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Reality Check
Last night, in talking with a fellow who I work with as a guide and mentor, I was faced with a reality check. It was a reminder, and a mini-awakening.
Seated in the room with me was a friend of long standing, a doctor, who through abuse of substance and things that can go with it, ... Views: 759
Many people who enter treatment for addiction recovery are taken aback by the spiritual concepts normally associated with a recovery program. Others initially welcome the spiritual aspects, returning to a religious belief system they once were familiar with, as it instills a sense of hope for ... Views: 2845
It is a well-known fact that both anorexia and bulimia are on the rise in societies that measure success and sexiness by physical body proportions.
Both as a publisher/professional writer and certified hypnotherapist actively participating in Arizona’s Professional Hypnosis organization, ... Views: 2489
You Are Special and Unique
As I do my coaching thing, there is one thing that is a mainstay. Each of us is special and unique. Each of us has talents, and each of us is capable of setting goals and achieving them.
I am a recovered person from addictions who is constantly recovering. This ... Views: 1728
People pleasing often attaches itself to substance abuse or some other form of addiction. Paradoxically, with the right counseling, it can serve as one of our most empowering wakeup calls.
Recently, I received a phonecall from a man who is attempting to rebuild his business--and his life. I've ... Views: 4852
It’s taken me a long time to learn, and I was reminded again in working with a client today, I have the right to be wrong. Oft times, upon reflection, I am wrong.
New behaviors dictate that when I know I am wrong, I promptly admit it, and make amends when needed.
I’ve also learned ... Views: 757
Having Fun Yet?
Recently, life has been full of challenges that a larger than the norm. When issues are directly related to blood family, they can be more stressful than most issues. Money gets in there too.
On a frequent basis, I ask myself, “Are We Having Fun Yet?”
I began the ... Views: 706
There are many theories concerning the nature of addiction and what it is exactly.
Some feel it is a character flaw and lack of self-will; that the addict is a "bad" person whilst others believe that a particular drug, drink, person or location is the problem. A person locked in an addictive ... Views: 1256
While reflecting on the early part of my life, seeing and understanding what happened, and looking at how things played out, it is apparent the people pleasing, the need to make others happy, has played a large role in my life.
I see the remnants of this behaviour, learned at a young age, still ... Views: 742
Hard to believe, what we consider summer is over. School is back in, traffic is back to insane, and they days are definitely getting shorter.
Seeing September 2 pop up in my calendar is shocking. There are so many things I had said to myself I would do over the summer, and of course, a lot of ... Views: 804
Live according to your purpose, and you’ll discover a natural passion for life; and within that, you’ll feel a great deal of personal power. If you want to feel totally empowered, learn who you are and be 100% of you 100% of the time!
You may need to do some soul-searching and uncovering in ... Views: 840
Things do not change; we change.
--Henry David Thoreau
For a man who is in the coaching business, and is on the life journey I’m on, I find the title statement PROFOUND. Think on it and see if you can see the depth of the thought.
I spent a good portion of my life thinking I could change ... Views: 7556
It has been a crazy Thursday from very early in the morning, and tomorrow will be more insane. We call it “Grampy Day”, my annual venture into the world of fun with my two oldest grand kids sans parents or other adults. Golf, fishing and whatever else my little heroes want. I’m ... Views: 777
This is a phrase used in the bible of the original 12 step organization (known as the Big Book).
As I have traveled the road of life, I often found myself looking for an easier, softer way to get what I wanted.
In school, I dogged assignments and read other peoples notes. I have tried get rich ... Views: 1950
AA Squared, a Los Angeles based nutraceutical company, is taking a new approach to overcoming alcohol and drug addictions. Studies have shown their nutritional therapy based approach to be up to 80% more effective than AA or rehab clinics alone.
Why is nutrition so important in conquering drug ... Views: 1122
I’m a real Canadian, and as such, a hockey fan. Wayne Gretzky is a hero.
I was coaching a client this morning who shared a great statement he ascribed to “The Great One”.
“You’ll miss 100% of the shots you don’t take”
How true is that? What do we miss ... Views: 726
I like others, can be sensitive to what others say, and what I perceive they think, about me? Can anyone relate?
I have a very deep faith that the higher power in my life exists within (as well as outside) me. As I go through my journey, and with the beliefs I have, I must be mindful that ... Views: 828
For a number of years, I have been told resentments will tear me apart if I don’t deal with them. I was told, and it remains true today, that resentments are like a tenant in an apartment building who occupy space but pay no rent. The space in my head is at a premium, and I need it to be ... Views: 1377
Taking Note of September 2008 as National Recovery Month
and How We Shall Celebrate It a New Way
By Dick B.
• September 2008 is National Recovery Month. Governments, treatment facilities, therapists, and non-profits are asked to post proclamations and conduct media ... Views: 1032
Los Angeles and Hollywood is known for its fast pace of life making California one of the highest states suffering from drug and alcohol addiction. The positive thing is that they also have more drug rehabs than any other state. Actually many addicted individuals travel from all over the country ... Views: 1354
What we need to understand and believe is that relapse is not a part of recovery. It’s just a dangerous slogan that is based on myth, and it only gives people permission to relapse because they think that when they do, they are on the road to recovery. Relapse is a return to dependency. ... Views: 1753
And Who Heals Me?
Over a year ago, I went on a journey to look at some real fuzzy philosophical questions. “Who Am I?”was dealt with years ago, but “What Is My Purpose?” remained vague.
I went on a real journey to discover what it is about past employment that I loved ... Views: 780
What is alchemy?
Many of us are drawn to the mysteries of the past to enlighten the quality of the present. Mythology, astrology, the tarot, runes, and I-Ching have drawn the interest of many in recent years, and is being enjoyed and utilized in fresh and innovative ways. Ancient wisdom imbued ... Views: 1091
Gratitude-A Reminder
Last night I was a t a meeting, and old timers were welcomed. A couple of people glanced my way, and I guess it a fitting title in that fellowship. I should be grateful. I was there again, and free from addictions.
Over the last period of time, we have had some major ... Views: 705
Why is it so important to enter into an inpatient drug rehab rather than an outpatient? For one, the alcoholic or drug addict will be committed to staying for the duration of the rehab program and not be able to use drugs or alcohol. Also there is no outside environmental condition like drug ... Views: 10000
Do you love yourself?
What a great question and I thank Express Coaching and their Idea Generator for sending. It is probably the first question I drill to with the clients I take on, and one each of us must regularly ask ourselves!
"At the heart of personality is the need to feel a sense of ... Views: 718
One of the most important things in my life is family, yet sometimes I wonder why.
As I start a new week, the thought of family and relationships is foremost in my mind. Funny, I’m reminded, you can pick your friends, and you can’t pick your family.
In these thoughts, I must remember ... Views: 710
We are currently experiencing a massive planetary overhaul. This means we will be looking at vast changes in the way we do business, treat illnesses, run our governments, power our homes and end our addictions.
Please consider the following: Is it loving to keep affirming and repeating ... Views: 1822
Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet.
--Lida Clarkson
We all want life to unfold according to our plan. After all, we are certain we know what's best for us. But hindsight quickly reminds us that few, if any, of us had included recovery in a Twelve Step program as part of our life's plan. ... Views: 820
All you are is change! Change is happening all around us and within us all the time. It could be said that change is the only constant in life!
You’re changing all the time, whether you like it or not. In fact, you’re not the same person that you were at the beginning of this ... Views: 1468
Addiction Inbox:
It often seems as if alcoholics and other drug addicts are at fault for perversely refusing to get well. Rarely do the treatment methods, or lack of them, come under question. The traditional view of the addict as an immature and irresponsible person, short on will power, low on ... Views: 1281
Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says: "I'll try again tomorrow."
--Anne Hunninghake
“A key quality that distinguishes a successful athlete, or a top-notch performer in any field, is the way he responds to his bad days. ... Views: 958
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Karma - by Dr. Bess S. Permut The Official Life Coach for Self Growth.com
Insanity? Restored to?
I think we all go through rollercoaster rides. Even though I’ve been on the recovery journey for a while, things happen, we face stress, and even though we try to turn it over, a black cloud appears! This isn’t the first one I’ve had, nor will it be the ... Views: 815
If money were all it took, tobacco smoking would be on the run after Bill Gates and Michael Bloomberg jointly pledged last month to fight tobacco use worldwide, especially in low- and middle-income countries, through the Bill and Melinda Gates Foundation and Johns Hopkins University.
Mayor ... Views: 1201
What a good weekend, but a great reminder that kids are for the young, and I don’t get smarter about some things with age. It was great to spend the time at my youngest daughters and in the company of a terrific son-in-law.
All three of the grand kids were there, the oldest finishing off a ... Views: 784
Whether drug or alcohol addiction is an incurable disease or a personal choice has been argued for years. Regardless of the philosophy what is important is finding a drug rehab facility which offers effective solutions to end addiction. In the most effective form of drug and alcohol ... Views: 1259
Kelly Sonora at the Nursing Online Education Database (NOEDb) recently sent me an article by Christina Laun, entitled "50 Ways to Boost Your Energy Without Caffeine." The complete article is available on the NOEDb web site. If you are making an effort to decrease reliance on coffee, Laun writes, ... Views: 1295
A good reminder for me.
I started on the journey to get a life back that had fullness, happiness, hope and serenity. I worked very hard at that process, have had a spiritual awakening, and benefited from the advice of professionals and peers who had walked before me. I wanted what I perceived ... Views: 906
What a great reminder I had today. This is something, without thinking about, I know I periodically do! How about you?
They say you can’t judge a book by its cover, yet publishers spend a fortune to create great covers. As a person, for years, I did all I could to create a great exterior, ... Views: 1558
Children develop skills in a predictable sequence that must be followed. For instance, babies do not learn to walk before they crawl. They babble before they speak words. They use parallel play earlier than interactive play. In the same way, they learn to cope with stressors, solve problems, and ... Views: 3226
Drug abuse vs. drug dependence.
As the neurobiology of addiction has come into clearer focus over time, our ability to separate fact from fiction in the field of drug dependence has grown rapidly. Beliefs that have been common wisdom for years--that anyone who uses cocaine or heroin inevitably ... Views: 1518
To say that the facts about smoking are questionable is like saying guns aren't dangerous. As a result of puffing smokes our chances increase for heart disease, cancerous tumors, breathing issues, potential deadly effects during pregnancy, stomach problems and tooth and gum decay, sobering facts ... Views: 1104
It is common practice for companies to offer support for employees being distracted by substance addictions, such as alcohol abuse and smoking too much, but little exists for a problem that is often difficult to notice – and treat effectively - a gambling addiction.
It is not uncommon for ... Views: 2194
If you are looking for a European tourist destination, consider the Marche region of central Italy. Depending on your interests, it is an ideal vacation spot. You can get classic Italian food, and wash it down with fine local wine. And the Marche region hasn't yet been discovered by tourists. ... Views: 1220
When you can’t control when you start or when you stop a behavior or substance you are suffering from a compulsion. We are all familiar with compulsive eating, drinking, and spending. Compulsive behavior begins as a solution to another problem, a way of using pleasure to mask pain. Sadly, over ... Views: 4088
Anyone ever hear of Robert Muller? I hadn't until I just happened to catch him on a "Great Conversations" show.
Muller used to be a Deputy to the Secretary General of the UN. He's been nominated 19 times for the Nobel Peace Prize. Now that's quite an honor. There have been a lot of NPP ... Views: 1828
Some days I feel like a cartoon character and not my beloved Popeye.
I am the person you see in the cartoons with the little black cloud over my head every where I go. I’m thankful that I don’t get this way often, and know it will pass, but the feeling is here, right now. I think ... Views: 1135
-we all need it
So far, it’s been a really interesting day. Things are now quiet, and I am reflecting on a few things that have happened lately.
In response to one of my journals, I got some very constructive feed back on content and approach, and some constructive feedback on my web site ... Views: 1382