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I recently had an email from one of my readers, who felt very irate about what he described as the “M” omission in my articles on abusive relationships. He went on to explain that although he agreed with WHAT I said about abusive relationships, in his view it had all been said ... Views: 2959
Breakup fog.
Everyone suffers from it after a breakup. You can't think. You struggle to form coherent sentences. Even simple tasks, like brushing your teeth, seem impossible.
"What went wrong?" you wonder. "How did this happen? Why doesn't she love me anymore?"
"How do I win my ... Views: 5124
Dear Dr. Romance:
I was reading your article "When Love is Kind: Mutuality in Relationships" and need your advice. My boyfriend of 5 years is quite selfish and literally a narcissist. He never did anything as a gesture of love except for buying calling cards to call me from ... Views: 1646
In the initial days after you broke up over your cheating, you probably had plenty of fantasies about your ex coming back to you with hat in hand asking for a second chance. Your ex was hurt by your cheating and you were hurt by how easily your ex chose to end the relationship.
Now, a little ... Views: 640
Relationships: Tips to Recognize if your Partner is Emotionally Abusive
Ever look around at who stays married, and who doesn't? Overweight people far outnumber the thin and beautiful in successful marriages. The svelte and attractive get far more dates, but don't seem as able to close the ... Views: 1716
Get Ex Back After Begging For Months: Can You Recover After Begging For Ex
It is not as easy as it seems to get someone back after a break up. Despite the heart breaking part that you have already experienced, all your mind thought of was all sorts of ways that can make your loved one back to ... Views: 1709
Going through a breakup is one of the most difficult experiences a woman can go through. You feel torn apart between hating your ex and wanting him back. There will be times when you feel you're in a muddle of confusion, and you can not get over feelings of being abandoned, being used and the ... Views: 821
Chances are that if you've been dumped recently you're interested in finding the best advice on getting your boyfriend back. There's plenty of good advice floating around out there but if you want the best advice you're going to have turn to a few tried and true methods that go a little bit ... Views: 1104
Do you want to have an extraordinary marriage? Having an extraordinary marriage requires choices that serve both you and your relationship. If you always choose in favor of the relationship, you can lose yourself; if you always choose in favor of yourself, the relationship may suffer. Balance is ... Views: 1072
Asymmetry refers to the imbalance in a particular area between the partners in the relationship. For example, one partner may have a higher paying job or more financial assets. Another partner may be much more outgoing and have many more close friendships.
In our minds, we call these ... Views: 1098
THE POWER OF TAPPING
I became interested in Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) a few years ago when one of my clients developed lower back pain, which he believed was due to stress and incorrect posture.
He had difficulty moving and even though the discomfort decreased after seeing a ... Views: 2172
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Dr. Carl Robinson Publishes a Journal for Addressing Pervasive Anger
A decade of successfully touching lives in trainings and sessions inspires his new book
PLANO, Texas – (Release Date TBD) – Dr. Carl Robinson, honorary consular diplomat to the Congolese ... Views: 1874
You should note that this doesn't say the best breakup advice is the easiest. There's just nothing easy about it. With most things in life, just like breakup advice, the simpler the steps are to follow the better the advice is.
Why is that? It's best because people will find it a little more ... Views: 998
Who knows the super secret proven method to break up survival? It's a little sneaky and may feel as though you're really getting the best end of the deal. More importantly though is that it's an effective method to help you prepare to move on and enjoy the single life.
Take a Little "Me" ... Views: 787
It's important to understand why men dump women so that you can avoid being dumped for many of the usual suspects. Before you make all kinds of changes based on these reasons alone it's important that you understand they aren't the only reasons men leave women. They are simply some of the more ... Views: 1480
If you really stop and think about it you might still have a difficult time figuring out why women dump men. That's because many men still find women to be a huge mystery. It's part of their charm most of the time but in moments like these can be the bane of your existence. The good news is that ... Views: 2926
Why incorporate? This is a question you might ask should you plan to start your own company. Incorporating your own company has its advantages, but it is still your own choice whether you will proceed with the incorporation or not.
The first advantage of incorporating a business is the ... Views: 1204
Life is all about learning every single day as, we learn lessons that help us grow and make us better. As we grow older we make decisions that affects the course of our existence in every way possible thus, this situation with your ex is just one of the numerous experiences you must have had. ... Views: 624
If you have a situation like me, then you might feel stuck like I do. I am working really hard to get my boyfriend back because I acted like an idiot. I didn't know how to stop myself from feeling possessive. I hated when he went out with his friends and talked to other girls. I couldn't stand ... Views: 3499
How can you give a different Background to your kids?
We, being parents, want to give our kids the best of all: education, health, success, happiness and whatever they desire. To gain the goals above, we adapt different strategies and techniques. Some hire classes of different kinds to keep ... Views: 1531
Infidelity affects 8 out of 10 marriages in this country. This is a shocking statistic! What happens between the time the marriage vows are spoken and that first episode of cheating? It's an assumption, of course, but I don't think that 80% of the people who get married intend to cheat or ... Views: 2666
TOP SECRET ABOUT CHILDHOOD PTSD
Are you experiencing too many PTSD Triggers?
Do you still get “startled” or “react with rage or suffer other symptoms?
I have shocking news for you. You haven’t fully released all your childhood demons or core PTSD issues.
The least known fact about ... Views: 1434
You may be wondering how I know I can get my ex boyfriend back and why I think he still loves me but seriously, I can and I do. I can get my ex back because I have been through this before and I know he still loves me because he isn't seeing any body new. Have you said this to yourself ... Views: 998
What does it mean when a guy says he wants to take a break? By far, this is the one question that women most often ask me about their boyfriends. It’s one of those very obscure things that men say that we can’t quite understand. We want to believe it means one thing. That’s because all of our ... Views: 4442
“I admire and support him. I am his biggest fan. I am his right hand and one woman audience. I am his best friend and his only source of succor. Yet, he constantly humiliates and berates me and abuses me in subtle and not-so-subtle ways. What gives?”
He may be a narcissist.
The narcissist ... Views: 2277
Here we are, once again, outraged by Gibson’s racist and misogynistic remarks.
The audio tapes of Mel Gibson tearing into his ex-girlfriend reveal the truth about this man once and for all; he doesn’t deserve any more support.
While some criticize his ex girlfriend, Oksana Grigorieva, for ... Views: 2498
This morning, March 22, 2011, Chris Brown made an appearance on Good Morning America to promote his new album F.A.M.E., which stands for “forgiving all my enemies,” he said. He quickly became uncomfortable and irritated by Robin Roberts as she interviewed him, barely probing into his past to ... Views: 2526
In the thirty plus years that I have been involved in working with either victims or perpetrators of domestic abuse, and the professionals involved with them, one of the most difficult decisions for the parties involved and for the professionals working with them is “Can this relationship ever ... Views: 3349
If you have been in an abusive relationship that appears to be getting worse, then it is better to make a plan for how to get out safely while you can think straight.
Research shows that one of the times that victims of domestic abuse are most at risk is when they are leaving or have just ... Views: 3511
I am a great fan of technology and all the ways it enhances our lives and businesses, however it gives rise to a particularly 21st Century phenomenon, Cyber-stalking.
Cyber-stalking is defined as non-consensual communication that causes fear and alarm, where some people use the internet as a ... Views: 4873
002 My Separated Spouse Says He Can't And Won't Love Me Again: My Husband Doesn't Love Me Anymore What Do I Do
It is a very frightening experience when you realize that your husband has fallen out of love in your marriage. You may despair as you assume that your situation has reached a point ... Views: 1168
Breakups are something that people go through all the time. It is something that can be painful and difficult to go through. This is why it is important to know how to deal with the problem as opposed to reacting to the breakup in a way that makes the process even harder to go through. However, ... Views: 1695
Conflict is tough for most people. We don’t like it. It threatens us and makes us feel bad. Makes us feel defensive. But we can feel a whole lot better about fighting if we have rules to guide us.
When the same rules apply to both you and your partner, you have something you both can depend ... Views: 1475
Falling in love with someone can be the most incredible experience. It can also be the most devastating if the relationship ends. Most of us go through life only finding love once or twice, so when we have it we want to hold onto it. If you and your boyfriend broke up and you still feel a deep ... Views: 916
2 Months After Breakup: It's Been Two Months After A Breakup, It Still Hurts
A lot of times we feel that to reverse a break up we need to go on this hounding trip and once we are done begging our ex will reconsider his decision. But that never works. So if you want to convince your ex to get ... Views: 2727
How To Stop Missing Your Ex - What To Do When You Start Missing Your Ex
There is no easy way on getting over a break up. It takes time and tons of effort to totally forget and accept everything that has happened. Regardless of your gender, it has never been easy to let go of someone you ... Views: 1645
I suppose you might be wondering how long things can last without getting back together with your spouse, especially when you are hoping for reconciliation. There is no definite time frame when all hope of reconciling is cut-off, and I know this from personal experience. Some people can be apart ... Views: 1324
"I want my ex boyfriend to miss me." Have you said that recently? Do you wish for nothing more than a second chance with your ex? Sadly, many women feel exactly the same way you do. Going through a break up is hard enough. It's overwhelming when you are still in love with your boyfriend. It's ... Views: 1016
Your girl vanished on you and now you're looking for ways to get your girl back that aren't going to have you living on a diet of tofu or carrying around her pup in purse, right?
Believe it or not there are a few manly things you can do that will help improve the odds of you riding off into ... Views: 1069
To get your man back, you must know exactly how to cope with him. I am going to share with you some mind blowing tips on ways to get your man back.
Care more about your look
When you want to get your ex back, you must focus on your look. The plan is to look yourself however a little ... Views: 1982
If even after the break up you feel that you still have strong feelings for your ex boyfriend there is nothing wrong in giving another opportunity. If you know that he is not one of those who are going to freely show his deepest emotions, there are some other ways to know the same. Here are ... Views: 6206
Have you been looking for signs your ex boyfriend still loves you? It is very common to do this after a break up. You may be deliberating on attempting to win your ex boyfriend back. Before you do, try to find the following signs to be sure if there is hope to get back together with ... Views: 12325
If you’re searching for signs your ex boyfriend still loves you, you would not be on your own. a lot of women frequently ask themselves this similar question after a relationship has ended. If you had a sensibly excellent relationship that went disagreeable for some basis or another, there is a ... Views: 3355
Are you finding it difficult to reconcile with your ex girlfriend? Although the situation is easier said than done, the ways to get your girlfriend back are in point of fact very simple.
Here are 3 different techniques to accomplish this, read them over and you are going to be able to come ... Views: 3658
Dating your ex boyfriend might be a great idea. Some relationships really are meant to be no matter how many obstacles you come across along the way. When you're making the decision about whether or not dating your ex boyfriend really is a good idea it's important to weigh all your options and ... Views: 944
Dating your ex boyfriend might be a great idea. Some relationships really are meant to be no matter how many obstacles you come across along the way. When you're making the decision about whether or not dating your ex boyfriend really is a good idea it's important to weigh all your options and ... Views: 798
There are some occasions when it's the right move to date your ex after a breakup. But, how do you know when it's the right move to make? Obviously, this isn't the right choice for all relationships. Some are just not meant to be. That doesn't mean that yours, with a little work from both of ... Views: 1627
It is always wonderful when a story begins with a great deal of warmth, romance,excitement, and passion.Interestingly, everybody in the world is looking for validation, and one of the greatest feelings is to feel loved by those you consider important. They may include but not limited to family ... Views: 658
4 Ways A Depressed Spouse Can Indirectly Harm Your Children: How Does Depression Affect Child Development
Depressed people might feel alone but they are most definitely not alone. The mood of a depressed spouse not only affects themselves but everyone around them; their friends, their ... Views: 598
My Husband Says He Doesn't Love Me Like He Used To: Husband Told Me He Doesn't Feel The Way He Used To Feel
May be you have been married for a few years, and you are beginning to notice an unsettling trend. Slowly but surely, your husband seems to be drifting away from you. He no longer seems ... Views: 723