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Marriage Therapy: 8 Signs You Should See a Marriage Counselor - Dave Turo-Shields- I Am So Miserable In My Marriage: How To Overcome Loneliness In Marriage For Good - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2020 from Kelly LaceyI Am So Miserable In My Marriage: How To Overcome Loneliness In Marriage For Good If you're unhappy in marriage, it's time to do something about it. You don't want to become another statistic. The good news for you is, you don't have to be. Thousands of marriages are saved each year, and ...
Views: 1334 - My Marriage Feels Like Roommates: When Your Husband Feels Like A Roommate - Change This Now! - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2020 from Kelly LaceyMy Marriage Feels Like Roommates: When Your Husband Feels Like A Roommate - Change This Now! All your husband wants to do is sit and watch tv, play video games, or spend endless hours on the computer. It feels like the two of you, who were once happy and very much in love, have turned into ...
Views: 1403 - How To Handle Disagreements With Your Partner: Husband And Wife Fighting All The Time - Stop The Fight Now! - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2020 from Kelly LaceyHow To Handle Disagreements With Your Partner: Husband And Wife Fighting All The Time - Stop The Fight Now! People grow up and enter into relationships and many believe that 'it should just work'. When problems arise and fighting happens we manage with the tools we picked up from our ...
Views: 808 - How To Stop A Separation In Marriage: My Husband Keeps Asking For Separation - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2020 from Kelly LaceyHow To Stop A Separation In Marriage: My Husband Keeps Asking For Separation Have you and your partner been on rough grounds for a few months now? Are you looking for ways to re-install some power back into the relationship and make it more exciting than ever? Are you worried that if your ...
Views: 909 - Rebuilding You: How to Heal From Insecurity After Infidelity - by Submitted on May 26, 2019 from C Mellie SmithThe discovery of infidelity is like an earthquake destroying a building; it rips a strong foundation right out from under your feet and replaces it with a tarnished version of what you once knew. It completely removes all stability you had, demolishes your self-esteem and confidence and ...
Views: 1367 - Clear Signs Your Husband Wants A Divorce: I Think My Husband Wants A Divorce - Signs A Divorce Is Imminent - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2020 from Kelly LaceyClear Signs Your Husband Wants A Divorce: I Think My Husband Wants A Divorce - Signs A Divorce Is Imminent If you want to learn signs your husband wants a divorce, this means that you are suspecting your husband is unhappy and that might grow into something much worse. Given the incredibly ...
Views: 934 - My Husband Wants Me To Leave Him Alone: Husband Told Me To Get Out Of His House - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2020 from Kelly LaceyMy Husband Wants Me To Leave Him Alone: Husband Told Me To Get Out Of His House "My husband wants a divorce and I am desperate to win him back, I can't lose him!" Is this how you are feeling now? 8 out of 10 women will show out their desperation to stop a divorce. They will react to cry, beg ...
Views: 1663 - Husband Is Mean To Me All The Time: Husband Scolds Me Like A Child - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2020 from Kelly LaceyHusband Is Mean To Me All The Time: Husband Scolds Me Like A Child First of all, "my husband hates me" is what a lot of women feel, but often times they misinterpret what their husband has told them during a fight or when they were angry. Relax, calm down. Your husband has married you for a ...
Views: 1909 - Exactly How To Change A Selfish Husband: I Hate My Selfish Husband - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2020 from Kelly LaceyExactly How To Change A Selfish Husband: I Hate My Selfish Husband Do you feel your marriage is selfish? Who do you think is being selfish? Lets see if we can fix selfishness in your marriage. Wife, is it you? Do you think he is being selfish? After all he leaves you alone at home to take ...
Views: 957 - Relationships Part Two - by Submitted on May 26, 2019 from Todd PuntolilloEvery day you are choosing whether or not to let your feelings about something someone said or did eat you up— perhaps literally! I had a massage client who was a mess of spasmed muscles. I intuitively asked her if she was having problems with a woman. She told me about her terrible battle ...
Views: 1066 - My Husband Is Talking To Another Woman On Facebook: Husband Messaging Another Woman - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2020 from Kelly LaceyMy Husband Is Talking To Another Woman On Facebook: Husband Messaging Another Woman My husband is having an emotional affair is not something any wife wants to be thinking or saying. There are not many women I have met who will admit that they believe their husband, when he explains that it's ...
Views: 2409 - HAVE A MEMORIABLE SUMMER! - by Submitted on May 26, 2019 from Emma Vigluccis we embark on this long holiday weekend kicking off the Summer, it is the perfect time to ponder upon what kind of Summer we’d like to have… By now most choices for academic and extracurricular activities for the next school year have also been completed, as we wrap up this year. By now ...
Views: 679 - Relationships: Do Some Peoples Childhoods Set Them Up To Crave Love? - by Submitted on May 25, 2019 from Oliver JR CooperIt is likely that just about everyone on this planet enjoys receiving love and affection. Along with this, just as many people are likely to enjoy expressing love and affection. When this takes place, someone can give another person their full attention. Thus, this can also be a time when ...
Views: 664(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: She cannot forgive all the hurt I have caused her - by Submitted on May 24, 2019 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance I came across your name in an article titled "How Not to Repeat Past Relationship Mistakes". My wife and I have been together since for over ten years, and have 3 children. and my wife has a daughter from a previous relationship. We have been seeing a marriage ...
Views: 897(1 vote) - Relationships: Can Someone End Up Being Dependent On Others If Their Adult Self Is Undeveloped? - by Submitted on May 24, 2019 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone was to end up feeling upset, they may find that another part of them is there to soothe this part of them. Or, if they were to feel a bit deflated and low on motivation, another part of them may offer them support and encouragement. It might then sound as though they have multiple ...
Views: 727(1 vote) - Turn Heated Exchanges Into Healing Turning Points - by Submitted on May 23, 2019 from Guy FinleyRegardless of our certainty as to whether we or our partner starts or rekindles a quarrel, the real cause of the continuing conflict between us lies elsewhere. Which is why, as strange as the following insight may seem at first, the importance of working to see the truth of it simply can’t be ...
Views: 1192 - Needs: Can The Fear Of Abandonment Stop Someone From Revealing Their Needs? - by Submitted on May 23, 2019 from Oliver JR CooperAlthough each person on this planet is an individual who has their own needs, it doesn’t mean that this is something that everyone embodies. Thus, there are going to be people who act like an individual, while there will be others who won’t. If someone does, they are going to be aware of ...
Views: 642 - 10 Red Flags You Should Never Ignore in a New Relationship - by Submitted on May 22, 2019 from Carmen HarraYou meet someone who’s simply charming, irresistible. You’re excited about this person and begin dating, spending more and more time together. Everything is going great, except that your new partner slips into certain “bad habits” here and there. You reassure yourself that this is normal. But is ...
Views: 1123 - Indian Matrimony - To Find the Most Appropriate Match - by Submitted on May 22, 2019 from Mary JamesMatrimonial web sites have become new buzzword of marriages in India. Parents of marriageable kids have currently most to get wed and have actually created an account as well as recorded in one or another wedding celebration website. There are numerous certain areas and also matrimonial websites ...
Views: 551 - Realtors and Dating- Can They Co-exist? - by Submitted on May 21, 2019 from Dominique NicolePrior to becomming a full time Date and Love Life Coach I had been a licensed real estate broker since 1996. This major career shift became my gift after loving, losing, and a whole lot of learning! Real Estate was a career path that allowed me to have balance between good income and the ...
Views: 838 - Looking For Love? - by Submitted on May 21, 2019 from Mary HorsmanLooking for Love? You’re in the right place. I once heard that, “What you want wants you.” It’s an encouraging thought. Looking for Love means that you are seeking what you want to find. But there’s a catch. The Opposite of What You Want It’s dangerously easy to confuse ...
Views: 637 - DWELLING AS CHANGE BRINGS PEACE - by Submitted on May 21, 2019 from Brenda ShoshannaWe all hold on to that which we love, or that which we feel makes us secure. There is an innate fear of loss and change. It could even be said that our entire lives consist of a struggle to hold everything together. We want things to be stable, remain exactly as they were. When change comes ...
Views: 4962(2 votes) - Dear Dr. Romance: My girlfriend does not like phone sex. - by Submitted on May 20, 2019 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: My girlfriend does not like phone sex. When ever bring the topic she is always mad at me. I don't know maybe it's the way her ex treated her. Please help Dear Reader: You can't have phone sex with your girl if she doesn't like it, and you can't force her to like it. Instead, ...
Views: 889(1 vote) - Steps to Attract Your Soulmate into Your Life - by Submitted on May 20, 2019 from Gagandeep SiidhuLove is one of the most important things in life. Love is our fuel, it’s the energy that pushes us forward in our everyday life. Love makes us feel alive… but if you are reading this article, then you are probably not there yet. Maybe right now you feel very unlucky in love, or you've been ...
Views: 996(2 votes) - Success in love or career – why not both? - by Submitted on May 17, 2019 from Nina SimonsMaybe it sounds impossible to have a successful business and a thriving romantic relationship – at the same time. Something always comes first, whether it’s a great job where you can climb the ladder or a great partner with whom you feel you can really last long. And then, the other thing ...
Views: 725 - You Need To Stop Trying To Save/Rescue Others! - by Submitted on May 16, 2019 from Oliver JR CooperJust because super heroes are not real people, it doesn’t mean that some people don’t try to mimic them in the real world. When this takes place, someone can have the tendency to try to save/rescue others. These are unlikely to be people who are stuck in a burning building or who are about ...
Views: 626 - 6 Ways to Restore Sexual Intimacy After Infidelity - by Submitted on May 15, 2019 from C Mellie SmithIf you are in the unfortunate and very painful circumstance of dealing with infidelity within your relationship but are choosing to go ahead and stay with your partner, one of the major aspects you will notice is the profound effect that the affair has on your sexual intimacy. In most cases, ...
Views: 1097 - Marriage and Addiction: How to Cope When Your Spouse Is Abusing Substances - by Submitted on May 14, 2019 from Emma SturgisAddiction is a prevalent issue in the United States, affecting about 21 million Americans every year. Watching a spouse struggle with an addiction can be difficult. There is, of course, the concern for the addict’s health and wellbeing, but there is a toll that is often paid on the mental and ...
Views: 852 - Dr. Romance Happiness Tip: After Infidelity: Stay or Go? - by Submitted on May 14, 2019 from Tina TessinaDr. Romance writes: When you get the devastating news that your spouse has had an affair, how do you decide whether to stay or go? Because you feel betrayed, your first impulse is usually anger, and wanting to leave – fight or flight. But, after you calm down, you realize there’s a lot you’ll ...
Views: 1138 - Is breakup that hard to overcome? - by Submitted on May 14, 2019 from Kalyna KapurWe humans are social animals and in fact we cannot live without our social circle. We are evolved this way and it is one of the basic instinct that we developed at a very early stage of our evolution. So you can say we humans love to be around people, love to have conversation with people around ...
Views: 686(1 vote) - WHY NARCISSISTS ACT THE WAY THEY DO - by Submitted on May 13, 2019 from Darlene LancerNarcissists can be charming, charismatic, seductive, exciting, and engaging. They can also act entitled, exploitative, arrogant, aggressive, cold, competitive, selfish, obnoxious, cruel, and vindictive. You can fall in love with their charming side and be destroyed by their dark side. It can be ...
Views: 1152(2 votes) - Dear Dr. Romance: I feel like we have to sneak around and hide - by Submitted on May 13, 2019 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I am in a relationship with a man who twenty years younger. He is black, and I am white. We are very much in love. The problem is that my parents are very much against my dating a black man. They do not like the age difference either, but the being black is worse. This ...
Views: 889(1 vote) - Reasons to Buy Her Flowers, and What Every Man Should Know - by Submitted on May 11, 2019 from Elison EvanIn spite of the basic conviction that ladies are confused creatures, it's the littlest demonstrations of giving – like the correct pack of flowers – that can make even the most mind boggling female melt. It's a straightforward, astute and cherishing deed that can light up your boo's ...
Views: 851 - Love is Habit - by Submitted on May 10, 2019 from Mary HorsmanI know, you’re probably thinking that Love is passion and intense emotion. And it is. Like everything though, it translates into daily thoughts and actions. If you want more Love in your life, you’ll want to adopt more loving habits. It's our habits that create our lives on a day to day ...
Views: 630 - Dear Dr. Romance: I have strong feelings for my plastic surgeon - by Submitted on May 09, 2019 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I saw you on the web and thought I would ask you about my attraction to my plastic surgeon. I am almost 50, and have been having procedures done for 6 months now. He is my age and married with 2 school-age children and a younger wife. I have very strong ...
Views: 908(1 vote) - Relationships: Why Are Some People Attracted To People Who Are Emotionally Unstable? - by Submitted on May 08, 2019 from Oliver JR CooperFor some people, being in a relationship with someone who is unreliable, unpredictable and who has the need to keep them on edge and in a place of uncertainty is not going to interest them. If they were in this position, it might only be a matter of time before they walk away. Being with ...
Views: 838 - Finding True Love with the Help of Yes or No Tarot - by Submitted on May 07, 2019 from Arifur RahmanWhether it is for finances, relationships, work, and many more, the tarot has been used to give people advice and insights. Sometimes, however, the answers that are given by tarot cards can be long and complicated. Especially when it comes to love, some people want answers that are direct, short ...
Views: 647 - Dear Dr. Romance: How Can I Let Him Go? - by Submitted on May 07, 2019 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I read "Letting Go Takes Love" and it really spoke to me. I am in a situation and I was wondering if you could give me quick advice. I feel the need to let go of someone because he basically doesn't know what he wants. We have been going back and forth with the issue ...
Views: 1018(1 vote) - Conflicts between two sisters - by Submitted on May 07, 2019 from Neetu AgarwalI was on one of the relationship forum sites and a very interesting discussed topic came across in front of me which I would like to share. This was on conflicts between two sisters. According to younger sister: Her elder sister, married with no children, has never been an easy person ...
Views: 980 - Dr. Romance Happiness Tip: The Magic of Reassurance - by Submitted on May 06, 2019 from Tina TessinaDr. Romance writes: There are a few simple communication techniques that work like magic in relationships, whether with committed partners, friends, co-workers or relatives. One of the most effective is reassurance, which is simple to do , and calms both of you down, which allows your ...
Views: 920 - The Secret Of True Love: Date Your Freind! - by Submitted on May 06, 2019 from Mike MedsenIt's been deductively demonstrated that the more you've known someone, the more alluring you'll see them, specialists at the University of Texas found. They requested that understudies rate each other toward the start of the semester, and again toward the end. Normally, these rates ...
Views: 899 - Chinese Astrology - Compatibility and Winning Partnership - by Submitted on May 05, 2019 from Alvin YapIn BaZi or Four Pillars of Destiny, the elements and zodiacs carry certain features, characteristics and structures that can foretell whether a person needs a partner or can be a compatible partner. When it comes to business, it boils to synergy between the partners’ ability, aspirations and ...
Views: 1201 - Dear Dr. Romance: why do I always have sex on the first date? - by Submitted on May 05, 2019 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I'm trying to find out why I always have sex on the first date. This is not to say that I have sex with every girl I date, or even that every girl I've gone out with has even been interested in me. It is simply to say that the overwhelming majority of my "situations" have been ...
Views: 1095(1 vote) - How do I win the women I love? - by Submitted on May 04, 2019 from Mohimenul IslamEvery gentleman I the world wants to win his wife’s heart. But this is not an easy task at all. It is not a cup of tea. You need to work hard to win her love for sure. But what you need to do actually? Well, there are some ways to win the heart of your beloved wife. To know those ways, you ...
Views: 915 - Relationships: Why Do Some People Believe That They Are Not Enough? - by Submitted on May 04, 2019 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone believes that they are not enough, it can end up having a big affect on just about every area of their life. One area in particular that this can impact is their romantic relationships. However, just because someone has this view of themselves, it doesn’t mean that they are aware ...
Views: 711 - Is Stopping Expectations a Key to Happiness? - by Submitted on May 02, 2019 from Dada BhagwanOh! I had expectations from all corners of life! •Expectation from self to do things in the best manner. •Expectation from the loved ones to always be loving and supportive, and do things as I said. •Expectation from the workplace to appreciate my work-performances. •Expectation from ...
Views: 537 - How To Deal With An Overprotective Mother-In-Law: How To Deal With A Difficult Mother-In-Law - by Submitted on May 01, 2019 from Zoey MilaHow To Deal With An Overprotective Mother-In-Law: How To Deal With A Difficult Mother-In-Law To many individuals, marriage is a life-long relationship. It starts when a man and a woman decide to live together as man and wife. Normally, there is a little ceremony during such a moment, where a ...
Views: 1246 - Husband Blames Me For Ruining His Life: I Get Blamed For Everything In My Relationship - by Submitted on May 01, 2019 from Zoey MilaHusband Blames Me For Ruining His Life: I Get Blamed For Everything In My Relationship Most wives would immediately feel upset and disappointed when their husband says he is unhappy. As someone who has perhaps been on the receiving end of this admission, you are probably no different. In ...
Views: 2246 - Your Husband Is Emotionally Unavailable: How To Live With An Emotionally Distant Husband - How To Get Him To Open Up Emotionally - by Submitted on May 01, 2019 from Zoey MilaYour Husband Is Emotionally Unavailable: How To Live With An Emotionally Distant Husband - How To Get Him To Open Up Emotionally If your husband is emotionally unavailable, and you love him, it puts you in a very difficult spot. Holding a marriage together is hard enough. Trying to ensure it ...
Views: 667 - My Husband Stopped Saying I Love You: Husband Won't Say I Love You Anymore - by Submitted on May 01, 2019 from Zoey MilaMy Husband Stopped Saying I Love You: Husband Won't Say I Love You Anymore "My husband never says he loves me." Sadly, that's a statement that many married women can make. It's frustrating, disappointing and worrisome when the man you married stops expressing his undying love and devotion for ...
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