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- Dear Dr. Romance: I want to break-up with him, but I don't know how - by Submitted on Jul 04, 2011 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I heard you on the radio and I have a relationship question for you. I have been dating my boyfriend for seven years, I care for him deeply. However, I am not happy. I want to break-up with him, but I don't know the best way to do it and not hurt him. I would still like to ...
Views: 1359 - Deciding to Stop Failing in Your Relationships is a Wise Decision: Make the Necessary Changes and Win! - by Submitted on Jan 16, 2013 from Doron GilIntroduction The decision to keep failing in your relationships and suffer the painful consequences, or get up the courage to acknowledge what makes you fail and become able to eventually have the relationship you so much desire is yours, and yours alone! ** It might be difficult for you ...
Views: 1359(1 vote) - 3 Things You Should Not Do When Dating - by Submitted on Jul 06, 2016 from Kemi SogunleDating is no longer, what it used to be. You also have to realize that your boyfriend or girlfriend had his or her own friends’ priority to meeting you. Dating is about learning and exploring the possibilities that exist in a relationship and figuring out if the relationship can move to the next ...
Views: 1358 - Here's what to do when you're worried about the holidays. - by Submitted on Nov 20, 2017 from Martha BodyfeltFor many of us, the holidays can feel dark, lonely, and stressful—especially if we are going through or recovering from divorce. And instead of looking forward to the beautiful decorations, smell of baking pies, and holiday songs on the radio, we instead may feel triggered by sadness. Moving ...
Views: 1357 - Self-manipulations, Justifications and Explanations Singles Use to Justify their Failed Relationships - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Doron GilDuring my many years of experience with Self-Awareness and Relationships I’ve witnessed often how many people use self-manipulations to justify to themselves why they AREN’T successful in developing an intimate relationship. These justifications apparently help them feel “good” about themselves. ...
Views: 1356 - 10 Best Things to Do on a First Date to Attract Single Women - by Submitted on Jan 10, 2011 from Don Diebel1. Read the newspaper and listen to the news on the day of your date. This will give you some good topics for conversation. 2. Before going on your date, rehearse telling some funny stories. Single women are attracted to men who can make them laugh. 3. Act like you are genuinely interested ...
Views: 1355 - Be Aware: Self-Sacrifice, Neediness and “Being there” for Your Partner Might Harm Your Relationships - by Submitted on Dec 13, 2012 from Doron GilIf you are single looking for a partner and your friends ask: “Do you want a relationship?” you certainly answer affirmatively. But often, once you have one, something odd happens: you give up and ignore your own will. You tell yourself: “I have a relationship - and that’s what matters! Do ...
Views: 1355 - Dear Dr. Romance: I think I am missing myself - by Submitted on Dec 08, 2015 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I think I am missing myself Dear Dr. Romance: I am a women in my early twenties from India. I have gone through your website and i think u can help me. For the first time in life I am so confused, so helpless, and I don't know what i want. Everything ...
Views: 1354(1 vote) - Single Mom Dating Another Suitor - by Submitted on May 03, 2014 from Jessica RectorWith Suitor #1, he and I talked via text and on the phone a lot. Then when we met in person, there wasn't any chemistry. A friend told me next time to not talk with the guy so much. That way there wouldn't be expectations. So I decided to try this tactic, because at this point, I'm willing to ...
Views: 1353 - Conscious Dating; The Art of Asking - by Submitted on Aug 07, 2009 from Joan HeartfieldAsking for what we want can difficult. As regards relationship, historically in Western society men have been the askers and pursuers. They are the gender that is expected to take the first step. This is challenging for many men and women. It is not easy for a man to ask when he does not know if ...
Views: 1352(2 votes) - Are You a Single Mother In Search for a Partner? Awareness is Vital to Your Success - by Submitted on Apr 28, 2013 from Doron GilIntroduction Single mothers who wish to find a partner with whom to develop a serious and successful relationship need to be aware of their expectations and needs and share these with the prospective partner. If he will do likewise they increase the likelihood of becoming able to develop and ...
Views: 1351(1 vote) - Single Mom Finding Love Before 40 - by Submitted on Apr 01, 2014 from Jessica RectorWhy are you still single? It's this the question every single person hates. I used to get this question all the time. Now, I get more of the statement that's a question, "You're single?!" What follows immediately is "Why?" I used to say, "If I knew the answer, I wouldn't be single anymore." ...
Views: 1351 - Why Men Need Women and Why Not to Stay Single - by Submitted on Nov 09, 2013 from Jenny TranMen should take a look at women for themselves if they are single. The problem with many processes involving men looking for women is that they often fail due to men thinking that they can simply get by as single people. However, the truth is that men need women to have to get married at some ...
Views: 1349 - Do You Perceive Yourself to be a “Special” Person, therefore Not Succeeding at Having an Intimate Relationship? - by Submitted on Dec 05, 2012 from Doron GilIf you are unsuccessful in developing an intimate relationship you might – like many others - perceive yourself as being “particular” – hereby justifying to yourself the fact that you are unsuccessful. But the fact of the matter is, “particular” are those who are willing to develop ...
Views: 1348(2 votes) - Relationships: Can Being Needy Cause Someone To Put Up With Bad Behaviour? - by Submitted on Dec 27, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone hasn’t eaten for a little while, they can end up eating things that are not good for them. Due to how hungry they are, it can stop them from being able to resist this type of food. They can find that their will power has deserted them and that they don’t even take the time to ...
Views: 1348 - How to Attract Beautiful Women - Why You Should NEVER Believe She Is Out Of Your League - by Submitted on Sep 14, 2010 from Chris TylerOne of the things that becomes clearer the older that I get, is that most guys really do end up believing that an attractive woman is out of their league. I had a run in with someone that I had gone to high school with, and it was a little eye opening. See, not too long after high school, this ...
Views: 1345(4 votes) - Why Do You Fall Time & Again for Prospective Partners whom You Should Have Never Dated? - by Submitted on Mar 24, 2013 from Doron GilYou might have heard the following from your friend: “Have I known it ahead of time, I wouldn’t even begun going out with him” . The question is: was it possible for her to know it ahead of time? And the answer is: it depends. It depends on signs and hints she might have noticed. On her ...
Views: 1345(1 vote) - She Will Fall in Love With You - But You Have to Know How to Make Her Feel That Way - by Submitted on Feb 06, 2010 from Chris TylerSo, you've met or know a woman that you just cannot seem to get out of your mind. Everywhere you go and everything that you do, you find yourself drifting back to thoughts of her. You want to be able to make her fall in love. You want her to say that she feels the same way about you. Feeling ...
Views: 1343(8 votes) - Relationships: Why Do Some People Put Up With Bad Behaviour When Someone Is Attractive? - by Submitted on Dec 26, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperFor some people, it is not going to matter what someone looks like as they won’t put up with behaviour that has a negative effect on them. Therefore, if they have just met someone or if they are in a relationship, their behaviour is not going to change. But if there is a difference, they ...
Views: 1342 - Survive A Break Up The Easy Way - by Submitted on Oct 06, 2009 from Tim RyanThe majority of people at some point in their lives will go through the ugly experience of a break up. This is always a difficult time and the stress can cause physical symptoms such as nausea, sleeplessness, over or under eating to name but a few. So how can you get yourself from feeling all ...
Views: 1341(2 votes) - Tried of the divorce insanity? Here's how to escape it! - by Submitted on Jul 17, 2017 from Martha BodyfeltAt this point in your divorce journey, you may have already done some research. You may have already talked to a lawyer. You may have already gone on some support forums to see if others have experienced the same crap that you are feeling right now. Some of what others on the forums, or what ...
Views: 1341 - How to Approach Women Without Any Fear - by Submitted on Oct 09, 2009 from Chris TylerA lot of men hold back from approaching women due to fear. They are afraid that they will be rejected and as a result, they allow beautiful women to pass them by, instead of taking the chance to approach her and get to know her. You cannot expect to improve your dating life if you are not ...
Views: 1339(1 vote) - Funny Atlanta Dating Stories - by Submitted on Feb 25, 2011 from Lisa LyngosAnyone in the dating game knows a thing or two about good dates gone bad – spinach in the teeth, spilling wine on your date, running into an ex. And don’t we all love reminiscing about these awful, sometimes shocking, and, at times, completely mortifying moments! Here are some memorable stories ...
Views: 1338 - How to Get a Girlfriend: The 3 Important Steps to Getting the Girl of Your Dreams - by Submitted on Feb 20, 2023 from Josh ManuelGetting a girlfriend, to many guys can be a difficult endeavour. They have to join tons of online dating sites, use social media, join a cooking class in the hopes that they will find the perfect girlfriend. Yes, these are some of the things you can do to find yourself a girlfriend. Or you can ...
Views: 1338(2 votes) - Secrets of Attracting Women - You Control the Outcome - by Submitted on Feb 25, 2011 from Chris TylerMost guys when they are really attracted to a woman come from a place of absolutely no power and control in how they deal with her. Meaning, they walk up to her, try their best to impress her and hope that she somehow accepts them and wants to spend more time with them. It's kind of like, they ...
Views: 1337 - What Is My Ex Boyfriend Thinking - How To Convince Your Ex Boyfriend To Take You Back - Everything Guide - by Submitted on Oct 17, 2016 from Tiemo DonaldWhat is my ex boyfriend thinking; You have broken up with your boyfriend a few weeks ago. You have not talked to him at all during that time and you have been thinking that you would like to get back together with him. At this point do you know how to go about it? If not, you are in the best ...
Views: 1336 - An Appointment With Techno-romantic Thriller Writer Denise Robbins on Merging Engineering and Fiction - by Submitted on Feb 04, 2021 from kingof seoMany individuals do not realize just how much technology they use each and every day. We are a world that's virtually run from the technology that we have made over the past 100 years. Whilst the decades have removed by, engineering that advanced and we've been able to call home our lives a lot ...
Views: 1334 - I'd Like To Repair A Broken Relationship - What Do I Talk About? - by Submitted on Nov 04, 2011 from Jessica FreirSoon after being part of a split, a lot of people enter a mind-set of believing the explanation why their former partner finished the connection had been simply because they didn't believe that they had been valued. Certainly the very best strategy to take in this situation would likely be to ...
Views: 1329 - Are You Aware that You Might Be Sabotaging Your Relationships? - by Submitted on Jun 01, 2011 from Doron GilWe all want to think we know ourselves well enough. That we know who we are, what kind of a relationship we want to have and how to behave with our partner. In all likelihood you are no exception. Yet there might be some things about yourself that you DON’T know. Unfortunately, these ...
Views: 1323(4 votes) - Imagine Growing Up In Today's Social Media World! - by Submitted on Oct 05, 2016 from Madeline FosterThe Problems With Today's Mobile Technology! Have you ever wondered what it would have been like if you owned a mobile phone back in the day? Today it is just commonplace to see posts on Facebook about where you went out, what you ate, and who you were with. Now that I am over fifty, ...
Views: 1323(1 vote) - Internet Dating: Should Someone Edit Their Pictures When They Use Internet Dating? - by Submitted on Sep 05, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperWhen one goes out at night with the intention of meeting someone, there is a strong chance that they will want to be at their best. There are then going to be a number of things that they can do. The first thing they are likely to do is to make sure they look right, and this will involve the ...
Views: 1323 - Do You Know What Stands in Your Way from Having a Successful Intimate Relationship? - by Submitted on Mar 13, 2013 from Doron GilIntroduction If you wholeheartedly wish to have an intimate relationship and don’t yet have one, it is important that you understand the true reasons for not succeeding. Implementing five simple steps might help you figure out how to proceed to having the relationship you hope ...
Views: 1322 - Meeting Singles in Your Area is Easy and Free to Do - by Submitted on Nov 07, 2013 from Jenny TranIt is not too hard to get out and find different singles where you live. Local singles can be easy to find when you look in the right places for it. These include not only online places but also a few physical spots where it might be easier for you to find singles at. First, singles in your ...
Views: 1320(1 vote) - How to Change from Being Single & Alone to Having a Satisfying Intimate Relationship - by Submitted on May 17, 2013 from Doron GilIntroduction If you are without a relationship for a long time now, you might consider yourself “a loneliness expert”. Indeed, such an option is always available. But before you decide to adapt such an “expertise” you can choose another option: to look inwards, find out things about yourself ...
Views: 1319 - Single Mom Dating - by Submitted on Apr 01, 2014 from Jessica RectorI didn't date a lot when I was younger. I always used to say it was because I enjoyed hanging out with my friends (which I did), but really it was more about never getting asked out. Everyone wants to be liked. Everyone wants to be asked out. College I dated more, well hung out with guys, ...
Views: 1316 - Approaching Women Wherever You Go - The Real Secret to Meeting Women - by Submitted on Aug 12, 2012 from Chris TylerOne alarming trend that I see amongst men that are kind of fed up and frustrated with their social life or lack of one, is that they seem to fall back on the premise that it is hard to meet women. While I can understand this on a surface level, and I can also remember back on a time when I felt ...
Views: 1315(4 votes) - Dating and The Phone Call - by Submitted on Sep 20, 2017 from Merry BattlesDATING Dating. Who ever invented such a morbid institution? When one meets, all hopes open. Will this be the big #1? First date goes well. A kiss, a sweet kiss. Sometimes a passionate one. Then the lady waits. She waits by that phone. How many years does one wait For that ...
Views: 1315 - Dear Dr. Romance: I just don't understand men - by Submitted on Aug 04, 2011 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I'll admit, I just don't understand men. Do they want us to be perfect all the time? I mean, I think I'm a pretty okay person. I honestly like myself for who I am. It took me a long time to get to this point. I'm not a model, but reasonably attractive for a woman in her 40s. ...
Views: 1311 - Singles Rejoice: 11 Valentine’s Day Spiritual Tips - by Submitted on Feb 04, 2013 from Scott & Stephen PetulloValentine’s day can be a wonderful day for happy couples. But what about everyone else? We don’t mean to be a downer for those of you who are romance fans, but it can be one of the most depressing days of the year for a large percentage of the population that is single or unhappily involved. ...
Views: 1311 - Dating: Should Someone Message Another Person If They Go Silent? - by Submitted on Feb 03, 2018 from Oliver JR CooperNowadays, there are so many ways for people to find someone to be with, which is a far cry from how it used to be. In the past, one would have had to physically meet another person in order to be able to take the next step, but this is not longer necessary. Another Option Now, one can ...
Views: 1308 - Dear Dr. Romance: Even though i dont want to talk to him, i miss him - by Submitted on Oct 27, 2017 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I am a college girl doing master degree. I am facing some problems pertaining to my love life and i wan help from u. My relation with my boyfriend is about a year old. After we got committed he is transferred to a different state. We are away from each other for the past ...
Views: 1306 - Waking Up Is Hard To Do - by Submitted on Nov 18, 2011 from Laura SmithImagine This: You're in dreamland. Zzzzzzzzzz. Blissful. Unaware. Major REM activity going on. Suddenly, the alarm goes off. You tap the snooze button. You're a bit groggy. THEN IT HITS YOU LIKE A FREIGHT TRAIN -- OUCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! MY HEART IS BROKEN! I used to loathe going to ...
Views: 1306 - 9 Ways to Kill Awkward Dates - by Submitted on Mar 22, 2013 from Pete ZephyrEver been on a date that really sucked? That you wondered if you could successfully drown yourself in your soup before the waiters pulled you out? Maybe you couldn’t think of anything to say or maybe everything that came out of the other person’s mouth grinded on your soul a little bit and made ...
Views: 1304(2 votes) - Benefits of Using SMS Chat While Dating - by Submitted on Sep 06, 2011 from Roxie GutierrezWhat are the advantages of working SMS chat into your routine when you are dating someone new? Well, one of the biggest benefits is that you can communicate pretty much at any time or anywhere. Even situations where you would either have a hard time calling someone on the phone or where it ...
Views: 1303 - Over 40 Dating: Sex or No Sex? - by Submitted on Sep 28, 2017 from Shawn YanThere are dozens of reasons that men and women over the age of 40 pursue romantic relationships. The reasons range from wanting to have fun, the desire to meet new people, a need or want for sex, or the hope that they’ll fall in love. Now, what if someone over the age of 40 wants to engage in a ...
Views: 1301 - Don’t Sabotage Your Relationship! Become Aware of What You Do – and Change! - by Submitted on Mar 27, 2012 from Doron GilWHY DO YOU FAIL TO DEVELOP A SUCCESSFUL INTIMATE RELATIONSHIP? If you have been trying for quite some time now to find a partner with whom to develop a satisfying relationship but in vain, or are having continuous problems with your partner, there is probably something you do wrong. ...
Views: 1299 - Relationships: It Is Normal For Someone's Ex To No Longer Talk To Them? - by Submitted on Feb 19, 2017 from Oliver JR CooperWhen a relationship comes to an end, it can mean that two people are happy to be able to move on with their life. It could then be said that this was something that had run its course, and that there was no reason for them to stay together. Now, this is not to say that one of them won’t feel ...
Views: 1298 - Speed Dating In London: Exciting Way For Singles To Mingle - by Submitted on Oct 31, 2007 from Janet ShawLife is becoming more and more hectic these days. After the whole week’s hard work, weekends are usually the only time you can have for yourself. And it’s the time that you would like to spend with lovely and interesting people who can make you feel at ease instantly. To find your ...
Views: 1297 - What to do When the Fear of Change Withholds You from Changing an Unsatisfying Relationship - by Submitted on Dec 01, 2011 from Doron GilINTRODUCTION Whether single or in an unsatisfying relationship, you might be afraid to change your situation. You might want to do so; you might tell yourself you are “about to doing so”; you might wait for “the right moment” to making a change in your life. But time goes by and you find ...
Views: 1297 - Party Buses: All You Need To Know About Your Fun Ride! - by Submitted on Sep 19, 2018 from Ron SpencerAre you arc’d up knowing that you won’t be able to travel to a pub crawl with all your close mates? Don’t get all Berko, cobber, as hiring bee's knees party bus for your traveling needs will be the perfect option for your transfers. The facilities present in these luxurious ...
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