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- Billing Process of Divorce Lawyers - by Submitted on Jul 05, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorIf you are thinking about divorce and need to know how divorce lawyers bill the process, you can be sure it is a very complicated process and does not entail just one single thing. There is an entire structure divorce lawyers do, and the fees may not always include just their services but others ...
Views: 1050(1 vote) - Choosing A Divorce Lawyer With Expertise in Local Requirements and Regulations - by Submitted on Jul 05, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorDivorce is a difficult decision to make for any couple no matter what the circumstances may be. Divorce lawyers do not always make it any easier because their purpose is to take care of their client. However, it is also important to understand the importance of hiring a lawyer with expertise in ...
Views: 942(1 vote) - Agreements To Include With The Divorce Application - by Submitted on Jul 05, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorWhen most people think of the divorce application process they think of something that is bitter and inundated with arguments between the spouses and their respective lawyers. Fortunately it does not have to be this way, but it requires the cooperation of both the lawyers and the couple. It is ...
Views: 505 - An Early Phase of the Divorce Steps: Helping the Parties Reach an Agreement - by Submitted on Jul 05, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorThere are several different divorce steps that you will undergo when you file for divorce, but the most important one is likely to be the ability of you and your spouse to reach an agreement before you divorce goes into court. Your willingness to work together to reach an equitable settlement ...
Views: 622 - An Important Part of the Divorce: Property Division - by Submitted on Mar 17, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorOne of the most important but probably the most stress-inducing process in any divorce is property division. The stress from divorce alone is trying, but when you combine divorce with property division, especially for couples who have been married for a long time, the process can be even worse. ...
Views: 495 - Avoiding Conflicts of Interest when Researching Divorce Lawyers - by Submitted on Jul 05, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorConflict of interest is a huge problem when you attempt to research divorce lawyers. While you may want to save money, there are factors you must consider that could actually translate into a conflict of interest on the part of the lawyer. A reputable divorce lawyer will recognize these red ...
Views: 654 - Choosing a Three Step Divorce for Those Who Qualify - by Submitted on Jul 05, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorWith the high cost of divorce lawyers, many people are looking at various ways they can save money such as filing their own divorce papers. The problem with this process is that many states will only allow do-it-yourself divorces for those couples who have no property or children simply because ...
Views: 548 - Choosing the Most Important Questions to Ask a Divorce Lawyer - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorWhen you make the decision to file for divorce, the first thing you need to do is find a divorce lawyer that meets with your needs. Before you attend the first meeting with the lawyer you need to think of any questions you may want to ask, but do not rely on your memory: write down a list of ...
Views: 873 - Choosing the Wrong Miami Divorce Lawyer Can Cost Thousands of Dollars - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorIf you think for a moment it isn't important to choose the right divorce lawyer, you should take some time to think about what you might lose without the legal system on your side. Unless you plan to attempt to go before the judge in an attempt to represent yourself in a divorce, you need ...
Views: 533 - Custody and Moving and the Relativity to Those Who Are Abandoned - by Submitted on Jul 05, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorDivorce is a difficult process as it is, but it is even more difficult when it extends beyond simple custody and moving and becomes a case of abandonment. As sad as it is, many non-custodial parents—or those who perceive themselves to be—make the choice to abandon their families rather than face ...
Views: 505 - Custody and Moving Can Present Problems in Shared Custody Divorces - by Submitted on Jul 05, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorWith more couples today opting for shared custody either by mutual agreement or court order, there is a need to understand how custody and moving can affect the children. Of course the effects on the children will depend on the distance the move entails; if the parent with physical custody is ...
Views: 433 - Custody and Moving: Decisions that Can Affect a Child's Right to Visitation with a Non-Custodial Parent - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorCustody and moving are two of the most common points of contention during divorce negotiations. Couples frequently argue over where the children are going to live, and if the custodial parent wants to move out of state—or even into another city or county—there is always the concern about how the ...
Views: 586 - Custody and Moving: Key Factors that Determine Home Suitability - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorMost people assume once custody is granted that is the end. While this is usually true, there may be cases where the process of custody and moving involves an investigation into the suitability of the environment. We don't usually think of this as being part of divorce, but there are ...
Views: 591 - Custody and Moving: the Decision That Is Best for the Children - by Submitted on Jul 05, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorEvery couple that is involved in a divorce has to make a decision about custody and moving. The key element in the decision should be what is best for the children, especially in the beginning when they must adjust to a new situation. Of course, if there are financial or safety concerns the ...
Views: 502 - Dealing with the Effects of Divorce when You Need a Loan - by Submitted on Jul 05, 2011 from Christy O’Connorn The effects of divorce can go a long way toward making your future unstable or secure. If you fail to make payments on time or are saddled with a substantial amount of debt following a divorce, it will inhibit your ability to obtain a loan. When you have borrowing power your future is much ...
Views: 516 - Divorce Steps and the Emotional Component - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorDivorce is a very emotional process for every couple no matter how bad the marriage may be or how long the discord has been showing its ugly face. Of course, there are exceptions: if adultery is involved it might very well be that the emotional component is the first of the divorce steps to ...
Views: 609 - Divorce Steps Differ by State and County - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorOne of the most difficult parts of filing for divorce is learning how the divorce steps in your state affect your plans for a divorce filing. This is especially difficult for couples that may have recently moved to a new state, or even a new county within the same state or where one of the ...
Views: 588 - Do All Divorce Lawyers Charge the Same Fee? - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorOne thing you need to understand before you even begin your divorce proceedings is the process is not going to be cheap by any means. How much you pay will depend on many different factors up to and including the following: • Amount of research necessary • The complexity of the ...
Views: 607 - Effects of Divorce: Determination of Liability for New Debts - by Submitted on Jul 05, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorOne of the most difficult tasks that surround divorce is determining liability for any new debts that enter the picture after a couple decides to divorce. While the process is easy enough when it comes to actual loans—only the person who signs the contract is responsible—it can be much more ...
Views: 537 - Everything You Need to Know About Getting Divorced - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorBefore you begin the divorce process, it is essential for you to obtain information about the process. There are several steps involved in the process of getting divorced, and if you attempt to bypass any of the steps, you will actually cause more harm than good; you will in essence delay the ...
Views: 744 - Failing to Follow all the Divorce Steps is Courting Disaster - by Submitted on Jul 05, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorOne of the most important of all divorce steps is gathering information. It is essential to know what information your lawyer needs so you can begin gathering all of the documentation you need before the first meeting. When you are better prepared it will take less time for the lawyer to prepare ...
Views: 502 - Filling Out the Paperwork: Essential Part of the Divorce Steps - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorFilling out the paperwork is probably one of the most tedious of the divorce steps. Even if you are hiring a lawyer you will need to endure the boring task of either filling out the paperwork before your meeting or sitting in his or her office while they ask the questions on he application. As ...
Views: 601 - Finding a Good Divorce Lawyer Requires Research - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorWith so many people getting divorced in the 21st century, it is more important than ever to make sure you find a good divorce lawyer. While it seems to be common sense, many people make the mistake of thinking as long as the lawyer is familiar with family law, he or she is familiar with divorce ...
Views: 712 - Getting Help Filling Out a Divorce Application - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorThere is more to a divorce application than just picking it up in the courthouse, paying the fee and filing the petition. It is important for anyone wishing to file a divorce without benefit of a lawyer to understand not only where to obtain a divorce application but also how to fill it out. ...
Views: 558 - Handling a Divorce Application when the Couple Is Unable to Reach an Agreement - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorIn the "perfect divorce" a couple will come into their perspective lawyer's offices ready to sign an agreement and quickly end their marriage. Unfortunately the "perfect divorce" does not usually happen in real life, and in most cases he negotiations take more time than the divorce proceedings ...
Views: 557 - Hiring a Divorce Lawyer vs. Using a To It Yourself Kit to Fill Out the Divorce Application - by Submitted on Jul 05, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorThere are both pros and cons involved in the process of filling out a divorce application. Some people feel more comfortable enlisting the services of a lawyer while others desire to save the money and file the divorce application using a do it yourself divorce kit. Neither one is any better ...
Views: 531 - How Do Divorce Lawyers Bill Their Clients? - by Submitted on Jul 05, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorIf you are thinking about divorce and need to know how divorce lawyers bill the process, you can be sure it is a very complicated process and does not entail just one single thing. There is an entire structure divorce lawyers do, and the fees may not always include just their services but others ...
Views: 674 - How Men Rejoin the Dating Scene After Getting Divorced - by Submitted on Jul 05, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorAlthough men do not face the same challenges as women do after getting divorced, they still have challenges they must meet. This is especially true for those who have been married for a long time or have been with the same person for many years. Things have changed in the world of dating-pick up ...
Views: 971 - How Property Divorce Is Decided - by Submitted on Mar 17, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorDivorce these days is just a common fact of life. The best way a divorcing couple can come to terms in a property divorce is to divide all property and debts between themselves. It would be ideal if this were most commonly the way couples decided on a property divorce with amicable ...
Views: 487 - How to Avoid Leaving Prized Possession during Relocation after Divorce - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorOne of the most emotional things a divorced couple can do during relocation after their divorce is leave prized possessions behind. In many cases the divorce causes a great deal of bitterness on the part of the person being left behind, so anything you forget to take is likely to end up at the ...
Views: 897 - How to Avoid the Effects of Divorce on Your Credit - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorThe effects of divorce are not limited to the emotional scars it can cause the couple and their children but can also have a disastrous effect on your credit as well. Fortunately it is much easier to prevent the financial effects of divorce, but many couples get so wrapped up in their anger and ...
Views: 872 - How to Determine when Relocation during Divorce Involves Abandonment - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorIt can sometimes be difficult to identify when relocation during divorce is clearly abandonment. Does it begin just because your spouse walks out of the house without telling you he or she wanted a divorce or is there some clearly defined method that determines when you can classify an act as ...
Views: 770 - How to Prevent Custody and Moving from Causing Emotional Damage to a Child - by Submitted on Jul 05, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorCustody and moving can be detrimental to a child if the parents do not take careful precautions in their planning. Children are very unreceptive to leaving their friends and their schools, especially when they are beginning to approach the teenage years. At this age they begin to have feelings ...
Views: 672 - Important Information to Provide During Research of Divorce Lawyers - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorIt can be a difficult time when you are consulting with divorce lawyers and attempting to choose the one that is right for you. It is important to understand, however, that you can make the process easier for yourself and any divorce lawyers with which you consult if you have everything you need ...
Views: 613 - Is a Divorce Lawyer Really Necessary? - by Submitted on Jul 05, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorWhile most people consider a divorce lawyer as a necessity when a divorce is imminent, there are some people who look at it as an unnecessary expense. After all, the courthouse has do-it-yourself divorce kits that a petitioner can purchase that are substantially less expensive than the cost of a ...
Views: 445 - Is the Cost of a Divorce Lawyer a Justifiable Expense? - by Submitted on Mar 17, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorWith the current cost of hiring a divorce lawyer, many couples are looking toward the do-it-yourself divorce. The key issue is whether this method is actually in the best interests of the divorcing parties. While saving money is certainly a key factor in a divorce, there are many advantages to ...
Views: 561 - Key Issues of Importance in an Uncontested Divorce to the Lawyers - by Submitted on Jul 05, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorChoosing a divorce lawyer is never an easy or inexpensive task, but you can reduce the fees and aggravation if you and your spouse can agree to an uncontested divorce. That doesn't mean you have to agree to everything in advance although that would certainly reduce the costs even more, but if ...
Views: 560 - Make Certain You Get Advice on Filling Out the Divorce Application - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorFor those who are not in the legal profession, the process of filling out a divorce application can be a difficult one. It is for this reason that most people choose to at least get advice from a lawyer or paralegal before making the decision to file the divorce papers on their own. While ...
Views: 525 - Making the Decision to Divorce: the House and Valuation of Marital Assets - by Submitted on Mar 17, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorWhen you make the decision to divorce, the house in which you live becomes part of a potential settlement. Those couples who have an amicable divorce are able to negotiate with one another, but this is not the way it usually works. In most cases only one of the parties wants the divorce and ...
Views: 426 - Making the Right Choice in a New Jersey Divorce Lawyer Is Essential for Peace of Mind - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorOne of the most important tasks you need to accomplish before filing for divorce is to find a competent New Jersey divorce lawyer. While the process is never easy you can reduce the stress and frustration when you know you have made the right choice in a divorce lawyer. You need to feel ...
Views: 442 - Making the Right Choice in a PA Divorce Lawyer - by Submitted on Jul 05, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorWhen you are faced with the choice of filing for divorce, you need to make sure you choose a divorce lawyer that has enough expertise and experience to make sure you get the best possible settlement. You need someone who knows the law and will turn it around in your favor. This doesn't mean you ...
Views: 521 - Never Assume Military Divorce Lawyers Have Global Licensing Authorization - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorThere are very important reasons to research military divorce lawyers. Even if you are a short-term service person who lives on base, there are likely to be things that are important to you in the civilian world as well. In addition, there may be pensions and other fringe benefits to which you ...
Views: 580 - Options for the House in a Divorce - by Submitted on Mar 17, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorOne of the most difficult aspects of a divorce settle is the house. The divorce does not automatically eliminate the real estate or pass the payments over to the other party: they must agree upon a solution and allow the court to make the decision for them. When the parties in the divorce are ...
Views: 554 - Overcoming Loneliness after Getting Divorced - by Submitted on Jul 05, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorNo matter what the circumstances might be, getting divorced is a very difficult and traumatic time for women—some more than others. It is always a difficult time for women, especially if they were not prepared for the dissolution of their marriage. Quite often women are in the dark and think ...
Views: 528 - Proper Credential Are Essential Elements when Choosing a Phoenix Divorce Lawyer - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorMaking the right decision in a divorce lawyer is essential, and one of the key elements is verifying the credentials of any lawyer before you decide to enlist his or her services. This is especially important in community property states where it may be necessary to prove separate ownership of ...
Views: 623 - Relocation after Divorce when the Non-Custodial Parent is Transferred - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorThere are many different reasons for relocation after divorce, and some of the factors that come into the picture include being close to a support system. For instance, a wife who is emotional over the collapse of her marriage may feel comfort being close to her own parents, sisters, brothers or ...
Views: 838 - Relocation after Divorce: Financial Considerations - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorWhile it is preferable to remain close to the marital home after divorce, especially when there are children involved, it is not always possible. Quite often one of the parties to the divorce, usually the wife, must face a substantial loss in financial support during and following a divorce. For ...
Views: 606 - Relocation and Divorce: When You Can Force Your Spouse to Leave - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorThere are some hard and fast rules when it comes to forcing your spouse to leave the marital home. Just because you are filing for divorce, you do not ultimately have the right to tell the other party they must move out even if it involves adultery. In fact, even in cases of physical or mental ...
Views: 2443 - Relocation during Divorce Isn't Always the Best Solution - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorIn most cases couples choose to live apart during the divorce process, but with the current cost of living, more couples are choosing to avoid relocation during divorce and even afterward in order to save money and spare the children the heartbreak of being separated from one of their parents. ...
Views: 730 - Research and Select an Experienced New York Divorce Lawyer - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorOne of the most difficult parts of filing for divorce is finding an experienced divorce lawyer in New York. This is due in part to the fact that most couples contemplating divorce are already suffering from the trauma of ending the marriage—adding the task of finding a good divorce lawyer adds ...
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