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- Communication Tips to Help You Talk Commitment Even When You're Not Ready for Marriage - by Submitted on Jul 08, 2010 from Susie and Otto CollinsLindsay and Brian have been dating for about a month now. They've been spending every weekend together. Both of them are beginning to wonder if this is turning into something more. This is an exciting time for Lindsay and Brian. They are having fun together and their growing intimacy is ...
Views: 3437(5 votes) - Making long distance relationships work - by Submitted on Jul 06, 2010 from John SamuelsMany couples who find themselves in the midst of a long distance relationship find it quite challenging to work with. The main difficulty of course is the absence of physical closeness and intimacy, but there are several others aspects like communication gaps, mistrust and misunderstandings that ...
Views: 1348(5 votes) - Achieving A Strong Connection With A Woman - Learn The Secret PUA Routines! - by Submitted on Jul 06, 2010 from Andrew HunterThere are several PUA routines that anyone can use to help achieve successful relationships with women. Let's discuss a few of them. There's nothing supernatural or magical about these routines - they're basically just stories that build you up into someone a woman wants to get to know ...
Views: 3431(3 votes) - Beautiful Women - Where To Meet Them And How To Attract Them - by Submitted on Jul 06, 2010 from Andrew HunterIt's almost universal - guys want to know how to meet beautiful women. There are special places you can go to meet them, and there are special ways to treat them. I'll share my knowledge of these "secrets" with you. You Can Meet Beautiful Women Here . . . It's no secret - wherever you ...
Views: 2351(4 votes) - How The Experts Pick Up Women All The Time! - by Submitted on Jul 02, 2010 from Andrew HunterIn his book The Game, Neil Strauss popularizes the Pick Up Artist (PUA). Many men worldwide have had their eyes opened by this impressive book and revitalized their dating lives. Whether you're new to dating, or feel you're pretty experienced, the tips laid out here should help you in your ...
Views: 1801(3 votes) - Platonic Friendship- Does It Still Exist? - by Submitted on Jun 27, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraThe answer is definitely YES! But we were made to believe that male- female friendship cannot be and will not be done. It is impossible. Well, we can’t blame them- we were made and brought up to believe that man and woman coexist in the bounds of sex and romance alone. It is written in the ...
Views: 1782(8 votes) - The Disappearing Lover - by Submitted on Jun 30, 2010 from Dr. Gilda CarleThe Disappearing Lover By DR. GILDA CARLE (Ph.D.) Courtesy of Match.com’s Happen Magazine ? http://www.happenmag.com/magazine/index.aspx?lid=396 Dear Dr. Gilda, I am 36, a professionally successful divorced woman who has a lot of affection for my boyfriend. But I don’t even know if ...
Views: 3788(6 votes) - Overcoming a Past of Abuse - by Submitted on Jun 30, 2010 from Dr. Gilda CarleOvercoming a Past of Abuse Courtesy of Match.com’s Happen Magazine Dear Dr. Gilda, It has been almost a year since I fled my marriage, which was very abusive and ended in divorce. For most of this year, I have been floundering, but I have started to pick up the pieces and put myself ...
Views: 2083(6 votes) - Safe Online Dating Techniques - by Submitted on Jun 29, 2010 from Su EricksenAs more people try internet matching services, online dating safety becomes more and more of an issue. According to television advertisements many people are meeting their sole mates through these services. Whether these matches are truly life long, of course, remains to be seen. If I were to ...
Views: 1708(9 votes) - 4 Date Traits to Avoid - by Submitted on Jun 26, 2010 from Dr. Gilda Carle4 Date Traits to Avoid by DR. GILDA CARLE (PH.D.) If you’re feeling desperate and lonely, you might fall for the wrong person. Courtesy of Match.com’s Happen Magazine ? http://www.happenmag.com/magazine/index.aspx?lid=396 So you dread those “bummer” dates. Who doesn’t? But ...
Views: 2587(6 votes) - 5 Top Internet Dating Profile Writing Mistakes to Avoid - by Submitted on Jun 26, 2010 from Amy SchoenRecently *The Washington Post had an article on how dating online is a better way to meet a serious romantic partner than some other past traditional ways. My advice for dating includes the participation in online dating as any total dating strategy. I do have some dating tips for men and ...
Views: 3467(6 votes) - Duties of the Father of the Bride (Part I of IV-The Announcement) - by Submitted on Jan 05, 2011 from PROF. HOWARD EDWARD HALLERDuties of the Father of the Bride (Part I of IV-The Announcement) From my observations and experiences of the duties of the Father of the Bride, one of my favorite poems comes to mind "IF" … “If you can keep your head when all about you Are losing theirs and blaming it on ...
Views: 3074(89 votes) - Duties of the Father of the Bride (Part II of IV-The Initial Wedding Planning) - by Submitted on Jan 05, 2011 from PROF. HOWARD EDWARD HALLERDuties of the Father of the Bride (Part II of IV-The Initial Wedding Planning) The traditional duties of the Father of the Bride during the initial planning of the Wedding and the Wedding Reception include: 1. Maintaining a calm and loving tone in your home, in spite of tension, ...
Views: 3527(87 votes) - Duties of the Father of the Bride (Part III of IV-6 Weeks before the Wedding) - by Submitted on Jan 05, 2011 from PROF. HOWARD EDWARD HALLERDuties of the Father of the Bride (Part III of IV-6 Weeks before the Wedding) The traditional duties of the Father of the Bride during the six weeks before the Wedding Day and up to the actual Wedding Day include: 1. Maintain a calm and loving tone in his home, in spite of tension, chaos, ...
Views: 2976(89 votes) - Duties of the Father of the Bride (Part IV of IV-The Actual Wedding Day) - by Submitted on Jan 05, 2011 from PROF. HOWARD EDWARD HALLERDuties of the Father of the Bride (Part IV of IV-The Actual Wedding Day) The traditional duties of the Father of the Bride During the actual Wedding and Reception day include: 1. Maintain a calm and loving tone, in spite of tension, chaos, last minute pre-wedding jitters, ...
Views: 3388(88 votes) - Duties of the Father of the Groom: Etiquette FAQ - by Submitted on Dec 07, 2010 from PROF. HOWARD EDWARD HALLERDuties of Father of the Groom: Etiquette FAQ When your son gets engaged, a number of questions run through your head. Especially if this is your first child to be married, you might not know exactly what you do during wedding planning, what pre-wedding parties you should attend, or what to ...
Views: 9430(93 votes) - Chemistry--What is it and how do I recognize it? - by Submitted on Jun 25, 2010 from Alisa Goodwin SnellI define chemistry as “the feeling or desire that compels you, when in the presence of a particular person, to want to please them, touch them, and make them happy.” That’s it! Too many singles associate chemistry with the desperate feelings, longing, and compulsive thoughts that are ...
Views: 4325(7 votes) - Signs Of a Cheating Boyfriend - What You Ought To Know - by Submitted on Jun 25, 2010 from JD DeanWould you know the indicators of a unfaithful boyfriend? If you are in a relationship right now and it doesn't fully feel perfect, in other words, you think your partner is not really being totally loyal to you then we have posted 5 things you should look for that could confirm your ...
Views: 1549(8 votes) - Taming the Butterflies! - by Submitted on Jun 22, 2010 from Azzrian VisionsOh that new feeling ... the tummy flutters, the palms are sweaty, heart races, constantly checking email. Its the tale tale signs of a new relationship! But how do we keep our wits about us and know for sure that its really a love connection and not just the excitement of the possibility of ...
Views: 2179(6 votes) - Tips For Men On How To Get Back With Your Ex - by Submitted on Jun 22, 2010 from Kevin A. HedstromAt the moment typical guys are trying to devise a method to get their ex wife or girlfriend back in their life, they realize that they are presented with only a handful of obvious options. They contemplate what might have worked before in earlier times and what they assume will work. It’s this ...
Views: 1074(6 votes) - Naughty And Nice Flirting Tips - by Submitted on Jun 23, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraBefore you go out of the house, you fix your hair, put on your make-up, spray some sweet smelling perfume… then go back in the mirror again and double check your make up and your hair. You need perfection before going out of the house. Who knows? You might run into someone you like. And you ...
Views: 1352(6 votes) - How To Date A Girl - by Submitted on Jun 19, 2010 from Matthew JohnsonBased on my own findings (and experience), nearly all guys assume that they have to impress a girl to be able to date her. Unfortunately, that's completely the wrong approach; if you find out how to date a girl from guys who already did it, you'll learn that having false attitude or even lying ...
Views: 1326(7 votes) - ***Are You What's Holding You Back from Finding Love? - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerWhy do we hold on to the man who isn’t good for us, our feelings of insecurity and being less-than, or our pattern of picking jerks and liars? These are all self-sabotaging behaviors and beliefs, and intellectually we know it. Yet we cling on for dear life, feeling powerless over our unfortunate ...
Views: 2393(12 votes) - ***Dating Tip: First Decide Whether You Like Him - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerIt’s pathetic how easily I can find my self acting like the insecure kid I was in high school. These days it doesn’t come up too much, but can happen when I meet someone I especially like and admire, and get the sense they don’t return the feeling. I can get to feeling so hurt and undeserving ...
Views: 2199(8 votes) - Break the too-nice trap - by Submitted on Jun 15, 2010 from Alisa Goodwin SnellA good man . . . Single women often say they want one. Few believe they can find one. Those who don’t have one usually insist that they do. And many more dismiss one without a thought. Not surprisingly, many good men consider giving up their nice-guy image after repeated rejections that ...
Views: 3487(7 votes) - Natural Way To Keep Your Man Interested - by Submitted on Jun 17, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraHave you ever wondered why some women are as dispensable as a candy wrapper for some men and some women are able to keep their men like a puppy on a leash. Does it frustrate you that you are taken for granted by your man now? You are desperate to keep your man interested. You long for what ...
Views: 1311(6 votes) - The Six Elements of a Winning Dating Profile - by Submitted on Jun 14, 2010 from Eric LercaraFor a while now I’ve been working on finding the essential elements that you must include in an online profile. After reading hundreds of books on psychology, philosophy and attraction, I’ve come up with these six fundamentals. I strongly believe they need to be conveyed properly if you’re going ...
Views: 12588(12 votes) - Internet Dating Online - What's in Your Wallet? - by Submitted on Jun 14, 2010 from Daryl CampbellMatchmaker Carole Shattil is president of CheckMatesInc. She recently told the Mercury News, "There's so many masses of people online," People are frustrated - they meet the person, and they're not who they say they are." Some may be skeptical of this statement since matchmaking in many ways ...
Views: 966(6 votes) - What Guys Like - by Submitted on Jun 11, 2010 from Matthew OtisFor most women, the answer to this question is obvious. Guys, all guys, like a woman with a perfect body who is always upbeat and never complains about anything. In fact, the more you watch TV or surf the web for dating tips, the more likely that view will be enforced. However, in reality, ...
Views: 848(7 votes) - ***Why You're Dating and Not Finding Quality Men - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerDating can be a real pain in the butt, right? It can be a lot of work that leads to a lot of nothing. I conducted a survey recently and asked women what their biggest challenge was when they date. The #1 response was: I’m not meeting quality men. Can you relate?? I hear this from women ...
Views: 2936(5 votes) - Why Online Dating is Great for Single Guys - by Submitted on Jun 09, 2010 from Eric LercaraWhen I talk to guys about online dating, I sometimes hear: “I don’t think online dating is for me.” I’m getting it less and less now however. Something tells me it’s getting more popular. And statistics show it is getting more popular. Here are some reasons why that might be: If you ...
Views: 656(6 votes) - ***Online Dating: How to Get Started and Make it Work - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerAs if dating and mating wasn’t hard enough, technology has added a variety of new challenges to the art of hooking up. Not only do you have to master the computer crud, you have to figure out how to actually connect with another human being amidst the volume and the anonymity. Being a ...
Views: 2544(4 votes) - Confidence Matters - by Submitted on Jun 08, 2010 from Alisa Goodwin Snell“It’s not you—It’s your technique.” This is one of the first things I teach singles. It is core to my coaching program and essential to your success in the dating game. To grasp the significance of this principle and how it can increase your confidence, you need to understand the ...
Views: 2474(6 votes) - Liars, cheaters, manipulators, beaters--Spot them in 3 dates or less - by Submitted on Jun 08, 2010 from Alisa Goodwin SnellSingle men and women are vulnerable to the risks of exploitation, deception, infidelity, stalking, and abuse, especially if they don’t know the early warning signs. With statistics that range from 20 to 60 percent of partner’s cheating during a relationship or marriage,** and reports stating ...
Views: 8400(6 votes) - Research on Gay & Lesbian Couples Finds Healthy Strengths - by Submitted on Jun 06, 2010 from Dave Jenkins"Gay and lesbian relationships are . . . counterfeit . . . psychologically immature . . . less committed . . . short-term . . . rarely last . . . unhealthy for children . . ." Most of us grew up hearing these falsehoods in our communities, churches, and families. In our struggle for ...
Views: 3132(4 votes) - Groom's guide about renting or buying a Tuxedo for his Wedding - Part II (the Tuxedo accessories) - by Submitted on Dec 07, 2010 from PROF. HOWARD EDWARD HALLERGroom's guide about renting or buying a Tuxedo for his Wedding- Part II (Tuxedo accessories) The main accessories of a Tuxedo include: Shoes Socks Tie Cufflinks Tuxedo Shoes Tuxedo shoes are basically black, shiny and plain, without any designs as those you would find on ...
Views: 3868(102 votes) - Groom's Guide about renting or buying a Tuxedo for his Wedding-Part I (the Basic Tux) - by Submitted on Dec 07, 2010 from PROF. HOWARD EDWARD HALLERGroom's guide about renting or buying a Tuxedo for his Wedding- Part I (the Basic Tuxedo) TUXEDO RENTALS (OR PURCHASE): WHAT YOU NEED TO HAVE The main components of a Tuxedo and accessories include the following: Jacket Pants Shirt Vest ...
Views: 3855(108 votes) - How to deal with a controlling spouse? - by Submitted on Jun 03, 2010 from Dia ThabetHow to deal with a controlling spouse? Jane complains that her husband does not understand her and that he does not let her go out of the house without asking for his permission. She goes on to mention that if she wants to go to see her friends or the mall she has to tell him. Jane also has ...
Views: 2383(7 votes) - Buying a Wedding Gown on a Budget: Saving Money on a Modest Wedding Dress (even LDS Wedding Gowns) - by Submitted on Jul 06, 2012 from Rosanna HallerBuying a Wedding Gown on a Budget: Saving Money on Modest Wedding Dresses (Especially LDS Wedding Gowns) Chances are that shortly after you were engaged, you envisioned yourself in your wedding dress and couldn’t wait to start shopping for one. But once you saw the price ...
Views: 4279(105 votes) - Find Modest Dresses for the Mother of the Bride or Groom - by Submitted on Jul 06, 2012 from Rosanna HallerFinding Modest Dresses for the Mother of the Bride or Groom Wedding plans naturally revolve around the couple to be married – the wedding dress, the reception hall, and the bride’s bouquet – but the dresses for the mother of the bride and the mother of the groom have to be planned carefully, ...
Views: 5561(101 votes) - How to Find Modest Wedding Dresses - Part Three of Three (Especially LDS Wedding Gowns) - by Submitted on Jul 06, 2012 from Rosanna HallerWhen Choosing from the selection of Modest Wedding Dresses (Especially LDS Wedding Gowns) Brides shouldn’t go into a bridal wear retailer unprepared. Have you heard stories of someone who went to a car dealership “just to browse” and ended up walking away having bought a ...
Views: 3187(101 votes) - How to find Modest Wedding Dresses - Part Two of Three (especially LDS Wedding Gowns) - by Submitted on Jul 06, 2012 from Rosanna HallerHow to Find Modest Wedding Dresses - Part Two of Three (Especially LDS Wedding Gowns) Modest Wedding Dresses - Their Shapes and Styles Part II of Three Modest Weddings can be beautiful and ...
Views: 4003(101 votes) - How to find Modest Wedding Dresses- Part One of Three (especially LDS Wedding Gowns) - by Submitted on Jul 06, 2012 from Rosanna HallerHow to find Modest Wedding Dresses- Part One of Three How to Choose a Modest Wedding Dress (especially LDS Wedding Gowns) Once a Modest Bride have gone inside of a tradition bridal wear of formal wear department store or a nationwide bridal retailer you know how difficult it is to ...
Views: 5427(100 votes) - Un-lucky in love? - by Submitted on Jun 05, 2010 from Alisa Goodwin SnellNot dating? Haven’t been in a relationship for a long time? Don’t know why? It’s sounds too simple, but it’s true—you probably do not look men in the eyes and smile—a real smile! Not just that dry, half turned-up smile you greet fellow co-workers with as you glance up from your work ...
Views: 2389(6 votes) - ***Please Be Kind to Frogs - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerThink about the clever line we women often use: it takes some form of “I’ve kissed so many frogs I’ve got the warts to prove it!” or “How many frogs do I have to kiss before I find my prince?” You know what I’m talking about. It’s cute, and although we don’t really laugh at it, it tends to ...
Views: 2277(10 votes) - How do I know when to be patient with love? And what about Online Dateing - by Submitted on Jun 02, 2010 from Dieter AschenbrennerWhen you are first dateing someone it can sometimes be confusing when you should pursue or hold back. For example, when you first obtain someone's phone number, when should you initially call them, or should you just text message them? And how much, can you be TOO interested too soon or ...
Views: 5095(7 votes) - The Four Keys to Flirting with Heart - by Submitted on Jun 01, 2010 from Meghan Gehan‘Flirting with heart’ is an expression to describe the conscious way of meeting others, expressing attraction and begin dating! There are no rules to follow and no specific expectations to meet....except one: be in your heart and your light will shine. This light - self-confidence - is what ...
Views: 1714(7 votes) - So, You Think You're Ready For Marriage? - by Submitted on Jun 01, 2010 from Menno Spijkstra‘I do’—no other sentence is as emphatic, no words as life-changing. Marriage is perhaps the most important decision a person will ever make in his lifetime. Pledging your life to another person and living the rest of your days together; promising to love and honor each other through sickness, ...
Views: 1102(5 votes) - Mr. Wrong or Mr. Right? How to tell if it’s time to stay or go - by Submitted on May 31, 2010 from Lisa SteadmanHow do I know if and when it's time to break up? There's a lot of good in the guy I’m dating, but the bad is unacceptable. What do I do? I keep waiting for the guy I’m seeing to make the changes I need. How long do I wait? And what if he never changes? Chances are, at some point in your ...
Views: 4841(8 votes) - Single and Scared: Debunking the Scarcity Myth - by Submitted on May 31, 2010 from Lisa Steadman“There are no good men left.” Sound familiar? If you’re feeling freaked about being single, you don’t need to give up on your search for Mr. Right. You may just need to debunk your attachment to the scarcity myth. How? By participating in a fun 3 week experiment. All you need is an open mind, ...
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