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- Love & Friendship in the New Testament: How to Expand Your Ability to Give and Be There for Others - by Submitted on Apr 17, 2011 from Doron GilThe New Testament provides us with many insights and advice-tips about love and relationships. These emphasize, time and again, the importance of loving others and being there for them. HERE ARE 10 SUCH INSIGHTS: 1. A faithful friend is the medicine of life (Ecclesiasticus 6:16). 2. ...
Views: 1845(1 vote) - Self-Awareness: the Key to Understanding How You Sabotage Your Relationships and How to Change - by Submitted on Apr 15, 2011 from Doron GilTrying to develop an intimate relationship but failing time after time is a hint that something you do harms your attempts. Taking a careful look at what this “something” is will enable you to (finally) stop harming your relationships and develop the bond you desire. SELF-AWARENESS IS THE ...
Views: 1595 - Why Many Who Fail in Their Relationships Don’t Develop Awareness to Understand Why They Fail? - by Submitted on Apr 10, 2011 from Doron GilMany who fail in their relationships don’t take the time to develop their Self-Awareness and understand the reasons for their failure. Why don’t they? Many think they know themselves well enough to be able to cultivate and maintain a “good” relationship (whatever they mean by “good”). ...
Views: 1348 - Facing Yourself via Facebook: An Opportunity to Expand Your Self-Growth & Personal Development - by Submitted on Apr 07, 2011 from Doron GilFacebook as a social media offers many functions to its users, from enabling them to connect with friends and family, to develop business liaisons, to dating and meeting others, and on to marketing one’s own expertise and products. Another role that FB can be useful to the individual, which ...
Views: 1053(1 vote) - Be Aware: Traits You Deny and Reject in You, You Project onto Your Partners and Sabotage Your Relationships - by Submitted on Apr 03, 2011 from Doron GilThere are many traits you are NOT AWARE of which control your attitudes, thinking, reactions and behaviors in your relationships. These usually are traits which you perceive to be “negative”; which you are afraid might bring criticism upon you; disrespect; rejection and abandonment. As long ...
Views: 1331 - Needs You Are Not Aware of Might Harm Your Relationships! How to Identify Them and De-activate Their Power - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2011 from Doron GilThere are many needs of which you are NOT aware that control you and harm your interactions with your partner. It is only when you develop Self-Awareness and get a grip of these needs that you can de-activate the power they exert over you and stop harming your relationships. KATE’S ...
Views: 1118 - Become Aware of Messages Which Affect You! Don’t Let Them Harm Your Relationships - by Submitted on Mar 27, 2011 from Doron GilThere are many messages you have UNCONSCIOUSLY internalized while growing up, which drive you to behave in self-sabotaging ways with your partners. DANNY (Example 1) Nathalie accuses Danny of not expressing his love for her. He doesn’t hug her; he doesn’t tell her that he loves her. She ...
Views: 1243 - How to Combat the Fear of Being Alone and Become Empowered to Develop a Healthy and Successful Intimate Relationship - by Submitted on Mar 26, 2011 from Doron GilThe best way to talk about the damage that the fear of being alone causes to those “infected” by it is by bringing up a real-life-anecdote: REBECCA Every evening, instead of going home after a busy day at work, Rebecca meets men on blind dates. What would she do all alone at home anyway? ...
Views: 1398 - Slowing Down Your Search for a Relationship Will Lead You to Finding One Faster - by Submitted on Mar 21, 2011 from Doron GilThe pain of failing to find and cultivate a successful intimate relationship must be horrible to endure. Especially if you have been trying for quite some time to find a partner and develop a lasting bond. Maybe the time has come for you to stop the excessive dating-rush and take the time to ...
Views: 1042(2 votes) - Be Aware: If Your Expectations Are Based on Social Conventions they Might Harm Your Relationships! - by Submitted on Mar 18, 2011 from Doron GilYou probably have expectations from partners and relationships. They add some “juice” to the relationship: you expect things to happen, you fantasize about them, and you make an effort to ensure they will “come true”. When this happens – it’s wonderful. But expectations might harm a ...
Views: 1109 - Don’t Let Your Belief-System Harm Your Relationships: The Role of Self-Awareness in Your Life - by Submitted on Mar 14, 2011 from Doron GilYour attitudes, emotions, reactions and behaviors towards your partners are often controlled by a belief-system which you are NOT AWARE OF. You adopted this belief-system from your childhood home, your social environment, television, radio, books and films. EXAMPLES OF BELIEF-SYSTEMS WHICH ...
Views: 1018 - Self-Observation, Acceptance of What You Notice and Motivation to Change Place You on the Road to a Successful Intimate Relationship - by Submitted on Mar 12, 2011 from Doron GilIt is safe to assume that no one has ever taught you the importance of SELF-OBSERVATION: how to look inwards, contemplate your thoughts, feelings, reactions and behaviors. Observation will help you pay attention to your reactions and behaviors with your partners and become aware of the ways in ...
Views: 1381 - Still Single? You Don’t Have to Be! 10 Factors Which Stand in Your Way from Finding and Cultivating the Relationship You Desire! - by Submitted on Mar 11, 2011 from Doron GilIF BY NOW YOU: 1) Have enrolled with numerous on-line dating sites, shaped your profile, chatted with others, went on many dates, but was never able to develop a satisfying relationship; and 2) Have always blamed your partners (or dates) for the failure of a possible relationship; and 3) ...
Views: 1040 - How to Ensure Personal Growth and a Satisfying Relationship: Getting in Touch with Your Shadow is a Great Beginning! - by Submitted on Mar 04, 2011 from Doron GilWe all like to think we have only “good”, “nice”, “elegant”, “friendly” traits. While trying to present a nice “face” to ourselves and our partners, we repress and deny other traits of us, which we think carry “negative” connotations; which are not “socially accepted”; which might bring us ...
Views: 1369 - How to Find a Partner and Develop a Successful Intimate Relationship - by Submitted on Mar 01, 2011 from Doron GilThe one-million dollar question is: what does it take to find a suitable partner and cultivate a truly successful relationship? My simple answer is: it takes SELF-AWARENESS: identifying and understanding what stands in your way from succeeding. You might be surprised to find out that if ...
Views: 1377 - How to Find Out What Prevents You from Having a Successful Intimate Relationship - by Submitted on Feb 23, 2011 from Doron GilHas it happened to you that in spite of your desire to have a partner with whom to develop an intimate relationship you found yourself, time and again, with partners that were wrong for you; having the same conflicts and arguments that you’ve had in the past; dissatisfied and alienated? Have ...
Views: 709 - Longing: Who Do You Long For After Separation? - by Submitted on Feb 21, 2011 from Doron GilLonging for your partner can fill you with joy, good thoughts and anticipation. There is someone to long for; to write poems to; to dream about at night. But if your partner is no longer there, longing can make you sad and melancholic, arousing the feeling of loneliness. But who are you ...
Views: 2143 - Observation and Awareness: The Keys to Understanding Why Your Relationships Fail - by Submitted on Feb 19, 2011 from Doron GilAre you fed up from blind-dates which lead you nowhere? Meeting the wrong people on dating sites? Experiencing disappointing relationships? If so, the time may have come for you to sit back and contemplate what’s going on and what to do next. The best way for you to use this time is to ...
Views: 977 - How to Survive a Relationship When You and Your Partner Have Different Points of View of How Things “Should Be” - by Submitted on Feb 16, 2011 from Doron GilWhen you cling on to your belief that you are right and your partner is wrong you often find yourself involved in power struggles and conflicts about “who's right”. Unintentionally, you make “being right” your first priority instead of your relationship. You neither listen to your partner nor ...
Views: 1168 - What You Need to Do In Order To Find and Maintain a Successful Intimate Relationship - by Submitted on Feb 16, 2011 from Doron GilYou might be surprised to hear that there are many things about yourself that you don’t know – and you even don’t know that you don’t know them. As a matter of fact, you know yourself only up to a certain point. You might fail in your relationships for the simple reason that you lack ...
Views: 709 - Falling in Love, Romance and Love Poems: Are They Possible via Long-Distance Chat? - by Submitted on Feb 15, 2011 from Doron GilWho doesn’t dream about falling in love, meeting “the one and only”, having a “once-of-a-life-time connection” like in the fairy tales, the movies, and TV series? At times the modern technology and the social-media provide all these. Just touch the key-board and YOU’RE CONNECTED! When such ...
Views: 1541 - Relationships Advice: Cultivating an Intimate Relationship is like Taking Care of Precious Plants - by Submitted on Feb 11, 2011 from Doron GilThere are those who are so talented at taking care of plants that whichever plant they care for will grow and live forever. But when it comes to cultivating a relationship with a partner, the story is different. Is there anything they can do to change this situation? I've always been ...
Views: 1443 - Valentine’s Day Advice: Expecting Your Partner to Read Your Mind Might Sabotage Your Relationships - by Submitted on Feb 08, 2011 from Doron GilA close relationship is something we all desire: to feel we are “one” with our partner; that we know each other as well as knowing ourselves; that we can communicate without words, like with a telepathic connection. But if we expect this to be the rule – rather than the exception - we might harm ...
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