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For family and friends of drug and/or alcohol addicted individuals, addressing addiction is one of the most difficult aspects of seeking substance abuse treatment. Often, drug and alcohol addiction has built a destructive cycle over a time to the point where daily family involvement actually ... Views: 2802
I was going through my roommate’s socks in the dark looking for his stash when the lights came on. He grabbed my arm, and spun me around shouting, “What the hell are you doing?” He didn’t tell anyone else, but when he calmed down he made me promise I would get myself straightened out. I promised ... Views: 1481
The Maui Christian Recovery Resource Center
a project of
The International Christian Recovery Coalition
P.O. Box 837, Kihei, Maui, HI 96753-0837
(808) 874-4876 or (808) 276-4945
DickB@DickB.com
www.ChristianRecoveryCoalition.com
The “Mustard Seed” Project Starts Now—A New Way ... Views: 1786
By The Pioneer of Subliminal Messages Online.
Porn addiction is on the rise, thanks to the different types of media, from television to the Internet. Based on statistics, there are millions of adults who are addicted to pornography, but only 10 percent of them will admit to it. Moreover, 7 ... Views: 2387
By The Pioneer of Subliminal Messages Online.
True, three of the leading health problems—and causes of death—are diabetes, heart diseases, and cancer. However, what many don’t realize is they do share one common factor: obesity.
Obesity is one of the fastest-growing health issues in the ... Views: 888
By The Pioneer of Subliminal Messages Online.
These days the Internet has proven itself to be both a boon and a bane. It is an advantage because it gives you almost all types of resources you need in just a matter of seconds. On the other hand, it is a curse, leaving thousands of people ... Views: 952
IS ADDICTION A DISEASE?
I certainly have my own thoughts on this question. Understanding the “disease” nature of addiction, because it gave me peace of mind, saved my life. Trust me; I’m not trying to be dramatic.
From being free of active addiction for over 16 years, I know that the disease ... Views: 1423
By The Pioneer of Subliminal Messages Online.
Ask anyone. Perhaps the best invention or discovery in the world to date is the Internet. Just imagine getting access to loads of information with just a few clicks. It has become so popular millions of people use it on a daily basis.
This ... Views: 812
Lot of people support porn, they know from inside that porn does harm in their lives, but they don’t oppose porn and they don’t like the people who oppose porn. Why?
Why they support porn?
Because porn gives something to them. Porn satisfies them, Porn relieves them, Porn gives happiness to ... Views: 1439
Can Charlie Sheen or Lindsay Lohan Be Helped
- If They Won’t Help Themselves
In a February interview Sheen claimed he was healthy and ready to go back to work. The claim of every drunk and addict is that he / she is not a drunk or an addict. Secondly, the addict claims a few days in ... Views: 1732
Teens, Alcohol, and Sexual Activity
Impaired Judgment Puts Teens at Risk
Teens who drink are more likely to participate in dangerous sexual behavior for a variety of reasons.
Help them understand the risks.
Alcohol use and sexual behavior are a common but perilous combination for ... Views: 2371
A Dilemma-“WANT” vs. “NEED”
Things are said and life issues sometimes converge, and really cause the mind to ponder.
I have just gone through a situation like that, and it relates to work life/career equally to life recovery, life transformation and getting addiction help.
There is a huge ... Views: 1726
"New Research Gives Hope to Internet Porn Addicts"
"Lawyers reported that over half of the divorces they handled were due to one of the spouse's excessive viewing of online pornography."
ueled by the rise of the Web, online sex addictions have exploded onto the scene. As the convenience of ... Views: 2323
It is common knowledge that the abuse of and addiction to drugs is a major problem in our country. Drug use is occurring at earlier ages, especially in our inner cities, but the problem exists across the country with complete disregard for where children live or how much money their parents ... Views: 1589
Change Your Thinking!
When You Change Your Thinking...
You Change Your Beliefs.
When You Change Your Beliefs...
You Change Your Expectations.
When You Change Your Expectations...
You Change Your ... Views: 1434
The Benefits of Recovery
Active addiction is so draining. It took everything out of me mentally, emotionally and physically. The getting using and finding ways and means to get more was a full time job in itself. One was to many and One thousand was never enough. I became a totally ... Views: 1151
10 Tips to Stay Sober
1. GET HELP!
How many times have you said " I'm done, I'm never using again, I mean it this time, No more, It's not worth it" etc.. etc.. and when you said it u REALLY meant it? Your not the only one! We all do it; including me! Even with the best intentions I ... Views: 2249
Binge eating is an eating disorder that has been reported to be far more common than the more well know ones such as anorexia and bulimia. Reports suggest that somewhere between 2 to 5 per cent of the US population experience binge eating disorder at some stage.
So what are the options for ... Views: 2747
THE IMPORTANCE OF RESPECT in RECOVERY
Quotes about respect
When I was asked to do an article on respect, my thoughts immediately flashed to Aretha Franklin’s 1967 theme for the feminist movement- “R.E.S.P.E.C.T”.- which upon examination of the lyrics, tells us that she will do anything in ... Views: 1542
Addiction comes from a place of wanting, of needing something to fulfill and replace part of one’s life. It can be seen as an escape, but the real need is much more. What is missing that needs to be replaced? What part of life is empty and aching for fulfillment? It is a place that may be ... Views: 2090
Life Out of Whack? H.A.L.T.
Today is February 9, 2011 and it is mental health awareness day in Canada. A reminder to all, 20% of the total population suffers from a “mental health” issue in their life. Be aware of it, and if you are in that 20%, have the courage to seek help. There are no ... Views: 1443
To our friends: My son Ken just wrote a letter to two who inquired about our projects. Because his letter properly reflects what we hope to do with you and what we hope you will do, being thus informed, I have slightly edited it and am sending it along. God Bless, Dick ... Views: 2139
We are all addicts. Yes, you are. So am I. We are addicted in many ways to many things.
It is easy to identify the obvious physical addictions; drugs, alcohol, tobacco, caffeine, sugar, etc. In addition to being the easiest to identify, these physical addictions are also the easiest to kick. ... Views: 1940
The International Christian Recovery Coalition
Announces
Christian Recovery Resource Centers
Recent Developments as of February 11, 2011
The International Christian Recovery Coalition (www.ChristianRecoveryCoalition.com) was founded in July 2009. Its headquarters office is in ... Views: 1899
It is well-known that trauma and addiction are closely linked. Years of clinical research have demonstrated that many individuals who struggle with addiction report exposure to trauma during the course of their lives. It is not uncommon for those dealing with addictions to have experienced any ... Views: 1972
I believe that every person on this planet, without exception, uses at least one addictive behavior designed to distract them from having to deal with difficult feelings and painful situations. As controversial as that statement may be for some people, I stand by it.
THE MOST COMMON “COMFORT ... Views: 5805
Relationships are the heart and soul of our society. If our relationships with others were to disappear, most of us would feel all meaning slipping away from our lives. Our husbands, our wives, our children, our parents and extended family, our co-workers and our friends help to create what we ... Views: 4840
I recently received an e-mail from a woman who believes her husband is a functioning alcoholic. Joan (alias) recently took the Alcoholism Test and then emailed me.
Although a few details are changed or left out for privacy reasons, Joan began with:
"I was researching functional alcoholism ... Views: 8290
Being married to a functioning alcoholic can cause many problems in a family. Tens of thousands of families in North America alone are struggling with this issue.
A drinking problem can begin in many ways. For some people it begins with social drinking. Social drinking can gradually ... Views: 4807
KNOW YOUR DREAM
You've got to create a dream. You've got to uphold the dream.
If you can't, go back to the factory or go back to the desk.
--Eric Burdon
Way back when, back when I made a decision to go into the “people helping” business as a profession, I had a dream. I formulated the dream ... Views: 1439
Prologue from My New Book FINE…LY: MY STORY OF HOPE, LOVE, AND DESTINY
I believe that there are divine reasons for the pregnant pauses in our lives; the times when our life seems to come to a screeching halt and we are rendered powerless over it. Those are the times we should pay especially ... Views: 1546
It is difficult to be in a relationship with an addict and not get sucked into enabling behavior. When somebody you love is suffering with an illness or a disease you naturally want to help. As a result, loved ones often step in to save the addict from the devastating consequences of their ... Views: 1901
Where is the line between support and enabling?
Support means you’re doing something because someone can’t do for themselves -- caring for a two-year-old, or preparing meals for your elderly grandmother, for instance.
Enabling is giving assistance that makes it easier for someone to ... Views: 11539
WANT A SHOT OF HOPE?
(How’s Your Spiritual Life?)
Someone sees that word “spiritual” and the mind says “oh no, more religious crap”. That someone, back then, was me.
For those who are familiar with my blogs, you’ll know I like simplicity and often turn to the good book written by Mr. Webster ... Views: 1540
Jackie asked me how many drinks could her husband have in a day before she should worry. She says he drinks three or four beers in the evening on work nights and a lot more on weekends when he doesn't have to go to work the next day. She thinks he may be a functioning alcoholic.
Kevin worries ... Views: 2309
America’s New Drug Problem: Snorting ‘Bath Salts’
I saw this headline on Foxnews.com this morning (01/24/2011) and thought the same as many of you probably did: “What will they think of next?” As the article states: “….these are not your average bath salts that you pour into the bathtub to ... Views: 2223
A number of alcoholics and/or drug addicts find it difficult to effectively "work" a recovery program until effective medical detoxification is reached. Medicine may be given to reduce or get rid of alcohol urges, hypoglycemia, depression, mood swings, anxiety, sleeplessness, tremors, memory ... Views: 1708
If you or somebody you know is suffering from alcohol dependency, then it may be time to check out the alcohol treatment options that will be most effective for the individual's chosen lifestyle and preferences. Addiction to alcohol treatment comes in a variety of forms; however, not all alcohol ... Views: 1647
How much do your youngsters know about the risks of Meth dependency?
Don't you suspect that your teenagers or their close friends might be addicted to Meth?
Meth is one of the most addictive banned substances currently available. Sad to say Meth addiction has been becoming increasingly ... Views: 2296
YOU WANT CHANGE. WHY?
Another great question prompted from my coaching mentor, Dr. Randin Brons “Idea Engineer”.
I work with intelligent people who are prepared to invest time, and in the case of my clients, money, to get a better life than current. To get what they want, they must be prepared ... Views: 1377
With all the various psychological theories that have over time dissolved, the newest addition is making its way to universities and private practices country wide. This upcoming treatment uses Buddhism and yoga as a basis and according to several studies, appears to work. This type of therapy ... Views: 1599
What happens when you're the only one listening?
Twenty years ago, when we were moving into a new place, a young man helped us out. The son of one of my wife’s friends, he was 14 or 15 years old and just out of a residential drug rehab program.
He and I sat in our rented moving truck ... Views: 1347
“Angry”, “mad”, “irritable”, “frustrated”, “annoyed”, “irate”, “seething”, “agitated”, and “cranky” are all labels for anger. This list, although it could be a lot longer, reflects varying degrees in intensity of anger. Anger, although a normal emotion, can be problematic for recovering ... Views: 8222
The greatest attributes of "The 12 Step Program" and what makes it the greatest contribution to the world in the 20th and now the 21rst century- are many fold.
To begin with here is a "Program of Recovery" That has literally saved millions of lives and improved or touched in a positive way ... Views: 1415
Quite often when people give up smoking hashish, a big crater comes about within themselves. They're stuck with some mood of melancholy and also lonesomeness. It's just like something is certainly missing. One thing you're keen on has currently gone away and now you feel frustrated since you ... Views: 1042
SELF AWARE
As I went through life, I lost a sense of who I was; I was not aware of certain behaviour patterns and thought patterns that were occurring in my life.
I certainly was aware of the patterns of others that I was in frequent contact with, and as we all know, sometimes the behaviours ... Views: 1528
Family members are often stymied about how their alcoholic/addicted family member can continue to drink or use in the face of overwhelming evidence that the chemical is destroying their lives. “Why don’t they just quit?” is a question that could rightfully top the list of “FAQs by Family ... Views: 2125
One of the many issues with both drugs and alcohol is it's effects on our judgment and impulse control. While the focus of most discussions is on how drugs or alcohol effect the mind and body, one of the big issues, is the problem of losing our ability for good reason and making proper ... Views: 692
A.A. History Brief: The Bible in the Big Book
By Dick B.
Copyright 2011 Anonymous. All rights reserved
Dr. Robert H. Smith was the cofounder of Alcoholics Anonymous. He is affectionately called “Dr. Bob” by many AAs.
Dr. Bob had much to say about the Bible in his talks with and ... Views: 3326