I thought I was frigid…
I did not seem to like sex much…
I had loved the idea of it before having it…
(Apart from the guilt of it, of course…)
But now I was married, supposedly allowed to indulge in as much sex as I liked and I kinda hated it.
I dreaded the nights when I would have to be ... Views: 638
You spend too much time questioning yourself…
You spend too much time wondering if what you have is good enough to help people…
You wonder if your gift, your strength, your story, history, experience is even useful…
You wonder if you have what it takes to go the distance…
You wonder ... Views: 1184
You overcame…
You handled it!
You are still standing!
And now, you have a story to tell…
You have an experience that can change another’s life…
But you feel the drag of the story…
It wants to pull you back into it
And you may not even be aware that you are reacting…
Ever ... Views: 1517
There is a part of you that thinks that you suffer more than everyone else…
There is a part of you that buys into a sad story that says that your life is worse than everyone else’s…
There is a part of you that thinks that nothing ever comes easy to you…
There is a part of you that feels like ... Views: 754
Let me be honest with you – You already know everything you need to know to get rich…
Everything has been revealed to you but…
And this is the big but…
You do not believe it can be that simple…
And so you go looking for some convoluted pathway to wealth…
You listen to any person who ... Views: 744
Being a leader is essential if you want to build a solid team that supports other people in being their best self and that is what network marketing is all about - Supporting others and growing your business.
In order to be a leader, you must be an example. Sometimes, people get caught up in ... Views: 1240
Did you know that you do not have to know everything in order for you to make a start?
Did you know that you can just take a step, any step and given enough time, you will get the results you are focused on getting?
I know it seems too simplistic and so you think that if you stay sat on ... Views: 678
When will you start living like your life is yours?
When will you start asking for and receiving the best?
When will you start believing that the dreams and visions in your heart are really yours to fulfill?
When will you stop selling your soul for money?
And I speak to me, probably much ... Views: 848
This is the thing - You need a list. No matter how much you think that you can make it big on just social media or just by how awesome you are but it gets tough to try and hack it without a mailing list.
I see entrepreneurs struggling and struggling to build their business and when I ask, I ... Views: 962
You are just about ready to quit…
Don’t!
You are fed up with the lack of response, you are fed up of putting yourself out there…
You are fed up of having passivity thrown back in your face as you try so hard to help people see how you can help them…
And you are ready to quit!
QUIT AND DO ... Views: 761
There are so many distractions, SO VERY MANY! and it is easy to allow these distractions take you away from the path to getting the life and the business you want.
Everything seems like a great idea…
Everyone makes their magic bullet solution seem like the ONLY way to make it to your ... Views: 930
Being a heart-centred entrepreneur that really has a big call to change lives, it can be pretty difficult to 'sell' what you have and so, unfortunately, this tends to mean that
You get trapped taking the side road doing something you do not completely believe in because it pays the ... Views: 1734
So, how do you step into abundance when it seems well beyond your current level of experience?
Take some time each day to be silent and to journal
Every leader needs to take time to think, to navel-gaze, to write out what comes up, to pick up on new ideas in the ... Views: 937
Most people get into business with visions of glamour, of financial freedom, of changing the world with their product, service, business opportunity…
They know they have something good to offer and so they expect everyone to JUMP on them immediately…
They never want to work for another soul ... Views: 780
You worry that you worry too much about money…
You worry that your worry and your desire for more money will stop you making money…
And so then you try hard to stop worrying about money and stop wanting to have more money…
Because, in your mind, wanting more money means you must be evil and ... Views: 1482
Life has happened to you and it has not always been fun. And now you are beginning to think that you need to settle for any old nonsense that comes your way.
So what, that you are bored to death with the status quo?! You have somehow convinced yourself that this is all you can get and you ... Views: 893
The difference between you and every single person out there, is that you have vision.
Vision about what you want to create in your life and business/ministry…
Vision about the money you will make from your books, music…
A great big huge vision…
And a determination that it absolutely IS ... Views: 1525
OK, so I sometimes have the weirdest conversations on the planet and I wonder, I truly wonder whether the people I am talking to, can even hear themselves as they tell me why they are not getting results in their business or their life for that matter (After all, how you do anything is exactly ... Views: 530
Do you have to beg the air to fill a room? No, you don’t. It is there, always present, always flowing in, supporting life…
You can create a vacuum only by deliberately forcing out the air and sealing the container, sealing the room but the moment you let even a pinprick of a hole be ... Views: 961
Have you ever been in a sticky business situation which you allowed to escalate because you did not know how to deal with it?
I have.
I have been in situations where I would lie in bed, worrying and worrying, unable to sleep, beating myself up and trying not to be a victim about ... Views: 771
1. Decide That It Will Be So.
You have bought into the lie about all the struggle that you must experience first before you are allowed to experience wealth in its fullness. You have sought to follow rules and you have decided that you are not yet good enough to be wealthy and so you have ... Views: 1811
I know no one wants to experience pain…
I certainly don’t. I want the easy path all the time…
And in a lot of my life, I take that path…
In the non-essential parts like whether I cook or clean, I just let go of anything tough and hard and go the easy path, as should you!
Why?
Because ... Views: 952
I am listening, you know…
Listening hard to all that you say you want…
And I am watching you – yes, I know it sounds a little creepy but, keep reading, you will hear my heart…
I watch you, wait, wait and wait some more for things to come to you, instead of you taking courage in both ... Views: 907
It is hard when you do not feel like you are experiencing abundance to then claim that it is your birthright. I know. I have lived with poverty and though nowhere near as bad as it could have been, it still infected all of my thinking.
Everything came with a struggle…
I had to do things I ... Views: 1174
Sometimes, it feels like you are a child in a toy shop surrounded by toys but you are not allowed to touch them!
You can smell the new toy smell and you are so close to them but yet, it is like there is a film between you and the toys and you are not allowed to play or so someone said ... Views: 1600
We live in a world where a huge proportion of the people on the planet live in poverty…
And even you may be doing ‘okay’ but really, you have just enough…
You could not really call it abundance except when you compare it to the lot of other people…
And so you may read the title of this blog ... Views: 635
Imagine the scene…
A street artist drawing, painting, scene after scene of people living life…
Normally these pictures are still-life – A depiction of life with no life in them but this time, as you walk round looking at these pictures, they seem to come alive.
Men, women in all walks ... Views: 853
Leader, you live life as though you have no choice but to do the things that you do…
You look on everyone else having what looks like a good time and somehow you tell yourself that it is your lot in life to suffer and do whatever others don’t want to do because you are ... Views: 862
I see you thinking, thinking, thinking some more…
“Will this work, will that work?”
“Can I do that or would it be too much?”
“Am I allowed? Will the gods of business and all things entrepreneur curse me for trying to do this thing over here?”
“Maybe I will break my business if I do ... Views: 866
Another year ends
I see you, honey…
With the tears dripping down your face as you contemplate another year where nothing happened the way you wanted it too….
The doubt rises…
The fear seems all-encompassing and you wonder if you have what it takes to keep going…
To keep moving ... Views: 897
Yesterday, my hubby walks into the lounge and announces he has completed his run…
And though it was painful, he completed it.
And he is proud of himself because he is still on track, he is being consistent and he loves it. He has a goal he is working towards reaching and though it hurts ... Views: 889
Man, I am tired of appealing to all and sundry…
I am tired of speaking so generally that anyone thinks that they are my person…
I am tired of being surrounded by those who just want to make a few pennies here and there and it is not really attached to a big vision…
I am looking for those who ... Views: 873
You wake up and you already want to go back to sleep
You make yourself get up but you know you want to do anything but what you have to do that day…
And you have obeyed all the rules about what you are supposed to do to have a happy existence…
You have the religion, gone full immersion ... Views: 979
You know why I meet every single goal I set for myself, the money goals, the impact goals, EVERYTHING? Because it is not optional.
When I set the goal, there is no room for ‘erms, buts, maybes’! It is simply happening and that is that!
I make a decision and once I have decided?! There ... Views: 1039
Some days, it feels like you are walking through a fog…
With nothing working the way you want it to…
You have moments of clarity when it feels like the light is switched on inside of you and you KNOW, absolutely know what your life is to be about…
But then, the fog comes back and it ... Views: 932
YOu hold yourself back so much…
Scared of what people will think of you…
And then you look at your bank balance and you see that there ain’t much there…
And you know it is because you are not boldly gong after everything you want…
You are being held back by worries that you might just ... Views: 921
You know what you are capable of…
You know that if you really set your mind to do something then it has no chance against you…
But you are surrounded by regular people with regular thinking and you have started to doubt yourself…
You have allowed their negativity to seep inside of ... Views: 1293
Most people live in a bleak world…
They don’t mean to…
They don’t think they do…
But they do.
They tell you and anyone that will listen that they are being realistic…
And because most people around them think and talk in the same way, these people think they are accurate…
And ... Views: 1254
Sometimes, peeps get way too spiritual and not in a good way…
They try so hard to ‘be’ because hey, we are human ‘beings’, right? not human ‘doings’ or so the silly saying goes!
Honey, seriously, there is no being without doing!
In order to ‘be’ anything, you have got to DO ... Views: 1505
Spirit, right now, is trying to get your attention…
To move from you knowing that you have freedom in your head…
To KNOWING it in your heart…
To move from knowing you are unlimited in your head…
To KNOWING IT in your heart…
To living from that free, unlimited place…
Where faith ... Views: 1167
Yesterday, I was tired…
A little bit fed up…
And a whole lot “Wondering why on earth I keep doing this”?
Yep, I get like that too…
I certainly am not perfect but I am committed…
Committed enough that I still do the things on a daily basis that I have made a habit of…
And I only made them a ... Views: 1489
Everyone starts writing a blog expecting the whole world to beat a path to their door and then after writing a blog or two, they give up because no one reads their well-researched, ‘shed-blood and tears’, posts.
They give it up as a bad job and think blogging is useless to their business ... Views: 1203
You know how you have these big, hidden dreams inside of you that you want to make happen? The ones you don’t ever really share out loud with the people in your world. The ones you feel you have to qualify and make small. The ones you are still not sure came from Spirit and so ... Views: 1091
Stop with the second guessing before you share your voice – Just yell it out loud…
Stop with the overthinking before you put something out – It just takes up so much time…
Just believe enough in the power of you to put your words out in the world fast, swiftly and with ... Views: 1008
Look at you!
Full of pent-up potential…
With the ability to change lives in that way that you do…
You are leader, born to dominate…
And you know it!
But I look at your life and I realise that you are not doing it…
You say things like…
My children need me 24/7…
My partner ... Views: 680
It is the last day of the year when I write this and I wonder what you are creating for next year. Surely not more of the same old stuff. The same reactive stuff where you wait to see what happens and react to it accordingly. Surely not that!
I just spent hours reading, dreaming, creating, ... Views: 944
Your thoughts are not all your own…
Just because your brain wants to take you on a merry-go-round to nowhere, does not mean you have to go with it…
You can choose to think better…
To think for success
To focus on what you choose to create and get to work making that happen!
You ... Views: 812
Yes, I get it…
You are afraid…
When you consider all the things you really dream of doing, you get worried that it is too big…
Too much for someone who has lived a fairly normal life to date…
A fairly mundane existence where you tried and failed to do what you were told to do but you still ... Views: 787
There you are, sitting on the ledge…
You are there on the line between greatness and just being one of the masses who dream a big dream but get absolutely nowhere…
You have within you the ability to change lives, starting with your own…
But the fear of making a mistake holds you ... Views: 1489
I see you all stilted, trying to be proper, trying to say the right thing, do the right thing, BE the ‘right’ thing…
Let go, Let loose, Dance naked in the rain…
You are so scared to be seen…
So scared that you will not be liked…
So scared that you will end up in hell…
Wanting to know the ... Views: 2306