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- DEALING WITH TESTING TIMES no 1 - by Submitted on Aug 24, 2011 from Robert NajemyRemaining Healthy, Happy and Positive during “Testing Times” From Robert Elias Najemy’s newly released DEALING WITH TESTING TIMES There are periods in the life of every person when certain events and situations demand greater inner strength, courage, faith, stamina, energy, understanding, ...
Views: 2053(1 vote) - DEALING WITH TESTING TIMES no 1 - by Submitted on Aug 24, 2011 from Robert NajemyRemaining Healthy, Happy and Positive during “Testing Times” From Robert Elias Najemy’s newly released DEALING WITH TESTING TIMES There are periods in the life of every person when certain events and situations demand greater inner strength, courage, faith, stamina, energy, understanding, ...
Views: 2053(1 vote) - Playing the Victim - by Submitted on Jun 12, 2007 from Robert NajemyThe role of Victim (poor me) is a favorite for many of us. There are so many benefits we can ascertain by playing the role of the victim. 1. We automatically gain self-worth. Follow this reasoning closely. As a victim, we are the one to whom injustice is being done, thus the others are ...
Views: 20252(4 votes) - Why Do We Fear Close Relationships? - by Submitted on May 21, 2007 from Robert NajemyAlthough we want to love and be loved, we also fear both. Our past experiences have programmed us to associate loving and being loved with unpleasant experiences and especially with feelings of vulnerability. For these and other reasons, we have developed fears and subconscious resistance ...
Views: 24527(8 votes) - Cultivate Positive Thoughts and Feelings - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2009 from Robert NajemyYou need a peaceful, clear and positive mind in order manifest your needs for your self, your family and perhaps even for society and the world. Our emotions have a direct effect on our bodies. Every time we feel an emotion, our endocrine system excretes certain hormones or peptides that ...
Views: 4519(2 votes) - The Twelve Step Manifestation Process - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2009 from Robert NajemyMany of you will have read the book or seen the movie entitled the “SECRET”. Actually what is taught is not a secret. It has been known for thousands of years by all religions and philosophical and spiritual groups that our beliefs, thoughts and emotions create our reality. We have ...
Views: 4200(4 votes) - Experience the Source of Creation Within - by Submitted on Jul 19, 2010 from Robert NajemyMethod No 6: Experience the Source of Creation Within Learn to let go of thoughts and experience the silence or peace between the thoughts. Here in this silent space exists the field of unlimited possibilities from which all beings, forms, objects and interactions flow forth. Begin to ...
Views: 2457(1 vote) - Be Grateful - by Submitted on Jul 19, 2010 from Robert NajemyMethod No 1: Be Grateful Think of, and make a list of, all that already exists in your life for which you can feel grateful. Read this list daily for at least 90 days. Add to the list each time you think of something else for which you can feel grateful. Gratitude and love initiate the ...
Views: 2496(1 vote) - Care for Your Body - by Submitted on Aug 21, 2009 from Robert NajemyYour body and mind are the instruments with which you will effectively create and also enjoy all that you need to be happy. If your body becomes weak or ill, you will not be able to effectively and dynamically manifest the abundance and happiness that you desire. A weak or ill body will become ...
Views: 1609(1 vote) - DEALING WITH INTIMIDATORS - by Submitted on Mar 06, 2004 from Robert NajemyAt times, we are confronted by people who seek to intimidate us. This offensive behavior is most frequently a cover-up for their fear. Let us investigate why we play this role and how we can communicate with those who behave towards us in this way. 1. As intimidators we seek to control others ...
Views: 3160(1 vote) - Eight Step Process for Manifesting Goals and Inner Potential - by Submitted on Apr 26, 2004 from Robert NajemyEight Step Process for Manifesting Goals and Inner Potential Robert Elias Najemy http://www.HolisticHarmony.com We all have an inherent need to grow, evolve and manifest ever greater realities. This is basic to our happiness and feelings of self-acceptance and self-contentment. Happiness can ...
Views: 1003(1 vote) - Get Free from Limiting Beliefs - by Submitted on Jul 19, 2010 from Robert NajemyMethod No 3: Get Free from Limiting Beliefs Discover and then free yourself from all limiting beliefs (social and personal) concerning what you can and cannot manifest and what can or cannot be done, especially in relationship to your specific goals. Our beliefs are the one main ...
Views: 2397(1 vote) - Give to Others and Yourself Daily - by Submitted on Jul 19, 2010 from Robert NajemyMethod No 8. Give to Others and Yourself Daily Give gifts from the heart regularly to those around you. Also give to yourself. Focus also on giving to others and yourself that which you seek to attract or create. Wish for others to be well and to also have what you are seeking to create. ...
Views: 2031(1 vote) - Making a Difference in an Indifferent World - by Submitted on Mar 08, 2003 from Robert NajemyWe live in troubled times where our peace and safety are often in danger. Most feel helpless and unable to affect the unfolding events in our present world. And yet many are uniting their minds, energy and actions in order to create a peaceful and safe world with dignity for all. Some groups ...
Views: 1767(1 vote) - More Effective Communication with Children - Part 1 - by Submitted on Feb 04, 2011 from Robert NajemyToday we are experiencing an ever-growing communication gap between parents, teachers and the children whom they are responsible for. Only through honest and sincere communication can we help our children to become honest, healthy and happy individuals. Some of the basic concepts of ...
Views: 4320(1 vote) - QUESTIONS THAT WILL HELP CLARIFY OUR GOALS - by Submitted on Apr 26, 2004 from Robert NajemyQUESTIONS THAT WILL HELP CLARIFY OUR GOALS Robert Elias Najemy http://www.HolisticHarmony.com 1. What exactly is your goal or purpose here? 2. What is it that you would like to change, solve, manifest or create? 3. Why is this important to you? 4. If for some reason beyond your ...
Views: 1576(1 vote) - Remaining Healthy, Happy and Positive During Testing Times - by Submitted on Aug 21, 2009 from Robert NajemyWhat do we mean by the phrase “testing times”? There are periods in the life of every person, when certain events and situations demand greater inner strength, courage, faith, stamina, energy, understanding, optimism, inner security and self-confidence. These times may be personal, familial, ...
Views: 1567(1 vote) - Understanding the Sexes - by Submitted on Jan 11, 2004 from Robert NajemyAlthough each gender tends to express itself quite differently, most philosophical teachings agree that the soul is neither male nor female. As souls, we incarnate into a gender in order to learn through that experience. Through our experimentation with the various qualities of each sex, we are ...
Views: 1022(1 vote) - Using Energy Psychology For Getting Free From Fear, Anxiety And Other Negative Emotions. - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2009 from Robert NajemyUsing Energy Psychology For Getting Free From Fear, Anxiety And Other Negative Emotions. In the last 35 years a number of new forms of psychotherapy have become very popular among psychologists, psychiatrists, doctors and other health professionals who work with human emotional, mental, ...
Views: 2897(1 vote) - WHAT EXACTLY IS YOGA? - by Submitted on Jun 20, 2007 from Robert NajemyPart 1 of 5 Various forms of meditation and inner concentration have been developed by most cultures and systems devoted to human health, harmony and evolution. The concept of coming into contact with an inner power, an inner voice, an inner knowledge or an inner guidance is common to all ...
Views: 3847(1 vote) - What is Yoga - part 2 - by Submitted on Jun 21, 2007 from Robert NajemyTHE FOUR BASIC SYSTEMS OF YOGA There are many systems of yoga, but they fall into four basic categories. All the systems have the same goals: 1. Harmony between body, mind and soul, 2. Harmony between human beings, 3. Freedom from mechanical, unconscious, robot-like ways of thinking and ...
Views: 1182(1 vote) - What is Yoga - part 2 - by Submitted on Jun 27, 2007 from Robert Najemy3. JNANA YOGA is the path of wisdom, understanding, discrimination and philosophy. It is the path, which few can follow. It requires a razor sharp mind that is always aware of the truth that we are not the contents of the mind, nor are we the body. Everything we see is just a temporary reality ...
Views: 1280(1 vote) - Write a Description of Your Ideal Reality - by Submitted on Jul 19, 2010 from Robert NajemyMethod No 4: Write a Description of Your Ideal Reality Using your imagination, now write a detailed description of your new reality in which your ideal life and ideal self are already manifested. Write in the present tense as if all of your goals have already been achieved. Describe how you ...
Views: 4427(1 vote) - The Sheepish Lion - by Submitted on Jan 10, 2011 from Robert NajemyOnce there was a great lioness who went hunting with her new born cub. It happened that while attacking and chasing a flock of sheep, the she-lion made a wrong move, fell of a cliff and died. The cub was left in the midst of the sheep and grew up with them. As the years passed, the cub became a ...
Views: 2214(3 votes) - BASIC BELIEFS OF THE PHILOSOPHY OF THE LESSON OF LIFE - by Submitted on May 24, 2007 from Robert Najemy1. We are totally responsible for the reality we experience. 2. We are immortal, inherently divine beings in a process of evolution. 3. This evolution and our emotional and spiritual maturation occur through a learning process stimulated and sometimes forced upon us by life's events and ...
Views: 913 - Bless your World - Part 2 - by Submitted on Jun 26, 2007 from Robert NajemyWE ARE CO-CREATORS OF THIS WORLD We are a truly wonderful beings. It is incredible what we have done with our minds and power. From the pyramids of Egypt and South America to the satellites and computers of today, from the paintings of Michaelangelo to the music of Beethoven … the list ...
Views: 1249 - Experience the Source of Creation Within - by Submitted on Jul 19, 2010 from Robert NajemyMethod No 5: Act now as You Imagine You Would Then Behave now as if your goals have already become manifest. Do now that which you imagine you would do if your ideal life was already a reality. Until now, we have learned to align ourselves with our ideal reality by: 1. Realizing how ...
Views: 1943 - FEAR, JEALOUSY, SUPPRESSION & REBELLION - by Submitted on Jun 26, 2007 from Robert NajemyValery is not very sure of herself as woman. She doubts whether a man can stay interested in her for a long period of time. She rejects her appearance and generally does not feel herself-worthy. Her self-doubt creates a strong fear of losing her husband to another woman. Valery’s father ...
Views: 1603 - More Effective Communication with Children - Part 1 - by Submitted on May 22, 2007 from Robert NajemyToday we are experiencing an ever-growing communication gap between parents, teachers and the children whom they are responsible for. Only through honest and sincere communication can we help our children to become honest, healthy and happy individuals. Some of the basic concepts of ...
Views: 890 - More Effective Communication with Children - Part 2 - by Submitted on May 24, 2007 from Robert NajemyHOW WE COMMUNICATE NOW Let us briefly mention how most people communicate now. There are two basic categories; those who suppress themselves and do not communicate; and those who suppress the others by raising their voices, blaming and criticizing the others, ordering them around in various ...
Views: 1067 - TWELVE STEPS TO CO-COMMITMENT - Part 1 - by Submitted on Jun 26, 2007 from Robert Najemy(The basic ideas of this article are inspired by the work of Gay and Katherine Hendricks) We can move towards a conscious love relationship by committing ourselves to consciously working towards that goal. We need to clearly understand what we kind of relationship we want to create and be ...
Views: 1224 - A Fire in the Basement - by Submitted on May 21, 2007 from Robert NajemyFrom the book "Contemporary Parables" by Robert Elias Najemy Some of us prefer to hide our problems from ourselves and others. Because it is too painful to deal with them, we lock them up in our subconscious mind and pretend that these problems or feelings do not exist and that all is ...
Views: 861 - A Nature Meditation - by Submitted on Apr 26, 2007 from Robert NajemyYou are sitting by a quietly flowing stream in the countryside. It is spring and life is green and moist? Sitting on a rock, the sights and sounds of the flowing water begin to work their mysterious way into your nervous system. Gradually, with the simple repetition of the water’s song and the ...
Views: 844 - BASIC RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS - by Submitted on Jun 21, 2007 from Robert NajemyWHAT HAPPENED? We were so suited for each other, so in love, so happy together. We had so many dreams. Our first moments together were full of joy, happiness and the excitement of being close to someone who loved us and understood us. We were so sure that we would live "happily ever after." We ...
Views: 1358 - Benefits of Meditation - by Submitted on Jun 16, 2007 from Robert NajemyHow is Meditation Used Today? People from all walks of life, in all the countries of the world belonging to all the possible religions, meditate for a wide variety of reasons. The same technique offers something different to each according to his needs and motives. Some of the motives for which ...
Views: 1076 - Breathing Problems - Natural Solutions - by Submitted on Apr 24, 2007 from Robert NajemyBreathing difficulties can seriously handicap our ability to function and enjoy life. Air is our most vital source of energy and vitality. When we suffer from asthma, bronchitis, allergies, frequent colds or simply insufficient oxygen intake, we are prone to a lack of energy, vitality and /or ...
Views: 944 - Create a Harmonious Relationship - by Submitted on Jun 16, 2007 from Robert NajemyHarmonious relationships are the result of inner work, love and deep respect for ourselves and the other. Below are some simple basic guidelines for that process 1. Take full responsibility for our reality. We are the sole creators of our thoughts and feelings. No one can create our happiness, ...
Views: 1579 - Create and Maintain a Conscious Love Relationship - by Submitted on Apr 26, 2007 from Robert NajemyWe present you with a brief outline of some basic points necessary to tend to in order to create a harmonious and loving relationship. INNER PREPARATION Internal preparation is prerequisite for developing the maturity necessary to succeed in creating a conscious loving union with our love ...
Views: 2117 - Create Happiness with a Positive Life Outlook - by Submitted on Apr 24, 2007 from Robert NajemyThe mind is the molder of our personal and communal world. Every event we perceive through our senses is analyzed, evaluated and registered in the mind as pleasant, unpleasant or neutral. Our belief systems seek to determine whether each perceived input is something, which will "protect" or ...
Views: 1155 - D E A L I N G W I T H "A L O O F S - by Submitted on Jun 16, 2007 from Robert NajemyIn the role of the aloof we distance ourselves from others, avoiding meaningful or honest emotional contact. In this way, we are less likely to be hurt or controlled by people’s negative emotions, requests or demands. 1. We hide from the intimidator’s attack, the ...
Views: 1597 - EIGHT STEP PROCESS IN MANIFESTING GOALS AND INNER POTENTIALS - by Submitted on Nov 01, 2004 from Robert NajemyEIGHT STEP PROCESS IN MANIFESTING GOALS AND INNER POTENTIALS © Robert Elias Najemy http://www.HolisticHarmony.com 1. Clarify goals 2. Set Intention (consciously and subconsciously) 3. Determine Actions and "sacrifices of love" 4. Remove inner obstacles ? 3 kinds ? Present State ? Effort - ...
Views: 1252 - Flowing Through the Labyrinth of the Mind with EFT - by Submitted on May 01, 2007 from Robert NajemyWhen employing EFT with clients, feel that, with each round, we are peeling off layers of emotions and beliefs based on incorrect childhood (or from the past in general) programming and conclusions about ourselves, life and others. With the effective removal of the disturbed or distorted ...
Views: 715 - From Codependency to Cocommitment - Part 1 - by Submitted on May 01, 2007 from Robert NajemyTwo new words have become very popular in studying the Psychology of Relationships. They are codependence and co-commitment, which describe two totally different types of relationships. CODEPENDENCE Codependence describes a situation in which two people are dependent or addicted to each other. ...
Views: 1352 - HE DOESN'T LOVE ME - by Submitted on Jun 27, 2007 from Robert NajemySonia is unhappy because she feels her husband Philip does not love her. How does she know this? He is not affectionate with her. He does not agree with her. He does not like how she cooks or cleans the house. He criticizes and rejects her. He raises his voice in arguments. She feels very ...
Views: 1480 - High Blood Pressure - Natural Solutions - by Submitted on May 01, 2007 from Robert NajemySome of the Causes of High Blood Pressure Before analyzing some of the effective solutions for high blood pressure, we must first look at some of the possible causes of this problem. According to modern medicine some of the basic causes of high blood pressure are: 1. MALFUNCTIONING OF THE ...
Views: 898 - How We Create Our Personal Reality - by Submitted on Jun 22, 2007 from Robert NajemyIn order to be able to love purely and steadily we need to understand how our reality is created A major obstacle to pure and steady love is our confusion about who is responsible for what happens to us and how we feel about it. This confusion is caused by two mistaken perceptions: 1. That ...
Views: 1493 - How We Evaluate Ourselves - by Submitted on Jun 15, 2007 from Robert NajemyFrom the book "Contemporary Parables" We need to understand how we value ourselves and hopefully heal ourselves from an epidemic of self-doubt and self-rejection. We are spirit which is eternal and divine. Being divine in nature there is no question about our worthiness. As spirit we are ...
Views: 4263 - Ho’oponopono -How We Create Our Reality -Part 1 - by Submitted on Feb 13, 2008 from Robert NajemyHO’OPONOPONO & POSSIBLE REFLECTIONS OF OUR INNER WORLD IN OTHERS AND THE WORLD AT LARGE Note: As this subject needs a deeper explanation the article is broken down into four parts. The first deals with the nature of interconnectedness and the technique of Ho’oponopono The second explains how we ...
Views: 2930 - Ho’oponopono Part 2 Of 4 - by Submitted on Feb 16, 2008 from Robert NajemyCreating reality through interpretation and projection Note: As this subject needs a deeper explanation the article is broken down into four parts. The first deals with the nature of interconnectedness and the technique of Ho’oponopono The second explains how we create reality through ...
Views: 2319 - JEALOUSY - by Submitted on Jun 27, 2007 from Robert NajemyBill is very jealous of Efi and does not want her to ever leave the house without him. He is afraid that some man might approach her, and he cannot stand the idea of another man even looking at her. Although she has given him no concrete reason to fear, for some reason, he does not trust her. ...
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