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Three Myths of Sexual Desire - by Valeria ChubaHow Unusual Are Your Sexual Fantasies? - by Valeria Chuba- Vigrx plus and How VigRx plus works!! - by Submitted on Sep 23, 2011 from pepenx wayVigrx plus and How VigRx plus works!! the function of corpora cavernosa are increase of passion, adding of blood and cause a hard erection for a man and normally every man has it. however in the fact corpora cavernosa capacity will reduce naturally with age growth or old age so it is make will ...
Views: 2218(1 vote) - Guide to Beginners for using Sex toys - by Submitted on Sep 23, 2011 from Sattie RSex toys are used since ancient times, but during recent years they have become more famous because of modernization. Adult sex toys can be used for solo purpose as well as with the partner as a marital aid. According to a recent statistic report, number of men who are purchasing sex toys in the ...
Views: 1722 - A Different View on Trauma - by Submitted on Sep 19, 2011 from Carolin HauserIn the Western World, trauma is mostly seen as psychological impact but there is actually a different view on trauma that not many people do not know about or understand. One of the most common approaches to healing trauma is to have someone to talk to so that you can be heard and feel ...
Views: 1377 - A Woman's Way to Enlightenment - by Submitted on Sep 19, 2011 from Carolin HauserI have two small children, a husband, a household and my work. I do want to connect with Source (or whatever you call that higher part that governs the Universe) and I do want to be the best I can be. I do want to be enlightened. Many spiritual teachers suggest that a true state of divine ...
Views: 1273 - How To Make Masturbation Feel Like Fun - by Submitted on Sep 18, 2011 from Jan HallAnxiety and guilt about sex often relates to masturbation. Common judgements and old wives tales include warnings that your hand will shrivel up and fall off, or you’ll grow hair on the back of your hand or your hair will fall out. Apparently, the earliest Encyclopaedia of Sex advises that ...
Views: 3323 - Sex In Older Age And How To Cope With A Partner Not Able To Perform - by Submitted on Sep 18, 2011 from Jan HallGerry was sixty-eight and Sonia was sixty-one and they came for sex-therapy because Gerry was having trouble with sustaining an erection. He felt mortified because he was a high performer in his life and was not used to failing. Sonia had two marriages previously where she had been a victim of ...
Views: 1603 - Best Lovemaking Tips For Couples To Live Happy And Fulfilled Married Life - by Submitted on Sep 16, 2011 from Dr Easton PatrickIt is right to receive wishes on ones wedding day for a happy and fulfilled married life, but it is just something else to be the best in lovemaking in a married life. It is lovemaking that makes for the strong foundation of successful and happy marriages; it is the maintenance tool that keeps ...
Views: 2249 - Erectile Dysfunction – Not the Only Sex Issue Bothering Men - by Submitted on Sep 16, 2011 from Sandip VaghelaWe all know how bad erectile dysfunction is and how it can ruin one's sexual life. If a person suffers from ED or impotence, then very often his entire life suffers. If both the men and their partner are not sexually satisfied, this ultimately leads to problems in the couple. But a majority of ...
Views: 1306 - How to Keep Up the Passion When Living With the Oldies - by Submitted on Sep 14, 2011 from Jan HallTime and time again I hear stories of couples who live with the oldies for the very good reason of saving money and find out that their sex lives get put on hold. Living with parents or in-laws may be practical if saving for a first home, but can be the equivalent of “hitting the penis on the ...
Views: 1369 - Hope For Marriage - by Submitted on Sep 11, 2011 from Diana Weiss-WisdomHope for Marriage This summer we held our first Keeping Love Alive Marriage Retreat at The Cottage Clinic. It was one of the best experiences of my life. The experiential two and ½ day workshop was based on the best selling book, ‘Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love,’ ...
Views: 1084 - Hope For Marriage - by Submitted on Sep 11, 2011 from Diana Weiss-WisdomHope for Marriage This summer we held our first Keeping Love Alive Marriage Retreat at The Cottage Clinic. It was one of the best experiences of my life. The experiential two and ½ day workshop was based on the best selling book, ‘Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love,’ ...
Views: 1183 - Would You Put Up With a Workaholic Partner and No Sex? - by Submitted on Sep 14, 2011 from Jan HallAndrew was a very handsome and fit twenty-seven year old. He self-referred for therapy because he confused about what to do with his relationship. He had first met Cherie five years ago when they had an instant attraction, but because she was already in relationship, they only saw each other as ...
Views: 3380 - Tapping Into Your Inner Juice - by Submitted on Aug 30, 2011 from Betty LouiseThe vision of “Living an Organic and Orgasmic Life” is about the transformative natural healing that happens when you live your life going with the flow (organically) and squeezing the juice (orgasmically) from every moment. When we tap into our pleasure centers and experience the ...
Views: 1187(1 vote) - Proper Penetration Preparation - by Submitted on Aug 30, 2011 from Nikki LundbergI get a ton of questions about how to make anal sex feel good. First of all, it’s not for everyone. Second of all, it may take practice (for both giver and receiver) before it’s pleasurable. There are of skills and techniques you can develop but there are also ‘helper’ items that I like to ...
Views: 2754 - The BDSM Lifestyle - by Submitted on Aug 27, 2011 from christa sizzWe hear the word kinky on a regular basis, mostly in jokes and innuedos, as a way of describing something sexually odd. The reality is that there is no set definition for what "kinky" is. Kinky (kink)is defined as a sexual practice hat maybe considered taboo or cantradictory to ...
Views: 1581 - How to Find Psychological Treatment for Erectile Dysfunction - by Submitted on Aug 26, 2011 from lincy thomasErectile dysfunction is most commonly caused by physiological problems, but stress, anxiety, depression or a partner with a bad attitude toward sex can all contribute to the issue. The best treatment may not come in a little blue pill but rather on a psychologist's ...
Views: 1188 - How to Prevent and Treat Erectile Dysfunction - by Submitted on Aug 26, 2011 from lincy thomasPrevent and Treat Erectile Dysfunction Erectile dysfunction (ED) is the repeated inability to get or keep an erection firm enough for sexual intercourse. Though ED is more likely to occur with age, increasing percent in men over , it is not an inevitable part of aging. Erectile ...
Views: 1159 - How to treat erectile dysfunction naturally - by Submitted on Aug 26, 2011 from lincy thomasErectile Dysfunction (ED), or impotency, impacts on the lives of 0 million men globally. It's effects are physically, emotionally and mentally felt by the sufferer and their loved ones. ED's social stigmas encourage men to be hesitant in addressing the issue with health professionals. Have ...
Views: 1901 - Six Simple Steps to Rekindle Passion and Renew Sexual Energy - by Submitted on Aug 26, 2011 from nancy traversMany people feel that the first sign of a deteriorating relationship is a loss of passion and sexual energy. As a relationship matures, a couple may find that they do not have the same sexual energy as they did throughout their honeymoon phase of the relationship. However, dwindling passion does ...
Views: 5060(2 votes) - How to Sabotage Sex Therapy - by Submitted on Sep 14, 2011 from Jan HallAs a practicing sex therapist, I never can understand how so many people expect that sex therapy will work in one session! These people are expecting a “magic wand” solution. Well there is no magic wand except for the willingness to do your own work and change your thinking, your attitude, your ...
Views: 1123 - Stop Shooting the Messenger - by Submitted on Aug 23, 2011 from Carolin HauserYou might have heard somebody tell you recently: “Don’t shoot the messenger”. The sentence has become kind of a catch phrase, but what does it really mean? In short, it means that you shouldn’t react. That when something is “triggering” you, upsetting you, you shouldn’t act out or lose ...
Views: 1329 - Did You Know That It is Integration That You Are After? - by Submitted on Aug 23, 2011 from Carolin HauserIf you are anything like me, you probably have done a lot of “healing” work on your self. A few years ago, I was introduced to the concept of “integration”. I was invited to think in terms of integration instead of in terms of healing. It made a lot of sense to me, and brought profound ...
Views: 1333(2 votes) - Love or Lust at First Sight - by Submitted on Aug 23, 2011 from Stella SinglesIntimacy and Dating Advice 101: In our modern society there is a great disconnect in the dating world. What is it? Its how men and women view love, and lust. This is important for many reasons, but none more important than communication. It is plain and simple, communicate better and your ...
Views: 2151(1 vote) - Learning to Last Longer: Relax. The Journey is its Own Reward. - by Submitted on Aug 10, 2012 from Benny GilbetPremature ejaculation affects not only you but your partner as well. Feelings of anger and resentment can arise from continued unsatisfying sexual encounters. The good news is that this does not have to be a permanent problem. Read on and learn what you (and your partner) can do to improve your ...
Views: 1750(1 vote) - Is Sex Sinful? - by Submitted on Aug 23, 2011 from Janelle AlexHundreds of thousands, more than likely millions, of people have grown up being taught that sex is a sin. It is considered dirty and should only be done to produce new life, and even then it should be done quickly and with extreme secrecy. In some ancient societies, if a woman was raped within ...
Views: 1577(1 vote) - Nobody "Out There" Will Come and Save You - by Submitted on Aug 23, 2011 from Carolin HauserIn my “toilet moment”,the moment that was my wake up call, I realized I wasn’t very far from death. I also realized that, up to that moment, I believed that someone “out there”, the therapists, the doctors and the healers were the experts. I had been hoping, praying even begging that one of ...
Views: 1213 - Masterbation Ways are immensely pleasurable and rejuvenating - by Submitted on Aug 23, 2011 from Aveline BoyleAs you know that masturbation is seen as our first natural sexual activity so it is not easy to avoid the importance of various effective masterbation ways. It is our ongoing love affair with your self that lasts a lifetime. Online masterbation ways can help you a lot in improving your sexual ...
Views: 1985 - Facebook’s Bra Colour Campaign For Breast Cancer Hurts More Than It Helps - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2011 from Martha Tara LeeI first learnt about the ‘Facebook Bra Color Campaign’ through the blog post by sex-positive activist Carlin Ross who works alongside the legendary Betty Dodson. The campaign, believed to be started by women in Detroit, Michigan, who are trying to raise awareness of Breast Cancer, asked women ...
Views: 2700 - The Elephant in the Bedroom: Talking About Sex - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2011 from Martha Tara LeeFor most people, sex is a sensitive and difficult subject to talk about. I have come across a man who, after 15 years of marriage, admitted that he and his wife have never talked about sex. Don’t get me wrong. They do have sex. They just don’t talk about it. In other words, they never ...
Views: 2346 - Why I Became A Sexologist - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2011 from Martha Tara LeeIf there is one question I am asked almost every time I meet somebody new, it is this: “Why did you become a sexologist?” Even complete strangers on Facebook find it is their business to pose one-liner questions along the lines of: “Is your job for real?” Occasionally my polite replies ...
Views: 1930 - Don’t Lie Back and Think of England - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2011 from Martha Tara LeeI am surprised that, in this day and age, I still am asked: “What can women do in bed besides lying back and thinking of England?” In case you are not familiar with this expression, it is an English saying with roughly the same meaning as “to grit one’s teeth”, i.e. to put up with what is ...
Views: 4377 - Primal Sex for Cameron Diaz - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2011 from Martha Tara LeeI adore the American actress Cameron Diaz. She dares to be ridiculously funny in ‘The Mask’, has men swooning over her in ‘There’s Something About Mary’, gets to kick butt in ‘Charlie’s Angels’, and is not shy in admitting that she can’t sing in ‘My Best Friend’s Wedding’. She smiles readily, ...
Views: 1957 - Toys for Adults - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2011 from Martha Tara LeeHave you heard of the expression, “Men don’t grow up; their toys just get bigger and more expensive.”? True, since adult men don’t talk of Matchbox cars, but full-sized motorized ones. What of their electronic devices and gadgets from the iPhone, Wii, mp3 players, to laptops? While we have ...
Views: 1521 - Revised – Sexual Terms - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2011 from Martha Tara LeeI was browsing through the October issue of an expat magazine recently when I chanced upon an article entitled, “Well-being and Sex”. Intrigued, I read the piece, only to come upon the sexual terms: ‘sexual transmitted diseases’, ‘impotence’ and ‘frigidity’. The author is obviously not a ...
Views: 1260 - Gurls of Singapore - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2011 from Martha Tara LeeThere is a new beauty pageant in Singapore. It’s named TruMe, an online transgender beauty pageant organised by Action for Aids; it will be officially launched next month. The moderator of Sggurls, a transgender activist who identifies herself as Nicole Singslave, told me that she coined the ...
Views: 1505 - An amazing array of sexy corsets can be found online to suit all tastes. - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2011 from Clement DivinFeaturing a fantastic array of designs and individual stylish touches to make a range so spectacular that it can suit a diverse selection of individuals, the lingerie market has, over the years, produced an exceptional assortment of basques and sexy corsets to wow and amaze millions of women and ...
Views: 938 - Five Tips for Sex Dates - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2011 from Martha Tara LeeSex does not magically happen. You are stymied by a lack of time and energy and having kids have only caused sex from being erratic to the point of non-existent. You love your spouse and want to keep an intimate connection. However life gets in the way. Sex has turned into a dull routine and you ...
Views: 1366 - Slow Down, Cowboy! - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2011 from Martha Tara LeeHow can one overcome premature ejaculation? When is faster not necessarily better? That’s right – when we are talking about premature ejaculation or ‘PE’. PE is also known as ‘early ejaculation’ or ‘eager ejaculation’. This occurs when a man ejaculates quicker or earlier than desired. It is ...
Views: 1438 - How Does One Stop Multi-tasking During Sex? - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2011 from Martha Tara LeePossible reasons of multi-tasking during sex can vary considerably: from boredom due to predictability of sexual routine; stress and anxiety stemming from work; habitual need to overachieve; to genuine lack of time in juggling work and household chores. Sexual inhibition from any kind of trauma, ...
Views: 1683 - What is Slow Sex? - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2011 from Martha Tara LeeAs the name suggests, it refers to the reverse of fast sex, think fine dining or a 12-course meal as opposed fast food. Slow sex does not necessarily infer to the amount of the time needed for sex, but the way it was being done – slow. It would be good to set aside 30minutes to practice slow ...
Views: 1624 - What is Considered a Low Sex Drive? - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2011 from Martha Tara LeeWhat is considered a low sex drive for females? There is often a sexual desire discrepancy between the male and female. I like to first emphasize that just because you have a lower sex drive than your partner does not necessarily mean there is something wrong with you. What this means is that ...
Views: 1878 - Too Tired for Sex - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2011 from Martha Tara LeeWhat to say when you are too tired for sex. There are three things to say when you are too tired for sex. 1. Say something polite, nice or caring. Thanks for asking, but… (can state reason) I’m glad you asked, but… (can state reason) 2. State your alternative. I’d rather… I ...
Views: 1213 - Do’s and Don’ts for Your Sex Dates - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2011 from Martha Tara LeeDo's Discuss what makes a good date in your opinion so your partner knows Take turns planning the date and making it happen the way you like it to Talking about what is going on in your relationship right now, or resolve old issues End the evening with a high note or with a fun ...
Views: 1375 - Best Positions to Have Sex - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2011 from Martha Tara Lee1. For a quickie You have a few minutes and you want it hot, quick and sexy! Try Wall Standing Sex where both partners are standing doing penetration. The female uses a wall to support herself while being penetrated. Tip: Bend your knees to change the angle of penetration. The guy may wish ...
Views: 1943(1 vote) - Spice Up Your Sex Life - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2011 from Martha Tara LeeWhat factors should a couple take into consideration when wanting to spice up their sex life? Consider if your partner is a visual, auditory or kinaesthetic (touch) person. Does irritating sounds bother him to no end? Is he particular about textiles, fabrics and the way they feel next to his ...
Views: 1299 - Setting Sex Goals For 2011 - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2011 from Martha Tara LeeWe set resolutions, goals and targets for all manner of things, from our career and our finances to our love life; so why not for our sexual lives? Your face might be wearing a bemused expression after seeing the above title. But, let’s pause and think about it. We set resolutions, goals and ...
Views: 2062 - Faking Orgasm – Good or Bad? - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2011 from Martha Tara LeeWhen you fake an orgasm, you are essentially putting on a show for the benefit of your partner. Your reasons could vary from “getting it over with”, “sparing his feelings”, misleading yourself with “what he doesn’t know won’t hurt”, to the inner satisfaction of “pulling it off” and “getting away ...
Views: 1726 - How Do I Get Her to Orgasm with Me? - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2011 from Martha Tara LeeDuring intercourse, it is the outer third of the vagina that is most stimulated. Some women are able to orgasm through this vaginal penetration. That is, vaginal orgasm — without clitoral stimulation. However research has shown that (Shere Hite’s 1976 survey of 3,000 women) only 30% of women ...
Views: 1264 - How Do I Start Using Sex Toys? - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2011 from Martha Tara LeeFor starters, you can use a vibrating ring which looks like a hair band except it has an external battery with an on-off switch. Have your husband stretch the vibrating ring over his penis and rest it at the base of his erect or non erect penis, and watch the penis come to live as you turn the ...
Views: 1709 - Five Ways to Maximise Sex - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2011 from Martha Tara LeeWork out suitable times in the week both of you can make sex happen. It might sound unromantic to plan time for sex but we all know how to make time for what is important to us – and sex deserves us making time. The anticipation, lead-up and preparation for the date will make it ...
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