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- How to Talk to Strangers - by Submitted on Oct 06, 2010 from Steven BurnsIt’s often been said that the number one fear that people suffer from is speaking in public. What is not quite as well known is that the second most popular fear is speaking to strangers. You only have to walk about during the day in a busy city to appreciate this. A buzzing metropolis of people ...
Views: 1770(2 votes) - ***One Thing You Can Stop Doing to Improve Your Dates and Relationships - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerRaise your hand if you can accurately read the minds of your girlfriends. My guess is that, at least for a few, you actually can. Larry and I can read each other’s minds at times. When you’ve spent about 2000 days with someone you love, that happens. (It’s not always a good thing, btw.) Now, ...
Views: 1793(4 votes) - Why Women Don't Fall In Love With Nice Guys - 3 Ways to Reprogram How You Act Around a Woman - by Submitted on Oct 04, 2010 from Chris TylerWe've all heard some kind of saying that would suggest that women just don't seem to fall in love with nice guys. Well, there definitely are some exceptions to this rule, but on the average, nice guys do usually end up getting more heartache than it seems they would deserve. Does that mean that ...
Views: 4169(2 votes) - Do you wish you had someone to share your day and night life with? - by Submitted on Sep 28, 2010 from Naftali SchwartzBy Naftali & Chana Schwartz July 15,2010 I am happily married now 11 years to my beloved husband, Naftali Schwartz. Sometimes I do think about those times that made me feel sad and alone when I used to be single. I got up in the morning at 6:15am each day to go to work. I went on the ...
Views: 1835 - How to forget your ex love? - by Submitted on Sep 28, 2010 from Andrew JohnsonEvery couple has their own problems. Sometimes it leads to break of relationship. Many lovers say that time heals the heart. It is right but you should know simple and useful tips to forget your ex love. At the first place you should “be published”. New people, new emotions will make you to ...
Views: 975 - ***3 Ways to Manage Rejection So You Can Move On - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerRejection sucks. There’s no other way to say it. When he doesn’t show interest, doesn’t show up, or breaks it off after a relationship develops; it’s ugly and icky. No doubt about it. Thing is: rejection doesn’t have to strike a mortal blow. I know so many women who avoid connecting with ...
Views: 4974(5 votes) - How to Attract Beautiful Women - Why You Should NEVER Believe She Is Out Of Your League - by Submitted on Sep 14, 2010 from Chris TylerOne of the things that becomes clearer the older that I get, is that most guys really do end up believing that an attractive woman is out of their league. I had a run in with someone that I had gone to high school with, and it was a little eye opening. See, not too long after high school, this ...
Views: 1318(4 votes) - Approaching Women Wherever You Go - The Real Secret to Meeting Women - by Submitted on Aug 12, 2012 from Chris TylerOne alarming trend that I see amongst men that are kind of fed up and frustrated with their social life or lack of one, is that they seem to fall back on the premise that it is hard to meet women. While I can understand this on a surface level, and I can also remember back on a time when I felt ...
Views: 1290(4 votes) - How to Make a Woman Fall in Love - 3 Qualities That Will Drive Her AWAY From YOU - by Submitted on Sep 14, 2010 from Chris TylerMost of the time, I focus on showing men the right things to do to make a woman fall in love with them. Occasionally, I like to approach it from the other angle, and offer up some examples of what not to do. This is what this article is designed for-- to show you what drives women away. ...
Views: 3139(5 votes) - Dating Tips for Men - What to Do About Competition From OTHER Guys - by Submitted on Sep 14, 2010 from Chris TylerChances are, if you are going to date attractive women, then competition from other guys is going to become a part of your reality. It goes with the territory, kind of like celebrities and paparazzi. So, you have to accept that this is going to happen from time to time. Yes, if you enter ...
Views: 7683(5 votes) - How to Get a Girlfriend - Attracting Women Anywhere You Go - by Submitted on Sep 14, 2010 from Chris TylerOne of the things that I see happening amongst guys that are kind of at their wit's end about figuring out how to get a girlfriend is, they end up thinking that there is a lack or a scarcity of attractive women that are out there. And I have to say, that my experience has been the complete ...
Views: 1672(4 votes) - ***Should I Waste My Time Meeting or Dating an “Imperfect” Guy? - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi Palmer30 minutes. That’s about how long you generally have to “get to know” a man before deciding to have a cup of coffee or date with him. You meet online, or at the local bank, and that’s about it. But he seems imperfect. He’s clearly missing one of your must-haves. Should you gracefully decline? ...
Views: 2333(4 votes) - ***5 Tips to Help You Stick to Dating, Even When It Sucks - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerYesterday I wanted to quit. This is too hard. There are days things seem to be clicking and I’m finally getting it…marching boldly toward my goal. Then there are days like yesterday when I feel clueless…like a failure with no hope of success. And I can’t help but take it personally. I know I ...
Views: 2058(5 votes) - ***The 10 Style Secrets of Hip, Healthy & Sexy Women Over 40 - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerDo you walk out of the house each day feeling good about yourself, and ready to run into that one man who is going to rock your world an put that proverbial cherry on your cake? Check out this guest post by Sybil Henry, The Style Concierge. Sybil joined me Wednesday night for my GGNO Club ...
Views: 3044(6 votes) - Thinking Of Getting Married? Don't Do Anything Until You Read This - by Submitted on Aug 24, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraGetting married is such a magical feeling. It's overwhelming with love and joy. You feel so sanctified because you have finally found the person that you want to be with for the rest of your life. But the nostalgia of "getting married" is different when you are already married. When you are ...
Views: 994(1 vote) - ***What Are Your Dating and Relationship Rules - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerHave you ever asked yourself this question: What are my rules for dating and relationships? What are my boundaries, what must I do, and what must I have? And what will I simply not tolerate in myself or in others? Too often I talk to women who stayed in unfulfilling relationships or have a ...
Views: 1457(4 votes) - Letting Go of A Relationship - by Submitted on Jan 10, 2015 from LaToya CampbellLetting go of a relationship can be a very difficult task especially if you are the heartbroken. You are probably hurt and confused? You probably have a million questions because the person who did this to you has really hurt you, and inside you thought that they were the one and it would last ...
Views: 2455(2 votes) - How to Attract Women - You Are The PRIZE! - by Submitted on Aug 12, 2010 from Chris TylerUsually when a guy looks at a woman that he finds attractive, he immediately starts to associate her with being some kind of a "prize" that he wants to win. You may have heard in romance movies a line where the guy will describe his girlfriend as being a gift that he has to cherish or ...
Views: 6161(4 votes) - Dating Tips for Men - How to Escalate Attraction So That She Cannot Resist YOU - by Submitted on Aug 12, 2010 from Chris TylerMost guys that have any dating experience at all knows what it is like to feel like you did not quite do he best job that you could in making a woman feel attraction for you. You think that you are doing all of the "right" things, but when it comes time for a date, she somehow seems to always ...
Views: 5695(3 votes) - How to Get a Girlfriend - Tips for Attracting the RIGHT Woman - by Submitted on Aug 12, 2010 from Chris TylerMost guys that want to get a girlfriend are not really looking for just ANY woman. I mean, it's not really hard to get a girlfriend when your standards are low, is it? You want to be able to attract a girlfriend that is both attractive and fun to be around, and you don't want to have to break ...
Views: 4295(5 votes) - How to Approach Women With Confidence - 3 Techniques to Make It Happen - by Submitted on Aug 12, 2010 from Chris TylerApproaching a woman with fear is only going to guarantee you that you get a less than desirable result with her. In fact, most of the time it will either lead to a blatant, in your face kind of rejection, or the more subtle brush off. Whatever the case may be, if you are not approaching women ...
Views: 1683(3 votes) - Liquid Filling Machine, ROPP Screw Capping Machine, Powder filling machine, Sticker Labeling Machine - by Submitted on Jul 27, 2010 from Jigney BhachechPharmaceutical industry as they asay is one of the fastest growing industry of todays times. Currently the industry is catering to various segments including washing machine, liquid filling machine, capping machine, labelling machine and many other pharmaceutical machines. Shree Bhagwati ...
Views: 3608 - ***Why It Can Be a Good Thing When He Goes Cave-bound - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerLast week a smart, thoughtful woman left a comment on my post about Dating the Somewhat Disappearing Man. These are the guys I call “pingers” because they ping you (or contact you) just often enough to make sure you’re there when they need or want you. They keep you attached and interested, and ...
Views: 4117(4 votes) - Can Men Think for Themselves? - by Submitted on Jul 18, 2010 from Mike EdwardsCan Men Think for Themselves? I am an independent person, I can look after myself. Can I? Really! Well I thought I could. Six moths ago I split with my partner of sixteen years. Although the outcome was traumatic but inevitable, the aftermath has been amicable; my ex-partner is my new best ...
Views: 2512(1 vote) - Becoming Unstuck - by Submitted on Sep 15, 2010 from Sarah JamesBecoming Unstuck Many people find themselves in a place in life where they feel completely stuck. They recognize their discomfort in the situation and wonder how they got there. The discomfort increases when the individual realizes they do not know how to transcend the situation and find ...
Views: 3245 - Achieving A Strong Connection With A Woman - Learn The Secret PUA Routines! - by Submitted on Jul 06, 2010 from Andrew HunterThere are several PUA routines that anyone can use to help achieve successful relationships with women. Let's discuss a few of them. There's nothing supernatural or magical about these routines - they're basically just stories that build you up into someone a woman wants to get to know ...
Views: 3347(3 votes) - Beautiful Women - Where To Meet Them And How To Attract Them - by Submitted on Jul 06, 2010 from Andrew HunterIt's almost universal - guys want to know how to meet beautiful women. There are special places you can go to meet them, and there are special ways to treat them. I'll share my knowledge of these "secrets" with you. You Can Meet Beautiful Women Here . . . It's no secret - wherever you ...
Views: 2248(4 votes) - How The Experts Pick Up Women All The Time! - by Submitted on Jul 02, 2010 from Andrew HunterIn his book The Game, Neil Strauss popularizes the Pick Up Artist (PUA). Many men worldwide have had their eyes opened by this impressive book and revitalized their dating lives. Whether you're new to dating, or feel you're pretty experienced, the tips laid out here should help you in your ...
Views: 1693(3 votes) - Chemistry--What is it and how do I recognize it? - by Submitted on Jun 25, 2010 from Alisa Goodwin SnellI define chemistry as “the feeling or desire that compels you, when in the presence of a particular person, to want to please them, touch them, and make them happy.” That’s it! Too many singles associate chemistry with the desperate feelings, longing, and compulsive thoughts that are ...
Views: 4210(7 votes) - ***Are You What's Holding You Back from Finding Love? - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerWhy do we hold on to the man who isn’t good for us, our feelings of insecurity and being less-than, or our pattern of picking jerks and liars? These are all self-sabotaging behaviors and beliefs, and intellectually we know it. Yet we cling on for dear life, feeling powerless over our unfortunate ...
Views: 2295(12 votes) - ***Dating Tip: First Decide Whether You Like Him - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerIt’s pathetic how easily I can find my self acting like the insecure kid I was in high school. These days it doesn’t come up too much, but can happen when I meet someone I especially like and admire, and get the sense they don’t return the feeling. I can get to feeling so hurt and undeserving ...
Views: 2112(8 votes) - Break the too-nice trap - by Submitted on Jun 15, 2010 from Alisa Goodwin SnellA good man . . . Single women often say they want one. Few believe they can find one. Those who don’t have one usually insist that they do. And many more dismiss one without a thought. Not surprisingly, many good men consider giving up their nice-guy image after repeated rejections that ...
Views: 3377(7 votes) - The Six Elements of a Winning Dating Profile - by Submitted on Jun 14, 2010 from Eric LercaraFor a while now I’ve been working on finding the essential elements that you must include in an online profile. After reading hundreds of books on psychology, philosophy and attraction, I’ve come up with these six fundamentals. I strongly believe they need to be conveyed properly if you’re going ...
Views: 12449(12 votes) - ***Why You're Dating and Not Finding Quality Men - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerDating can be a real pain in the butt, right? It can be a lot of work that leads to a lot of nothing. I conducted a survey recently and asked women what their biggest challenge was when they date. The #1 response was: I’m not meeting quality men. Can you relate?? I hear this from women ...
Views: 2837(5 votes) - ***Online Dating: How to Get Started and Make it Work - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerAs if dating and mating wasn’t hard enough, technology has added a variety of new challenges to the art of hooking up. Not only do you have to master the computer crud, you have to figure out how to actually connect with another human being amidst the volume and the anonymity. Being a ...
Views: 2435(4 votes) - Confidence Matters - by Submitted on Jun 08, 2010 from Alisa Goodwin Snell“It’s not you—It’s your technique.” This is one of the first things I teach singles. It is core to my coaching program and essential to your success in the dating game. To grasp the significance of this principle and how it can increase your confidence, you need to understand the ...
Views: 2360(6 votes) - Liars, cheaters, manipulators, beaters--Spot them in 3 dates or less - by Submitted on Jun 08, 2010 from Alisa Goodwin SnellSingle men and women are vulnerable to the risks of exploitation, deception, infidelity, stalking, and abuse, especially if they don’t know the early warning signs. With statistics that range from 20 to 60 percent of partner’s cheating during a relationship or marriage,** and reports stating ...
Views: 8264(6 votes) - Un-lucky in love? - by Submitted on Jun 05, 2010 from Alisa Goodwin SnellNot dating? Haven’t been in a relationship for a long time? Don’t know why? It’s sounds too simple, but it’s true—you probably do not look men in the eyes and smile—a real smile! Not just that dry, half turned-up smile you greet fellow co-workers with as you glance up from your work ...
Views: 2262(6 votes) - ***Please Be Kind to Frogs - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerThink about the clever line we women often use: it takes some form of “I’ve kissed so many frogs I’ve got the warts to prove it!” or “How many frogs do I have to kiss before I find my prince?” You know what I’m talking about. It’s cute, and although we don’t really laugh at it, it tends to ...
Views: 2179(10 votes) - Mr. Wrong or Mr. Right? How to tell if it’s time to stay or go - by Submitted on May 31, 2010 from Lisa SteadmanHow do I know if and when it's time to break up? There's a lot of good in the guy I’m dating, but the bad is unacceptable. What do I do? I keep waiting for the guy I’m seeing to make the changes I need. How long do I wait? And what if he never changes? Chances are, at some point in your ...
Views: 4722(8 votes) - Single and Scared: Debunking the Scarcity Myth - by Submitted on May 31, 2010 from Lisa Steadman“There are no good men left.” Sound familiar? If you’re feeling freaked about being single, you don’t need to give up on your search for Mr. Right. You may just need to debunk your attachment to the scarcity myth. How? By participating in a fun 3 week experiment. All you need is an open mind, ...
Views: 2211(7 votes) - The Do’s and Don'ts of Mastering The First Date - by Submitted on May 31, 2010 from Lisa SteadmanIn 2010, finding someone to date isn't nearly as tricky as mastering the art of dating. Between online dating, singles events, and the old-fashioned in-person meet and greet, it's possible to date someone new on a regular basis. But how do you make the most of these chances to meet your perfect ...
Views: 1973(4 votes) - ***The Secret to Being a Happy Dater - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerWhy is it that when we date — even at 40, 50, or 60 — we can become an alien woman from planet WTF? If you’re anything like I was, it’s sometimes difficult to recognize yourself when you’re in the presence of a hot, nice, or simply available man. The beliefs and habits of our 25 or 30 year ...
Views: 2147(3 votes) - Fun Date Ideas for the Nighttime - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Neil SmithI actually prefer to go on dates at night time as opposed to the day time. I prefer it because it means that I can get dressed up and have a drink in a better atmosphere. The key here is that it all depends on your personality and the personality of your date, you need to think about what they ...
Views: 3990(3 votes) - The Ups & Downs of Being Single - by Submitted on Jan 10, 2015 from LaToya CampbellThe single life has its ups and downs and being single could either be the most exciting part of a person’s life, or the loneliest part of life for someone. On one hand, you are free to date who you want and could potentially have fun doing so. Unfortunately, this time for some is not ...
Views: 2843(2 votes) - Online Dating Tips - by Submitted on Sep 18, 2010 from Sheila and Tony SquireWe all know that finding the love of your life has got a little more complicated with our busy lives and the fact that many of us have got a little more particular. Using the internet to find love is an excellent way to cut through all the time wasting and finding good singles dating sites is an ...
Views: 1523(1 vote) - Are YOU ready for LOVE? - by Submitted on May 12, 2010 from Elmasue ZylberbergHi, this is Lexie Moon and Elmasue Zylberberg and we are going to be discussing You-getting ready for love. We all want to manifest perfect love and our soulmate. We dream of spending the rest of our lives with that perfect partner. There are many programs out there that promise to help ...
Views: 3722(3 votes) - The Seven Stages of Becoming Single Again - by Submitted on May 12, 2010 from sarah palmerEnding a long term relationship can be devastating, destructive and depressing but… there is light at the end of the tunnel. Having experienced at first hand a 21 year marriage blast apart with a hurricane force, I know that the effect is, to put it mildly, earth-stopping. If you’ve ever ...
Views: 3156(1 vote) - Fun Date Ideas for the Daytime - by Submitted on May 11, 2010 from Neil SmithNeed some Fun Date Ideas? You've come to the right place. A lot of the fun dating ideas listed below are not recommended as a first date unless you know the person very well or have known them for a long time. But if you have had a few dates and want to really impress, the list below should be ...
Views: 7037(4 votes) - The First Date Ideas & Rules - by Submitted on May 08, 2010 from Neil SmithThe First Date Ideas & Rules The golden rule is to meet somewhere: public, chilled out & relaxed. A coffee shop is a great venue for this during the day and a wine bar is a great place for the first date idea in the evening. The first date should be kept casual. If you want to fully ...
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