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Communication is the primary tool we use to interact with others. It is vital in the development of successful business and personal relationships. Helen Keller who was blind, deaf and mute needed to learn ways to communicate so she could participate in the world. Participating in everyday ... Views: 1475
How to Ask for Help: The Patient’s Guide to Managing Caregivers
Hello! If you are reading this, you are likely facing a hospital or hospice stay and may be feeling powerless to ask for the quality of care you know you deserve. Are you afraid of being seen as “high maintenance’, a pest, ... Views: 1020
Every workplace has them, that annoying co-worker. But how do you address the issue without alienating the person? While every situation is different, there are three tried-and-true Total Quality Key Principles to use in effective interaction.
Maintain or enhance self-esteem of others.
When ... Views: 2220
Many times, leaders, managers, and executives give up on providing employee feedback because it has backfired on them. Why is that the case? Why does feedback so often backfire? Here are eight of the top causes:
1. Feedback that is indirect.
People often go the long way around the mulberry ... Views: 1167
In order to be effective at Christian discipleship, you have to listen. Remember that listening is an active verb ... a very active verb, and it takes both effort and practice. You need to listen both to your partner (the person you are discipling), and to God.
Listen to what is said. This ... Views: 1062
The boss’s phone rings.
You happen to be passing and you pick it up.
“Is Gary there?”
“No, he’s not around”
“Well, it’s Andrea here, the HR Director and Gary is due to present his department’s roles and responsibilities to the new Graduates ... Views: 3568
Why does communication so often go wrong? Here are the top four reasons for breakdowns in communication:
1. Poor Listening Skills. Poor listening skills top the list when it comes to barriers to communication. Poor listening skills can result from:
* Lack of involvement with the other person ... Views: 7752
Are you interested in setting up a home network? Perhaps your business would profit with the help of a network that allows all systems to communicate more effectively. Or, maybe you are simply looking for a way to allow multiple devices to take advantage of your Internet access. Regardless, ... Views: 918
Fear of public speaking can prevent you from achieving great accomplishments that most of the people who have triumphed over the fear of public speaking are enjoying.you need to steal the light from your competitors by speaking in a breathtaking manner in front of others.for instance,in a ... Views: 606
TEN SIMPLE TIPS TO AVOID TERRIBLE TALK
By
Bill Cottringer
"It is usually impossible to get a conversation going when everybody is talking too much." ~Yogi Berra
If you want to avoid terrible talk, improve your communication skills and get better results with people, try these ten ... Views: 1111
Want to share your original and creative presentations with others all over the world? Putting PowerPoint presentation on Web sounds a good idea. Especially in this era of Internet on which everyone can view various resources using their computers.
Here ... Views: 871
LIKABLE COMMUNICATION
by
William Cottringer
“Our brains quickly perceive others to be likeable, neutral or unlikeable; the words that follow verify that initial perception.” ~The author.
Ron and Jennifer are both successful professionals. Jennifer is on the top of her career as a CEO ... Views: 2190
POWER COMMUNICATION
By
William Cottringer
“Good communication is when an artist conveys the message of his images to a musician who correctly translates them into the musical notes she plays.” ~The author.
Today being a good communicator is not enough. Professional success requires ... Views: 1322
So...did I get your attention? Yes? I thought I might! I did a small presentation for the Greater Seminole Area Chamber of Commerce on "How to Win Over Difficult Prospects" and the bull-fighting, rabbit-chasing and wrestling with pigs came as a result of that (I never know what is going to come ... Views: 1796
Do you have unwanted bull in your life? You know what I’m talking about: Those annoying people who want to control, dominate, and manipulate you for their own best interests.
Those people who love to get into power-struggles and arguments with you and you are left feeling depleted and ... Views: 985
Controlling verbal aggression is crucial if you’re living or dealing with a person who likes to attack others using sharp, hurtful words. Controlling verbal aggression can be a pain if you are not skilled or trained to deal with an aggressor.
One of the techniques for controlling verbal ... Views: 1844
The Blarney Stone is a historical stone, or actually part of the Blarney Castle in Ireland where it was believed that kissing the stone can grant you the gift of gab. Yeah, it seems strange in this day and age, but who are we to question tradition? It's not like I'm saying that Santa Claus ... Views: 994
Communication is the heart of relationships. Unless you're a hermit most people want to have great relationships in both their business and personal life. Assumptions and acknowledgements are opposing aspects of powerful communication. Assumptions lead to dysfunction and acknowledgments create ... Views: 1047
He had taken both technical and people skills training over the years that covered emotional intelligence, Stephen Covey's 'The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People(R),' and Keirsey Personality Temperaments, to name a few. Yet Kenn Mackenzie, director of a high tech company in Silicon Valley, ... Views: 1061
Improving your relationship often requires doing things differently and gathering new information. In this article we've highlighted some useful ideas and advice for people who want to create meaningful and lasting change in their relationships.
Let's start with some basic ideas that will ... Views: 1595
Joseph worked hard. As a customer service telephone representative, he showed respect and courtesy to everyone who called the company. But he wanted to get ahead. He wanted an outside sales job. He applied for open positions over and over again; his manager turned him down each time. Finally, ... Views: 2874
Apple CEO Steve Jobs knows all about the Power of Persuasive Presentations! I recently delivered a program on “Executive Communications” to an International Chapter of the YPO (The Young President’s Organization). There are two major job responsibilities of a CEO. One is Chief ... Views: 5033
Most organizations still do not provide comprehensive, let alone adequate, training in today’s marketplace. A recent report by the Service & Support Professionals Association (SSPA) said that only 27% of service and support staff spend more than 5 days on annual ongoing training.
Beyond ... Views: 1181
What four letter words do we mean? Here are a few:
Talk
Chat
Tell
Blab
Let's look at ‘talk’ as an example. If I asked you, you could all talk about almost anything at a moment's notice. In the computer in our brain, we have lots of programs--what we think, what we feel or believe about ... Views: 1017
"Pins and needles, needles and pins; it's a happy man that grins." These classic words were made famous by Jackie Gleason in his role as Ralph Kramden in the 1950s TV sitcom, The Honeymooners. So why in the world was America's favorite bus driver so intent on repeating this phrase whenever he ... Views: 3680
People skills are simply how you communicate with people, whether they be friends, family, work colleagues, clients etc. Before we move on to explaining the different areas of people skills, let us remind you of one point: they are vital for long-term success and happiness in both personal, ... Views: 2437
Joseph worked hard. As a customer service telephone representative, he showed respect and courtesy to everyone who called the company. But he wanted to get ahead. He wanted an outside sales job. He applied for open positions over and over again; his manager turned him down each time. Finally, ... Views: 1087
A client was struggling with how to manage her stress level during the Q&A period after a presentation when she doesn't have an immediate answer. The simple solution might be to say, "I don't know." But it's not that simple.
Sometimes she does know the answer but can't come up with it, because ... Views: 984
In today’s work world many generations are employed at the same company. There are often biases and assumptions people have which can create overwhelming conflict that ultimately damages working relationships. “Most intergenerational conflict shares a common point of origin: the ... Views: 1981
Communication is one of those profound aspects of life which enables life to flow and exist on a plane which makes the world go around and things happen. Communication in itself is an art, one that often astounds us with its many intricate, complex and complicated ways of expression. It is ... Views: 4789
When searching for the perfect phone system for your place of business, it is important to note that there are three different forms of commercial phone systems for you to select from. By understanding the features of each of these types of systems, you will be better prepared to select the ... Views: 1827
Wireless networks are fast evolving from being the primarily voice-only traffic to networks, supporting both voice and swift data services. With the advent of this transition, there is a high demand for additional bandwidth at cell sites. The wireless service providers have very precise ... Views: 984
What’s Going on at Your Hospital? The Perils of Playing Small
IHHP - Institute for Health and Human Potential
What’s Going on at Your Hospital?
In US hospitals today, one in 20 patients receives the wrong medication. Three and a half million patients become infected while ... Views: 1318
Connection is a two-way exchange of attention and energy. It is an inner freedom to give attention to others and receive attention from others. When you actually connect, you experience an exchange of psychophysical energy that feels good emotionally and physically.
The reason connection ... Views: 1965
The art of conversation really is a wonderful skill; the simple skills to keep a conversation alive can be the deciding factor to how successful you are going to be.
Starting a conversation and maintaining a conversation really are two separate factors. As with anything there is a start, ... Views: 4964
Are you fed up with struggling to express your thoughts and opinions? These days, people want to talk and not listen! No one wants to be a shadow in the crowd. Having your thoughts and opinions heard is a priority.
The very achievement of being able to express yourself, and more importantly, ... Views: 33488
Everyone suffers with that nervous feeling whilst meeting someone new; it’s a perfectly normal feeling. It is human nature to get anxious whilst facing the first introduction, that face to face meeting of a stranger.
So just why do we get nervous? Because we are trying to impress! No-one ... Views: 1090
"I'm sick and tired of HR's red tape. I need this employee now, not next month. My department suffers while you drag your feet trying to get references I don't need. I want THIS person. Get off the stick and make it happen!"
OK! Jack's trying to communicate an important need. What's his ... Views: 4746
In the world of food, it's said that they first bite is with the eyes. Well, when it comes to meeting new people, a first impression is a lasting impression, and it's important you make a good one.
After that, you have to work at holding their interest. Let's look at some steps you can take ... Views: 1297
One of the most commonly downloaded free articles on judyringer.com is called, "We Have to Talk: A Step by Step Checklist for Difficult Conversations." It's been in more company newsletters than I can count, including The Systems Thinker, published by Pegasus Communications.
Recently, one ... Views: 957
These days, it seems all manner of people are constantly putting their foot in their mouth. How often have we heard the President, a politician, a movie star or a celebrity say something truly stupid on TV or in an interview? There are some simple steps you can take to avoid looking stupid in ... Views: 737
Have you ever been faced with that tongue tied feeling of hopelessness? You most certainly are not alone. Most of the human race will have at some time become stuck for words.
How can you help to stop this from happening? Simply follow the easy steps below. This will help to ensure that this ... Views: 8894
Defusing difficult or angry customers calmly and assertively benefits the company, the customer, and the service representative. Managing any difficult situation requires clear communication and intention. You improve with practice. And the rewards – both in terms of personal and bottom line ... Views: 1116
In an average day, you are going to meet a great many new people. Some of them might seem of no value to your life - a waitress, a delivery man, and so forth. Yet, never underestimate the value of every individual.
Remember, the art of networking can lead to you achieving greatness. With that ... Views: 2781
You've spent time and energy preparing and holding an important conversation. You developed a useful purpose, acknowledged your conversation partner, and framed your message with skill. But, in spite of your best efforts, the situation does not improve: a direct report continues to be ... Views: 931
What on Earth happened to good manners? Somebody, please enlighten me, because I really want to know. Our aikido instructor is constantly frustrated, because people don't bother to call or send an e-mail when they are not going to be in class. He is a very reasonable man and would never torment ... Views: 3899
If you are not confident by nature the simple task of starting a conversation is enough to start the heart racing!
Yes you read it correctly! Cold sweats, heart palpitations, shaking, stuttering, are just some of the effects that the faint-hearted can be faced with whilst starting a ... Views: 1429
If you have ever doubted the impact a single presentation can have, just watch the primaries.
Going in to the primaries the talk was all about how far ahead Howard Dean was in the pack. In most people’s mind he was the forerunner and most likely new candidate.
And then, one presentation ... Views: 999
It still amazes me. No matter how many times I hear it, when someone tells me that nobody ever listened to them before, or that being listened to was the most powerful experience that they had, I feel a surge of emotion. It’s a mixture of sadness and anger tinged with elation and determination. ... Views: 585
Your communication style greatly impacts your relationships. The more you are aware of how you communicate, the more powerful and positive your communications will be.
In my work, I often encounter people who believe they are being clear and responsive in their communication. However, their ... Views: 827