People who seem overconfident or too interested in themselves are often called narcissistic. Narcissism is a thought and behaviour pattern that involves many negative elements including:
• Overconfidence
• Fascination with the self
• Excess ... Views: 1439
Do you catch yourself in patterns of self-sabotage? Maybe you set yourself a goal and then find yourself doing everything except what you need to do to achieve that goal. Maybe you actually do things that will make it even harder to achieve your goals in the future. If you do, you aren’t alone. ... Views: 889
Do you ever feel like there is something, or perhaps ‘someone’ inside you that doesn’t have your best interests at heart? Do you ever get the feeling that this inner force is always two steps ahead of you trying to sabotage any attempts you try to make to improve your life? Do you feel like you ... Views: 1084
Wherever you are in life, no matter how much money or how big a house you have, chances are you feel that there is some circumstance or another that is holding you back from where you want to be. If you feel this way, you are not alone. In fact, it is far rarer to not feel this way than to feel ... Views: 855
By Felicity Muscat
Do you know that most people only have a vague recollection of who they truly are, i.e. their true happy self? Do you know that this Authentic Self has become progressively buried under many layers of early life conditioning that is collectively referred to as old emotional ... Views: 599
Do you know many people compulsively find themselves seeing the worst scenarios in situations they find themselves in? Do you know this leads to unnecessary amount of stress, anxiety, panic attacks, despair, depression, energy depletion, unhappiness, failed relationships, health concerns and ... Views: 888
Did you know that narcissism involves an inordinate fascination with self-love, vanity, self-absorption, self-centredness, smugness and ego centrism? Did you know that it is considered to be a ‘normal’ condition of the infantile level of personality development?
Did you know it means that ... Views: 566
How do you banish the fear of stepping up permanently? Why are the excuses this fear generates in your head more than just fear? And why it has unconsciously programmed you into allowing it to reside inside of you?
Are you someone who is haunted by these questions and the thought of stepping ... Views: 786
If you would like to be able to:
• Harness the qualities that make you a natural
leader
• Become a dynamic and powerful leader
This article is for you. While leadership courses are great for enhancing knowledge; becoming a dynamic leader rests in your own capacity to navigate ... Views: 923
There are hundreds of methods out there for people who want to improve their lives. If you are looking for change in your life, you can choose basically any technique and any acronym you want – EFT, TFT, EMDR, hypnosis, psychotherapy, cognitive behavioural psychotherapy, the Sedona Method, and ... Views: 721
If you have ever been sexually abused or harassed, it’s likely that you still carry the traumatic scars of such a painful incident. Aside from the common symptoms of post-traumatic stress disorder that accompany these unfortunate events, is something that may be even more significant and ... Views: 837
Do you find yourself asking “why am I not able to connect with others effortlessly?” Does it make you think there is something wrong with you? Maybe you think you don’t like people in general? So how can you achieve effortless connection, attraction and build a natural foundation for a healthy ... Views: 946
Did you know that it is not a coincidence that you attract situations that make you question if you should accept them? The man with kids, or the job with less pay, the unsavoury housemate, the woman who isn’t fully committed when you truly desire to be with someone who is.
Many people live ... Views: 959
If you are someone who is haunted by the fear of stepping up, or are unsure as to why fear motivates you to avoid doing the one thing you know you want to do – you are likely feeling helpless to understand why its hold on you is so strong. You may also be wondering why so called “experts” have ... Views: 783
didn’t understand why it always felt as though this debilitating mantle was restricting me. There was always something inside of me that looked at the way I would express myself to the world and compare and see others doing it naturally. If you have shyness you have most likely observed how some ... Views: 1145
If you have an interest in this topic and a desire for change, I want to start by educating you on why the attraction to toxic relationships has formed inside of you in the first place. This will give you an understanding of what you can do about it and how to replace some of the common myths ... Views: 1009
If you have an interest in this topic and a desire for change, I want to start by educating you on why the attraction to toxic relationships has formed inside of you in the first place. This will give you an understanding of what you can do about it and how to replace some of the common myths ... Views: 936
If you have an interest in this topic and a desire for change, I want to start by educating you on why the attraction to toxic relationships has formed inside of you in the first place. This will give you an understanding of what you can do about it and how to replace some of the common myths ... Views: 953
If you have an interest in this topic and a desire for change, I want to start by educating you on why the attraction to toxic relationships has formed inside of you in the first place. This will give you an understanding of what you can do about it and how to replace some of the common myths ... Views: 1113
If you have an interest in this topic and a desire for change, I want to start by educating you on why the attraction to toxic relationships has formed inside of you in the first place. This will give you an understanding of what you can do about it and how to replace some of the common myths ... Views: 0
If you have an interest in this topic and a desire for change, I want to start by educating you on why the attraction to toxic relationships has formed inside of you in the first place. This will give you an understanding of what you can do about it and how to replace some of the common myths ... Views: 1001
Firstly, did you know that procrastination is driven by negative feelings and beliefs, such as:
• Fear of failure
• Fear of disappointment
• Fear of taking responsibility for one’s own life
• The need to remain dependent of one’s friends,
parents or loved ones
• The fear of ... Views: 1006
Did you know that the main reason one continues to feel like a failure after having endured a negative event is that they harbour the negative memory of that event within themselves? Did you know that memory serves as the solid evidence for the belief that they are a failure? Finally, did you ... Views: 1005
Do you ever feel like the whole world is against you? Do you struggle with feelings of anger and betrayal? Do you envy others or feel that life has dealt you an unfair hand? If you answered “yes” to any of these questions, you may be suffering from victim consciousness. You believe yourself to ... Views: 739
Are you a worrywart? Do you find yourself worrying about things that don’t even matter, to the point where it negatively impacts your life and keeps you from enjoying your everyday experiences? You can change the way you think, take back control over your mind, and regain peace and joy.
If ... Views: 885
When you think of the future, do you find yourself thinking about the worst things that could possibly happen? Do you worry about things that haven’t happened yet and might never happen? Do you feel the need to be prepared for everything bad that might come your way, no matter how unlikely? If ... Views: 838
If you struggle with procrastination, and are avoiding what you have set out to do or its a mild dream you cannot seem to ground, you are not alone! Our tendencies toward procrastination are driven by old emotional programming hidden deep in our subconscious minds. This programming reveals ... Views: 767
Relationships form an integral part our lives. If you are a man with integrity and feel that the tips and seduction techniques online are only giving ineffective results at best – this article will shed some light on why you are having trouble finding and keeping a woman’s interest.
Many of my ... Views: 1023
Are you wondering why your relationship has become distant? Or perhaps it has just spiralled out of hand? This article will help you to understand the first step to creating something new.
Did you know that one of the biggest drivers of relationship break down is the fear of abandonment? This ... Views: 1121
All your fears in life are created by your past experiences which have created negative memories. These fears steer you away from risks and from facing life with zest.
Did you know that most people that hate their job have been programmed to unconsciously choose a job they hate? They have ... Views: 1830
Did you know that low self-esteem leaves you feeling like a second class citizen who must regularly submit their wishes to the whims of others? Can you relate to this? More importantly, did you know that low self-esteem is something that is actually programmed into you by negative memories of ... Views: 1069
Are you one of the millions of people in the world who suffer from shyness? Would you like to develop confidence, and become the attractive and carefree person you really are inside? If so, this article is for you!
First, I want to address some of the most common myths about shyness. Many ... Views: 933
There is one very simple reason for all emotional depression.
I have discussed how feelings of “happiness” and “sadness” emerge spontaneously from within our self on every decision we make for ourselves in our lives.
When the feeling of happiness emerges, it does so in recognition that the ... Views: 816
Do you hate your job? Welcome to adulthood, most of the world would tell you. Suck it up and do what you have to do so you can have a halfway decent pension in retirement, most of the world would tell you. You’re no better than all the rest of humanity who also has to do jobs they hate so stop ... Views: 904
Do you ever experience feelings of not being good enough? Do you feel that it’s normal to actually have the belief of not being good enough inside you, creating self-doubt? Do you feel like it’s normal that you have to be and do things in order to feel good within yourself? Do you find yourself ... Views: 947
Anxiety is largely the result of what I call ‘emotional landmines’ i.e. negatively charged memories stored in your unconscious mind and body that keep getting re-triggered by daily events. The triggering of these ‘landmines’ leads to anxiety and other painful emotional and physical experiences ... Views: 926
Did you know that many people make themselves door mats because they believe deep down that they will be rewarded for doing so? Did you know that there is no “reward” for this self-destructive strategy besides a downward emotional and physical spiral?
Did you know that this tendency to submit ... Views: 882
If you are one of those individuals who is at odds as to why your relationships fail and/or wondering why people suddenly disappear from your life or withdraw from you and you are ready to do something about it; then this article is for you. This article will shed some light on what the causes ... Views: 1115
Did you know that self-respect is impossible if you are needy? Did you know that neediness is the main reason for low self-esteem, low self-confidence, for feelings of inadequacy and feeling extremely unattractive and being rejection-prone?
Did you know that your neediness will undermine any ... Views: 1354
Does procrastination rule your life? Does it feel like you sit helplessly on the sidelines of your life as you watch this uncontrollable force run it into the ground? Do you realise that means you:
a) have totally lost control over your life and therefore;
b) have no life?
Do you feel ... Views: 1170
We all know when a needy and desperate person is in our midst. They feel ‘sticky’ and seem to drain our energy. If you suspect that this is you, then you are probably feeling insecure, lonely, in need of validation or love, in need of being cared for, feeling afraid or vulnerable. This is a very ... Views: 1545
Did you know that many people who are afraid of rejection, intimacy, and abandonment often tend to fall into self-sabotaging behaviours such as manipulation, avoidance, overeating, jealousy, drug and alcohol use, infidelity and so on in order to try and “protect” themselves from being ... Views: 1373
Overcoming Self-Doubt
If you are an individual who has this toxic program called “Self-Doubt” inside of you and have just about given up on the battle with it, this article is for you. It will help you regain control over your subconscious self, and to get rid of those lies that have been fed ... Views: 984
Have you ever said something, done something and/or acted in a way that perplexed you? You know you wanted something but then acted in a way that went contrary to what you desired?
For example: You were excited about a new relationship opportunity, but found yourself becoming increasingly ... Views: 1092
Humans are social creatures, as Aristotle taught us millennia ago. We learn who we are by our interactions with others. Every day, we interact with many people. From the moment we wake up we are interacting with our family or our roommates; at school we interact with our classmates or at work we ... Views: 1126
Procrastination is generated and kept in place by unconsciously hidden negative programming in the form of negative thoughts and feelings that take control over you and your life. In order to fully purge this life destroying habit it becomes imperative to unearth this underlying negativity and ... Views: 1985
Did you know the only reason most people live in scarcity is because they have been hypnotised into accepting a host of limiting beliefs around their ability to create the abundance they rightfully deserve? Did you know most of those beliefs are held outside of conscious awareness stored deep in ... Views: 1114
Abuse is a tragically common experience. People who survive abuse often have a different perception on life than people who have not been abused. On the surface level, they learn to fear other people at a time when they should be learning to discover and explore. At a deeper level, their very ... Views: 987
Are you one of the many people who have trouble with motivation? You are not alone. It is extremely common to simply feel unmotivated to do the things we need to do. But as common as this feeling is, it is not our natural state at all. While motivation experts have made millions of dollars ... Views: 1059
As you know, shyness can create an array of problems. You struggle in pretty much every social situation. You ask yourself, how can these people speak so effortlessly? whilst you’re stuck trying to form a sentence. You look at the more spontaneous people, wonder how they do it so easily and wish ... Views: 910