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Three Myths of Sexual Desire - by Valeria ChubaHow Unusual Are Your Sexual Fantasies? - by Valeria Chuba- What You Need to Know About A Multiple Orgasm - by Submitted on Apr 27, 2010 from Serj SaganA multiple orgasm is something that sounds like "Fiji" to women. It is something wonderful and exotic... and unlikely to be obtainable. Meanwhile the ability to experience an orgasm several times in a row lays at the very nature of female sexuality! So why is it that not all of the women use ...
Views: 7848(3 votes) - What Women Want When It Comes To Fondling And Kissing - by Submitted on Apr 25, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraIt doesn’t take an Einstein to figure out that a woman’s body is every man’s preferred figure to explore. But you have to remember, my dear enthusiastic explorer that there is so much more in a woman’s body than the breast, vagina and butt. And if you want to have a fulfilling intimacy with your ...
Views: 4313(2 votes) - Using Sex To Relieve Stress - by Submitted on Apr 27, 2010 from Menno Spijkstra“Not tonight, Josephine” even the famous conqueror Napoleon Bonaparte can decline the carnal needs from the Empress Josephine because of stress… well I’m not sure about that but basically most couple compromise their sex- life because of too much pressure. If only I’d get a penny for every man ...
Views: 1143(1 vote) - Sexual Pleasure Your Man Would Love For You To Know - by Submitted on Apr 27, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraEver been curious to know what mind blowing sexual pleasure your man would truly appreciate? More important, what tricks a girl does to really thrill him and maximize each level of bliss he hits. We’d probably think that one has to know how a guy thinks and understand his bodily function. ...
Views: 6364(3 votes) - Never Be Fooled Again- Know The Signs Of Real Orgasm - by Submitted on Apr 22, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraFace it, when it comes to giving a woman real orgasm is like being in the episode of CSI- elusive, mind-boggling and requires hard evidence. On the contrary, some cocky men brag that giving women real orgasm is like a walk in the park. But the truth of the matter is that, 75% of women cannot ...
Views: 8001(4 votes) - Are You Good In Bed? - by Submitted on Apr 22, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraBeing in a romantic relationship has its rewards. And one of these great rewards, other than having someone to love and be loved in return, is having the chance to experience the magic of sex. Sex may not be the only thing we think of in a relationship but it is something to consider. It may ...
Views: 1088(2 votes) - The Many Forms Of Foreplay - by Submitted on Apr 22, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraWhen it comes to sex, men usually focus on size and stamina. As a woman, I tell you that you are definitely focusing on the wrong things. How to please a woman sexually is all about focusing on the right things… and when I say, “right things” these are the things that are involved not during ...
Views: 3745(2 votes) - The Abc's Of Pleasing A Woman Sexually - by Submitted on Apr 23, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraNothing can be more frustrating for a man, than having his woman reject his sexual needs. If you want to put an end with this cruel rejection, then you better wise-up! Sexually pleasing a woman requires little work, but the pay- off will be worth it. It will surely turn things around! So here ...
Views: 4604(2 votes) - Out Of This World Intercourse Positions That Can Drive Your Man Crazy - by Submitted on Apr 23, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraDo you want to have sex tonight? Then better make it as unforgettable and as wicked as possible. Remember, a wise and witty woman always makes her mark every time she makes love to her man. Keep in mind that great sex should not only spice up your love life, but it should also have a lingering ...
Views: 16631(2 votes) - What is God’s Purpose for Sex? - by Submitted on Apr 19, 2010 from Angie LewisGod created us with the desire for sex, and we ought to understand his design that was meant for us in our relationships with others about sex. Christians absolutely need to seek God’s purpose in this area of their lives. God created us male and female and because of that we will be attracted to ...
Views: 2838(3 votes) - Fetishism or Just Quality Time in Bed - by Submitted on Apr 16, 2010 from Lavinia Albescu -It seems that a lot of behaviors that used to be considered pathological, due to social tolerance or simply public statements and manifestations, are starting to be considered "normal" in time, which can be quite a relief for the patients too ashamed or afraid of social stigma to seek help. One ...
Views: 1966(1 vote) - Awakening the Full Body Orgasm - Better Sex Tonight - by Submitted on Apr 14, 2010 from Crystal MorrisTantra uses sexual energy to expand awareness and experience ecstasy. It teaches people how to move their sexual energy from their genitals, up to the top of their head, and everywhere in between, allowing the entire physical and energetic body to become ecstatic. When the sexual energy reaches ...
Views: 17293 - Women, Self-Pleasuring, Orgasm and Communication - by Submitted on Apr 23, 2010 from Crystal MorrisI was recently asked, “What is the best way for a woman to achieve orgasm?” There really is no best way. What I have found to be helpful is for a woman to get to know her own body. Discover what gives you pleasure and feel confident in your ability to bring yourself to climax. Exploring your ...
Views: 5343(1 vote) - Sex On The First Date Pros And Cons - by Submitted on Apr 13, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraNothing compares to the thrill and anticipation that always comes with a first date. Just the thought of meeting someone new and spending a fabulous time together can send delicious shivers down one’s spine—and of course there’s always the possibility of getting frisky that could end the night ...
Views: 2873 - How to Please Your Man - 4 Ways to Please Him - by Submitted on Mar 31, 2010 from Sarah NicholsNo matter how secured you are over your relationship, there are times when you must never rest yourself from being on guard for some of the relationship killers that may enter the scene. It is always important that you find ways on how to please your man. • Some say that the road to a man's ...
Views: 2077(2 votes) - True or False: Women Have 7 Erogenous Zones? - by Submitted on Mar 19, 2010 from Serj SaganIf you have ever watched Friends then you may have seen the episode where Monica gives Chandler sex advice and in a funny way talks about the 7 erogenous zones of women. Is this a real fact or is this just a make belief idea that was used for the show. We will discuss this idea and find out ...
Views: 7617(1 vote) - Spicing Up Your Sex Life With New Age Sex Toys - by Submitted on Mar 12, 2010 from sex shopHumans are using some form of sex toys for a long time. In order to make love making more pleasant and sensual, sex toys are of great help. Men and women both love using sex toys for ultimate pleasure. A majority of people who use sex toys for physical pleasure accept that their life has become ...
Views: 3515 - My take on The Law of Attraction - by Submitted on Mar 10, 2010 from Carol PageThe Law of Attraction By Carol Page – Personal Life Coach In the world of self-development, The Law of Attraction or The Secret as it is often called is causing huge waves. This is in part because, if it delivers on ...
Views: 1600(4 votes) - When Your Husband’s Sex Drive Is Gone - by Submitted on Feb 17, 2010 from Stephanie BuehlerAs a sex therapist and psychologist in Orange County, CA, I have found that a lot of people believe that it’s always the woman who has no sex drive. But that is a myth. Women also call to complain that their husband or male partner has no interest in sex. Women who have a husband with low ...
Views: 3613(5 votes) - My Wife is Abusive and Sexually Frigid - by Submitted on Feb 09, 2010 from Ted KallmyerI will try to make this as short as possible but to the point. My wife and I are both Christians. We have been married 16 years. She was a virgin when we married and STILL is today, 16+ years later. Yes, you read that correct, we have never had sex. My wife is also very verbally abusive, ...
Views: 4558(2 votes) - Where Do Guys Like to Be Touched? - by Submitted on Jul 11, 2010 from Roger PeterUnfortunately guys are not blessed with as many erotic points as girls are. They say that with a girl every part of her body can trigger wild sensations, if touched right, that’s partly because girls are much more in touch with their bodies than guys are. For some guys the only part of their ...
Views: 37631(3 votes) - 5 Things Gay Men and Lesbians Can Do to Feel Better About Sex. - by Submitted on Feb 07, 2010 from Ash RehnThe opportunity to enjoy sex is one of the great things about being gay. Some people say that being gay means they feel less restricted and more free sexually in terms of what they can do with their bodies, with who and when. But many people struggle with feelings of guilt, shame and fear ...
Views: 2001(4 votes) - Are You Sexually Connecting With Women? - by Submitted on Feb 06, 2010 from Jonathon BirrellDesire for sexual abundance was probably the reason most of us got into the seduction community… …but it may be our greatest undoing as well. The allure of it is all-pervasive. With the promise of complete sexual abundance, whether that be with many women, or just that “one” you’ve been ...
Views: 1040(4 votes) - What is Adult Dating? - by Submitted on Feb 05, 2010 from Tamara WilkinsAdult dating involves consenting adults meeting either personally or else interconnecting on the internet for a common purpose (usually sexual). There are various purposes or else styles that adult dating entails. Some examples are those who seek interracial dating, others swinging, dogging, ...
Views: 1704(4 votes) - Erotic Talk: Overcoming Fear and Shyness - by Submitted on Feb 05, 2010 from Bonnie GabrielIn the many classes and workshops I've given over the years on the art of erotic communication, the most common question I'm asked is: "Can you give me some ideas on how I can get over my self-consciousness about using erotic talk with my partner?" My answer is an emphatic yes! There ...
Views: 5673(6 votes) - Top Ten Tips for Better Sex in the New Year - by Submitted on Feb 03, 2010 from Cynthia PerkinsWant to have better sex in the new year? Apply these principles to your life and you'll not only have a more pleasurable sexual relationship, but a healthier, richer, more fulfilling relationship all around. 1. Keep Priorities Straight Your intimate relationship with your partner should ...
Views: 1789(4 votes) - HOW TO HAVE SEX LIKE A MASTER - by Submitted on Jan 28, 2010 from Raju SarkarWhy are we never taught how to have sex? It is a natural act that is part of life and part of a relationship between a man and a woman. However, we are never given any instruction on how to have sex. Some books and articles claim to explain what to do, but few if any of them give a step by ...
Views: 4467(3 votes) - love and lust - by Submitted on Jan 28, 2010 from reyan malikWhat’s the Difference between Love and Lust? - by reyan malik Love as, “strong affection for another arising out of kinship or personal ties,” and defines lust as, “an intense longing”. These two conflicting definitions help to separate love from lust. By definition alone the two ...
Views: 2172(5 votes) - Men and Women: How to Coexist and Be Happy Together - by Submitted on Jan 22, 2010 from Julian SaganIt is practically impossible to find a phenomenon that both men and women would have the same views about. We remain a mystery for one another and essentially live in two isolated realities that only rarely intersect. How can we better understand our other half in everything, including intimate ...
Views: 3639(1 vote) - Realistic Positions In Bed For Satisfying Orgasms - by Submitted on Feb 28, 2012 from Anthan KHave you ever wondered whether if there is any finest lovemaking positions in bed acknowledged by man? Well believe it or not, there actually is! Even so, when it comes to brilliant positioning it differs for both men and women. What's more, did you know that once you are engaged in these ...
Views: 4883(2 votes) - Opening Doors For Role Playing - by Submitted on Jan 12, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraSex if done monotonously and habitually, it becomes boring. That’s why men concocted the art of role playing in sex. Role playing is when you carry out all your sexual fantasies and let go of your sexual inhibitions. Since we were kids, we all love to play pretend to alleviate boredom- boys wear ...
Views: 1459(1 vote) - Pornography: Why You Must Not Look – 8 Tips for Overcoming This Evil - by Submitted on Jan 11, 2010 from Matthew TooneEach of us is exposed to and bombarded by – on a daily basis – an evil that is extremely enticing and appealing, so selfishly gratifying (temporarily), so unavoidably addictive, and so incredibly damaging to our thoughts, lives, families, and society. It is a plague and modern day slavery that ...
Views: 17239(4 votes) - Women’s Shoes for a Happy Marriage: Take Inspiration from a Victoria Beckham Ad - by Submitted on Feb 03, 2010 from Dawn BonnerWomen’s shoes can be the catalyst for a long and happy marriage. One type of women’s shoes in particular can be a big boon; the iconic and enduring high heel. Victoria Beckham may have lost her contract with Armani for underwear ads, yet it is doubtful she is going to lose her husband anytime ...
Views: 2738(5 votes) - Simple Steps to Seduce a Woman - by Submitted on Jan 07, 2010 from Ryan D'eathHaving trouble taking your date to the next level? Follow the steps below and enjoy the results! So you've done the hard part. You've been on a few dates, she seems interested in you, but you just don't know how to take it to the next level. These steps are ones which I personally use and ...
Views: 1091(2 votes) - Are you ready to live your best sex life? - by Submitted on Jan 06, 2010 from Janie BehrSexuality is part of being human. Love and sexual intimacy contribute to healthy relationships, and to our overall happiness. There is an important correlation between overall health, overall lifestyle, and sexual satisfaction. In a recent study, researchers estimated that having intercourse ...
Views: 1496(2 votes) - BDSM: a new sexual orientation? - by Submitted on Jan 03, 2010 from Bay WhitakerThe term ‘sexual orientation’ is mostly used about being lesbian, gay, bisexual or transsexual (LGBT). This powerful concept - ‘sexual orientation’ - pioneered courageously by members of the LGBT community, has empowered people, within the last 50 years or so, to think of themselves as not bad, ...
Views: 6048(4 votes) - HOW MUCH SHOULD YOU SHARE OF YOUR SEXUAL PAST? - by Submitted on Sep 13, 2011 from Jan HallI recommend that “open communication” is not necessarily the same as totally honest communication – which I call “the overwhelming truth”. Open communication involves deliberately telling your partner how you feel, what you want and what you don’t want, but only in a positive and constructive ...
Views: 1717(3 votes) - NOT ATTRACTED TO MY HUSBAND – BIG PROBLEM? - by Submitted on Dec 31, 2009 from Diana Weiss-WisdomThe Birds, the Bees, and Blended Families Dear Dr. Weiss-Wisdom, This is my second marriage and it’s the second marriage for my husband too. My first husband was very good looking and we had great chemistry. I was very attracted to him but within a couple of years it was clear that we were ...
Views: 2256(2 votes) - Valuable Truths About Herbal Cures for Erectile Dysfunction. - by Submitted on Dec 17, 2009 from Andrew RynneIn your haste to find a cure for your erectile dysfunction, you may well have been tempted to try one of the many Internet promoted “natural” remedies. Unfortunately, herbal cures for erectile dysfunction are unproven and by enlarge do not work. Worse than that, they may also be very dangerous. ...
Views: 1952(2 votes) - Proven Tips to Cure Your Erectile Dysfunction. - by Submitted on Dec 17, 2009 from Andrew RynneProven Tips to Cure Your Erectile Dysfunction The First Tip: Do not panic and jump at the first quick fix on offer. When you first experienced erectile dysfunction your initial reaction may well have been one of great alarm, great concern and near panic. This initial reaction is ...
Views: 3966(2 votes) - THE SUBTLETY AND VARIETY OF EROTIC TALK - by Submitted on Dec 16, 2009 from Bonnie GabrielMany people initially think of "talking dirty" when they hear the words "erotic talk". But as I explain in my book The Fine Art of Erotic Talk: How to Entice, Excite and Enchant Your Lover with Words (Random House), the phrase means so much more than that.: "Words are wonderful ...
Views: 4106(2 votes) - Keeping Him Satisfied and Interested - by Submitted on Dec 02, 2009 from Dr. Dennis NederDear Dr. Neder: I just recently became involved with a fellow six years my senior. He is everything I have ever dreamt of; there is just one problem….Me! I have always avoided the relationship scene because, frankly, I have no idea how to handle a relationship. I didn’t actually date until ...
Views: 1907(2 votes) - How Dumbo Came About: Sex Talk With Your Children - by Submitted on Nov 23, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraEvery parent dreads this moment. It seems like yesterday when their precious ones are still in diapers. And now they come up to you and ask you how they were made. You freeze; you don’t know what to say. You called your spouse to help you out. Changing your views about the situation might help ...
Views: 918(3 votes) - Words for Lovers: Erotic Appreciation - by Submitted on Nov 23, 2009 from Bonnie GabrielWith Thanksgiving drawing near, I believe this would be an ideal time to discuss the role of gratitude, validation and appreciation in the art of lovemaking. Of course, when we feel validated and appreciated in any aspect of our lives it deepens our sense that we truly matter in this crazy ...
Views: 5561(4 votes) - "Right" Sexual Behavior? Simply Embrace Your Sexuality! 4 Simple Rules to Guide You. - by Submitted on Nov 22, 2009 from Alex MayIs there any "right" or "wrong" sexual behavior? Here is how to step out of this dilemma and make your sexuality a source of freedom and joy... Sidenote: words "sexual behavior"" jump out at you a bit too many times from the text of the article. Neglect it. It's done with a sole purpose to ...
Views: 5982(2 votes) - How to Satisfy a woman in Bed - by Submitted on Nov 21, 2009 from tim jamesMen you have finally found the woman of your dreams and now you're not quite sure how to satisfy a woman sexually. You are sure this one is special and you want to make sure you have the sexual prowess to keep her happy. Just imagine how strong your relationship will become when you start ...
Views: 10380(3 votes) - How to Give a Female an Orgasm - by Submitted on Nov 20, 2009 from Alex MayThe situation with men and women who can really give a female an orgasm is scandalous. If you ask any girl how many good lovers she had in her entire life – she counts them all by the fingers of one hand. This website and series of articles on sexuality have as a goal radical improvement in this ...
Views: 6398(4 votes) - Women Sexuality - on Your Way to Freedom - by Submitted on Nov 20, 2009 from Alex MayThis article on women sexuality (just like all else on this website) assists you in unplugging from "the matrix" and starting to live more conscious and happy life. You begin to see the role modern society plays in dividing men and women and making women to repress and deny their natural ...
Views: 1567(5 votes) - Cultivating Sexual Energy - by Submitted on Nov 16, 2009 from Anita DeFrancescoCULTIVATING SEXUAL ENERGY Some questions I get are “how is sexual energy different than the rest of the energy of the body”. It isn’t different, it’s just how you channel and direct your energy as a whole. We need to first understand energy to understand how it moves and flows through the ...
Views: 6320(5 votes) - 3 Easy Tips To a Better Sex Life - by Submitted on Nov 13, 2009 from Dingane .The sex usually starts off great. It’s fresh, it’s exciting and you worship your partner. Why then does this excitement fade away? Why does the sex and the relationship fade out over time? Well, there are many reasons but keeping your sex life healthy is all about self growth. As a guy, the ...
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