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- Ten Signs of an Unhealthy Relationship - by Submitted on Apr 21, 2012 from Bhavesh JoshiWhen you are in an unhealthy relationship, it can be detrimental to your mental, physical, and spiritual health. The truth is that many people are in relationships, and they do not even know that it may be an unhealthy one, or many people may deny that they are in an unhealthy relationship. This ...
Views: 5257 - Text Your Ex Boyfriend Back- Avoid Every Possible Mistakes That Might Jeopardize your Life Chances - by Submitted on Nov 29, 2012 from Franklin FashayaBreakup, breakup, breakup, these are matters that occurs every time. It might be that the problem came from the guys side or the ladies side. Whichever way it comes from, it can be resolved. Because of these most ladies happens to search for solutions to resolve these problem with their ex. As ...
Views: 1062 - The #1 signal that tells you it’s time to end it - by Submitted on Nov 05, 2018 from Maria DianaSure you can determine that at least one of your exes was with you longer than necessary. You are not alone! A new Portuguese study suggests that there is a reason why we are stuck in bad relationships. Here, we tell you the difference between a bump in the road and a doomed relationship. At ...
Views: 885 - THE 21ST CENTURY WILL BLOOM UNDER WOMEN’S LEADERSHIP - by Submitted on Dec 04, 2012 from Yuga Rishi Shriram SharmaSuch situations are coming forth everywhere wherein the 21st century will be labeled ‘Women’s Century’. One may not exactly wish to accept this fact and the question may arise as to how such situations will arrive when so far the trend is bang opposite? Further how is it possible that those ...
Views: 740 - The Art of Getting Your Girlfriend Back - by Submitted on Apr 12, 2013 from Uadiale AmberIt's heartbreaking for a guy to hear those awful words, "I want to break up," but there is an art to getting your girlfriend back. No matter what the cause, aside from physical abuse, there are ways to win her heart all over again. Depending on what happened, it may take a lot of work, but it's ...
Views: 871 - The basis of the American sports industry - by Athletes living in America often end up winning many international competitions. They appear to be more physically gifted, more powerful and have top-class resistance. By themselves, their main ingredient is hours of training. A little less well known is their choice of diet that makes them so ...
Views: 305 - The Best Boyfriend Dumped Me - What Do I Do Now to Survive The Breakup? - by Submitted on Oct 07, 2012 from Patrick UadialeYou met Mr. Wonderful and life was good. Now, "the world's best boyfriend dumped me!" Where do you go from here? Life can be so kind and then turn around and be so cruel. Fate is such a fickle thing and talk of destiny and forever, crossing your fingers, and hoping for the best will only get ...
Views: 1368 - The Best Ways to Get an Ex Back Fast - Make Your Ex Beg You to Take Them Back - by Submitted on Oct 07, 2012 from Patrick UadialeHow many times have you sat back and wished for the best-best ways to get your ex back fast? The simple best just isn't good enough when it comes to getting you back together with the love of your life, right? It's completely understandable. But, what is the best? The best ways to get an ex ...
Views: 957 - The Bluest Eye Review: The Paws Of Conventional Beauty And Internalized Racism - by Submitted on Feb 19, 2021 from Rochi ZalaniThis article was originally published at rochizalani.com The Bluest Eye is Toni Morrison’s first novel. It is set in 1940s America. The novel is largely based on a personal experience when one of Morrison’s childhood friends confessed her desire to have blue eyes. The author realized that how ...
Views: 980 - The Cycle of Domestic Violence and How You Can Break It - by Submitted on Feb 11, 2015 from Karleia SteinerEvery nine seconds in the Unites States, a woman is beaten or assaulted, and up to 10 million children witness some domestic violence annually. Domestic violence, also known as domestic abuse, is defined as a pattern of behavior in a relationship that individuals use to gain or maintain power ...
Views: 832 - The Debilitating World Of Emotional Abuse- Are You In One? - by Submitted on Jul 06, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraAre you happy? You can’t point your finger why or what exactly, but you are just sad. You don’t know what’s wrong but it is so hard for you to make any decisions by yourself now. How can this be- you use to be so self- sufficient, independent and decisive. You are so confused, can’t ...
Views: 1523 - The Disassociation of a Rapist - by Submitted on Jan 23, 2015 from Roni Weisberg-RossWhile I have reposted a couple of articles on the subject, I wasn’t going to write about Bill Cosby or the subject of serial rape; there are enough articles and editorials on this subject. What has now made me decide to join the fray is a recent statement by a friend of his that “this isn’t ...
Views: 1140 - The Ego as an Addictive "Energy Vampire", in Contrast to How Our Real Being Functions as a Limitlessly Abundant "Energy-Giver" - by Submitted on Oct 23, 2012 from Barry HammerAlthough the ego is often the loudest voice speaking within oneself, vociferously arguing for its own viewpoint, and vehemently demanding limitless, immediate, sometimes inappropriate, recklessly impulsive, potentially addictive, gratification of its insatiable desires and cravings, it is not ...
Views: 1864 - The Fear - by Submitted on Jan 19, 2011 from Trina SonnenbergIn my first marriage I was afraid of the man's words. He told me that I was stupid, which I am not; he told me no one else would want me, which was a lie. He got in my face and screamed at me for everything. I was afraid that every hateful thing he'd ever said about me was true. I was afraid ...
Views: 1190 - The First Basic Thing You Can Do to Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back After A Break Up! - by Submitted on Feb 04, 2011 from Charles UadialeYou and your boyfriend decided to call it a quit, and you realize you desire your ex boyfriend back at the moment. However all you execute simply appears to push your ex boyfriend further away. Does this portray what's occurring to you now? Is the question "How can I get my ex boyfriend back?" ...
Views: 859 - The five universal rules to be happy - by There are five rules to be happy. Oh I'm sure there are more that could apply. But when it comes down to the basics, there are five rules that apply to everything and everyone in life. When applied, these rules will certainly produce the result of happiness.
Rule 1: Free your heart from ...
Views: 286 - The Future of Augmented Reality in Online Betting - by Submitted on Dec 18, 2023 from hassam khAs technology continues to advance, industries are finding innovative ways to incorporate augmented reality (AR) into their offerings, and online betting is no exception. Augmented reality has the potential to revolutionize the online betting experience, offering users a more immersive and ...
Views: 326 - The How to Make Up with Your Ex Check List - Get Your Ex Back Now! - by Submitted on Nov 21, 2011 from Phillip TomHas a huge disagreement left you and your lover at odds? There are some things to keep in mind before you try to fix things up. This how to make up with your ex check list is going to help you continue on track. Stay away from the mistakes that can end a relationship! Item 1 - Down ...
Views: 1093 - The Importance of Maintaining a Healthy Distance in Relationships that Matter the Most - by Submitted on Feb 08, 2017 from Suzanne St. John SmithAs a psychotherapist, I often meet individuals, couples and families who at first describe the relationships that matter the most in their lives as ‘very close’, ‘tight’, and supportive. But later, after understanding the issues that brought them to my office, I view them more as insular systems ...
Views: 1306 - The intricacies of winning and getting your ex back - by Submitted on Feb 18, 2013 from Franklin FashayaIt is quite unfortunate that even the best of our relationships turn sour sometime due to reasons known or seen or vice versa. There is a myriad of reasons as to why good and sound relationships go bad leading to breakups. You might have braved petty arguments or your ex simply halted all ...
Views: 697 - The Love Within - by Submitted on Jan 12, 2017 from Renee L Richardson, M.Ed.Renee L Richardson, M.Ed. Knowing the "Love" Within: 1/6/2017 So many times, we find ourselves sitting on the wayside of love, extremely disappointed, hurt and totally exhausted; simply because we failed to receive the love of which we have given. Were our expectations too high? Did we ...
Views: 1385 - The Lowland by Jhumpa Lahiri – Book Review: The Intimacy of Political and Personal - by Submitted on Feb 19, 2021 from Rochi ZalaniThis article was originally published at rochizalani.com The Lowland by Jhumpa Lahiri is an ambitious book. It is a story of brotherly bonds intermingling with a vicious political environment. The two brothers – Subhash and Udayan are just 15 months apart. Subhash is the elder one but he ...
Views: 980 - The Myth of the Protection Order - by Submitted on Sep 16, 2016 from Gary DirenfeldPersons subject to domestic violence (or violence in the context of any relationship) may need protection from the perpetrator of violence. To protect oneself, one can go to a place of greater safety (no place is 100% safe, although most women’s shelters offer a number of safeguards to ...
Views: 1167 - The Narcissist's Seriously Ill child and Munchausen by Proxy Syndrome - by Submitted on Jul 10, 2015 from Sam VakninBy Sam Vaknin Author of "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" Narcissistic parents of seriously ill children derive narcissistic supply from onlookers, friends, family, colleagues, and community by attracting attention to their role as saintly caretakers. They are demonstratively and ...
Views: 1668 - The Narcissist’s Relationship with Money - by Submitted on Mar 24, 2015 from Sam VakninBy Sam Vaknin Author of "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" When the narcissist has money, he can exercise his sadistic urges freely and with little fear of repercussions. Money shields him from life itself, from the outcomes and consequences of his actions; it insulates him warmly ...
Views: 5167 - THE ORIGINAL BULLY MEETS THE 1 RULE - by Submitted on Feb 08, 2019 from Karen RyceIf you are really serious about putting an end to bullying, you have to stop it at the source. Even then it might take some time to end it, but it could happen. What is that source, you ask… Adults. Who knows how it began, but look at the facts: huge people (adults) willing to do whatever it ...
Views: 756 - THE POWER OF ADDICTED LOVE - BEING A CODEPENDENT TO AN ABUSER, DRUG ADDICT, ALCOHOLIC. A story of survival. - by Submitted on Oct 16, 2013 from Teresa HamiltonMaricopa resident Teresa Hamilton still remembers how hopeless she felt watching her purse sink to the bottom of her family’s swimming pool. The summer sun was bearing down, and her alcoholic and drug-addicted husband had just returned home intoxicated and looking for a fight. Hoping to ...
Views: 1122 - The Power of Text Messages in Winning Back Your ex Boyfriend - by Submitted on Mar 25, 2013 from Franklin FashayaGetting your ex-boyfriend back is a decision you can reach after realizing his importance in your life. It depends on who ended the relationship for you to strategize on how to bring him back. There are several ways you can use, one simple method that is common and you probably prefer in getting ...
Views: 1612 - The Psychology of Abusers - by Submitted on Feb 13, 2018 from Piercarla GarusiAbuse can take many forms, it happens in many ways and in many environments. There is currently a lot of talking about sexual harassment, also particularly thanks to TimesUp movement. There is so much harassment going on and most of it is not known or recognized. For the brave people who decide ...
Views: 1307 - The Psychology of Spree Shooters - by Submitted on Dec 02, 2010 from Sam VakninMost spree shooters are loners. They are either schizoid (with deficient interpersonal skills) or paranoid and even paranoid-schizophrenic (psychotic, delusional). Their dysfunction is all-pervasive: their family life, career, romantic relationships, professional and material accomplishments are ...
Views: 1924 - The Reason I Left Him by Beth Shepherd Psychic - by Submitted on Feb 10, 2020 from Pearls of WisdomA case study by Beth Shepherd psychic. Names are changed. The reason I left him is hard to explain but I will do my best. We had got married about ten years ago and things were good for quite a while but then Donald tried to demand that I give up my job because he said he wanted me to be at home ...
Views: 746 - The Signs That Your Ex Boyfriend Hates You After the Break Up! Or Does Your Ex Boyfriend Still Love You Anymore? - by Submitted on Feb 17, 2011 from Charles UadialeEven though you have had a beautiful, long relationship, you have as well had an awful clash that has left you questioning: does your ex boyfriend hates you after the break up! Or does your ex boyfriend still love you anymore? Here's how to know certainly the way your ex boyfriend feels about ...
Views: 9024 - The Simple Guide to Getting Your Ex Back In Your Arms! - by Submitted on Nov 21, 2011 from Phillip TomOne popular trend in the day and age we live in today is learning to move on from a break up. But for some, they are willing to do anything to get their ex back because they believe that they have found the perfect one. With a little hard work and commitment, this can be accomplished. This ...
Views: 977 - The Situational Codependent: Codependence as Reaction to Life Crises - by Submitted on Jan 04, 2015 from Sam VakninBy Sam Vaknin Author of "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" Some patients develop codependent behaviors and traits in the wake of a life crisis, especially if it involves an abandonment and resulting solitude (e.g. divorce, or an empty nest: when one’s children embark on their own, ...
Views: 2982 - The Stress Of Your Relationship Can Be Affecting Your Health - by Submitted on May 20, 2011 from joanne williamsBy: JoAnne Williams-Author Some of us tend to hold on to our relationship far longer that we should. Oftentimes when the signs are so obvious, we tend to ignore them. If you've been in a failing, unhappy relationship for an extended period of time, you should know that your health can be ...
Views: 1006 - The Test of Three Rs - by Submitted on Oct 08, 2013 from Sam VakninAcquired Situational Narcissism can be induced in adulthood by celebrity, wealth, and fame. But, it may also occur in a variety of other situations. Codependents, aiming to fend off gnawing abandonment anxiety, can resort to and evolve narcissistic and even psychopathic behaviours and traits in ...
Views: 2571 - The Wordallogic - Addicted to Violence; Why Do We Continue the Cycle? - by Submitted on Apr 14, 2013 from Aleasa Word*All articles are under protected property. Any attempt to reprint, duplicate or use text used herein without expressed written permission is a violation of the law. Addicted to Violence; Why Do We Continue the Cycle? – October 3, 2011 -Author Aleasa M. Word He says, “When we love, we ...
Views: 1653 - These Words Will Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back Fast - They Work Like Magic! - by Submitted on Jan 28, 2011 from Charles UadialeOnce your ex boyfriend declares that he wants a break, you’re so astonished that you’re apt to start lamenting and say things that you later on regret. You might say to him that he has ruined your life or that you hate him. He changing his mind will not be determined by these words. However ...
Views: 3522 - Things to Do to Get Your Boyfriend Back - Smart Tips to Win Him Back - by Submitted on Mar 17, 2011 from Charles UadialeGoing through a break up is one of the most emotionally challenging states any woman can ever face especially with a man she still loves. Relationships are very difficult task moreover they turn out to be even more demanding as soon as the man you love says he wants some space. It is a break up, ...
Views: 983 - Things to Say to Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back - Words to Melt Her Heart Again! - by Submitted on Nov 22, 2011 from Michael UadialeIt is very painful going through a break up especially with someone you have appeared to understand and adore. Are you thinking of trying to find the best things to say to get your girlfriend back. This is at times a tedious task that should be taken care of correctly to guarantee you don’t do ...
Views: 4136 - Thoughts Of Wife's Previous Lovers Bothering You: Wife's Past Is Killing Me - by Submitted on May 24, 2018 from John BraxtonThoughts Of Wife's Previous Lovers Bothering You: Wife's Past Is Killing Me There are men who sometimes think about their wife being with previous lovers and it generates strong, unpleasant, unhappy feelings within them. For some men, it's so strong that it "hurts" or even makes them ...
Views: 2700 - Through a Simple Twist of Faith, Part Two - by Submitted on Dec 30, 2018 from Randi FineThrough a Simple Twist of Faith Part two of a three-part article written by Randi G. Fine Some who suffer adversity have had their lives negatively altered by an identifiable, pivotal event. Others gradually lose their foothold over a period of years. Though unaware that it was happening ...
Views: 1195 - Tips on How to Get a Guy Back Even After A Painful Breakup - by Submitted on Oct 25, 2012 from Charles ScholarSo maybe something went wrong, you lied to your boyfriend, or you got in a bad argument, maybe you even went so far as to cheat on him. No matter what happened, if you want to know how to get a guy back, then first and foremost you are going to have to put your ego away. The worst thing that you ...
Views: 908 - Tips on How to Get Your Boyfriend Back - 3 Tips That Work Like Magic - by Submitted on Oct 16, 2012 from Patrick UadialeOnce the crying is finished and you've cut his face out of all your photographs and burned his CD collection you might have discovered that he really is the man for you. If this has happened to you it's going to take a little more than an adhesive bandage to repair the gaping hole in your ...
Views: 1074 - Tips on How to Get Your Ex Back - by Submitted on Jan 10, 2013 from Franklin FashayaAre you in search for the techniques that can assist you get back your ex boyfriend? Then this article is for you. In this write up we are going to look at some of the ways that can assist you get back your ex boyfriend without having to compromise on yourself esteem. When you're in a ...
Views: 805 - Tips On How To Get Your Ex Back -Apply These Tips - by Submitted on Sep 05, 2015 from Franklin FashayaIn your attempt to get back the one person you truly miss, you may get discouraged by the different reactions you get from ex who might be reluctant to get back together especially if the break up wasn’t amicable and its marred by unresolved issues between both parties. So, it is understandable ...
Views: 653 - Tips on How to Get Your Lover Back - This Will Make Your Ex Crawl Back to You - by Submitted on Oct 16, 2012 from Patrick UadialeMany people seeking tips on how to get your ex lover back will resort to the age old technique of trying to buy back love. While it might seem like a quickie solution the long-term ramifications might be disastrous to both your finances and your relationship. You can't buy love. Any "love" ...
Views: 1096 - Tips on How to Text Your Ex-boyfriend Back - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2013 from Franklin FashayaIt is actually, not uncommon for any lady to feel really horrible after breaking-up her boyfriend. In fact various ladies become really depressed that they begin to complain to everyone about how depressed they are and some might even think of committing suicide. So if you really want to get ...
Views: 994 - Tips to Get Back Together With Your Ex And Make Them Love You Again - by Submitted on Oct 16, 2012 from Patrick UadialeLove is never easy and when breakups happen, as they sometimes do, it's difficult to find the right tips to get back together. Unfortunately for most of us, our hearts lead us in the wrong direction making it more difficult to set things straight. The good news is that one tip stands out among ...
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