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Unfortunately guys are not blessed with as many erotic points as girls are. They say that with a girl every part of her body can trigger wild sensations, if touched right, that’s partly because girls are much more in touch with their bodies than guys are.
For some guys the only part of their ... Views: 37441
The opportunity to enjoy sex is one of the great things about being gay. Some people say that being gay means they feel less restricted and more free sexually in terms of what they can do with their bodies, with who and when. But many people struggle with feelings of guilt, shame and fear ... Views: 1877
Desire for sexual abundance was probably the reason most of us got into the seduction community…
…but it may be our greatest undoing as well.
The allure of it is all-pervasive. With the promise of complete sexual abundance, whether that be with many women, or just that “one” you’ve been ... Views: 967
Adult dating involves consenting adults meeting either personally or else interconnecting on the internet for a common purpose (usually sexual). There are various purposes or else styles that adult dating entails. Some examples are those who seek interracial dating, others swinging, dogging, ... Views: 1587
In the many classes and workshops I've given over the years on the art of erotic communication, the most common question I'm asked is:
"Can you give me some ideas on how I can get over my self-consciousness about using erotic talk with my partner?"
My answer is an emphatic yes!
There ... Views: 5505
Want to have better sex in the new year? Apply these principles to your life and you'll not only have a more pleasurable sexual relationship, but a healthier, richer, more fulfilling relationship all around.
1. Keep Priorities Straight
Your intimate relationship with your partner should ... Views: 1646
Why are we never taught how to have sex? It is a natural act that is part of life and part of a relationship between a man and a woman. However, we are never given any instruction on how to have sex. Some books and articles claim to explain what to do, but few if any of them give a step by ... Views: 4364
What’s the Difference between Love and Lust?
- by reyan malik
Love as, “strong affection for another arising out of kinship or personal ties,” and defines lust as, “an intense longing”. These two conflicting definitions help to separate love from lust. By definition alone the two ... Views: 2105
It is practically impossible to find a phenomenon that both men and women would have the same views about. We remain a mystery for one another and essentially live in two isolated realities that only rarely intersect. How can we better understand our other half in everything, including intimate ... Views: 3543
Have you ever wondered whether if there is any finest lovemaking positions in bed acknowledged by man?
Well believe it or not, there actually is!
Even so, when it comes to brilliant positioning it differs for both men and women. What's more, did you know that once you are engaged in these ... Views: 4795
Sex if done monotonously and habitually, it becomes boring. That’s why men concocted the art of role playing in sex. Role playing is when you carry out all your sexual fantasies and let go of your sexual inhibitions. Since we were kids, we all love to play pretend to alleviate boredom- boys wear ... Views: 1353
Each of us is exposed to and bombarded by – on a daily basis – an evil that is extremely enticing and appealing, so selfishly gratifying (temporarily), so unavoidably addictive, and so incredibly damaging to our thoughts, lives, families, and society. It is a plague and modern day slavery that ... Views: 17077
Women’s shoes can be the catalyst for a long and happy marriage. One type of women’s shoes in particular can be a big boon; the iconic and enduring high heel.
Victoria Beckham may have lost her contract with Armani for underwear ads, yet it is doubtful she is going to lose her husband anytime ... Views: 2592
Having trouble taking your date to the next level? Follow the steps below and enjoy the results!
So you've done the hard part. You've been on a few dates, she seems interested in you, but you just don't know how to take it to the next level. These steps are ones which I personally use and ... Views: 1017
Sexuality is part of being human. Love and sexual intimacy contribute to healthy relationships, and to our overall happiness. There is an important correlation between overall health, overall lifestyle, and sexual satisfaction. In a recent study, researchers estimated that having intercourse ... Views: 1375
The term ‘sexual orientation’ is mostly used about being lesbian, gay, bisexual or transsexual (LGBT). This powerful concept - ‘sexual orientation’ - pioneered courageously by members of the LGBT community, has empowered people, within the last 50 years or so, to think of themselves as not bad, ... Views: 5870
I recommend that “open communication” is not necessarily the same as totally honest communication – which I call “the overwhelming truth”.
Open communication involves deliberately telling your partner how you feel, what you want and what you don’t want, but only in a positive and constructive ... Views: 1597
The Birds, the Bees, and Blended Families
Dear Dr. Weiss-Wisdom,
This is my second marriage and it’s the second marriage for my husband too. My first husband was very good looking and we had great chemistry. I was very attracted to him but within a couple of years it was clear that we were ... Views: 2159
In your haste to find a cure for your erectile dysfunction, you may well have been tempted to try one of the many Internet promoted “natural” remedies. Unfortunately, herbal cures for erectile dysfunction are unproven and by enlarge do not work. Worse than that, they may also be very dangerous. ... Views: 1795
Proven Tips to Cure Your Erectile Dysfunction
The First Tip: Do not panic and jump at the first quick fix on offer.
When you first experienced erectile dysfunction your initial reaction may well have been one of great alarm, great concern and near panic. This initial reaction is ... Views: 3806
Many people initially think of "talking dirty" when they hear the words "erotic talk". But as I explain in my book The Fine Art of Erotic Talk: How to Entice, Excite and Enchant Your Lover with Words (Random House), the phrase means so much more than that.:
"Words are wonderful ... Views: 3955
Dear Dr. Neder:
I just recently became involved with a fellow six years my senior. He is everything I have ever dreamt of; there is just one problem….Me!
I have always avoided the relationship scene because, frankly, I have no idea how to handle a relationship. I didn’t actually date until ... Views: 1793
Every parent dreads this moment. It seems like yesterday when their precious ones are still in diapers. And now they come up to you and ask you how they were made. You freeze; you don’t know what to say. You called your spouse to help you out. Changing your views about the situation might help ... Views: 867
With Thanksgiving drawing near, I believe this would be an ideal time to discuss the role of gratitude, validation and appreciation in the art of lovemaking.
Of course, when we feel validated and appreciated in any aspect of our lives it deepens our sense that we truly matter in this crazy ... Views: 5393
Is there any "right" or "wrong" sexual behavior? Here is how to step out of this dilemma and make your sexuality a source of freedom and joy...
Sidenote: words "sexual behavior"" jump out at you a bit too many times from the text of the article. Neglect it. It's done with a sole purpose to ... Views: 5856
Men you have finally found the woman of your dreams and now you're not quite sure how to satisfy a woman sexually. You are sure this one is special and you want to make sure you have the sexual prowess to keep her happy. Just imagine how strong your relationship will become when you start ... Views: 10213
The situation with men and women who can really give a female an orgasm is scandalous. If you ask any girl how many good lovers she had in her entire life – she counts them all by the fingers of one hand. This website and series of articles on sexuality have as a goal radical improvement in this ... Views: 6284
This article on women sexuality (just like all else on this website) assists you in unplugging from "the matrix" and starting to live more conscious and happy life.
You begin to see the role modern society plays in dividing men and women and making women to repress and deny their natural ... Views: 1435
CULTIVATING SEXUAL ENERGY
Some questions I get are “how is sexual energy different than the rest of the energy of the body”. It isn’t different, it’s just how you channel and direct your energy as a whole. We need to first understand energy to understand how it moves and flows through the ... Views: 6176
The sex usually starts off great. It’s fresh, it’s exciting and you worship your partner. Why then does this excitement fade away? Why does the sex and the relationship fade out over time? Well, there are many reasons but keeping your sex life healthy is all about self growth.
As a guy, the ... Views: 1269
Are you ready to be the kind of lover your Goddess will never forget? Master these 3 skills and your beloved will be be delighted to open herself and share her feminine radiance with you.
Give Her Your Masculine Presence
Being clear and focused is one of the qualities of masculine energy. ... Views: 1678
At the beginning of a relationship sex is often spontaneous, intense and erotic. This phenomenon is called the Honeymoon phase. It is when the "New Relationship Energy" or NRE, makes everything exciting. Over time the NRE naturally fades, romance dwindles, passion begins to wane and sex often ... Views: 4113
Shere Hite explained back in the 1970’s how the women in her surveys reached orgasm during sex with a partner. She compared women’s success with orgasm during masturbation to their experience of intercourse and concluded that it was the lack of clitoral stimulation that explained the ... Views: 11430
Living in the stressful world that we do it can be hard to set aside time to keep your marriage fresh and lively, but it’s important to let your partner know that you appreciate them. You can refresh your marriage by finding a way to calm things down and bring you and your partner closer ... Views: 3431
INSIDE RELATIONSHIPS
BY JAN DENISE
RELEASE: FRIDAY, OCTOBER 16, 2009
Sex Whys Versus Relationship Why
Despite all our science, many men still talk about what women want as though it's beyond their comprehension. In light of new research, perhaps some of it's because men confuse what ... Views: 1142
There are many attraction secrets with women that a man HAS to know if he wants to be able to succeed with women. Most men DON'T experience a whole lot of success with women, especially not the kind of beautiful women that they REALLY want to be able to date. One such attraction secret with ... Views: 1422
It's the age old question that men have been asking for years. How can you attract more women? How can you go from the nice guy that ends up as a friend to being the guy that women want to date? Most men never really come up with the answer to this question. I can't tell you how many guys I ... Views: 3092
True Shivaic Tantra is part of an ancient Spiritual practice, which elevated sexuality to a sublime meditative state. The sexual aspect was only part of a bigger experience. Some sources date Indian Tantric origins up to 3000 or more years ago. It generally is not practiced openly and has been ... Views: 2557
For the patient, psychotherapy is the treatment of emotional or behavioral problems designed to encourage communication of conflicts and insight into their problems; the goal being relief of symptoms and changes in behavior leading to improved functioning.
Our expression, experience, and ... Views: 2248
A lot of men hold back from approaching women due to fear. They are afraid that they will be rejected and as a result, they allow beautiful women to pass them by, instead of taking the chance to approach her and get to know her. You cannot expect to improve your dating life if you are not ... Views: 1189
Being able to increase the attraction that a woman feels for you is important IF you want to be able to go from a guy she meets to a man she dates. A lot of men will have a hard time trying to figure out how to increase a woman's attraction, but when you learn how to do this, you will find ... Views: 5166
"Everything in nature is designed with an innate drive to grow and reproduce. Without this drive, life could not exist. Even before humans appeared on earth, sex and reproduction played a predominant role. The world was inhabited by plants and animals, all of which were designed to reproduce. ... Views: 1751
Everyone today is getting bored with the monotonous routine of the sex. Usually only a missionary position is used to do sex and that also at the same place, that’s our bedroom, which is making sex a boring activity. This is leading to the uninteresting sex life that is finally affecting the ... Views: 11281
Sex is something that is very special to women, something that should be very memorable and unfading, that's why their first time is always very critical. So don't expect your girl to jump right into bed with you in flash --- especially if she's a virgin. Now, virginity issues have changed ... Views: 1771
Knowing how to attract women is the cornerstone to any kind of success dating women.
You have to be able to cause a woman to feel attracted to you, if you want to be seen as more than just a friend or a nice guy. Most men are not able to do this with women they meet. Instead, they end up ... Views: 1410
Knowing how to use conversation is a big part of being able to succeed with women. You have to be able to talk to women in a way that keeps their interest and their curiosity, otherwise, they will not feel the attraction towards you that you would like them to feel. A lot of men have trouble ... Views: 1034
One of my favorite accounts of sacred sex is contained in the Hua Hu Ching, a little-known collection of teachings attributed (as is much Daoist wisdom) to master Laozi (Lao Tzu). In the Walker translation, which includes material passed down orally, Laozi warns:
Although most people spend ... Views: 4496
INSIDE RELATIONSHIPS
BY JAN DENISE
RELEASE: FRIDAY, OCTOBER 2, 2009
FWB: Friends With Benefits, or Blinders
I just explained to my husband that "friends with benefits" refers to friends who have sex. But in a recent study, college students needed no explanation; 60 percent of those ... Views: 1959
Women are quite fascinating and they never fail to entertain our imagination. Especially when it comes to sex. Making love with a woman is definitely a way to show intimacy and absolute physical connection that's why it can be quite a challenge to the male species to satisfy their females --- ... Views: 4567
Sex and Body Image
The link between what a woman feels about her body and her sexuality is becoming clearer and clearer with each research study. It’s also been estimated that over 40% of women have some sort of sexual dysfunction. Can the two be connected? I believe that they are indeed. ... Views: 2255