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Many individuals do not realize just how much technology they use each and every day. We are a world that's virtually run from the technology that we have made over the past 100 years. Whilst the decades have removed by, engineering that advanced and we've been able to call home our lives a lot ... Views: 1401
As much as you might want to have a successful, healthy and satisfying relationship, and as much you think you do “all you can” in order to have one, you might still, unconsciously, react and behave in ways which hurt your bond.
This is normal and humane, and many share this problem. The ... Views: 1400
1. Read the newspaper and listen to the news on the day of your date. This will give you some good topics for conversation.
2. Before going on your date, rehearse telling some funny stories. Single women are attracted to men who can make them laugh.
3. Act like you are genuinely interested ... Views: 1399
Dear Dr. Romance: I think I am missing myself
Dear Dr. Romance:
I am a women in my early twenties from India. I have gone through your website and i think u can help me. For the first time in life I am so confused, so helpless, and I don't know what i want. Everything ... Views: 1399
Why are you still single? It's this the question every single person hates. I used to get this question all the time. Now, I get more of the statement that's a question, "You're single?!"
What follows immediately is "Why?" I used to say, "If I knew the answer, I wouldn't be single anymore." ... Views: 1397
You might have heard the following from your friend: “Have I known it ahead of time, I wouldn’t even begun going out with him” .
The question is: was it possible for her to know it ahead of time?
And the answer is: it depends. It depends on signs and hints she might have noticed. On her ... Views: 1397
Men should take a look at women for themselves if they are single. The problem with many processes involving men looking for women is that they often fail due to men thinking that they can simply get by as single people. However, the truth is that men need women to have to get married at some ... Views: 1397
One thing that may be helpful is to get to know the other person at an arm’s length. What I mean by this is that sometimes getting to know someone without being face to face all of the time can be a good thing. This is because you won’t be so caught up in the physical attraction (or even the ... Views: 1396
If one was to go out into the world with the intention of finding another person to be with, it is going to be important for them to come across in the right way. Now, this is not to say that there is only going to be one way for them to behave.
For one thing, it can be necessary for them ... Views: 1396
During my many years of experience with Self-Awareness and Relationships I’ve witnessed often how many people use self-manipulations to justify to themselves why they AREN’T successful in developing an intimate relationship. These justifications apparently help them feel “good” about themselves. ... Views: 1396
Dear Dr. Romance:
I heard you on the radio and I have a relationship question for you. I have been dating my boyfriend for seven years, I care for him deeply. However, I am not happy. I want to break-up with him, but I don't know the best way to do it and not hurt him. I would still like to ... Views: 1395
If you are single looking for a partner and your friends ask: “Do you want a relationship?” you certainly answer affirmatively. But often, once you have one, something odd happens: you give up and ignore your own will. You tell yourself: “I have a relationship - and that’s what matters!
Do ... Views: 1394
With Suitor #1, he and I talked via text and on the phone a lot. Then when we met in person, there wasn't any chemistry. A friend told me next time to not talk with the guy so much. That way there wouldn't be expectations. So I decided to try this tactic, because at this point, I'm willing to ... Views: 1394
Asking for what we want can difficult. As regards relationship, historically in Western society men have been the askers and pursuers. They are the gender that is expected to take the first step. This is challenging for many men and women. It is not easy for a man to ask when he does not know if ... Views: 1392
Getting a girlfriend, to many guys can be a difficult endeavour. They have to join tons of online dating sites, use social media, join a cooking class in the hopes that they will find the perfect girlfriend. Yes, these are some of the things you can do to find yourself a girlfriend. Or you can ... Views: 1392
Introduction
Single mothers who wish to find a partner with whom to develop a serious and successful relationship need to be aware of their expectations and needs and share these with the prospective partner. If he will do likewise they increase the likelihood of becoming able to develop and ... Views: 1391
At this point in your divorce journey, you may have already done some research. You may have already talked to a lawyer. You may have already gone on some support forums to see if others have experienced the same crap that you are feeling right now. Some of what others on the forums, or what ... Views: 1387
If you are unsuccessful in developing an intimate relationship you might – like many others - perceive yourself as being “particular” – hereby justifying to yourself the fact that you are unsuccessful. But the fact of the matter is, “particular” are those who are willing to develop ... Views: 1386
If someone hasn’t eaten for a little while, they can end up eating things that are not good for them. Due to how hungry they are, it can stop them from being able to resist this type of food.
They can find that their will power has deserted them and that they don’t even take the time to ... Views: 1383
Anyone in the dating game knows a thing or two about good dates gone bad – spinach in the teeth, spilling wine on your date, running into an ex. And don’t we all love reminiscing about these awful, sometimes shocking, and, at times, completely mortifying moments! Here are some memorable stories ... Views: 1381
What is my ex boyfriend thinking; You have broken up with your boyfriend a few weeks ago. You have not talked to him at all during that time and you have been thinking that you would like to get back together with him. At this point do you know how to go about it? If not, you are in the best ... Views: 1379
So, you've met or know a woman that you just cannot seem to get out of your mind. Everywhere you go and everything that you do, you find yourself drifting back to thoughts of her. You want to be able to make her fall in love. You want her to say that she feels the same way about you. Feeling ... Views: 1378
The majority of people at some point in their lives will go through the ugly experience of a break up. This is always a difficult time and the stress can cause physical symptoms such as nausea, sleeplessness, over or under eating to name but a few. So how can you get yourself from feeling all ... Views: 1377
One of the things that becomes clearer the older that I get, is that most guys really do end up believing that an attractive woman is out of their league. I had a run in with someone that I had gone to high school with, and it was a little eye opening. See, not too long after high school, this ... Views: 1375
A lot of men hold back from approaching women due to fear. They are afraid that they will be rejected and as a result, they allow beautiful women to pass them by, instead of taking the chance to approach her and get to know her. You cannot expect to improve your dating life if you are not ... Views: 1373
The Problems With Today's Mobile Technology!
Have you ever wondered what it would have been like if you owned a mobile phone back in the day? Today it is just commonplace to see posts on Facebook about where you went out, what you ate, and who you were with. Now that I am over fifty, ... Views: 1371
We all want to think we know ourselves well enough. That we know who we are, what kind of a relationship we want to have and how to behave with our partner.
In all likelihood you are no exception.
Yet there might be some things about yourself that you DON’T know. Unfortunately, these ... Views: 1370
Introduction
If you are without a relationship for a long time now, you might consider yourself “a loneliness expert”. Indeed, such an option is always available. But before you decide to adapt such an “expertise” you can choose another option: to look inwards, find out things about yourself ... Views: 1370
Most guys when they are really attracted to a woman come from a place of absolutely no power and control in how they deal with her. Meaning, they walk up to her, try their best to impress her and hope that she somehow accepts them and wants to spend more time with them. It's kind of like, they ... Views: 1370
For some people, it is not going to matter what someone looks like as they won’t put up with behaviour that has a negative effect on them. Therefore, if they have just met someone or if they are in a relationship, their behaviour is not going to change.
But if there is a difference, they ... Views: 1368
It is not too hard to get out and find different singles where you live. Local singles can be easy to find when you look in the right places for it. These include not only online places but also a few physical spots where it might be easier for you to find singles at.
First, singles in your ... Views: 1367
Introduction
If you wholeheartedly wish to have an intimate relationship and don’t yet have one, it is important that you understand the true reasons for not succeeding. Implementing five simple steps might help you figure out how to proceed to having the relationship you hope ... Views: 1365
DATING
Dating. Who ever invented such a morbid institution?
When one meets, all hopes open.
Will this be the big #1?
First date goes well.
A kiss, a sweet kiss.
Sometimes a passionate one.
Then the lady waits.
She waits by that phone.
How many years does one wait
For that ... Views: 1364
Soon after being part of a split, a lot of people enter a mind-set of believing the explanation why their former partner finished the connection had been simply because they didn't believe that they had been valued. Certainly the very best strategy to take in this situation would likely be to ... Views: 1361
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Single Mom Dating - by Jessica Rector, Founder of The Single Mom Movement
I didn't date a lot when I was younger. I always used to say it was because I enjoyed hanging out with my friends (which I did), but really it was more about never getting asked out. Everyone wants to be liked. Everyone wants to be asked out. College I dated more, well hung out with guys, ... Views: 1360
When one goes out at night with the intention of meeting someone, there is a strong chance that they will want to be at their best. There are then going to be a number of things that they can do.
The first thing they are likely to do is to make sure they look right, and this will involve the ... Views: 1355
There are dozens of reasons that men and women over the age of 40 pursue romantic relationships. The reasons range from wanting to have fun, the desire to meet new people, a need or want for sex, or the hope that they’ll fall in love. Now, what if someone over the age of 40 wants to engage in a ... Views: 1349
Nowadays, there are so many ways for people to find someone to be with, which is a far cry from how it used to be. In the past, one would have had to physically meet another person in order to be able to take the next step, but this is not longer necessary.
Another Option
Now, one can ... Views: 1348
One alarming trend that I see amongst men that are kind of fed up and frustrated with their social life or lack of one, is that they seem to fall back on the premise that it is hard to meet women. While I can understand this on a surface level, and I can also remember back on a time when I felt ... Views: 1347
WHY DO YOU FAIL TO DEVELOP A SUCCESSFUL INTIMATE RELATIONSHIP?
If you have been trying for quite some time now to find a partner with whom to develop a satisfying relationship but in vain, or are having continuous problems with your partner, there is probably something you do wrong. ... Views: 1346
Imagine This: You're in dreamland. Zzzzzzzzzz. Blissful. Unaware. Major REM activity going on.
Suddenly, the alarm goes off. You tap the snooze button. You're a bit groggy.
THEN IT HITS YOU LIKE A FREIGHT TRAIN -- OUCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! MY HEART IS BROKEN!
I used to loathe going to ... Views: 1346
Are you arc’d up knowing that you won’t be able to travel to a pub crawl with all your close mates?
Don’t get all Berko, cobber, as hiring bee's knees party bus for your traveling needs will be the perfect option for your transfers. The facilities present in these luxurious ... Views: 1345
Valentine’s day can be a wonderful day for happy couples. But what about everyone else? We don’t mean to be a downer for those of you who are romance fans, but it can be one of the most depressing days of the year for a large percentage of the population that is single or unhappily involved. ... Views: 1343
Dear Dr. Romance:
I am a college girl doing master degree. I am facing some problems pertaining to my love life and i wan help from u. My relation with my boyfriend is about a year old. After we got committed he is transferred to a different state. We are away from each other for the past ... Views: 1340
Life is becoming more and more hectic these days. After the whole week’s hard work, weekends are usually the only time you can have for yourself. And it’s the time that you would like to spend with lovely and interesting people who can make you feel at ease instantly. To find your ... Views: 1339
Dear Dr. Romance:
I'll admit, I just don't understand men. Do they want us to be perfect all the time? I mean, I think I'm a pretty okay person. I honestly like myself for who I am. It took me a long time to get to this point. I'm not a model, but reasonably attractive for a woman in her 40s. ... Views: 1338
INTRODUCTION
Whether single or in an unsatisfying relationship, you might be afraid to change your situation. You might want to do so; you might tell yourself you are “about to doing so”; you might wait for “the right moment” to making a change in your life. But time goes by and you find ... Views: 1338
When we don’t speak our minds, there’s a silent scream on the inside. It can be a peep or as loud as a lion… but there is a scream. We know that something should or could be different, but we say or do nothing. Our silent screams are our souls way of asking us to wake up to our truth. This is ... Views: 1337
Dear Dr. Romance: I think I am missing myself
Dear Dr. Romance:
I am a women in my early twenties from India. I have gone through your website and i think u can help me. For the first time in life I am so confused, so helpless, and I don't know what i want. Everything ... Views: 1335
When a relationship comes to an end, it can mean that two people are happy to be able to move on with their life. It could then be said that this was something that had run its course, and that there was no reason for them to stay together.
Now, this is not to say that one of them won’t feel ... Views: 1335