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"I really hate it when we argue…but I've also learned so much about my husband from our fights and we have a stronger relationship now." ~Sandra, married seven years
Even the most effective communicators get into spats now and then. And despite your best efforts at marital bliss, you and your ... Views: 1578
After over 25 years of empirical research involving relationships, spirituality, personality and compatibility assessment, matching and observing thousands for love relationships as a matchmaker, and writing a book about soul mates, we've noticed that there are many love life expectations and ... Views: 1350
Though we may make many commitments throughout our time on earth, few have a lifelong impact on the path our lives will take. The decision to marry someone you love—to bond yourself to them completely—is unlike any other and can reshape your existence. When two people have similar goals, values, ... Views: 1149
The California Supreme Court’s decision to uphold Proposition 8 in banning gay marriage is a setback not only for gay rights, but for the psychological and spiritual growth of our country. Gay marriage concerns far more than the 5-10% of our population that identifies as gay. America’s deepest ... Views: 1014
Want to know some of the most romantic marriage proposal ideas to make her say “Yes!” without a hitch? This article will reveal them to you.
But first, why go through all the fuss? Well, the proposal is one of the most important parts of your relationship. Friends and relatives will ask you ... Views: 4825
Rita was happy and Norman hated it!
Rita was on top of the world and Norman hated it. He couldn’t stand seeing her so comfortable in her own skin, and in such good spirits. It turned his stomach. It was unfair. What right did she have to feel so good when he felt lousy?
Despite her ... Views: 2037
Anyone who is married or in a long-term committed relationship comes to realize that at some point there is a danger of falling into a lifeless routine. The vast number of marriage advice and relationship help books is a clear indication that couples are eagerly searching for ways to head off ... Views: 1213
By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.
You can learn a lot about love from a dog. Over the years, we have learned much about the essentials of a loving relationship by observing our dog, Jake.
We are proud to tell you that Jake is truly a Wonder Dog. He is loving, caring, intuitive, ... Views: 3259
Do you know what roles and duties God has assigned you in your marriage? Why do you think God gave certain roles to the wife and certain roles to the husband? God created for husband and wife to share in the same goals but have different roles. Together they compliment one another and work ... Views: 4608
We have powerful desires to belong and to connect with a special someone.
In the U.S. we inherited a model for marriage and relationships that has remained largely unchanged for over 50 years. That traditional model was never intended to integrate our individual needs with the needs of the ... Views: 675
Marriage counseling is a service sought out by many couples who experience concerns in the course of their relationship, and may be required in certain situations by religious groups with which the couple is affiliated, or even, in some circumstances, mandated by a court or other authority. It ... Views: 776
Young parents have precious little free time. So here are 5 quick tips:
• Spend an uninterrupted 20 minutes each day face to face or side by side talking (and cuddling) and most important listening to anything the other wants to say. Yes, when you are desperate you can break it into 2 ... Views: 1131
Nanette Geiger, Relationship Specialist , writes... ...
As a love relationship and life coach, I was asked, “How will I know if he's the one"?
I can offer simple online love live coaching on this one.
For starters you want to get crystal clear about what you want in your committed ... Views: 1189
Any marriage counselor will tell you that one of the most common problems observed when couples come for help is poor communication skills. People get into trouble in their marriages because they have not developed their ability to listen and communicate.
Barriers to Communication
These ... Views: 1059
A dance teacher once told me that she could see a couple's entire relationship on the dance floor. When someone's toes got stepped on (and they did - we were all beginners) - she could see how how some people blamed their partner, while others apologized and let it go. Some stopped the lessons ... Views: 3263
Nanette Geiger, Relationship Coach writes... ...
Peter from Florida asks: How can I super charge my romance? How can I improve my current relationship?
Thank you, Peter. It's wonderful that a lovely gentleman is asking this question..You see gals, there are lots of romantics out there. I ... Views: 1371
Many generations ago, marriage was about survival, property, money, securing family dynasties, and pragmatism, not love or sexual intimacy. Marriage remained popular largely because of the stigma attached to sex outside of marriage.
Now “love” is the main reason given for tying the knot, but ... Views: 1609
My wife and I have embarked on a 21-day complaint free marriage experiment. I was first introduced to this idea. Tim Ferriss’ blog. In fact, there is a huge movement towards a complaint free world, almost 5 million bracelets distributed worldwide.
The idea is simple; go 21 days in a row ... Views: 995
By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.
The “heart of the matter” is this – successful marriages around the world are bound together by their commonalities – certainly not by their differences. Learn the lessons, emulate them, practice them, take them to heart, and engage in the simple ... Views: 4404
I marry people. I guess I have married more people than most. Whoppi Goldberg and I marched in the National March on Washington for AIDS and I married ten thousand lesbians and gay men there on the steps of the I.R.S.. Since then, I suppose have officiated at 30-40 more weddings of both gay and ... Views: 981
Can a marital separation save a marriage? Usually my opinion is: it depends…
Whether the separation will help or hurt the marriage is unknown, unless you know the couple, have listened to them and assessed their mental state. Needless to say, a professional marriage counselor should ... Views: 8215
If the love in your marriage is gone find out where it went. Really! Where did it go? Love isn’t like a pair of keys that you’ve put down somewhere and can’t find. It’s not like the remote control that could possibly be buried between the cushions of the couch. Really now. I’ve never heard ... Views: 1365
Sexy vs. Unsexy Conversational Style of Husbands
Consider why a wife needs girl friends to talk to, to go out shopping, to go to lunch, call each other on the phone, send birthday cards and give gifts, keep each other in the loop about happenings, etc. Husbands and boyfriends have to acquire ... Views: 1501
I can feel just this heading is enough cause for me to duck some eggs, oranges and other missiles, but your actions would be uninformed, so let’s have a truce while I state my case.
A woman was recently sentenced to ten months in prison, suspended for two years, for “marrying” four men while ... Views: 1666
Although many Americans still have a firm belief in marriage and “living happily ever after,” the fact that 50% of marriages end in divorce and that violence is the reason stated for divorce in 22% of middle-class marriages shows just how often this dream goes wrong.
And it is not only ... Views: 1252
The symbol for a journey towards a better relationship is a spiral. Growth itself is also a journey. Look at the center of a spiral, this is where life begins. As we walk on our journey we soon come to a challenge and descend into the shadow side.
This is where we face our fears, learn our ... Views: 1576
If there is anything I have learned in my own life and the lives of those I have helped, it is that we are all here to create a better relationship
with all those around us as we individually experience our own joys, sorrows and overall discoveries. It is in our attempt to share these ... Views: 1552
With divorce being at epidemic proportions, couples today are seeking ways to have a better relationship and prevent becoming part of the statistics. Reports have shown that over a 40 year period, 6-7 out of 10 marriages will end up in divorce. These numbers also do not represent divorce ... Views: 1442
I married a CPA. At the risk of offending the CPA society, your brains are just wired differently than the rest of us. That is definitely the case with my wife.
I consider myself to be fairly good with numbers, and I did well in Math back in school, but I’m not in the league of the CPA. ... Views: 655
Anger is a deep-seated emotion that can remain bottled up within a person for years, and maybe forever. Loving someone who has anger problems is often difficult to do. Living with an angry person is like an emotional roller coaster ride because you never know when they might explode. Does it ... Views: 2358
Abuse can come in many different forms – physical, emotional and even financial. If you are not sure if you are in a bad situation, review the different types of abuse and warning signs to see if you need assistance.
1. Physical abuse – This does not only apply to women or men who are bruised ... Views: 2527
We all have history. For many, history forms our present views of relationships. From our past, we determine what we liked in relationships and what we didn’t like. This becomes, in part, the basis for forming new relationships when we have had the experience of ending one. One might think ... Views: 1140
Dear Dr. Weiss-Wisdom,
I’m so discouraged with my marriage that I almost don’t care anymore. I stayed in my first marriage because of the kids and now I’m remarried and doing the same thing again. I have two teenagers from my first marriage and a five year old now with my second wife. It’s ... Views: 2074
By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.
We know how you feel! Starting over is really difficult when it comes to love and marriage. Getting a divorce, breaking up, or losing the one you love due to their death can be overwhelmingly painful.
The simple truth is this – you entered into ... Views: 3723
Your environment has a dramatic impact on your mood. You wake up in the morning and glance outside, the sun is up without a cloud in the sky, you get in the sunny day mood. Perhaps you feel a bit more energy, You want to get outside and enjoy the weather. On cold blustery days you long to sit by ... Views: 661
You’re rolling your cart down the supermarket aisle, when you bump into (literally), your friend whom you haven’t seen in – well, awhile. She asks “Where’s your husband?” and you say “Oh, I dunno – probably doing something around the house.” Your friend laughs and says “Well, I knew it couldn’t ... Views: 1603
According to some experts there are only two ways to create in the world: making promises and making requests. Here are the Top 10 Ways to make those requests powerful ones.
1. Make them.
Making requests is a major source of power and some people need to start by simply making them. Make ... Views: 1530
I'm sure most of us are aware that the stats for marriages ending in divorce are at least one out of two in America!
These stats are the same whether you go to church or not! What? How can the divorce rate be the same for Christians?!
Then... I heard Dr. Phil confirm what I used to wonder ... Views: 2705
The problem with communication … is the illusion that it has been accomplished.
~George Bernard Shaw
The day at work has been horrific. Emails never stopped. The voicemail light kept flashing. The boss needed the information yesterday. And to top it all off, you had a fight with your ... Views: 780
How physically fit is your marriage? Getting married is easy, but keeping a marriage going is hard work-especially when we've got Hollywood out there spreading stories about love, romance and happily ever after and conveniently forgetting to mention what happens when the prince gets Cinderella ... Views: 795
There are many things that couples can do to save their marriage. Although circumstances for each marriage are different, what I’m going to discuss in this article applies to every marriage.
1. Be Willing To Work on Your Marriage
Couples need to be willing to pick up the pieces and work ... Views: 1499
By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.
We are eternal optimists – make no mistake about that! With us, glasses are always half full, not half empty. The sun is always shining where we live! We are eternally hopeful that tomorrow will be a brighter day – and it usually is! We love life ... Views: 5061
Question:
I am struggling internally and I am not sure how to overcome my fears. My wife and I have been together for almost 15 years and this time last year we went through a phase where she questioned her love for me. To make a long story short, I found out that she was attracted to ... Views: 807
Question:
I have a question for you that I have struggled with for the last 2 years rather intensely. I am married to a man that I have "fallen out of love with" in part because of difficulties with compatibility earlier in our marriage, over the years I met and fell in love with a Dr. I ... Views: 750
This is the time of year to activate your leadership abilities, especially as it relates to love. Let me show you the best methods to activate your love life, according to each zodiac sign.
It’s fun and something you can do differently each month. Think of this free astrology column as a ... Views: 1675
By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.
There is an old saying that many attribute to a Chinese proverb that goes like this – “May you live in interesting times.” To say that is an understatement of our world today is, well . . . an understatement!
We are experiencing unprecedented ... Views: 5667
As a staff support officer I am seeing an increasing number of people who are sadly splitting up having been together, in a lot of cases, for many years. They say that the magic has gone and they have grown apart, and perhaps they have taken each other for granted over several years. Each has ... Views: 1310
Don't let a lack of funds keep you from having romantic dates with your spouse. By using your imagination, you can add some fun and excitement to your marriage even on a limited budget. Here are 12 ideas to get you started:
1. Go out for a burger and fries and take in a movie at a nearby ... Views: 642
By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.
Let’s face it – the economy of the USA is in turmoil. And the truth is, the unemployment rate is approaching 10%, and will probably exceed that rate in the coming months. The times are tough in America today.
Not good news, for sure. Tough ... Views: 4035
I am writing this article while flying over some spectacular snow-covered mountains in Northern British Columbia, Canada. In fact, I just read that these mountains have been featured in Hollywood movies as substitutes for the Himalayas.The view is of large peaks and deep valleys. At the bottom ... Views: 1249