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- Dr. Romance on Grief: From Surviving to Thriving - by Submitted on Sep 05, 2015 from Tina TessinaDr. Romance has had many clients who are grieving, and wrote this to help. None of us wants to think about it, but the standard definition of a totally successful relationship is the old, traditional "til death do us part." Any time we love, whether it’s a life partner, a dear ...
Views: 1477(1 vote) - What Every Argument Reveals About You - by Submitted on Sep 03, 2015 from Jacob KorthuisEver had an opinion about something, or someone, and you felt it in your entire body that your opinion was based on solid facts and therefore the only right opinion? (Read: believe system) Every vessel in your body is telling you that you are so right about this! The only resolution at that ...
Views: 1429 - Healing the Mindy, Body and Spirit: The Journey - by Submitted on Sep 03, 2015 from Womens Recreation, Inc.This series is to reminisce about times gone by as well as future events for you to ponder. Life is so amazing! We learn and grow from each new experience. When you look at life it is more than going from point A to point B, it is about the journey in between; the ups and downs and the people ...
Views: 1233 - Always take a chance to say “I love you!” - by Submitted on Sep 02, 2015 from Gordana StankovicI woke up quite early this morning. Strictly speaking I do not know whether I woke up or whether I was really woken up by a dream. It was one of those very real dreams, the one you want to go back to and complete it. In it I was with my best male friend, whom I really was in love with. I was ...
Views: 1117 - My Ex Boyfriend Doesn't Text Me Back! Tips to Get a Boyfriend Back - by Submitted on Aug 31, 2015 from Patrick UadialeYou've been dealing with so many things since the break up, haven't you? You have to juggle the sadness, with the loneliness with the apprehension that comes with not knowing what your future holds. You miss your ex and you feel compelled at times to tell him as much, don't you? Maybe it's in ...
Views: 2361 - What to Do If You Still Love Your Ex - How to Get Your Ex Back in Love With You - by Submitted on Aug 30, 2015 from Patrick UadialeIf you still love your ex you probably feel as though you're suffering through emotional torture each and every day. Loving someone you are no longer with brings with it a whole set of unique challenges. It's certainly not easy trying to figure out what went wrong while at the same time ...
Views: 1407 - How to Make Your Ex Miss You & Want You Back - They Need to Have a Solid Reason to Miss You! - by Submitted on Aug 30, 2015 from Patrick UadialeIt's hard to let go of a relationship when you're still in love with your ex. It's common to be constantly thinking of your ex during these times but how can you make your ex miss you and more important, how can you make your ex want you back? Even if your ex is not talking to you or perhaps ...
Views: 2285 - Are There Still Differences Between Male and Female Psyches? - by Submitted on Aug 28, 2015 from William CottringerAre There Still Differences Between Male and Female Psyches? By Bill Cottringer After John Gray’s Book “Men Are From Mars and Women Are From Venus” came out decades ago, significant mental and emotional differences between the sexes explained many of the difficulties that caused ...
Views: 1948 - Relationships: Is There A Reason Why Some People Attract People Who Can't Love Them? - by Submitted on Aug 25, 2015 from Oliver JR CooperWhen some people think about what it is like to be in a relationship, they might get a sense of being around someone who is truly there for them. This means that the other person is not only physically available, they are also emotionally available. Now, this could be because they are ...
Views: 1578 - Happiness, an elusive concept - by Submitted on Aug 19, 2015 from Thabet Sava HassanWe, all without exceptions, spend most of our lives chasing after an intangible or an abstract idea called Happiness. However, is it a tangible feeling or an elusive concept? The fundamental question should focus on the meaning of happiness and the means to experience it. Some people may ...
Views: 1670 - 10 THINGS MEN CAN DO TO CAPTURE A WOMAN’S HEART - by Submitted on Aug 18, 2015 from Latorria Freeman1. Security Show your woman that she is safe with you. Show her that she can share her inner self with you and you have the strength to hold her up. 2. Open Book Share things with her about your daily routine not because she may be insecure and not trust you. This act creates ...
Views: 4004 - Looking for Love - by Submitted on Aug 13, 2015 from Natalie MooreI was recently in a New York City café, sipping a cappuccino and observing couples at different stages in their relationships. The age-old story: two people meet… and the ritual of courtship ensues. They’re looking for love. Some couples will find “love” for a day. Other couples will create a ...
Views: 813(2 votes) - 10 creative engagement announcement ideas - by Submitted on Aug 06, 2015 from Anup KiranSo you have already proposed and she said yes, the next thing is letting your friends and relatives know the big news. There are so many ways to get the news out but be sure to make a lasting impression. Customized cards are the best ways to get the news out. You can get the cards personalized ...
Views: 905 - Love in a Cup - by Submitted on Aug 04, 2015 from Gordana StankovicLessons in love are hiding in almost every moment and situation of our life. The question is whether we are ready to take an opportunity to live that moment fully and whether we are going to stay open to receiving a lesson in love that this moment and situation have the potential to teach ...
Views: 1187 - Personalized Greeting cards-send wishes with a personalized touch - by Submitted on Jul 28, 2015 from Anup KiranWould you like to make a lasting impression on that date/birthday/Christmas or any other special event? Well greeting cards are the solution. However the common greeting cards are just so boring, ecards are more likely to leave a longer impression compared to normal greeting cards. You can ...
Views: 709 - Dear Dr. Romance: Please help, our family is growing apart - by Submitted on Jul 28, 2015 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: Q: My father died 1 1/2 years ago.My mom always snaps at me and my older brother and I think she has a serious problem. I personally think it's a power struggle because she fells like she is loosing control over my brother and I. But, what she ...
Views: 1377(2 votes) - Dear Dr. Romance: What is being a therapist like? - by Submitted on Jul 13, 2015 from Tina TessinaQ & A with a Dr. Romance reader: Q: I would like your advice and input. I have been working in business for 12 years as a CPA and have recently been quite frustrated with it. Recently I did some career/interests/aptitude testing and found that the work I do now is pretty much what I ...
Views: 1245(2 votes) - Dear Dr. Romance: I am a substance abuse counselor - by Submitted on Jul 13, 2015 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I work at an Indian health clinic in northern California. I am a substance abuse counselor, or Certified Addiction Treatment Counselor . After scanning a book I found on a colleague's bookshelf called The Real Thirteenth Step I felt compelled to seek it out, and I ...
Views: 1265(2 votes) - Women Embrace Your Truths - by Submitted on Jul 09, 2015 from Latorria FreemanWomen Embrace Your Truths 1. Never Give Up on Your Dreams It is okay to help your man achieve his dreams but never ever give up on your own. Your dreams are just as important as his dreams. It is okay to encourage him to achieve his ultimate goals but do not lose sight of your own ...
Views: 1424(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: Will this guy turn out like my wicked stepfather? - by Submitted on Jul 07, 2015 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I have a problem. My mother has introduced me to a male co-worker at her work. We have been friends for a month. My problem is that I am afraid that this relationship may become serious. The gentleman that she introduced me to is real nice, but my stepfather was the same way ...
Views: 1319(1 vote) - Emotional Self-Control - by Submitted on Jul 07, 2015 from Tina TessinaOne of the most powerful ways I found to stop being a doormat in relationships was to learn emotional self-control. When you’re too reactive to your partner, he or she can easily draw you into a fight that stops you both from focusing on fixing the problem. Self-control is not easy. In ...
Views: 1620(2 votes) - Personalized Greeting Cards – Send Unique Wishes with Personal Touch - by Submitted on Jul 06, 2015 from Anup KiranSending online greeting cards has become a popular trend in the recent years. With the help of advanced technology, you can reach out to your dear ones with your warmest wishes whenever you want. If you think that you will miss the opportunity to hold that paper greeting card and give it to ...
Views: 817 - The Fluidity Of Homo/Hetero (Happy) Sexuality - by Submitted on Nov 25, 2016 from Stephanie AdamsIf anyone googles "Stephanie Adams" they will find that I am the first Playboy Centerfold to come "out" as a lesbian...who eventually married a man and started a family. Is sexuality "fluid", something that is forever changing, never the same? I will elaborate more on that topic...Sexuality is ...
Views: 1952 - Doctor’s Share Why HuMethod Exercises Work - by Submitted on Jul 31, 2015 from Master Coach Hu DalconzoFor over two decades Coach Hu Dalconzo, along with his staff of HuMethod™ Spiritual Life Coaches have demonstrated time and again that their well field-tested coaching exercises will create Permanent Behavioral Change for anyone who is willing to internalize and emotionalize them as ...
Views: 1892(1 vote) - Send Beautiful Personalized Messages to Your Loved Ones and Make Their Day Special - by Submitted on Jul 02, 2015 from Anup KiranHow it feels when you receive a warm message from your friend, brother, sister or mother? certainly, you feel very happy, loved and remembered. Your message for your loved ones conveys your emotions and feelings towards them. A value of beautiful message that conveys love and care cannot be ...
Views: 1039 - Dear Dr. Romance: Can short guys date? - by Submitted on Jun 30, 2015 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance : I'm a 5'4" 34yr old male. I've searched online dating sites for a few years now and read thousands of women's profiles. In doing so, I recognized a peculiar trend in women's descriptions of their ideal mate. It's exhilarating to read ...
Views: 1379(2 votes) - Greetings Are Important - by Submitted on Jun 30, 2015 from Anup KiranGreetings are vital to make that first good impression, establish good relationships with your loved ones and set a positive tone for any conversation whether it is with your friend, boss or client. If you want to be an effective personality, you should not ignore the importance of greetings. ...
Views: 17635 - VENUS RX KARMIC KRAZY GLUE ALERT: “Who Do You Love . . . and Why?" - by Submitted on Jun 29, 2015 from joan pancoe"The magic moment is the moment when a 'YES' or a 'NO' can change our whole existence." Paul Coelho Dear Friend, Happy Summer! Over the next few months, we’ll have a golden opportunity for some potentially life-changing healing and growth as Love Planet Venus retrogrades over ...
Views: 1910(1 vote) - Relationships: Is Being Able To Grieve An Important Part Of Being Able To Receive Love? - by Submitted on Jun 23, 2015 from Oliver JR CooperWhen someone spends their time around people who have an open-heart, they are likely to appreciate being around them. Whereas, if they were to spend their time around people who were the complete opposite; there is the chance that they will feel uncomfortable. This is because when people ...
Views: 1524 - Dr. Romance on Living Outside the Box - by Submitted on Jun 09, 2015 from Tina TessinaDr. Romance writes: I was speaking with a client today about his burn-out in his career. This is a man who’s been very successful, earned a lot of money, and worked hard for a big, national corporation. I told him he was burned-out, and on strike, because he had put himself in a ...
Views: 1439(2 votes) - Getting Along With Each Other - by Submitted on Jun 09, 2015 from Tina TessinaIn 1998, Richard and I had a marvelous opportunity to sail around the world as the ballroom dance teachers on a cruise ship. Many of the places we saw then, such as Oman, Jordan, Turkey, Morocco, Indonesia and Israel are in turmoil now, and not as safe for tourists. Last year, when ...
Views: 1422(1 vote) - 20 Most Common Dating Mistakes (From a Female's Perspective) - by Submitted on May 28, 2015 from Latorria FreemanAfter speaking to a few ladies, here's what they have to say.... Fellas within the first 2 months of dating….. 1. Please end all of the drama with your baby mommas, ex-wives, stalkers or potential girlfriends before pursuing a friendship with me. 2. Discussing ...
Views: 1645 - Love: Do Some People's childhoods Set Them Up To Reject Love? - by Submitted on May 29, 2015 from Oliver JR CooperWhile there are some people who are able to receive, there are others who are unable to do so. What this means is that although someone needs something, it is not possible for them to have it. There are then going to be others who experience life differently, and it will be possible for them ...
Views: 2598 - Why Couples Fall out of Love - by Submitted on May 25, 2015 from Tina TessinaIn my counseling office, I frequently deal with people who’ve heard the dread phrase, “I love you, but I’m not in love with you.” How can it happen that a couple who were once thrilled with each other can fall out of love? It seems like a mystery, but it’s not. And, ...
Views: 1345(1 vote) - 3 Reasons You Need to Treat Dating Like Shopping for Shoes - by Submitted on Jul 06, 2016 from Kemi SogunleEvery woman or man wants a pair of good shoes. No one would buy smaller-sized shoes or an uncomfortable pair to start with. We all like to mix and match while ensuring that we stand out at any event we attend. Just like shoes, no one wants to be with the wrong partner. Here are three reasons ...
Views: 3001 - Love, Grow, Thrive - by Submitted on May 19, 2015 from Elitia MattoxRelationship Justice When two people enter into a relationship, it’s my belief they enter with intentions to freely share love, resources and energy with their mate. This mutual exchange of love, resources and energy cultivates fertile ground for the best friendships and love relationships ...
Views: 1110 - Dear Dr. Romance: I was always wrong - by Submitted on May 18, 2015 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: THANK YOU so much for this dating tip! My girlfriend sent me your article "You Be The Judge" yesterday. I needed this. I dated this African guy for 4 months, 3 weeks in which we were actually together, and I was always upset and let-downed. Always, his way, his ...
Views: 1671 - Marriage Communication Problems? The #1 Tip to Stop Escalation - by Submitted on May 17, 2015 from Ana LoiselleThere’s nothing worse than escalation. Escalation occurs when partners respond back and forth negatively to each other, continually upping the ante while the conversation gets more and more volatile. Even just a minor negative comment can increase the level of arousal and soon a small ...
Views: 1171(1 vote) - A Sad Ending - by Submitted on May 15, 2015 from ABHISHEK SRIVASTAVAIt was 1 o’clock in the night in the winters of Delhi. Winters in Delhi particularly get harsh with temperature falling below 5 degree. After a long walk round the park, boy and girl- who were supposedly couple- took the seat in a white bench beside the street lamp. “I have to tell you ...
Views: 754(1 vote) - Remember How Strong Your Are - by Submitted on May 14, 2015 from Mike RobbinsIn early March of 2011, I was sitting in my car in the parking lot of the Ritz Carlton Hotel in Half Moon Bay, California, where I was scheduled to speak later that morning. Although it was a pretty big event, I wasn't feeling all that nervous about it-I had other things on my mind. I called one ...
Views: 2316 - Dr. Romance on The Right Way to Love - by Submitted on May 10, 2015 from Tina TessinaDr. Romance writes: There’s a pervasive myth in our society that there is a right and a wrong way to love. However, there’s not much clarity about what the right might be. We all have difficulty with relationships and difficulty with love. Therefore, we’re liable to draw the uncomfortable ...
Views: 1316 - Dear Dr. Romance: I am considering being a licensed psychotherapist - by Submitted on May 10, 2015 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I am considering being a licensed psychotherapist. What was your education track if I may ask? Dear Reader: Of course you may ask. I was licensed in 1978, so things were quite different then. I took an independent study curriculum at Lindenwood Colleges, and I used ...
Views: 1526 - Relationships: Can Trapped Grief Make Breakups Harder To Handle? - by Submitted on May 08, 2015 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone was to spend their time around people who have just experienced a breakup, they are unlikely to have the same experience with each person. They could find that although one person is in a bad way, another could come across though they haven’t been affected. And they could also ...
Views: 1422 - Finding and Losing Inner Child Love: Mourning to Morning and Back Again - by Submitted on May 06, 2015 from Mark GorkinAlas, the recent break-up of a nine year relationship was painful enough. But when my ex-partner’s daughter indefinitely suspended (if not permanently ended) weekly 3-5 minute Skypeing and my periodic visiting with her 3 ½ year old daughter (i.e., my ex’s grandchild), because the mother felt ...
Views: 1650 - Finding and Losing Inner Child Love: Mourning to Morning and Back Again - by Submitted on May 06, 2015 from Mark GorkinAlas, the recent break-up of a nine year relationship was painful enough. But when my ex-partner’s daughter indefinitely suspended (if not permanently ended) weekly 3-5 minute Skypeing and my periodic visiting with her 3 ½ year old daughter (i.e., my ex’s grandchild), because the mother felt ...
Views: 1 - Finding and Losing Inner Child Love: Mourning to Morning and Back Again - by Submitted on May 06, 2015 from Mark GorkinAlas, the recent break-up of a nine year relationship was painful enough. But when my ex-partner’s daughter indefinitely suspended (if not permanently ended) weekly 3-5 minute Skypeing and my periodic visiting with her 3 ½ year old daughter (i.e., my ex’s grandchild), because the mother felt ...
Views: 1603 - Soul Mates and Unconditional Love - by Submitted on May 05, 2015 from Darlene LancerAre you searching for a soul mate or unconditional love? Your quest can set you on an impossible journey to find an ideal partner. The problem is often twofold: No human being, nor any relationship can ever achieve perfection, and often unconditional and conditional love are ...
Views: 1763(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: I can't decide if she's as in to me as I am her - by Submitted on Apr 27, 2015 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance:My situation is different that some. See I have only been in 2 relationships, but they were really long term. My first I was 16 till I was 21. Second from 22 till 26 years old. Both of those relationships were an on off kind of relationship. So inbetween the ons and off, ...
Views: 1277(2 votes) - Top 3 Reasons Why Men Become Insecure - by Submitted on Jul 06, 2016 from Kemi SogunleWe all have insecurities of some sort but when it takes a toll on our relationships, it becomes burdensome. You may have finally met the man of your dreams but it seems you cannot put your fingers on. It turns out he is always defensive or sensitive and has answers or excuses for everything ...
Views: 4276 - Train Your Mind, Change Your Marriage - by Submitted on Apr 22, 2015 from Ana LoiselleWhether you have been married for only a brief period of time, many years, or even decades, you want your marriage to be the best that it can be! You may have encountered some serious difficulties in your marriage, or you may simply wish to improve what is already a good relationship. The good ...
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