also use ... Views: 1419
SUCCESS WAITING TO HAPPEN
There is a proverb that gives a warning: This is an accident waiting to happen.
A dangerous situation has been created and it is inevitable that an accident will happen, sooner or later.
Let’s reverse this idea and let us do all the things that will lead on to ... Views: 1414
UPLIFT THE FUTURE BLESSING
B: Base your life on positive possibilities that you can envisage, dream, work upon and create.
L: Let your feelings come from the beauty that is inside of you. Look forward and embrace the limitless future as it arrives one day at a time.
E: Envelop your ... Views: 1409
Impressive CV
The irony of life is that we need an impressive CV but its impressiveness is not what bags the job. It is a good intro but then …
A Leg in the Door
No more than a leg in the door, resumes get you in front of the hiring people, but it will be a compelling story that will get ... Views: 1408
The writing secrets of Virginia Woolf with comments by Susan McKenzie
1. TREAT ALL WRITING AS AN ESSAY
A good essay must have this permanent quality about it; it must draw its curtain round us, but it must be a curtain that shuts us in not out. (Virginia Woolf).
SUSAN MCKENZIE: Treat all ... Views: 1408
Raining Down Blessings Upon You
B: Beliefs are at the core of our being, so be prepared to go deep to brighten up your thinking.
L: Learn to think in bigger and better ways. Let your imagination run riot and imagine your mind is overflowing with wisdom. Look harder and deeper at the universe ... Views: 1403
How high are your standards of English?
When I joined the British High Commission I was to be introduced to the High Commissioner’s wife. We had a lengthy conversation and during that introduction I used the word ‘can.’ We had a good laugh when she suggested my usage was Singlish. I took to ... Views: 1402
The greatest words and writing secrets by Virginia Woolf (Part 2)
Woolf is considered one of the greatest innovators in the English language.
1. POWER WORDS: “When I cannot see words curling like rings of smoke round me I am in darkness—I am nothing.” Virginia Woolf
Susan McKenzie: In ... Views: 1402
MONKEY BUSINESS
Monkeys may be able to do it but can humans? And that is to see no evil, hear no evil and speak no evil. Three little monkeys in the form of a small ornament took pride of place in my grandmother’s living room for all of my growing-up years. I was fascinated by it and studied ... Views: 1397
I wish someone had told me this when I was in my 20s:
Do not grow old, just grow.
Whatever age you currently are, there is still time to just grow.
SEEING INTO THE FUTURE
As you get older you will not look the same. In fact, if you look at your parents and grandparents you will know in ... Views: 1396
HARMONIOUS HOME
It is very important to find ways to co-exist in harmony with others so that we can have a better world.
RELIGIOUS REACH
Jesus is a revered prophet to millions and believed to be the Messiah by millions. We should respect those who say Jesus is a revered prophet and those ... Views: 1395
THE BEST MARRIAGES
How to have a match made in heaven. Here are the secrets for a successful marriage, however it takes two to believe in them.
MATCH MADE IN HEAVEN
In Islam marriage is a form of worship, a social obligation, an act highly admired by Allah SWT and a way of life (Sunnah) of ... Views: 1394
LIFE IS WHAT YOU MAKE IT!
I am sure you have heard this many times: life is what you make it. Definitely your input and your outlook shape the life that materializes. So whether you totally believe this statement or not, you can make a great impact on the direction of your life.
TRULY ... Views: 1384
Spur for Greater Life
No one gets out alive. Indeed people such as Steve Jobs used the inevitability of death as a spur for greater life. If you are going to die anyway what is holding you back? That was the lifestyle approach of Steve Jobs.
Lifetime of Success
Think about how you ... Views: 1378
Seek Knowledge
I was not born Muslim, but the one piece of Muslim philosophy my mother imparted to me was if the mountain would not come to Muhammad, Muhammad would go the mountain.
This Muslim philosophy had such an impact that I have wanted to know about the man who is so revered by ... Views: 1378
EASY PEASY
For some there is no easy way to success – it requires learning from mistakes and is one of the best ways. Take Steve Jobs for example – he certainly had ups and downs before he met with meterioic success. Here are 10 points that help you have more success more easily.
1. ... Views: 1354
What are you headed towards? The divorce courts or your golden wedding anniversary?
BLESSED MARRIAGE BLESSING
B: Bonds of love need to be reinforced to keep the bonds strong, stronger and the strongest.
L: Loving, long marriages are revered by society when we celebrate silver, golden and ... Views: 1352
INFORMATION OVERLOAD
Do you have a penchant or an additiction for modern communications? If you are like me you will be hooked on a number of social networking sites. I have limited myself to active participation on three social networks. Facebook to keep in contact with friends and family. ... Views: 1348
Would you like to do a nice thing for some human beings?
Is there any cost?
No cost. All you have to do is register at this website http://globalchallenge.mit.edu/about
Just sign up and then you can vote. You can sign up as a friend of MIT. Signing up can be very quick.
What is this ... Views: 1339
THE FIVE PILLARS
Why are you on Facebook - do you really have clear reasons? I do. I have five strong reasons why I am on Facebook. They form the five pillars of my social media presence. You should think about why you do anything in this life - and the more good reasons you have the more ... Views: 1330
SET FORMULA FOR A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE
I don’t have a guaranteed formula for a successful marriage but I do have some ideas on how to make a successful life which includes being reasonably happily married. These are principles and ideas taught to me by my mother who has never divorced. She has ... Views: 1320
Both in your business life and your personal life nothing is a waste of time if you take the capitalize on everything you do approach. Here are 10 ways to benefit.
1. I HAVE ENOUGH TO BE HAPPY
Of course you do. Never be upset with what you don’t have. Strive to be content with what you have ... Views: 1305
LIFE IS NOT FAIR
Sometimes we can be so right yet so wrong. This philosophy applies in the work place. In parts of Asia, there is the belief that the Boss is always right or more accurately, The Boss always thinks he is right!
TAKE A LEAF OUT OF THE BOOKS OF LAW STUDENTS
Law students are ... Views: 1291
When using the word ‘can’ is a serious faux pas. Can (Part II)
There is a land of bad, inappropriate and totally wrong English. It is called the land of faux pas - make sure that is one land you avoid.
THE IMPACT OF LITERARY ENGLISH ON ENGLISH
This week a so-called senior English teacher ... Views: 1274
Blessed Situations
People sometimes ask me to pray for them. I always do. But sometimes they wonder: why did I not pass that exam or do as well as I wanted when you were praying and blessing me.
Lessons still to be Learned
The answer is perhaps that was not to be for you at that particular ... Views: 1215
IMMUNE TO STRESS BLESSING
B: Beat stress by not letting it arise in the first place. Beat stress by realizing what your place is in the great scheme and reality of the nature of things. Building up your immunity to stress should be one of your goals.
L: Let the Lord guide you in all things. ... Views: 1189
OUR INHERENT NATURE
We are all teachers and students and we are all leaders and followers. Why do I say this? It is the nature of existence. We have to engage in life-long learning if we want our success to continue. So we have to humble ourselves and get other people, be they younger or older ... Views: 1133
THIS IS YOUR LIFE
Once upon there was a British television show: This is Your Life! which put under the microscope a real-life person when friends, family, associates would appear and rebuild the person’s life bit by bit in front of viewers. A highly popular show, the presenter with the aid of ... Views: 967