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Consider the actors who have great voices: George Clooney, Cher, Vin Diesel, Julia Ormond, Kathleen Turner, Sean Connery, Peter Coyote, Morgan Freeman, Catherine Zeta Jones, Kate Beckinsale, James Earl Jones, Ashley Judd and the late great Barry White, to name a few. Now think about the voices ... Views: 4084
Q: I've heard therapists say that a male adult who sexually abuses a boy isn't necessarily ‘homosexual.' This seems confusing: If he isn't homosexual, then why would he sexually molest boys, instead of girls?
A: This is a very good question, and there are several ways to respond to it. First, ... Views: 4083
When I bring this topic up with clients, or when I am speaking to a group, I am often met with shocked gasps, disbelief, confusion, curiosity, and even distain. Many women fear the thought of a becoming woman being passionate, open and sharing, and fully satisfying herself and her husband. There ... Views: 4069
Long-term spiked chastity cage, when applied by a caring mistress, is definitely an essential component of any effective long-term relationship.
All women know that men cannot be trusted to make the best intimate decisions for themselves and the companions. They lack the basic self-control ... Views: 4062
If your relationship is lacking in the bedroom you may want to read this. Our body is a complex system of organs, hormones, tissues and bones. A deficiency in any of these vital components will automatically lead to serious medical complications or to reduced performance when it comes to various ... Views: 4047
Frequently Asked Questions
· What is sex addiction?
Sex addiction is an obsessive relationship to sexual thoughts, fantasies or activities that an individual continues to engage in despite adverse consequences. These thoughts, fantasies or activities occupy a disproportionate amount of ... Views: 4038
When it comes to getting ‘turned-on’, men are mostly driven by visual and physical stimulation. For women, sex is much more of a mental and emotional experience. Stress is the most common obstruction in being able to feel optimum sexual pleasure. If your mind is full of distracting thoughts or ... Views: 4036
When it comes to getting ‘turned-on’, men are mostly driven by visual and physical stimulation. For women, sex is much more of a mental and emotional experience. Stress is the most common obstruction in being able to feel optimum sexual pleasure. If your mind is full of distracting thoughts or ... Views: 4036
I am a cerebral narcissist. I brandish my brainpower, exhibit my intellectual achievements, bask in the attention given to my mind and its products. I hate my body and neglect it. It is a nuisance, a burden, a derided appendix, an inconvenience, a punishment. Needless to add that I rarely have ... Views: 4033
It has been said that love makes the world go 'round. It has also been said that money is the root of all evil. And when it comes to sex, "use it or lose it" seems to sum it up.
In this society, so many of us are caught up in the pursuit of all three -- love, sex and money - but not ... Views: 4032
A few people asked me whether animal magnetism (also known as sexual magnetism) is good or evil. Someone wrote in an article that “animal magnetism is evil and manipulative, and also that the person with animal magnetism steals the other person's life-force in the process". Let's explore the ... Views: 4015
When getting the hang of The Art of Seduction it's really very crucial that you pick out the right man to seduce. This is much more a matter of instinct than anything else, but just about of us at will try to make small talk with someone whom were attracted to, or at least some eye contact, with ... Views: 3999
Depression can leave men feeling so low and sad that sex seems like a distant memory. Despite their longing to feel connected, they may be simply unable to respond to a sexual trigger. Antidepressants can be an amazing help, as they may rebalance chemical levels in the brain and allow the ... Views: 3991
You've been sitting in a deep puddle of emotions since the break up. You have trouble doing everything from getting out of bed to talking on the phone with friends. That's why it's even more devastating when you hear that your ex girlfriend has already moved on and met someone else. Naturally ... Views: 3989
From the time an adolescent boy discovers what the penis can really do, masturbation can become a frequent occupation. Self-pleasuring provides comfort, relaxation, release, and an intense good feeling that only the act of intercourse itself can replicate. Unfortunately, boys are often taught ... Views: 3988
Is initial attraction and sexual arousal really only skin deep? Beyond visual appeal, there’s a subconscious scientific magnetism happening that may affect the physical desirability of those around us. Whether we realize it or not, most women and men are deeply affected by the natural pheromones ... Views: 3987
It seems that the magazines and bookstores are filled with advice on how to be fantastic in bed. There are books on the G Spot, multiple orgasms for men, and hour long marathons in every conceivable position. Sure, some of this is fun to read and might briefly perk our stale repetoire of erotic ... Views: 3975
Proven Tips to Cure Your Erectile Dysfunction
The First Tip: Do not panic and jump at the first quick fix on offer.
When you first experienced erectile dysfunction your initial reaction may well have been one of great alarm, great concern and near panic. This initial reaction is ... Views: 3971
Some extra lubrication can greatly improve sex or masturbation, but it's important to use a product that's designed specifically for your body. Hand lotions, petroleum jelly, and other substances might look the same as your favorite lube and even be just as slick, but they're a poor substitute ... Views: 3971
Tip Of The Month...
"I want you, I love you, I knead you!"
Master the art of massage, and your lover will be putty in your hands. The skin, after all, is the largest organ, and there are anywhere from 14,000 to 18,000 nerve receptors in each square inch of skin. This can provide an incredible ... Views: 3968
Brian is an investment backer in his early forties who, in graduate business school, first began to visit prostitutes, spend money on phone sex, compulsively masturbate and, finally spend as much as 5-10 hours a day looking at internet porn. When sexually acting out, he would feel that someone ... Views: 3966
Keep it monogamous with these ideas.
Have you gotten to the point where you want to spice things up in the bedroom? Well the key is to become submissive. Have you been together for a long time and don’t know what else to try? Well I have a few ideas that may work based on experience. These new ... Views: 3965
Not long ago, two well-known Buddhist teachers living in the United States shocked many of their fellow Tibetan Buddhists by making public the fact that they live together as a spiritual practice. One is a monk, one is a nun, and both consider themselves celibate. Their relationship is physical, ... Views: 3962
Due to the current trend among younger adults of removing most or all of the pubic hair, incidence of pubic lice has dropped in the last several years. However, planned parenthood clinics and doctor’s offices still report that crab lice is fairly common among this demographic.
As a result, ... Views: 3960
I keep talking about being a Wanton Hussy - but what on earth do I mean? Why choose a pair of words with such convoluted histories, with shades of prostitution and sex-negativity, which echo thousands of years of virgin/whore opposition?
Because I love words. And while I won't say that I'm ... Views: 3959
A ring of smoke, curling and swirling around a man's head, can look incredibly sexy on the big screen. In real life, however, that smoke may smell terrible, and without the aid of a makeup artist, a smoker might have sallow skin stained yellow with tar. In short, real-life smokers are not ... Views: 3957
Hi there everyone!!
You've heard of living in the moment and the Power of Now, right?
Does it make sense to live life that way 100% of the time?
It actually wouldn't work. There are times when we want to contextualize the past, anticipate the future, and be conscious of impact that we ... Views: 3952
One of the most common complaints that men (and their partners) have about the penis is the distinctive smell that often emanates from the region. While certain people find the aroma to be intriguing on some level, most prefer a more delicate scent, but getting rid of a fishy, rancid penis odor ... Views: 3937
Men can be very vain about their equipment, and nothing can cause annoyance, worry or anxiety like a wrinkled-looking, dry penis. On the other hand, while the less-than supple appearance may not show off the package in the best possible light, it is not necessarily a sign of poor penis health. ... Views: 3915
You don't need to buy a magical potion or undergo plastic surgery and borrow a celebrity's face just to make a guy addicted to your love. If you want someone to fall head over heels in love with you, there are far cheaper and more effective ways of doing so.
Tip #1: Look your best.
Love at ... Views: 3908
Sensual massage is an excellent way to enhance sexual arousal and erotic pleasure. It can be a very enjoyable part of lovemaking as a way to intimately connect and lead into more in-depth foreplay. Massage may be utilized as a sexual therapy, that is, as a means of stimulating the libido – ... Views: 3903
Sexuality. The word in its self can conjure up social warfare quicker than say the endless debates between two enthusiastic fans of the Yankees and the Boston Red Sox at a bar and enjoying a friendly beer. After religion and politics, sexuality is one subject matter a questioner can receive 107 ... Views: 3878
Here in LA we are bombarded with false information about tantra. Tantra is the union of two souls, the art and science of joining body, mind and spirit. It is the study of vibratory energies, the union of opposite polarities, the feminine and masculine conjoined in a harmonious duet of love and ... Views: 3870
SEX IN HISTORY
By Al Link and Pala Copeland - 4 Freedoms Relationship Tantra
As we human beings have changed and evolved over our thousands of years of recorded history so have our attitudes and expressions of all things sexual. The only thing that hasn’t changed much is ... Views: 3868
Do not be fooled, women are quick to criticize the shortcomings of their partner. Throw out the comforting notions that it is not the size, but what you can do with it. Women are not buying into it. In fact, over half the women asked say they want a man with a fuller, larger and firmer penis and ... Views: 3863
How to Talk Dirty To My Husband: How to Get Your Man to Talk Dirty To You during Sex
"I want to know how to talk dirty to my husband." It's a bold phrase that many married women may think but don't always share out loud. Over time the intimacy in a marriage can shift. A couple can find ... Views: 3858
I miss my ex boyfriend so much it hurts; You had been in a relationship with a guy and the two of you broke up, and it was your thought. Now that he is gone you are having second thoughts about the break up and why you initiated it. Why did you break up? This is something you need to take a hard ... Views: 3856
By now, we all know that all erotic massages are designed not only to arouse the body but also awaken the senses and release the mind of tension. Typically, this kind of massage also involves some sort of “happy ending” because, in this massage, orgasm pleasure is the ultimate goal.
Just ... Views: 3831
Social media, such as Tumblr.com, have become the playground of narcissists, psychopaths, and sadists who post extreme and, at times, illegal porn and revel in the reactions to it, thus garnering vicarious narcissistic supply. Via such postings, they express their rabid misogyny by objectifying ... Views: 3822
Let's talk about sex, baby
Let's talk about you and me
Let's talk about all the good things,
And the bad things that may be
Let's talk about sex
- Salt N Pepa (1992, Written by Herby Azor)
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Let's Talk About Sex...
Sex can be an uncomfortable topic for some people. ... Views: 3813
Now that you intend on having an open and honest sex life, how do you plan on getting him into the sack? Slutty and sexy are a couple of very effective tools you have at your disposal for snagging a guy. Both tactics will get you a man, but will they secure him for the long term? There are a few ... Views: 3804
What is this mysterious ‘G-Spot’ we’ve been hearing about, and how exactly can it help women to experience more pleasure than we’ve ever thought possible? For years, the clitoris was considered the only trigger for the female orgasm, and with that we do celebrate the all-mighty clitoris as the ... Views: 3791
Frequent sightings of the New American Cougar are occurring more often now in urban areas. Discover fascinating techniques in how cougars hunt. Find out why they “catch and release” their victims and continue the ongoing pursuit for prey for the mere sport of it. They are extremely territorial, ... Views: 3789
Whether you’ve been with your partner for years, or are with someone new for the first time, it’s important to express what you want. There are many ways to communicate your desires. We do this through our behaviors, through our actions and reactions, through our body language, or by simply ... Views: 3788
Many men masturbate in order to satisfy themselves, and the process can be really enjoyable if you do it correctly. Some guys like to do so until they ejaculate, or they can also choose not to. The whole idea is to enjoy the process.
There are many views on masturbation, and some religions ... Views: 3775
Women love their men to be dominant in bed: they want to be lead and not the other way round. A wuss in bed turns a woman off.
You may have an idea that being dominant in bed is to be rough and violent to your lady. This is not correct. Being dominant in bed is more than just throwing a few ... Views: 3760
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When it comes to sex, men usually focus on size and stamina. As a woman, I tell you that you are definitely focusing on the wrong things. How to please a woman sexually is all about focusing on the right things… and when I say, “right things” these are the things that are involved not during ... Views: 3749