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I hate being tied down by only one boyfriend, I want to date and hookup with as many people as I can. I just got out of a long and boring 4 year relationship and now I jut want to get out there and date or hookup with as many people as humanly possible. I realize that sounds incredibly dirty, ... Views: 555
I want to start this off by thanking myself for joining a free dating website. I spent so much time going to bars and clubs with my friends hoping some guy would come pick me up. I am grateful that I spent all of that time in the bar though, it taught me one thing; what type man I should stay ... Views: 512
Recap: the girl I’ve had a crush on since high school in on line dating and I just messaged her.
Within two hours, she responded to my message, “wow, you’re looking really good Danny! It’s been what? Eight years since I’ve seen you?! You’ve really filled ... Views: 499
Have you ever had that one person that all your life you couldn’t get out of your head… you know they don’t really like you, or know that you even exist, but no matter what, they are forever embedded in your heart? There was this girl I went to school with years ago, her name ... Views: 464
So if you read my last post about free dating sites you’ll know that I am heading out to meet this girl I met on a free dating site and she looks oddly familiar.
Ok, so I get out to her city, and we meet up at a red robins, we have lunch and we are both just discussing how incredibly ... Views: 849
I have a buddy who will under no circumstances approach a woman he doesn’t know. It doesn’t matter if she’s making direct eye contact and sending him a “come seduce me” smile. He’s absolutely scared to death of making cold approaches. If you share his ... Views: 922
With the growing popularity of online dating, more and more men are meeting this way. Your online dating profile is the first impression you’ll make on a guy, so it's important to get it right. If you're intimidated by the task, remember, this is a subject you already know and love – ... Views: 1141
You may think you are in control of who you want to attract into your life. You probably have a clear vision of the type of person that you desire. Having it down to a list of ten or more characteristics, you set your intention, visualize and wonder why you keep getting duds (or dudettes). The ... Views: 911
How To meet Bartenders –Part two
Welcome to part two for picking up bar staff and bartenders while they’re working.
So you’ve made ordered a drink from the hottest bartender there like I said right??
Okay …
That’s the easy part done. Great work!
You’ve ... Views: 848
Leaning over the marble bar and at the top of my voice I order a vodka tonic, the young blonde girl behind the bar looks at me inquisitively and asks about my vintage ¾ length velvet jacket I’m wearing and remarks she likes it.
I smile …
Without pausing she quickly and ... Views: 731
What is your idea of a great date? Wine, roses, and dinner in an expensive restaurant? You want to treat your girl to a great night out; but you know that at the heart of it, you actually just want to spend time with her. Would it surprise you to know that creative dating ideas need not be ... Views: 462
Women often pose the question, "Is he attracted to me?" to friends and family, trying in vain to see whether or not this is true when she's interested in someone. This can be difficult to figure out, and of course you want to know whether he feels the same way you do.
Therefore, if you're not ... Views: 1130
Some of the most successful pickup artists have a skill that can NOT be taught on the workshops, in fact the pick up artist probably doesn’t even know he has this skill as its unconscious, or outside the real of their consciousness and they don’t even know they have this unique skill.
That ... Views: 745
Attractive women are rare and when you stumble over them the chances are they’ll probably have a boyfriend and even if they don’t they say they will, doesn’t really make sense does it?
But never fear as the following tips are to be used on women who say “I have a boyfriend” and are designed to ... Views: 830
When the time comes to pop the question and ask her out on a date the deliema is how do you do it? My rule of thumb is to not ask directly, instead assume she’ll come and merely propose a meeting place. Never call a meeting a “date” as it throws most men in a frame war where he’s courting, he’s ... Views: 958
Going through a difficult time, or have been a difficult time with your Christian dating relationship? Just because both parties are Christian does not mean that a relationship is safe from dissolving. That's why the following dating tips may help you save either your present dating ... Views: 665
Bookshops are a excellent venue to pickup intellectual women as they’re always jam-packed (especially the big bookshops) with women who have more going for them apart from their looks.
Picking up in bookstalls has always been my special gift, as the women there tend to be very intelligent and ... Views: 740
gorgeous girls are hard to find and when you stagger over them the probability are they’ll most likely have a boy they are seeing and even if they don’t they say they will, doesn’t really make sense does it?
But never fear as the following guidelines are to be used on attractivewomen who ... Views: 3402
Have you ever noticed how uncomfortable you feel when you do something for the first time? Remember your first day at school, the first time you rode a bike or even your first day at a new job? Change can be scary and that is why people avoid it so much. The reason you tend to cling to the ... Views: 1105
This article is going to be about the actual mechanics of personal change. It's a topic that's very close to my heart, and one that I've studied in various guises over the years.
So the other day, I went for dinner at my parents' place, where they've lived for over a decade now. Recently they ... Views: 1810
Hi Dennis,
I have been working on putting together a few work shops for women on how to attract the kind of man they desire so naturally I have been doing my research on how the other side goes about this. From a woman's perspective, you are 100% on target. Just reading what suggestions you ... Views: 699
Men are less likely to share their feelings, according to clinicians. According to some women’s observations, most men are either too arrogant or too shy. The arrogant tend to believe that dating tips for guys are not needed for their “portfolio,” while the shy are too timid to ... Views: 562
In the game of Poker known as Texas Hold 'Em, one of the biggest skills of all is hand selection.
For those of you who are not familiar with this style of poker: in Texas Hold 'Em, you get two cards, face-down. These are known as your hole cards.
Then everybody gets dealt 5 cards, face-up. ... Views: 2243
Calm as the cornerstone of courage
Ernest Hemingway once said that 'Courage is grace under pressure'. We are all born with innate courage; however, because of the way we are wired, it is a skill that needs to be unmasked and cultivated. The main prerequisite for courage is a calm, imperturbable ... Views: 1860
How important is an apology in the magic of making up? Well, it's just about the most important aspect of making up with your ex yet many spurned lovers completely get it wrong when apologizing.
Simply saying sorry is not enough and will get you booted even further away. A bad apology is ... Views: 5478
self-assurance with women
Are you upset with the nice-looking women you meet due to your monotonous failure to attract them or to get a date with them? If it is really so, it might be due to your self-belief with striking women. This is not a rare issue for men, in fact a lot of men lack ... Views: 779
Here is my quick and sweet policy to seducing stunning women.
Right so you’re at a bar, you have a cocktail by your side and you notice this totally hot girl standing by herself as she waits for her party friends, you know you only have a seconds before they meet her so you better act quickly ... Views: 660
I recently wrote this piece as the Didactic Module to the newest Mindtrack, the Courage Amplifier. I hope you find it useful.
Fear is an innate response that has been essential to our survival as human beings. Throughout the million-year history of human evolution, cautiousness and proneness to ... Views: 2085
I’m all for individual style and taste but if you want to ensure that you don’t send the wrong messages, there are some style tips that you can’t afford to miss.
Groom from the inside out
I don’t care how hard you’ve worked, how little time you have, and bla, bla, ... Views: 2391
Finally! A step-by-step guide on how to meet women that makes meeting women fun and easy for any guy! I have a question...
(And you have to be honest with me here!)
Is meeting women hard for you to do? Do you feel afraid when it comes to meeting women?
And is that fear keeping you from ... Views: 13207
Here's an e-mail I received from a reader:
Dear Cherry,
I want to share this with you. I attend regular church events so this year I started to look at the men in church.
There's one guy I decided to practice your flirting technique on. Well, I smiled and got no response. He wouldn't even ... Views: 2875
Recently I was thinking how rarely we take out the time to express our appreciation of people. I've written about the power of compliments before, and this goes beyond that.
See, love and appreciation are closely related things. And the quality of your life is directly proportional to how much ... Views: 821
Is your guy so cheap he squeaks when he walks? Is your girl so thrifty she uses tea bags thrice? I feel your pain.
I too was a long-suffering companion of a date who felt that a root canal was preferable to spending money.
Allow me to introduce him. We'll call him Rob. (I'll call him the most ... Views: 1308
These days online dating is fun and an easiest means of meeting people... Millions of people have met, dated, and finally got married as a result of their online dating experience. Still, it is important to know few important things before you avail online dating services because there are also ... Views: 503
If you have lost hope in finding someone special on online dating sites then we are here to rescue you. We have listed few main blunders that usually women make on online dating sites. Boost your success rate considerably by avoiding all these mistakes and choose a right plan to get charming men ... Views: 720
I know, I know, I am about to open a can of worms and I'll probably be strung by my thumbs from some cell tower somewhere before I even finish this little essay.
But, folks, I have to be perfectly honest: I HATE ONLINE DATING.
I can feel your frustration with me: your choruses of, "She doesn't ... Views: 681
So yesterday, my team lost in the semifinals of the World Cup.
In a completely unexpected finish, Italy scored in the last minute of overtime, right when everyone expected the game to go to penalty kicks.
Of course, my first reaction was complete incredulity. I mean, that ball didn't really ... Views: 832
Getting your groove back after the breakup
Are you upset for the breakup that you had with your girlfriend recently? You no more feel upset. If you have the will to get back into the track again, make yourself ready for the new game. Click down the page and you will come to gather unique as ... Views: 1052
Near the conclusion of this article, I'm going to give you a revolutionary, shockingly effective method to bring more women into your life than you ever imagined possible. You don't have to buy anything. You don't have to attend any seminars. It costs nothing. And it works 100% of the time when ... Views: 796
Surviving the Loss of a Love
We feel euphoric as we initially fall in love. The euphoria is often short lived because the powerful forces of love bring all our core issues up to the surface. We all go into relationships with our baggage. But one of the most beautiful things about relationships ... Views: 1314
Many women hold onto this romantic notion that one day a man will come riding over the horizon atop a great white stallion and save them from whatever problems they may face in life. That’s the attitude some men have as well. “She’s my fragile little flower. She won’t ... Views: 3017
Do you play poker?
I've been playing for a few years now, and lately I've been noticing that poker can be a great metaphor for a lot of things that we do in life.
For example, the other night I was sitting at this table with a bunch of guys (okay, that was redundant: it's *always* a bunch of ... Views: 904
The beginning of a new relationship is sooooo wonderful. Everything's fun and exciting (even a tad scary). But it's such a RELIEF to FINALLY find someone you're attracted to and can connect with.
Aaaahhhh....
This is also a time when a man...when he's REALLY into a woman...can call or e-mail ... Views: 1245
Hello, hola, buongiorno, hej, hei, dag, hallo, salut and g'day to you. I'm delighted to report that you guys, my valued readers, come from all corners of the globe -- Norway, Australia, Italy, New Zealand, Germany, and the USA -- to make the Tao of Dating a truly international community. Great ... Views: 1657
Relationships and Our Minds
Everything in the universe is created by one original substance. This formless substance or energy is neutral. It is the thought applied upon this substance that creates the thing that is imagined by the thought. Since you are thinking source, you can create anything ... Views: 1960
Not having any luck dating online?
You may be making these mistakes.
1. Being a Winking, IM’ng, and Email Whore
Imagine if you went to a club and winked at someone all night, maybe even leered at them and you hadn’t introduced yourself yet?
Imagine that you kept knocking on ... Views: 1018
Last year, I met a 36 year-old man (I am 45) and when we instantly connected. We met through a dating site. He picked me up at home and the rest is history. He knew I was falling for him and began to retreat.
He travels a lot with his job but I wasn't used to how to handle a long distance ... Views: 652
Dear Ronnie,
I have a dating dilemma that I could use your help with. I attended a speed-dating evening in August. When I received the “match” results, to my delight - the fellow I was MOST interested in had expressed interest in me! A few days later, I received a very nice e-mail from him ... Views: 1512
My client Sharon called in for her monthly coaching appointment last night. We talked about how things were going on her dating journey. What had she done to find the love she wants?
Surprisingly, Sharon had done very little. She did have a number of excellent excuses. For example: work was ... Views: 779
A friend of mine has had this mad crush on a colleague of his for over a year. She’s all he talks about. How beautiful she looks, how talented and articulate she is. They both love mountain biking and even share the same fondness for the same red wines. They’re close in age and ... Views: 819