You have a lot to write, and, of course, you want your words to come directly from your soul, connect with your audience (whether that be a reader or potential customer), and have a strong impact.
To that end, the more conscious we are of our process, the easier, better, stronger it ... Views: 547
At times, the creative process can almost look logical: "This is my purpose, and this is what I need to do." Other times the creativity just flows, and you do what you can to capture all the lovely ideas.
Occasionally, I'll do some of the same writing exercises I require of my students. ... Views: 523
Much of the work I do with writers, especially authors, is to help them understand that writing is a process. You don't just sit down and start writing Chapter 1, finish that chapter, and seamlessly move onto the next one. Before you can get to that place where you're writing full sentences, you ... Views: 516
We may not be able to sit down and write anywhere. Some people can. Yay them! For me, though, my environment is ultra important. The energy of people around me affects me. The location. The natural environment.
Maybe that sounds like I'm a diva and everything must be perfect if I'm going to ... Views: 513
Over my entire adult life, I've run into a lot of people who really struggle with writing. And some of these people are amazing at what they do, but they can't write. But, more importantly, they didn't THINK they could write.
As a result, I started to take what I could see their problems were ... Views: 1231
The clearer (and more specific) you are about your message and the results you want to achieve, the easier it is for you to write. Then the words flow, because they're flowing from the heart. Once those words are flowing nicely and easily (because you're connecting with your passion), then you ... Views: 818
As a writer, you might find yourself stuck - at the beginning (can't even get started), in the middle (where the heck do I go now), or at the end (is this really a good ending) of whatever you're writing. There are all sorts of techniques to get past writer's block, but it's even more than ... Views: 491
The statistic that writing coaches, book marketing coaches, and write-a-book-in-a-weekend programs love to shout to the world is that 80% of people say they want to write a book.
What do you think the key word is in that statistic?
"Want." They want to write a book. The number of people ... Views: 551
As I talk with my coaching clients and work with people in my programs, the self-criticisms and struggles of gotta write, "Just do it," and feeling not good enough abound.
As writers, it's what we all struggle with.
"Am I good enough?"
"I should just stop what I'm doing right now and ... Views: 579
Many writers, maybe all writers, have trouble being objective about their writing. As you're writing or immediately after you're writing, you're thinking, "God, what am I doing? This is pure drivel. It's awful. I should just stop."
Luckily, you don't stop; you keep going. And, with more luck, ... Views: 529
Running an online business requires a ton of marketing... even some things you might not consider marketing. Article writing, blogging, social media updates, sales page copy, campaign emails, video scripts, networking elevator speeches, bios...
It can be overwhelming when you think about it. ... Views: 441
Whether you're a business owner or an employee, like it or not, there are thousands of people in your industry...
Notice I didn't say, "There are thousands of business owners/employees just like you" because that's not true. However, if you present yourself like everyone else or play it safe ... Views: 460
You have a product or service that solves a problem and that people need, and you want to share that.
But then it comes down to communicating with your target market... that's where you get stuck. You have to write blog posts, ezine articles, sales pages, campaign emails, affiliate ... Views: 634
It's time to sit down and write your article, and you can't seem to write a thing. You stare at your paper or screen, twirl your pen, tap the keys, get up and get a glass of water, sit back down, get up and go to the bathroom, sit back down, check Facebook/Twitter/Google+, twirl your pen some ... Views: 487
A couple of weeks ago, I led a local, in-person meeting of a women-in-business support group. This was the fourth time we'd met, and all the meetings before had been full of amazing connection and even transformation for some of us. I always came home energized and filled up.
This time, ... Views: 854
For whatever reason, it's not as easy as one would think to sit down and write. I mean, all you need is a pen and paper or a keyboard, right?
You could get a lot of writing done if you add up all these extra bits of time (yes, they really do exist): The 10 minutes before your next client ... Views: 551
The Internet is a wonderful thing. It allows us to connect with people all over the world, get great information and resources, and do business. And in so many venues: social media, email, online communities...
But our inboxes fill up with email after email after email.
Typically, we open ... Views: 467
"I have an article to write, so I'll just start writing."
A few moments go by.
"Hmmmm. Why aren't the words coming to me easily? Ah, it must be because I struggle to write."
A few more moments go by.
"This is hard."
"I'm not very good at it."
You stare at the screen.
"I give ... Views: 836
You're no good.
You don't know what you're doing.
That's a stupid idea.
What makes you think anyone is going to buy from you?
You're sending too many emails.
You're promoting too much.
No one needs what you have to offer.
____ [fill in the blank] does that better than you ... Views: 546
"An object in motion will stay in motion unless acted upon by an outside force. An object at rest will stay at rest unless acted upon by an outside force."
You know how it works... if it's up to you get something done - and no one is relying on it - you procrastinate, procrastinate, ... Views: 712
I run a business. I'm writing a collection of short stories. I'm working on a product for writers. I'm a mother of two amazing teenage daughters. I have deeply connected relationships with my friends and chosen family. I teach. I coach. I create and design new programs. I work with clients to ... Views: 731
I've committed to writing more and more, and what that looks like (ideally) is more blog posts, more ezine articles, and books.
That means writing. A lot of writing.
And THAT means actually writing.
The other day, I ended my work day at 3:00pm with the intention to write. Oh my ... Views: 618
When it's time to write, especially writing from one's soul, one doesn't just turn on a dime. At least, I don't.
If I'm going to write from my soul, connect with my peeps, and write powerful, compelling material, I have to write consciously, not unconsciously.
First, what do I mean by ... Views: 467
Words are powerful. The little ditty we heard and sometimes used as a mantra (See? Words ARE powerful) of "Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me" just isn't true.
Here's an example. One of my favorite memorials in Washington, D.C. is the Franklin Delano Roosevelt ... Views: 448
Writing is sacred, or at least, the power of words is sacred. We need to respect the word, the writing, and the process. While I believe there are no real rules to writing, here are 16 rules I use in my own writing life as well as with my clients and students.
Feel free to break any as ... Views: 1135
After watching Gettysburg several months before, both Mark and I were champing at the bit to watch Gods and Generals. Mark's a huge Civil War buff, and while I'm not an aficionado, I really loved Gettysburg. Great characters, good writing, action that moved along...
An hour into Gods and ... Views: 467
It happens... you set aside time to write and create. Or a client cancels at the last minute. Or that rare thing of a block of time drops into your lap. You're even all set with what you're going to work on.
And you stare at the computer.
You frown at your list.
You shuffle papers on ... Views: 695
I talk all the time about writing from your soul and how important it is to really connect your message to your audience. I've talked about how to do it, how to set yourself up for success, and what gets in the way.
But how do you know if you're actually writing from your soul? That you're ... Views: 523
I'm a writer. I'm a writing and creativity coach. I see patterns. I'm good at the big picture and those itsy bitsy details that make up the big picture.
And I'm not perfect.
As much as I'm a good writer and good business woman, I don't do it all effortlessly. Like any good thing, it ... Views: 851
A few months ago, I met with a former coaching client for a lovely dinner, and we spent some time catching up since it had been a couple of months since we had connected. We told each other our stories, including how some relationships, business and personal, had ended.
She said it's like ... Views: 450
In conversations or in words, we usually know what it is we're trying to say. We have the concept in our heads. We can see it. Then, the trick is to translate that concept (which is not word-based) into words. Just like in a conversation with your spouse, you don't mention every single ... Views: 475
Whatever we're writing, fiction or nonfiction, blogging or articles, sales letters or emails, we often find ourselves needing to convey an abstract concept. For example, in a marketing email, you are supposed to tap into your audience's pain. Whatever your audience's pain point, it's probably ... Views: 1909
If you're an entrepreneur or online business owner, especially with a service-based product, then what you're selling is you and your system.
You may be thinking, "I don't have a system... I just do what I do."
Well, see, that "just do what you do" IS a big part of your system.
The ... Views: 562
If you work virtually or market your business online at all, your website is a crucial part of your business. It's one of the first things online people will see about you. Even offline people might go "check you out" after they've met you in person.
Think about your own website experience... ... Views: 334
The most important aspect of connecting with your audience through words is being clear... Because if you're not clear, your readers certainly won't be.
I was at a high-school band concert, and there was a box with "Cleaning Supplies" written on one side and "Lost and Found" written on ... Views: 479
I've had my business since 2001, and it's been profitable since the very beginning (meaning I made more than I spent). Since 2008, I've had the sole support of me and my two daughters. My business has grown, and I'm thrilled to say I have a waiting list for people to work privately with ... Views: 684
Every six months, I plan the next six months. Recently, I was reminded of why this is so important (besides the fact that it's smart business). Lots of upcoming traveling combined with workshops, and I needed to see how everything related to each other. When am I going to be out of town? When am ... Views: 496
If you had ever asked me if I was creative, my answer would have somehow revolved around my writing. While both my grandmothers painted, I didn't feel my artistic bents leaned that way in the least. But art has been sneaking in for years... through mandalas and collages and vision boards and ... Views: 463
We're in the process of reinvention - all the time - because we're evolving and changing - all the time.
One of my favorite quotations is "I am not the same person I was yesterday." And then the quotation I came up with several years ago after going through some intense life changes was "The ... Views: 906
"Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,
And sorry I could not travel both... "
One of my clients was writing a novel, and she was extremely frustrated. She had two different tracks she could follow, and she just couldn't decide which one to take. So she was stuck... and wasn't writing a ... Views: 460
If you're an entrepreneur or small business owner, you probably have a project.
Or two.
Or three.
Or fifty-eight.
I'm not talking about your daily to-do's or the actual work you do with clients and customers. I'm talking about the bigger projects that move you and your business ... Views: 621
A few years ago, I ran across a blog post where the author claimed that those who think that writing well is important sap the life out of creativity. She recounted how she was discouraged from sending a letter to Mad Magazine because her English teacher critiqued it too harshly.
I feel sorry ... Views: 458
Much of what I do for my clients is to create sacred space. When I'm leading a workshop, I'm creating sacred space for my clients and students to write and create. When I coach, the coaching session is a sacred space where my clients feel safe to share, to stretch, to take risks, and to uncover ... Views: 752
Well, it's only evil if you look at it a certain way. If the word "marketing" scares you off, it might help you to know that my definition of marketing is any kind of communication and connection you make with your people... anything.
See, it doesn't have to be evil. Or what some people call ... Views: 404
You've spent weeks, maybe even months, writing your new eBook or home study system. You brought on a graphics designer to make sure your product rocks the casbah. You're even ready with a fulfillment company to print the CDs, DVDs, and workbook.
You give a sigh of relief... you're ... Views: 375
There are many reasons we procrastinate or simply don't do something we say we want to do. Something that will forward our goals. Something that moves us toward our dreams. Something that is EXACTLY what we want to do.
But we don't do it.
Why?
It's being stuck, and it's not just a lack ... Views: 695
A few weeks ago, when I was feeling quite overwhelmed, I took a break and sat in my living room and looked out the big picture window with its view of the valleys and mountains. I had been DOing so much that I felt I was losing a bit of the soul and the why of that doing.
So I sat in my ... Views: 663
A common marketing statistic bandied about is that it takes 7-10 touches to get people's attention. Hence, why on radio stations, you'll hear the same commercials over and over - because advertisers know they can't just play the commercial once and expect people to buy their widget.
I've also ... Views: 363
As a writer, I see metaphors everywhere, and one of the lenses through which I view the world is that of writing and words. So, it's not a surprise that when I'm cooking a meal, my mind goes inevitably to writing... and tries to make connections.
(One definition of writing could be "finding ... Views: 525
Writing looks like many different things (outlining, taking notes, recording our thoughts, stream of consciousness, to name a few), and we writers are all different, too.
The biggest problem I see would-be writers and even those who make the leap and proclaim themselves writers to the world ... Views: 551