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- Five Ways to Put the Sizzle Back in Your Relationship - by Submitted on Feb 14, 2012 from Debra FentressLet's face it, keeping the sizzle with your partner can get overshadowed by life in general. And yet, that's what part of what we fell in love with. If you want to rekindle those feelings use these five tips to get that lovin feeling back. 1.) How often do you compliment your partner? Or ...
Views: 2712 - He's Rich, She's Hot! So What? - Beyond Appearances and Towards Real Love - by Submitted on Dec 08, 2009 from Dr. Lisa Love - Best Selling Author - Attract & Keep Real Love, Law of Attraction, Soul SuccessIt's the stereotypical trade - sex objects for success objects. Attractive women (or men) for wealthy men (or women). This barter of status (looks and wealth) is ancient and deeply ingrained in the human psyche. And, it is pitched to us as the ideal over and over again in the media (television, ...
Views: 2712(2 votes) - 8 Touching Ways to Deepen Your Bonds with Your New Spouse - by Submitted on Aug 24, 2016 from Anica OaksFor many couples, getting married is the happy conclusion of a long-lasting relationship. However, getting married doesn't mean that you'll never need to put in any serious effort to keep your relationship blossoming. Going on dates, taking vacations and giving each other gifts can help you ...
Views: 2708 - How To Get A Man Back After You Hurt Him - When Will Your Ex Start To Miss You - by Submitted on Oct 19, 2016 from Tiemo DonaldDo you want to get your ex girlfriend back? Here are some great guidelines that may work for you. How to get a man back after you hurt him; Keep in mind that getting your girlfriend back depends on why you broke up and what has happened since then. If you are sure this is what you want then ...
Views: 2707 - Could He Be Going Through MANopause? - by Submitted on Dec 03, 2010 from Allura JoyWomen may not be the only ones who experience a “life change” in their bodies and emotions as they become older. Some doctors claim that many of their male patients report similar symptoms that women endure in perimenopause and menopause. Some men experience decreased energy and muscle tone, ...
Views: 2698(1 vote) - Relationship Advice for Kinky Couples - by Submitted on Jan 26, 2015 from Mike HatcherIn your relationship you may wish to become kinky. In such a case you need to select activities where you will all enjoy in our relationship. This will require you to discuss with your partner and come to a conclusion. After you decide to become kinky there are many things that you will ...
Views: 2695 - What Makes You Think You’re Right That Other People Should Change? - by Submitted on Nov 01, 2010 from Adele Tartaglia INSTANT SUBCONSCIOUS REPROGRAMMING The Life Management Center 480/220-2089 eztherapy@gmail.comAs you proceed to go right on judging the loved one in your life, and labeling them, you forget you did attract them in and many of them by agreement, for a higher purpose. Maybe them being exactly as they are, and you being who you are in this moment of time, is your gift to yourself and ...
Views: 2692(1 vote) - Maintaining Peace & Happiness in Your Relationship During the Holidays - by Submitted on Dec 08, 2010 from Allura JoyIt all seems so cliché… Happy Thanksgiving, Merry Christmas, Happy Hanukah, Happy New Year… blah, blah, blah. For the majority of Americans, the holidays have become more about consumerism and expectations of material reward rather than realizing the true spirit of what the holidays may ...
Views: 2683(1 vote) - The 10 Best Compliments You Can Give Your Wife - by Submitted on Feb 25, 2015 from Nurturing MarriageOriginally published here: http://www.nurturingmarriage.org/the-little-things/the-10-best-compliments-you-can-give-your-wife Your wife is the most incredible woman in your life! She is talented, confident, beautiful, and funny. She's the woman of your dreams and means absolutely everything to ...
Views: 2677(1 vote) - ***"Why Loving Yourself Will Increase Your Ability to Be Intimate" - by Submitted on May 11, 2010 from Sandra DawsonWhen you truly love yourself, you easily meet all of your needs. You take care of your physical needs. You take care of your safety and security needs. You take care of your belonging and acceptance needs. You take care of your self-esteem needs, and you take care of all of your needs to ...
Views: 2675(1 vote) - How sexy are your eyes? To an Oculophilia, they are like diamonds. - by Submitted on Dec 08, 2015 from Madeline FosterIf you are turned on by eyes, you may have a form of partialism, or in other words, a fetish for one particular part of the body. Many people have heard about people with a foot fetish, but not that much is known about other weird attractions to bits and pieces of the body, not including ...
Views: 2673(1 vote) - ***Better Marriage: OPENNESS is the Key - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2014 from Bisi Adewale“Can two walk together except they agree?” Amos 3:3 Openness abhors secrecy, unfaithfulness or infidelity. Effective communication makes openness possible. Two cannot agree except they communicate. You must be ready to speak to your partner without lies and ...
Views: 2670 - How to Spot Emotional Unavailability - by Submitted on Jun 26, 2012 from Darlene LancerIf you’ve ever been in a relationship with someone emotionally unavailable, you know the pain of not being able to get close to the one you love. They’re evasive, make excuses, or just inept when it comes to talking about feelings or the relationship. Some use anger, criticism, or activities to ...
Views: 2639(7 votes) - Book review: The Erotic Mind - by Submitted on Mar 12, 2011 from Martha Tara LeeThe Erotic Mind: Unlock the Inner Sources of Sexual Passion and Fulfillment by Jack Morin In this intriguing, insightful mix of analysis, anecdote and advice, San Francisco psychotherapist Morin developed an ‘erotic equation’ by drawing on the discussions of 351 respondents, straight and gay. ...
Views: 2635(1 vote) - Our Marriage Is In Trouble But My Spouse Won't Go to Marriage Counseling: 7 Reasons Why Your Spouse May Resist Counseling - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Peggy FergusonThe idea of marriage counseling is usually brought up and pursued by one partner, initially. The possibility of marriage counseling is often an ongoing debate or discussion for sometime before couples actually find their way to the counselor's office. There are a number of reasons why one ...
Views: 2632 - Understanding the Wounds of the Men and Opening to Your Compassionate Heart - by Submitted on Sep 02, 2017 from Luminessa EnjaraAs a writer, I became interested in understanding the plight of men back in the nineties when Robert Bly, Sam Keen and other men who pioneered the Men’s Movement began to write and speak up. I was curious and it fascinated me to read books like Fire in the Belly and Iron John. It also helped ...
Views: 2617 - Get a Romantic Date by using Alpha male Body language - by Submitted on Jul 23, 2012 from Jacobs jesseGetting a date tonight and even a romantic date is possible for men who understand and master the alpha male body language tricks. This is possible if they can use good seduction tips to help them to be able to attract any woman whom they desire. To help you seduce an erotic partner and ...
Views: 2614 - How to Delay Premature Ejaculation And Have A Stunning Sensational Orgasm - by Submitted on Jun 18, 2012 from Wisey LimHow to delay premature ejaculation and have a stunning sensational orgasm? If you are reading this article, chances are you are having some problems with your ejaculatory power and wanted to know how to impress your women in bed. The question on how to delay premature ejaculation is not a ...
Views: 2614 - Love, Honor and Cherish - by Submitted on Nov 21, 2011 from Dr. Gary A. & Greta WilliamsI promised to love, honor and cherish Greta during our wedding ceremony. I promised to have and to hold her until death do us part. One of my favorite things to do is to officiate at weddings, especially if Greta and I have an opportunity to share with the couple in pre-marital counseling. I ...
Views: 2607 - What Women Want - Asking for the Pleasure You Deserve - by Submitted on Oct 14, 2010 from Allura JoyFor women, sex is much more than just a mechanical biological activity. We want an extraordinary holistic experience with an attentive, perceptive and expressive partner who is willing to delve into the depths of our soul, sharing absolute bliss in divine union. Is that too much to ...
Views: 2601(1 vote) - Do You Have a Codependent Attachment Style? - by Submitted on Sep 23, 2014 from Darlene LancerWe’re wired for attachment – why babies cry when separated from their mothers. Depending especially upon our mother’s behavior, as well as later experiences and other factors, we develop a style of attaching that affects our behavior in close relationships. Fortunately, most people have a ...
Views: 2600 - Getting Feedback After Sex (Part 1 of 2) - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2011 from Martha Tara LeeIn previous pieces*, I have covered how sex is not a one-way experience (in ‘Don’t Lie Back and Think of England’), as well as how sex can be like an elephant in the bedroom when it comes to communicating any problems that might be occurring. This week, I would like to suggest ways in which we ...
Views: 2598(1 vote) - How To Treat Premature Ejaculation Naturally? - by Submitted on Mar 26, 2012 from Wisey LimIs premature ejaculation causing you much embarrassment? Have you been trying to find the natural cure to end this misery? Let me share with you 3 simple steps which you could apply immediately. You have found the answer to the question of how to treat premature ejaculation naturally. The 3 ...
Views: 2597 - 10 Creative Valentine’s Gift Ideas - by Submitted on Feb 13, 2011 from Allura JoyThe Valentine’s Day gift you choose for your loved one and how you decide to spend the day says a lot about the quality of your relationship, so give something that has real meaning to you. Gifts from the heart don’t have to be expensive and will tend to have more significance when you put some ...
Views: 2594(3 votes) - I Can't Satisfy My Girlfriend: How to Drive a Woman Absolutely Wild in Bed - by Submitted on Feb 24, 2018 from Melvin SheltonI Can't Satisfy My Girlfriend: How to Drive a Woman Absolutely Wild in Bed Do you know that you can easily drive a woman absolutely wild using simple words? Do you know that you can get the kind of results you desire out of a woman in bed and give her multiple orgasms one after the other? You ...
Views: 2589 - To Trust or Mistrust - Part I - by Submitted on Jun 09, 2012 from Darlene LancerMany people claim that they trust others until they have reason not to, but when you first meet someone, you don’t know anything about their integrity or past conduct, except what they tell you. Trustworthiness is proven over time by actions, not only by words. You can get hurt by believing what ...
Views: 2585(2 votes) - Sex - a job or a joy? - by Submitted on Feb 24, 2012 from Martha Tara LeeIs sex a job or a joy to you? Sex means many things to different people, often depending on where they are emotionally, or even the time of their life. For some, it is a chore, a duty, an obligation, simply a way to keep the harmony in a relationship. For others, it may be a way to ensure food ...
Views: 2584 - Love and the Four Noble Truths - by Submitted on Nov 23, 2010 from Dr. Erica GoodstoneThe Four Noble Truths are concepts derived from Buddhist philosophy - simploe yet profound principles to live by. Once we truly understand these principles, we can truly live in the moment, each moment. We can more readily accept whatever life is offering us, find the joy wherever we can, ...
Views: 2577(1 vote) - How To Get More Oral Sex - How to Get Your Wife / Girlfriend Interested in Giving You Oral Sex - Get Her To Give You Oral Sex - by Submitted on Mar 30, 2018 from Sylvester DanialHow To Get More Oral Sex - How to Get Your Wife / Girlfriend Interested in Giving You Oral Sex - Get Her To Give You Oral Sex Hey man, I'll tell you exactly how you can get your wife interested in giving you oral sex. Your wife isn't giving you oral for one of the following 8 ...
Views: 2574 - You Can Get Ex Boyfriend Back in Five Steps - Guaranteed Blueprint to Win Him Back - by Submitted on Oct 22, 2012 from Charles ScholarSometimes breakup and divorce can be difficult, but does not preclude you from learning to get ex boyfriend back when you are ready to try again. If you harbor the secret home that your lover will be won back some day, know that this is perfectly normal to think. If you love him, then there ...
Views: 2573 - Alternative Ways To Treat Erectile Dysfunction - by Submitted on Aug 23, 2009 from Paul RodgersSexual problems are fairly common in men and in most cases these can be easily treated. In simple terms, sexual problems in men refer to any problem that prevents a man or the couple from enjoying satisfying sexual activity. More men have been seeking help and returning to normal sexual activity ...
Views: 2566(1 vote) - How to Avoid a Blissful Law of Attraction Relationship From Turning Sour - by Submitted on May 28, 2010 from Karen KanOne of the interesting questions I received lately: Hi Dr. Karen, About 3 years ago I began learning about the Law of Attraction. Single at the time, I immediately made a list of the qualities I desired in a partner and began imagining meeting him. It worked VERY quickly: in 10 days I'd ...
Views: 2563(1 vote) - Can You Walk the Six Steps for Your Marriage Counseling Journey? - by Submitted on Jul 30, 2009 from Dr. Joseph AbrahamThe Six Steps of ‘Save Your Relationship’ Marriage Counseling Guide Six steps of my Marriage Counseling processes are reviewed; the various qualities of being a marriage counselor, a psychologist, a life coach and a relationship advice provider are outlined. Step # 1: I ask to speak loud ...
Views: 2558(1 vote) - Learn How Yohimbe Helps Erectile Dysfunction - by Submitted on Aug 11, 2009 from i-Supplements comErectile dysfunction is curable with Yohimbe! Yohimbe is one of the most powerful and effective herbal remedies that every man should know about, especially if you have an erectile dysfunction problem. Yohimbe increases the amount of blood that is allowed to flow into your penis and helps ...
Views: 2554(2 votes) - Speaking with your whole body - by Submitted on May 28, 2010 from Vic WilliamsThis is a short article on body language, written as if you will do a presentation, and get feedback on it. Speaking with Your Whole Body Time: 5 to 7 minutes Our bodies talk all the time. 80 to 90% of our normal human communication is via our body language, and much of that is ...
Views: 2554(2 votes) - Why Women Like Pink? - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Trevor MayesPink is a Fake! Because it does not appear on the colour spectrum! The word pink was first used to describe colour in the 1600's to name the light red flowers in the dianthus family as 'pinks' a close relative of carnations. However, light red is not pink as pink has a bit less green in the ...
Views: 2552 - You Have Been Sexting Behind Your Partner's Back...Part Five - by Submitted on Aug 02, 2011 from Daniela RoherIt has been going on for quite some time. You started as a joke, sexting an old flame you had not seen since college, but what was a joke at first has become a very intense activity you are involved in regularly now. You went from sexting your old friend to doing it with strangers you met on the ...
Views: 2552 - PARENTAL BLAME - by Submitted on Feb 21, 2011 from Donna TorbicoWe hear a lot in the ‘spiritual’ community about forgiveness- ie - not blaming. That applies to the present - if you’re an adult. And that’s a discussion for another blog. BUT this entry is about what happened TO US as children. A hallmark of alcoholic (& other emotionally unhealthy) ...
Views: 2534 - Sexting: New Technologies, Old Desires: Part One - by Submitted on Jul 01, 2011 from Daniela RoherLet’s discuss one particular use of technology, sexting – sending lewd pictures and texting sexually explicit messages over the phone – in the context of relationships. A case of a public figure caught sexting has recently brought the use of this technological communication to everybody’s ...
Views: 2527(1 vote) - Love: Do Some People's childhoods Set Them Up To Reject Love? - by Submitted on May 29, 2015 from Oliver JR CooperWhile there are some people who are able to receive, there are others who are unable to do so. What this means is that although someone needs something, it is not possible for them to have it. There are then going to be others who experience life differently, and it will be possible for them ...
Views: 2522 - 5 Great Strategies to Improve Sexual Intercourse - by Submitted on Mar 22, 2011 from Raymond EhomaTaking a biologic perspective, sexual intercourse or coitus is fundamentally the placing of the man’s phallus in to the woman’s vaginal for the objective of proliferation. It is looked at as the all-natural objective of all intercourse involving a male and a female. Society we reside in ...
Views: 2520 - Are you Abandoned or Smothered in Your Relationship? - by Submitted on Jan 14, 2014 from Emma ViglucciAre You Abandoned or Smothered in Your Relationship? Couples get stuck in how they relate in their relationship and no matter how they try to get unstuck, to meet their needs and to create a satisfying relationship, they just get more and more buried in dissatisfaction. The negative cycle ...
Views: 2517 - Book Review: The Joy of Sex - by Submitted on Mar 12, 2011 from Martha Tara LeeThe Joy of Sex: A Gourmet Guide to Love Making by Alex Comfort This original The Joy of Sex, first published in 1972, has often been credited with inventing the modern sex manual and enjoyed unprecedented success world-wide gracing 8 million homes. Illustrated with line-drawings and ...
Views: 2515(1 vote) - What Women Should Know About Men - by Submitted on Nov 12, 2010 from Allura JoyThe main difference with regard to emotions between men and women in relationships is in the way we communicate our feelings, wants and needs. I’ve certainly noticed from personal experience, as well as from numerous couples that sometimes men have a very difficult time communicating how they ...
Views: 2508(6 votes) - Is Texting Your Ex Girlfiend Effective In Getting Her Back? Learn More Here - by Submitted on Aug 23, 2011 from Mika MaddelaDid your girlfriend recently decided to end your relationship? Being left by someone you love is a very traumatic experience. It isn't really surprising if you want your ex back with you. You must have already texted or called her a few times with absolutely no response. If this is your ...
Views: 2497 - My Husband Never Makes Time for Me: Ways to Get Your Husband to Spend Time with You - by Submitted on Aug 02, 2017 from Banks RobertFor some people, once their marriage matures, they find themselves drifting apart from their spouse. Typically this process begins when children enter the relationship. There's an obvious shift in the dynamic between the partners when they have to go from being lovers into being co-parents. If ...
Views: 2496 - Who's In Charge Of Your Sexual Satisfaction? - by Submitted on Dec 23, 2010 from Jim BowenSometimes there are hardships in intimate relationships. These hardships often show up as: -Lack of desire in your sex life. -Wishing your partner would do just the right thing to satisfy you. -Feeling sad when the sex isn’t what you expected. -Believing that your sex drive ‘stops’ after ...
Views: 2491(1 vote) - Relationships: Why Do Some Women Fear Intimacy? - by Submitted on Aug 14, 2015 from Oliver JR CooperEven though a woman wants to be in an intimate relationship, it doesn’t mean that this takes place. However, while there will be some women who realise that this is because they fear intimacy, there are going to be others who are unaware of why they are unable to experience it. In the first ...
Views: 2480 - Dr. Romance Video: Infidelity -- Stay or Go? - by Submitted on Jul 23, 2012 from Tina TessinaIf video doesn't load, click here. Discovering your partner has been unfaithful is a shock. Your first instinct may be to run, but if you have a shared history, children and finances, you may wonder – should you stay or go? Dr. Romance shows you how to decide. When you get ...
Views: 2475(1 vote) - Relationships: Why Do Some People Fear Losing Themselves In Relationships? - by Submitted on Apr 12, 2013 from Oliver JR CooperThe whole idea of someone losing themselves in a relationship may sound completely ridiculous. And if this was to be taken literally, then yes, it does sound crazy. Because physically it is impossible to lose oneself in another person; there is nowhere to go and it is clearly not possible. ...
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