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- Are You Part of a Dating Disaster? - by Submitted on Jul 30, 2011 from Kimberly MitchellAt one time or another, all of us have found ourselves infatuated, in lust, and even in love during our days of dating. We meet someone who either looks, acts, or just is incredible in our eyes. That's why first impressions are so important…or are they? Most times, when you're trying to meet ...
Views: 1321(2 votes) - Are You Ready to Teach and Tame Her? (FemiTypes - The Epilogue) - by Submitted on Sep 03, 2012 from Bobbi PalmerOver the past few months I’ve profiled six types of women – I call them FemiTypes – who have less than healthy relationships with men. I’ve written about The Princess, The 18 Year Old, The Scaredy Cat, The Wow-Me Woman, The Bitter Woman and The Sexpot. Why have I written about women when you ...
Views: 1929(1 vote) - Are You Sexually Connecting With Women? - by Submitted on Feb 06, 2010 from Jonathon BirrellDesire for sexual abundance was probably the reason most of us got into the seduction community… …but it may be our greatest undoing as well. The allure of it is all-pervasive. With the promise of complete sexual abundance, whether that be with many women, or just that “one” you’ve been ...
Views: 1042(4 votes) - Are You Still 18 When It Comes to Dating and Relationships? - by Submitted on Jul 13, 2012 from Bobbi PalmerDating like a grownup is the quickest path to finally enjoying mutually nurturing relationships with men who are full of respect, adoration and commitment. If you're going to date like a grownup, developing empathy for men is crucial. Just like all your relationships, when you have the ...
Views: 2407(5 votes) - Are You Waiting to Be Wowed? - by Submitted on Jul 31, 2012 from Bobbi PalmerNewsflash: Women constantly push really good guys right out of their lives without even knowing it. We do it by behaving in ways that, until pointed out by someone else, are a complete mystery. Finally having this pointed out to me in my early 40s was a huge part of my transition from a ...
Views: 2730(5 votes) - Ask Lisa Daily! Why Did My Girlfriend Dump Me? - by Submitted on Jul 22, 2009 from Lisa DailyDear Lisa, I am a man, and I would like to know why my girlfriend dumped me! Women also do the dumping! Why do you NOT have a WHY WOMEN DUMP MEN column on your site? Is it only a figment of the mind that men are also human? –Representing Dear Representing, Yes, men are human. Most ...
Views: 2613(4 votes) - Ask Lisa Daily: Broken-hearted Swim Guy - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2009 from Lisa DailyDear Lisa, I just got jacked around pretty good by a gal. I’m too nice, as people say, I just don’t want to play games. I haven’t done anything yet that can be construed as being a jerk about it. (Just an email venting a little, but nothing mean.) I have never been able to play the game ...
Views: 1656(1 vote) - Ask Maryanne Blog: Addictive love and relationships - by Submitted on Feb 02, 2010 from Maryanne ComarotoThe Greeks had five words to describe the different levels of love: eros, passionate love, essential desire and longing, romantic love; philia, friendship, loyalty; storge, natural affection; agape, selfless giving; and thelema, desire or will to do something. In the English language we have ...
Views: 1531(1 vote) - Attention Single Ladies! Perfect Ways To Meet Your Perfect Man - by Submitted on Apr 05, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraWith all the parties going on here and there, there is no other perfect opportunity to meet your perfect man than this holiday season. And if one of your goal this year is to be with your perfect man, then you better start strutting your stuff, because the year is about to end. If you don’t know ...
Views: 719(5 votes) - Attract Other People to You With a Friendly Face - by Submitted on Apr 26, 2010 from Royane RealWhen you are with other people, do you let them get to know the “real you”? Or do you hide yourself from others, always acting stiff and polite? In some societies, people behave very formally with each other. In those societies, you will be more respected if you are distant and courteous, ...
Views: 4479(3 votes) - Attraction and Love Formulas - by Submitted on Jun 10, 2009 from Dr. Dennis NederI’ve been promoting a new concept on my show that has been very successful in explaining how attraction and love work. I call these them (collectively) “The Formula”. Is there really a “formula” for attraction and love? Yes, there is. I discovered them when I was working on what sorts of ...
Views: 1646(3 votes) - Attraction Secrets With Women - How to Make a Woman Hang on Your Every Word - by Submitted on Oct 11, 2009 from Chris TylerThere are many attraction secrets with women that a man HAS to know if he wants to be able to succeed with women. Most men DON'T experience a whole lot of success with women, especially not the kind of beautiful women that they REALLY want to be able to date. One such attraction secret with ...
Views: 1506(1 vote) - Avoid Dating Burnout by Thinking More Like a Man - by Submitted on Jun 10, 2012 from Bobbi PalmerThis week I spoke with my client, “Sue,” who recently entered the online dating world. Right off the bat she had scoped out a profile she really liked and emailed him. He seemed interested, attentive and pretty fabulous on paper. The next thing you know…she has a date! When they met in real ...
Views: 3209(5 votes) - Awesome Dating Ultimate Ideas - by Submitted on Jan 19, 2010 from Clifford MacHanterThe thing about dating is that it all comes down to your mentality how you see it. If you go into it thinking right away that you’re going to be disappointed, then you probably are. So why waste time in bars or on websites that are packed with fraudulent people when there is a much easier way ...
Views: 1153(1 vote) - Barriers to Intimacy - by Submitted on Jun 13, 2011 from Sylvia FlanaganBarriers of intimacy ultimately mean breakdown in communication. This breakdown usually manifests in one of two ways – blame/criticism or shutdown/withdrawal. Intimacy doesn’t always feel good and it sometimes includes wrestling with issues and a struggle. But, if done properly, and with ...
Views: 1446(2 votes) - Being Physically Attractive and Emotionally Attractive To Men - by Submitted on May 20, 2013 from lalayne jewfrewYou may or may not be aware of this, but while a lot of women want to be beautiful, so many couldn’t be bothered putting the effort, time and commitment to color coordinating and matching their clothes, put some make up on and smile for the day. It sounds crazy, but it's true. Most women only ...
Views: 1496(2 votes) - Best Cities for Single Women That Has Loads and Loads of Available Single Men - by Submitted on May 14, 2013 from Donald TilfordIf you’re a single woman looking to find that special man in your life, you may want to consider moving to one of the cities listed below if you are having a hard time finding Mr. Right. Today’s women are extra busy going to school, working full-time, and trying to find the right balance of ...
Views: 1344(2 votes) - Best dating sites for new couple - by Submitted on Mar 23, 2012 from joe crzefew years ago people think wrong to meet a actual partner on the internet. However as more activities take place online it makes sense to use the internet in the same way. The Best Dating Sites will help you find the right partner. If you are thinking the world of dating, you need to research ...
Views: 634(2 votes) - Best Dating Sites In The UK - by Submitted on Mar 22, 2011 from Dalton RobinsonOnline dating sites these days are the easiest way to hang out with the singles of your interest without going out anywhere. To some people, it may still sound very strange, but for most it is fun to meet and mix up with people online. Besides casual interaction, these sites also help people in ...
Views: 491(1 vote) - Best Pick Up Lines - Game Opener - by Submitted on Dec 21, 2011 from How To Get GirlsThere is no wonder why guys are so obsessed about knowing the best pick up lines. Only because they know that the hardest part in dating is the initial meeting of a girl and knowing the right pick up lines will help them get through this stage. At the end of the day, if you do not know how to ...
Views: 1109(2 votes) - Best Ways to Introduce Yourself Online - 5 Techniques That Will Surely Get You the Girl You Want - by Submitted on Oct 15, 2009 from Mark TaylorChatting up with a girl online sure is normal when you're surfing the internet --- she may be a friend or a total stranger, but whatever it is, it's best to give them a good impression of you. Keeping a girl interested to you sure is going to be a challenge especially if you're going to do it ...
Views: 13754(2 votes) - Body Language to Attract Women - Five Things You Must Start Being Conscious About - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2011 from Matthew JohnsonIf you’ve been around attractive women for a while (and try to attract them), you know that your body language plays a huge part in the outcome. No matter how good you prepare yourself, your body language will reveal your real emotional state to them. And some of them aren’t very attractive: ...
Views: 1153(2 votes) - Book Review: Dating for Dummies - by Submitted on Jul 24, 2013 from Joy BrowneTrusted guidance on meeting Ms. or Mr. Right If you think dating is a simple process--meet someone, ask him or her for a date or get asked out yourself, try not to come off as a drooling moron, then arrange to get together for a second date or cut your losses and work to meet someone ...
Views: 1527(4 votes) - Break or Breakup? - by Submitted on Jan 06, 2017 from Laney Zukerman The Relationship CoachBreak or Breakup? I recently had a discussion with a couple of friends about the controversy of “taking a break” from a relationship that may be heading south. It seemed that the consensus was if it was basically meant to be you wouldn’t need a break. “If someone wants a break, it is ...
Views: 1378(2 votes) - Breaking Up With Someone You Love - It is just a phase - by Submitted on Feb 13, 2013 from David BrittoFor most of the lovers out here, even the concept of breaking up with someone you love, may be hard enough to make you feel devastated. It is a human instinct to avoid thinking and imagining things that they rarely wish to see taking place. Nevertheless the reality of life is that we often have ...
Views: 3478(1 vote) - Building Attraction in Men - by Submitted on Nov 04, 2011 from Dr. Dennis Neder“Just what do men want anyway?” Yes, I get that question a lot these days and no, I don’t just answer with “sex”. (Yes, men want sex, but that’s not really the answer to this question.) You keep hearing that “men are simple” and that’s not really true. It’s based on that however that you ...
Views: 6434(1 vote) - Busting Romance Myths - by Submitted on Jun 26, 2009 from Joseph StuczynskiThis article is about learning how to date successfully, not about the clothes you wear, your attitude, acting your age, hairstyles or any other physical or social trait. It’s about YOU, and learning how to define a healthy relationship based on your desires and needs. It’s about attracting ...
Views: 2635(2 votes) - Can A Woman Date As Many Men As Come Her Way? - by Submitted on Mar 04, 2011 from Francis NmeribeIt is possible to use one word to respond to this. However, it may come out so simplistic that the recipient is tempted to treat it with levity. Therefore, let us use some explanation here. Look at it this way. Knowledge is power is a popular dictum. Dating many people and, this is true of ...
Views: 1086(2 votes) - Can I Get My Ex Girlfriend Back? One Thing You Must Know! - by Submitted on Nov 11, 2011 from John Vicki"I think we need some time apart..." Is that how your girlfriend ended it? Or did she completely break up with you? Whatever the case, the bad news is that she broke up with you. You can’t put it into a holding pattern or “save it”, test run, or any of that unreasonable act guys might attempt ...
Views: 3401(1 vote) - Capturing The Perfect Profile Photo In Online Dating - by Submitted on Nov 30, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraIf you are one of those people who don’t want to go through the trouble of blind dates where you have to put on that killer look and smile, or that fancy dress, then online dating is for you. In online dating, all you need is a computer with internet connection and the confidence to meet someone ...
Views: 756(2 votes) - Casual Dating - Find Partners For Fun And Forever! - by Submitted on Mar 22, 2011 from Sue PetersonHave you been looking for your Prince Charming for a long time? Or are you hoping to have a good time with somebody interesting? Casual dating offers potential in both respects. It is possible that you want to explore the market out there. And these dating sites present you with the ...
Views: 519(1 vote) - Celebrate the Week of Love - by Submitted on Feb 09, 2012 from Sarah AshlinThe month of February is the most romantic month of the year. As on 14th of February, the entire world celebrates Valentine's Day, the entire week, i.e., 7th of February to 14t February is celebrated as the valentine's week. This is the perfect time for the lovebirds or say, the couples to ...
Views: 675(2 votes) - Cheaters guide to get back with your ex girlfriend. - by Submitted on Dec 08, 2011 from Jay RuggOk, you cheated on your girlfriend and now want to know how to get back with your ex girlfriend... She probably won't have anything to do with you, right? Maybe you have had some time to think it over and now know how big of a mistake you made. What can you do now? All is not lost, you still ...
Views: 895(2 votes) - China Love Secrets For Western Men And Chinese Girls - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2013 from lisa yungPeople always say that it is easy to love each other but it is difficult to get along well with our other half. Do you agree? Let's have a look at how an Canadian gentleman safeguards cross cultural marriage with a Chinese girl. Maybe you can gain some help for seeking your true China love. If ...
Views: 1586(2 votes) - Christian Baby Boomers Who Date Online - by Submitted on Aug 26, 2011 from David ButlerMany Christian Baby Boomers, those born between the years of 1945 to 1964, are using online Christian dating services to find their soulmates in the twilight of their years. While they once considered online dating services as weird or taboo, baby boomers (those born between 1945 & 1964) are ...
Views: 1819(2 votes) - Christian Dating Tips - by Submitted on Jan 16, 2012 from Al SundayFree online Christian dating is an increasingly popular way for Christians to find love. Some Christians have turned to online dating because they are too busy to date or haven't found the right person yet. Others simply want to meet more Christian friends. Whatever your motivation for joining, ...
Views: 749(2 votes) - Christmas Day Dump - by Submitted on Dec 30, 2009 from Dr. Dennis NederDoc: I was with my girlfriend for 9 weeks before we split on Christmas day! Everything was perfect we loved each other had talked about holiday and kids and even where we were going to get married and moving in together but the problem I had was I never thought I was good enough for her so I ...
Views: 1375(1 vote) - Codependency: Don’t Dance! (revised) - by Submitted on Jul 21, 2013 from Ross Rosenberg, M.Ed. LCPC CADCCodependency: Don’t Dance! Ross Rosenberg, M.Ed., LCPC, CADC www.HumanMagnetSyndrome.com www.RossRosenbergTherapy.com Codependency: Don’t Dance! The “codependency dance” requires two people: the pleaser/fixer and the taker/controller. This inherently dysfunctional dance requires ...
Views: 2268(2 votes) - Committed Relationships: Use Them to Grow Towards Self-Understanding and True Love - by Submitted on Feb 17, 2012 from V. Ivana FosterSociety generally considers that relationships owe us happiness and bliss ever after. While happy couples do exist, divorce statistics indicate a great majority of relationships are simply not happy after the first glow dims. Relationships Free of Dependence This less appealing reality ...
Views: 1610(2 votes) - Compliment Men and Win Their Hearts - by Submitted on Mar 31, 2011 from Bellaisa FilippisWhen you think about attracting men and winning their hearts you may not think of compliments and using them to your advantage, but I'm here to tell you that if you use compliments the right way you can puff up their manhood and win their affection. When we give compliments we tend to focus ...
Views: 1398(1 vote) - Confessions of a Former Dating Loser - by Submitted on Oct 06, 2012 from Dana McIntyreI met my husband three years ago on Match.com. Many times when I tell people that they get this shocked look on their face as if to say “What were you thinking by dating on-line????” Well to be honest, it wasn’t my idea. I was a 10+ year Realtor who was suddenly faced with limited ...
Views: 1831(2 votes) - Confessions of a Professional Dater - Dating Advice For Women - by Submitted on Jan 06, 2010 from Carey BainA lucky few are born charmer while for most attracting and dating men has always remained a puzzle. If you have not been so fortunate with men, here is some help to assist you in mastering the art. So, you are getting ready to get into the dating scene and you want to know the ins and outs of ...
Views: 991(1 vote) - Confidence in love: 5 tips to find your soulmate - by Submitted on Feb 27, 2012 from Anna AparicioHundreds of books have been written pointing out the differences between men and women. Some suggesting that we come from far apart planets, it’s obvious that tour physiology differs and that since man lived in caves we’ve been brought up to fulfil different roles in society, and so, yes, we ...
Views: 2149(3 votes) - Confident vs Neediness - where is the line? - by Submitted on Nov 12, 2016 from Joe VeThe current wisdom is that people are attracted to those who are confident in their demeanor. They know what they want and they go after it. They know with certainty who they are, what they're worth and that they are worthy. On the other hand, wisdom also holds that men are interested in the ...
Views: 1163(2 votes) - Conflict Resolution Strategies For Couples: 3 Ways To Resolve Conflicts And Boost Relationships - by Submitted on Nov 07, 2009 from Michael LeePeople in a relationship don’t always see eye to eye with their partners. An argument about one’s eating habits can escalate into a full-blown fight about how the other is never good enough. Indeed, there are times when the need for conflict resolution strategies for couples arises. When ...
Views: 2753(1 vote) - Conscious Dating; The Art of Asking - by Submitted on Aug 07, 2009 from Joan HeartfieldAsking for what we want can difficult. As regards relationship, historically in Western society men have been the askers and pursuers. They are the gender that is expected to take the first step. This is challenging for many men and women. It is not easy for a man to ask when he does not know if ...
Views: 1309(2 votes) - Crash and Burn-ology: 6 Signs There Won’t Be a Second Date - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2009 from Lisa DailyYou like him, but does he really like you? Is there any way to tell how well a first date is going? 1) What day of the week did your date ask you out? It’s generally a good sign if your date asks you out with a few days notice — it means he’s thinking about you and wants to lock in weekend ...
Views: 6509(3 votes) - Creating Family Acceptance - by Submitted on Jan 25, 2015 from Tina TessinaLately, I’ve gotten so many anguished questions from people who are being criticized and rejected by family for making relationship choices the families don’t like, usually for cultural or religious reasons, that I changed my mind about what I was going to write this month. ...
Views: 1174(2 votes) - Creating Sacred Space for a Superb Valentine’s Experience - by Submitted on Jan 26, 2016 from Dr. Elsbeth Meuth, EdD & Freddy Zental WeaverDo something different this Valentine, something extra special for and with your beloved partner. What could you do to create an ‘out-of-this-world’ love experience that would make your partner’s heart melt and feel extra loved and taken care of? Here is what you want to do: Prepare YOUR ...
Views: 1337(2 votes) - Creepy and Deadly: The Dating Game Serial Killer and other Sexual Predators. 5 Tips for Avoiding Victimization. - by Submitted on Mar 20, 2010 from June Werdlow RogersAs suspected serial rapists or killers, people like Phillip Garrido (accused in kidnapping of Jaycee Dugard), Rodney Alcala (aka the Dating Game Serial Killer), and Philip Markoff (aka craigslist killer) are getting a lot of attention these days. From repulsion about what was done to their ...
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