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Unfortunately, we inherit an absurd wild conscience in the biggest part of our brain and psyche. I named it anti-conscience because it tries to destroy our conscience. I discovered this absurd content after continuing Carl Jung’s research into the unknown region of the human psyche through dream ... Views: 1052
As we rush about frantically preparing for the holiday season we all have a sense of anticipation. Love Christmas or loathe it those of us who live in the Western world are affected by it.
Anticipation has many guises. For little children there is the wide eyed wonder as twinkly lights and ... Views: 1052
It is simple to discuss overcoming the fears residing inside one, but it is very difficult for the person suffering from this phobia to overcome his fears. The following techniques involved in overcoming fears are not easy. These techniques differ from person to person depending on the intensity ... Views: 1050
Every year on December 31st, people all over the world make New Year’s resolutions. Millions of people wake up thinking, “This is the day I am going to do things differently!”
They yearn for a new beginning and hate themselves when, after a few weeks their resolutions fail.
Why do they ... Views: 1048
People develop ways to cope with stress over their lifetime from past experiences, expectations and environment. Coping mechanisms are triggered once we assess a situation to be stressful. However, not everyone copes with stress in an effective way. Therefore stress management can help to ... Views: 1047
As we age the accumulated effects of the knocks and bumps of life begin to take their toll. “Senior moments”, lack of clarity, brain fog, as well as aches, pains and poor sleep patterns become increasingly present.
The ‘knocks and bumps’ phrase is literally true, as reported in a January ... Views: 1045
There always seems to be more work than hours in the day to complete it. This presents an internal struggle for many women who battle with the superwoman syndrome. How can you recognize whether you are a proponent of this ever increasing epidemic?
Ask yourself these questions:
1)Do I ... Views: 1041
I am committed to living the journey that is my passionate life. I am committed to walking my path and choosing happiness over mere survival mode. I no longer wish to follow the routine that I have become so engrained in and I want to expand my boundaries, actually live my life and help other ... Views: 1040
"Overweight and obesity are associated with heart disease, certain types of cancer, type 2 diabetes, stroke, arthritis, breathing problems, and psychological disorders, such as depression",according to the Surgeon General. The numbers are staggering when it comes to the economic cost of ... Views: 1040
Here’s what I’ve learned in the last six months: Grief has no schedule. And, it’s highly disorganized.
What a pain!
Wouldn’t it be nice to block out ten minutes on the calendar for “Have a Good Cry/Beat on a Few Pillows” and have emotions fit perfectly into your day? Many of my clients ... Views: 1039
Up to the beginning of the Republic convention in Cleveland, Ohio, I, as most people worldwide, was holding to a shred of hope that the American Republican Party would come into its own sense and find a logical and legal means to replace Donald Trump with a reasonably tolerant and reconciliatory ... Views: 1038
Do you sometimes get frustrated disciplining your child because the discipline appears to be ineffective? Do you sometimes change your discipline in search of the most effective one to use on your child? Have you come to the conclusion that no discipline is effective on your child? If you are ... Views: 1037
"Talk to Me, I’m Human!" Have you ever felt like telling (or
worse—yelling!) this or a similar phrase to your boss, a coworker, or
significant other with whom it seems impossible to have a conversation? In a world that prides itself for its advances in technology, we have surely gone backwards ... Views: 1034
Many people complain about their Rude, emotionless, timid & selfish behavior. May they are true, But simply don’t look in own self and understand they have not given them a reason to open up.
Yes, I’m sharing some introvert facts and stories. As a shy guy, I also have experienced the same ... Views: 1029
Addictive Personalities
Conclusion of a Three Part Article Written by Randi G. Fine
Deep down inside people with addictions know that what they are doing is wrong. They know that their behaviors, choices, and actions are hurting them and their loved ones. But the need to feed their addiction ... Views: 1027
The more you study clutter problems in houses, the more that you realize that there is a social need to be answered, here. People do not keep lots of unused items in their house within grasp because “They might need it someday and need to have them close.” The problem goes deeper than that. Do ... Views: 1025
"We don't stop playing because we grow old: we grow old because we stop playing" George Bernard Shaw
Have you played lately? Really played? One of the things that I encourage all of my clients to do is to "play more". One of the symptoms of the disconnection from our Authentic Self is ... Views: 1020
When Emotional Intelligence or EQ made its first appearance in the mid 1990’s it was the missing link in explaining the success of people that were deemed low in the traditional IQ scale and were considered much less likely to succeed than their peers with higher IQs. The idea of emotional ... Views: 1019
Transcranial magnetic stimulation or TMS is a noninvasive process applied to cure depression. This process involves the use of magnetic fields to excite nerve cells in the patient’s brain to cure the causes of depression. This cure is chosen when other treatments do not work to cure the problem. ... Views: 1017
Is there a difference between the Me and the I? Are they one and the same? Are they both just you? There is much written and discussed, in philosophical, enlightenment and spiritual circles, of the I (of I am fame). Much has been devoted to discovering the I. Whole philosophies have been centred ... Views: 1016
If you are a parent of out of control teens, there is no doubt that at times, you may feel like a bad parent. We'll discuss why this has to be let go of so that you can turn your family situation around.
In the event you have out of control teens hanging out in your home, you almost certainly ... Views: 1015
It is always my intent to smile: to smile at a stranger passing by; to smile at anyone that I make eye contact with; to give unsolicited smiles. "A smile confuses an approaching frown" . When I smile I suddenly find my body relaxing and everything easily falling into place.
Smile. It is, ... Views: 1013
When you are at work, do you get frustrated because things don't seem to be happening the way they’re supposed to be? You see people milling around but nothing gets accomplished. And in the daily hustle and bustle, do you feel that your goals remain just that – goals. Then maybe its time for you ... Views: 1008
To understand stress, we need to look at the events that occur, our thoughts about them, and the way we respond.
Stressors: Stress-provoking situations are known as stressors. Between major life events (moving, school, job changes etc) and day-to-day hassles (traffic, busy family lifestyles), ... Views: 1008
Even if everyone desserts and abandon you, be A GOOD PERSON and understand the situation.
Even if your closest friend betrayed you, be A GOOD FRIEND and forgive her. The more you harbor ill feelings the more you feel sad and lonely. Let go of the bad events and forgive her actions.
Even ... Views: 1005
Development as a Workplace Objective.
By focusing on development, entire environments come together. This is because development is such an inspiring, satisfying, growth oriented, and positive directional principle. One of the greatest assets is how it brings people together. This common ... Views: 1005
Mental health issues are very common nowadays. According to the National Institute of Mental Health, 1 out of 6 Americans suffered from a mental health problem in 2016. This means about 44.5 million U.S. population have a mental health issue. NIMH further says the commonest issues include ... Views: 1001
All of us have that annoying voice inside our head that pipes up from time to time to tell us exactly how we’ve messed up, why we shouldn’t try something new, or just how horrible we look in the mirror today. We wouldn’t let someone else treat us this way, so why do we do it to ourselves? The ... Views: 1000
Schizophrenia risk may be revealed by face reading and finger length according to research. The findings uncovered that deficits in emotional recognition may be a precursor to schizophrenia symptoms and may help identify those at highest risk to develop the mental disorder.
There are criteria ... Views: 999
During the latter half of the 20th Century, tremendous advances were made in science and learning how to improve and preserve the body. Now, as we enter the 21st Century, it seems like the same momentum is taking off in the realm of the mind and spirit. Advances in what is sometimes referred ... Views: 998
Believe me, it's scarey! When Dead Space 2 was reported, the team at Visceral discussed striking a much better equilibrium with the pacing. This created a number of worried fans to summarize that Dead Space 2 would likely stray from the terror roots and turn into another sci-fi shooter. Be ... Views: 997
For those who experience an OCD hair pulling condition known as trichotillomania there can be a lot of embarrassment. Some of you may want to find a hair pulling treatment but be afraid to discuss the condition with anyone. This disease can be difficult to discuss due to the overall ... Views: 993
So many people I know say they hate reading. What they seem not to get is that a book is an alternate universe, where you can go anywhere, or choose to just set the book down and leave that universe alone.
-Zeke Willey
The steps to success are arranged in this chronological order: ... Views: 993
Many times your inability to try something new, different, and interesting by yourself is a big reason why you can’t find or attract the type of women that you want.
When you are limited in where you can go because you must go with someone else, you limit the amount of women that you have the ... Views: 990
“I see losing love is like a window in your heart. Everybody sees you’re blown apart. Everybody sees the wind blow”
PAUL SIMON Lyrics from “Graceland”
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Dear One,
We’re ... Views: 990
Remember getting through a breakup listening to music that defined your situation the best?
And running a car on the highway listening to music that created an environment?
I definitely do. All of us do. But why is it said how does music affect teenagers’ emotions and behavior when we ... Views: 988
Wouldn’t it be great if we could just pick the exact self help advise we needed for any particular need we had at any particular time much like we’d pick an apple off a tree, or a can of soup off a grocery shelf? What if self improvement advise were free and scattered around everywhere? ... Views: 983
Do you find yourself getting upset about things that when you take the time to really think about it really shouldn’t be getting under your skin and causing you to be upset?
Did you know, that every person has a threshold for what they can handle emotionally and that when that threshold is ... Views: 981
We all know what it’s like to want to be in control. In some ways, exerting control is an important survival skill. For example, we have every right to be in control of our own bodies and our own lives. Taking control in these cases is empowering and necessary. Controlling behavior in the ... Views: 979
The big news these days is the Presidential election; who is leading and who is not. Then we hear about the Super Delegates. The general public, who are the people that matter in any election, don't seem to know who these Super Delegates are.
There is rumor going around that your vote may not ... Views: 976
I am often asked by my students the following question: “How can one become an effective and a stimulating conversationalist?”. My response was and still is the same “One must fathom the essence of a conversation and its main components.”
After contemplation, I felt compelled to write this ... Views: 973
I consider myself pretty lucky to have an enormous back yard, complete with mature trees, a maintenance free patio, and even a sliver of privacy. This yard is ripe with potential, but frankly, it’s just a bit boring.
For a long time I contemplated ways to make it more interesting and visually ... Views: 972
It has been said that we have two life timelines.
1. The chronological timeline
2. The quality of life timeline
Often, the quality of life ends 10 – 15 years sooner than the chronological. For many people the last 10 – 15 years is filled with sickness, disease, arthritis, and ... Views: 966
Kindness is often unspoken. “An eye can threaten like a loaded and leveled gun, or it can insult like hissing or kicking; or, in its altered mood, by beams of kindness, it can make the heart dance for joy,” wrote Ralph Waldo Emerson. At another time, Emerson wrote, “You cannot do a kindness too ... Views: 966
Why is it that we have a hard time fulfilling our promises that we make to ourselves? When we say that we are going to do something, especially something that changes a habit, we make the same promises again and again. Is it because we had no intention on fulfilling the promise in the first ... Views: 964
In a couple’s counseling session, Dolores accused her husband, Perry, of workaholism. His immediate response was, “Yes, I’m a workaholic.” Joyce and I were surprised at the actual pride revealed in his voice. He continued, “I’m a creative man, an entrepreneur. I thrive on juggling many ... Views: 957
Envision your succeeding in Internet marketing as an adventure in the art of living the wonderful life through enhancing your personal growth skills.
It will probably test your metal, all the same, it is also an extraordinary prospect for private and business maturation in so many ... Views: 957
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“I think that probably nobody should ever get everything they want. I know a lot of people with a lot of money who are very unhappy.” Stevie Nicks
As we move into ... Views: 954
Everybody’s talking at me, I don’t hear a word their saying only the echoes of my mind.
Is this tune reverberating for you from the early 70’s? It appears we faced lack of
listening skills then also.
Today what comes into view is our lack of tete a tete communication. Texting, emailing,
and ... Views: 953
How to create linear and 2 dimensional barcode labels and tags
Our Company offers you very advanced barcode creator software to generate linear and 2 dimensional barcode labels, tags and stickers within few mouse clicks. Our barcode software easily designs professional as well as standard ... Views: 947