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- You Can Conquer Your Feelings Of Hopelessness - by Submitted on Aug 12, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraHave you ever felt hopeless in your life? Feelings of hopelessness arises when you start entertaining thoughts like saying these: "What's the use of trying?" "I'll never be happy in my life.", "Nothing will ever work out.", "The whole world is against me, it's hopeless." These feelings of ...
Views: 2272 - Make a Saleable Product Thru Ebook Writing Guidelines - by Submitted on Apr 28, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraIt is oftentimes advised to aspiring affiliates to come up with their own unique products to sell online instead of just re-selling other affiliates’ products. However, most affiliates would always enroll in affiliate programs and begin their internet marketing career by selling other people’s ...
Views: 2269(1 vote) - Adult Ear Infection, Particularly - by Submitted on Jun 30, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraEar infection manifests in adults but not as frequently compared to children. Once the Eustachian tube which is located near the inner ear becomes infected, then adult ear infection can occur. The Eustachian tube functions to equalize pressure between outside and inside the body as well as to ...
Views: 2265(4 votes) - The Steps to Systematic Thinking - by Submitted on Jul 08, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraSystematic thinking lets you solve problems and difficulties by coming up with workable and practical solutions whether in life, career or business. Though, a topic regarding systematic thinking is very much related and relevant to this discussion we would focus on how every person could enhance ...
Views: 2216(2 votes) - Siberian Husky Ownership Tips - by Submitted on Jul 07, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraThe Siberian Husky is a beautiful big breed that was originally used as a working dog in places with cold climate. The athletic and strong build plus the stamina that it packs made it very good at pulling sleds with heavy cargo or people. Its thick coat helped it seal in the warmth it needed to ...
Views: 2197(1 vote) - Using Group Brainstorming Techniques To Generate New Ideas - by Submitted on May 28, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraMore often, the most effective and the best way in discovering a new and great idea is via group discussion. Such group discussions are called brainstorming. So in order to garner the best and practical results from this, you have to make use of some group brainstorming strategies and ...
Views: 2169(2 votes) - How Much Does A Father Figure Figures? - by Submitted on Aug 11, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraI have a friend. His name is Ben, 30 years old and separated to his wife. Also, he just recently broke up with his 18 year old girlfriend. The reason? “I cannot breathe! She is too possessive!” my friend Ben exclaimed. I know it’s not a taboo to see younger women with older men but in this case ...
Views: 2152(4 votes) - Why Things Don’t Work Out: The Truth About Bad Habits And Cheating - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraIt’s no secret that bad habits can hurt one’s marriage. But U.S. Government National Institute of Child Health and Development made a study of more than 160 relationships in Louisville University to back it up. Their study revealed that if you have nasty habits, your partner can never get used ...
Views: 2140 - Commitment Phobia- What To Do About It - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraHave you ever been in that state in your relationship when everything is just so perfect that it scares you? This is too good to be true, you say to yourself. Now, what- you know at the back of your mind commitment is the next step if you want to continue with it. The big “C”- commitment. ...
Views: 2120 - Creative And Practical Wedding Centerpiece Ideas - by Submitted on Dec 04, 2008 from Menno SpijkstraA centerpiece is the crowning glory of any table decoration. Choosing a centerpiece is vital: it has to go along with your color scheme and wedding theme. The right one can add a bit of drama to the reception that can make your wedding day a truly memorable one. A one-of-a-kind wedding ...
Views: 2119 - When Family and Friends Hate Your Significant Other - by Submitted on Jun 03, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraWhen friends and loved hate your significant other, it can be a major disappointment. There’s no doubt that this can be a painful issue, since conflicts are always waiting to happen. The situation can make you feel as if the people who matters most in your life are disrespecting you by ...
Views: 2063 - Is the German Shorthaired Pointer Right for You? - by Submitted on Jun 01, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraAs told by its name alone, anybody can come to the conclusion that this breed comes from Germany, and has short hair. The coat is reasonably feisty and thick, which doesn't require much grooming. This dog is of medium build, weighing anywhere from 45 to 70 pounds and standing from 21 to 25 ...
Views: 2043 - Some Of The Signs Of Male Attraction - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraSo how could you really say or determine if a man is already attracted to you? Knowing the answers can tell if you find true love in your life. Well, what I am going to share with you are just some of the signs of male attraction. And some of these signs of male attraction are: 1. If a man ...
Views: 2032(5 votes) - Breaking Up with Dignity - by Submitted on Jan 07, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraIt’s never easy to break up. When it’s your decision, you hurt the other person. If it’s the other’s decision, you get hurt. What comes around goes around for sure. Nobody enjoys breaking up, whatever the reason. You’ve tried everything: from reading self-help ...
Views: 2028 - The Hype Of Cardio Vascular Exercise - by Submitted on Jul 13, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraThe package of health, fitness and confidence are delivered through the deliberate effort of engaging in a regular exercise regimen and one may well mull over this fact. Countless benefits are to be gained from constant exercise as it inarguably promotes well-being by stimulating the body and ...
Views: 2006 - The Art Of Loving Unconditionally - by Submitted on Dec 03, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraFor most of us, unconditional love is a difficult—if not impossible—concept to grasp. In an egocentric world bogged down with terms and conditions, the idea of loving someone unconditionally is akin to inviting a thief to one’s house and giving him a set of keys—pure trouble. Stipulations govern ...
Views: 2005 - The Top Habits Of Effective Liars-- Revealed! - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraFrom the person you're talking to, to your longtime trusted pal, how can you be so sure that they're not lying? How many times have you fallen prey to people's deception? A caveat: Take note that this list is to detect liars and not for you to practice! Really, can you spot liars? Never ...
Views: 1997(1 vote) - Comforting Someone Dealing With Anticipatory Grief - by Submitted on Sep 14, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraDealing with anticipatory grief is tough to deal with, may it be after death or before, it is acceptable that there’s no topic more difficult to deal with than grieving. And this is where the beauty of friendship comes. More than sharing all those happy and fun times, all those sharing secrets ...
Views: 1991 - Grief and Loss Counselling: How to Cope with the Death of a Loved One - by Submitted on Jan 08, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraHave you ever experienced grief so unyielding and persistent that there seem to be no end? The most familiar feeling mourners experience is being unable to find the confidence to face change, not enough dependable information to help cope with their loss and more importantly, not able to find a ...
Views: 1967 - Apologizing- How To Make It Right Again - by Submitted on Sep 14, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraAs human beings, we are all prone to mistakes, as a matter of fact; it is synonymous to making mistakes. But as human beings, we are also given a choice to redeem ourselves from the mistakes we did through apologizing. For some, it is an arduous task, because their pride gets in the way. But if ...
Views: 1951(1 vote) - Some Useful Information on Boxer Dogs - by Submitted on Dec 22, 2008 from Menno SpijkstraBoxer dogs are perhaps one of the more versatile and talented dog breeds. This breed is intelligent and low-maintenance. The Boxer breed has proven its worth as a war dog and police dog. Through time, the Boxer has been a good companion, a guard dog and even a working dog. Furthermore, they have ...
Views: 1947 - Unlock Potential Mind Power Through Deep Meditation Music - by Submitted on Dec 02, 2008 from Menno SpijkstraSensory overload is a disturbing condition becoming more prevalent these days. The term itself brings about that dull, numb, hazy and heavy sensation within. In our technology-driven and fast-paced modern life, our stress levels continually increase. The stress and tedium of the daily commute, ...
Views: 1939 - Heed This Relationship Advice- Never Lose Yourself In The Relationship - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraYesterday I was having lunch with my “self- confessed not marrying type” friend and she asked me out of the blue “How do you keep yourself when you are madly in love with lover? How do you not lose your selfhood in the oneness of an affair?” “How can do you maintain the ‘I’ in ‘We’?” I was ...
Views: 1938 - Of Mistresses And Lovers- Behind The Curtain Of Extramarital Affairs - by Submitted on May 06, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraHow long have you been married- 5, 10, 20 years? You’re certain you know everything about your other half. Maybe you do but then again, maybe you don’t. Today, we will explore the forbidden world of clandestine extramarital affairs. Men are more prone to cheating, this is not surprising. Some ...
Views: 1924 - What Not To Say When Your Husband Got Laid Off From Work - by Submitted on Aug 20, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraLife is as unreliable as the weather forecast. Just when you thought that it’s going to be a sun-shiny day, thunderstorms with rain showers turned up. There are some things that you just can’t prepare for. And when these unexpected things happen, you better hold on and try to rise above the ...
Views: 1919 - Building a New Life After Divorce - by Submitted on Dec 22, 2008 from Menno SpijkstraDivorce can leave a person devastated and broken. It is a major, life-changing event that could shatter your heart into pieces. Accepting the fact that everything just isn’t the same anymore, especially for those who didn’t see it coming, may be a little too hard. Having to deal all ...
Views: 1917 - Is It Important To Discuss Your Sexual History? - by Submitted on Apr 30, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraIn just about any kind of relationship, honesty is one of the qualities that many people want, hands down. After all, who doesn’t want a truthful, genuine and honest partner? These traits are very important, particularly in an individual’s sexual relationship with another person. While sex for ...
Views: 1914(5 votes) - Are You A Workaholic? Then Bad News For You - by Submitted on Mar 17, 2011 from Menno SpijkstraHow long have you gone out of your working environment? And when was your last vacation? Aside from the money you earned from your hard work and efforts, what did you get out of it? Well, I am afraid that you would be alarmed after reading through the succeeding paragraphs and suddenly take some ...
Views: 1891 - Knowing How to Listen Effectively - by Submitted on May 28, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraCommunication plays a major role in any kind of relationship. However, it is one of the most misunderstood words in the English dictionary. Most people would automatically think of “communication” as talking, when actually it is not just that. It is a two-way street, where talking and listening ...
Views: 1886(1 vote) - The Habits of Highly Effective Successful Quitters - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraThere is an adage saying that the best way to succeed is to follow who succeeded. These are the most common characteristics of smokers who successfully quit smoking—for good. Here are the ideal features and examples of successful quitters. 1.) Successful quitters admit to themselves that they ...
Views: 1860(2 votes) - How To Dress For Business Success - by Submitted on Dec 18, 2008 from Menno SpijkstraIf they say that clothes make the man, then this could be the case in the business world. Dressing for success is very important whether want to apply for a loan or attending meetings to sort out problems. You are seen as somebody professional when you dress appropriately and professionally. ...
Views: 1858 - Is it Time to Get a Divorce? - by Submitted on Apr 20, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraMaking a decision whether to get a divorce or not is an awfully difficult choice that a person must make in his/her lifetime. One has to think about a lot of important factors, like children, the number of years you’ve been together, the major differences, and the possible effects of divorce on ...
Views: 1854 - The Truth About Aspergers Autism Aggression - by Submitted on May 06, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraAspergers autism aggression is a disorder which can make an individual very furious and aggressive with themselves or with other people. There is no studies or researches done for this Aspergers autism aggression, and just a few number of persons is affected by this kind of disorder. The primary ...
Views: 1852 - An Introduction To Aggressive Driving - by Submitted on May 04, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraAggressive driving, which involves improper and inappropriate operation of a motor vehicle with the intent to harm or frighten other people, has become more and more usual in current years. The question of ‘why’ is not usually talked about. However, it's essential to acknowledge that aggressive ...
Views: 1812 - Working Overtime While Relaxing - by Submitted on Apr 12, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraWhen you hear the word overtime is mentioned, these 3 words may probably cross your mind: deadline, caffeine, stress. Yes, very familiar indeed, huh? Nevertheless, I am going to add up 3 more which work just as well, and they are: relaxing, television, sleep. Whilst the second list seems ...
Views: 1801(1 vote) - Affirmations to Achieve Tranquility - by Submitted on Jun 07, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraNot too long ago, a business associate told me that you just can’t find some rose colored glasses and wish the world to be a better place. And I answered her that yes; you really have to start somewhere. With this in mind, we have to realize that affirmations are really much more than just ...
Views: 1772 - Pumping The Muscles With Bee Pollen - by Submitted on Feb 03, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraTo achieve a toned and well-sculpted body through muscle building, proper exercises with the right equipments, an obliging diet as well as a good muscle building supplement are essential. Muscle building requires specific workouts especially for the major muscle groups such as the abdominis, the ...
Views: 1747 - Go Ahead, Be Assertive! - by Submitted on Jun 03, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraI have a friend who is a Life Coach by profession and he found out that many people are willing and ready to accept the cost of their being unhappy and dissatisfied rather than to stand up and speak for themselves. One way of saying this is, “I know I am not happy with something and I know I’ve ...
Views: 1745(1 vote) - Cushing's Disease In Dogs - by Submitted on Jun 30, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraDog diseases are fairly easy to detect because of the symptoms they display. For every disease corresponds many symptoms, often being confused as another ailment until it has been properly diagnosed. As your pet ages, every pet owners expect changes to take place, such as become less active ...
Views: 1744(1 vote) - Stop Snoring, Sleep Soundly and Silently - by Submitted on May 26, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraSnoring obviously is not so much a discomforting condition on the part of the snorer, but it can be embarrassing and bothersome to those within the immediate surrounding when sleeping. Several factors can be attributed to snoring including sleep disorders, stress and a blockage in the airway. ...
Views: 1744 - How to Treat Drug Addiction - by Submitted on May 10, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraThe treatment of drug addiction is actually a combination of spiritual, traditional and the medical way that allows the patient to fight being drug addicted. It is critically important for people to look at some ways of treatment for drug addiction because it is a fact that this addiction is ...
Views: 1724(1 vote) - Tips For A More Organized Life - by Submitted on Dec 11, 2008 from Menno SpijkstraOrganizing is a skill required in various areas of our life and it is the art of setting and placing things in an orderly manner. Its basic function is clear and may differ from its uses to work transactions to organizing and simplifying your home and eventually your life in general. When you ...
Views: 1722 - Writing A Death Notice Or Obituary - by Submitted on Sep 21, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraA loved one’s demise is a very painful experience. An obituary or death notice is one significant way of honoring his or her life. The word “obituary” generally applies to the notice in a newspaper announcing a person’s demise. When the time comes in writing obituaries, it won’t be an easy ...
Views: 1715 - The Soothing Healing Power of Body Massage Oil - by Submitted on Jun 01, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraTo soothe, to ease, to calm, to relax. Such words are the magic offered by massage therapy and aromatherapy. In this hectic and hurrying society where stress has become and inherent aspect of daily living, the distressed populace is perpetually in search of means to comfort and relieve the ...
Views: 1705 - Are You Truly Happy Or Just Settling From An Unhealthy Relationship - by Submitted on Aug 24, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraTwo halves make a whole. And when two halves move- in together, it makes a lot of stuff and clutter. Some are cluttered with physical stuff, but some with emotional stuff. And when emotional stuff gets overly cluttered, that's when you begin contemplating- "Am I truly happy or just settling from ...
Views: 1699(1 vote) - The Sensational Single Woman - by Submitted on Apr 15, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraAre you sick and tired of being the singleton in your group and spending the Holidays alone? Well don’t be! Being single is not that bad. All you have to do is to look at the bright side of being single and learn to appreciate the great life you have. Yes, single and loving it! Say it to your ...
Views: 1695(4 votes) - Weimaraner: The Gray Ghost - by Submitted on May 27, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraThis breed is known for its unique all-gray color and swiftness, hence the nickname “The Gray Ghost”. There are a lot of uses for this pooch, some including hunting or serving as a military dog. It has an outstanding build; one that is very athletic. Packing a lot of strength and endurance makes ...
Views: 1695 - Platonic Friendship- Does It Still Exist? - by Submitted on Jun 27, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraThe answer is definitely YES! But we were made to believe that male- female friendship cannot be and will not be done. It is impossible. Well, we can’t blame them- we were made and brought up to believe that man and woman coexist in the bounds of sex and romance alone. It is written in the ...
Views: 1684(8 votes) - Me Jane, You Tarzan: Examining Gender Differences - by Submitted on Apr 30, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraMost men are clueless about women. No matter how hard they try, the poor souls are often swimming in a sea of confusion where the supposedly weaker sex is concerned. Whether they are arguing with their mothers, sisters, wives, girlfriends, and yes, their 5-year-old niece, they always end up ...
Views: 1674(4 votes) - Great Inspirational Movies Not To Be Missed - by Submitted on Mar 15, 2011 from Menno SpijkstraThere are actually tons and tons of great inspirational movies here and there, ranging from your typical Hollywood mainstream movies to avant-garde indie films and foreign films--inspirational movies are everywhere. Although I have yet to see this year’s Oscar Best Picture Slumdog Millionaire ...
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