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- Cheating Man - Why Did My Husband Cheat on Me and How Do I Prevent It Next Time? - by Submitted on Feb 08, 2011 from Lisa Penn-JamesFor those discovering suddenly that they have a cheating man at home, obsessive thoughts are what you have to deal with after the initial shock and devastation. One of the haunting questions is: Why did he cheat on me? Why do cheaters cheat? Is she better than me? Will he cheat again? How do I ...
Views: 2518(2 votes) - Cheating Spouse Signs - Keeping it Quiet - by Submitted on Feb 15, 2010 from Daryl CampbellIt was roughly three years ago when a former Senator announced that he would make another run for the Presidency of the United States. It was also around that time that he made a confession to his wife that turned her world upside down. The former Senator admitted to having an affair but ...
Views: 956(2 votes) - Cheating Spouse Signs - Losing Interest - by Submitted on Feb 03, 2010 from Daryl CampbellThere's a song from back in the day that says, "When you are trying to love two. It sure ain't easy to do." That maybe true but it does not stop countless cheating spouses from giving it the old college try. In the beginning they may be quite successful at it. They tell themselves that it is ...
Views: 1504(1 vote) - Cheating Spouse Signs - Show You the Money - by Submitted on Feb 15, 2010 from Daryl CampbellWe seem to be reaching a point in our society where people are more open about their personal business. You may have experienced this yourself on occasion. Someone is in public talking on their cell phone in a voice for all to hear about the intimate details of their life. It is kind of ...
Views: 800(2 votes) - Cheating Spouse Signs - The Night Out - by Submitted on Feb 01, 2010 from Daryl CampbellBoys night out or girls night out is one of the rituals of married life. It's billed as a necessity to give yourself and your spouse breathing room. And if done right in all honesty it can be a great benefit. Being married does not mean you should give up your social circle to always be in your ...
Views: 1026(1 vote) - Cheating Spouse Signs - Way Too Nice - by Submitted on Feb 03, 2010 from Daryl CampbellHave you ever met a couple that was just so nice and kind to each other that it made you physically ill. You swore to yourself and anyone who would listen that it was nothing more than an act. That behind closed doors they probably couldn't stand the thought of each other and argued like Al and ...
Views: 1678(2 votes) - Cheating Spouses - They Don't Care - by Submitted on Feb 25, 2010 from Daryl CampbellWith more than a few cheating spouses the reason given for their philandering is that the marriage had stopped working or the two them had fallen out of love. Others believe monogamy is unrealistic and society should not be allowed to dictate our actions. Then there is one that in many ways ...
Views: 1247(2 votes) - CHEATING: How to Deal With Infidelity? - by Submitted on Jan 10, 2015 from LaToya CampbellAre you married or in a relationship and suspect your mate of infidelity? Are your suspicions and accusatory behavior tearing your relationship apart? First, let us identify 20 signs of a cheating mate: 1. Your mate no longer wants sex or makes excuses to not have sex with you. 2. You ...
Views: 2327(2 votes) - Coping with Infidelity in Opposition to Monogamy in a New Age Movement - by Submitted on Aug 20, 2009 from Sean KellyIn coping with infidelity in a new age movement, there are many who will claim that mankind was never designed to be monogamous. However, the combination of social and religious pressures throughout our history has welded us into a society of pregnant fidelity and barren monogamy. Being ...
Views: 1623(2 votes) - Dear Dr. Romance: He says he can't give me what I want - by Submitted on Feb 16, 2016 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I hope that you will be able to help me with a problem that i find i now have. I meet a man on line and he and i are great together everything was going great then a ex girlfriend had him put in jail saying that he was stalking her when he was really just going to his brothers ...
Views: 3550(2 votes) - Dear Dr. Romance: I want to find myself - by Submitted on May 23, 2014 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I was married at the age of 21, was married for 7 years, separated from my spouse a little over a year ago, and I'm in the process of divorce. I dated various people shortly after separation, but I was lost, broke some hearts, and simply didn't know ...
Views: 1687(2 votes) - Dear Married Men: Keep Your Balls To Yourself - by Submitted on Mar 26, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraExtramarital affairs, it seems as if everybody’s doing it- Presidents, Senators, Governors, golfers, bosses, friends, cousins, family members… you thought, why not try the fun and excitement yourself. If they can do it, why can’t you, right? Well, if those people can give you a piece of advice, ...
Views: 927(1 vote) - DETACHING FROM THE PAST - by Submitted on Dec 11, 2011 from Jennifer Elizabeth MastersOur physical bodies are made up of energy. The earth is also comprised of energy. Thoughts are also comprised of energy. So much of what is around us from our thoughts and past relationships is energetic garbage that just needs to be removed from our energy field. In a 30 minute session the ties ...
Views: 1862(1 vote) - Discover the True Reason Why He Cheated (Probably Not What He Told You) - by Submitted on Mar 30, 2011 from Andrew HunterIf your husband cheated on you, I’m sorry. I know only too well how painful it can be to be cheated on. In an instant your whole life is turned inside out and you feel so disoriented. Nothing quite seems “real” anymore. But day by day, you keep having to deal with it and sooner or later you ...
Views: 983(1 vote) - Do Not Let An Unfaithful Lover Throw You Off The Track - by Submitted on Mar 01, 2011 from Daryl CampbellFinding and catching any unfaithful wife or husband is not simple. The truth is unless they want to get caught, just do not care or maybe are so inept in their extramarital routines a philandering marriage partner is going to steer you on a happy chase. During various points they are able to ...
Views: 801(1 vote) - Doable Ways To Affair Proof Your Relationship - by Submitted on Mar 26, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraAccording to studies, sixty percent of men and forty percent of women will have an affair at some point in their relationship. This statistic shows that people who stay loyal and faithful to their partner is a part of a growing minority. Before I met my wonderful partner, Andy, I had my fair ...
Views: 983(1 vote) - Does It Make You Weak if You Stay with Your Husband After He Cheated? - by Submitted on Mar 31, 2011 from Andrew HunterIf you’re reading this, then there’s a good chance that your husband cheated on you in your marriage. If that’s the case, I’m truly sorry. I know only too well how painful the betrayal of adultery can be. Maybe women often assume that this means that the marriage is a failure and that it’s ...
Views: 4238(2 votes) - Emotional Affairs, What’s All the Fuss About? - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2011 from Tammy DavidsonThere are two quite different beliefs as to what is an emotional affair; the one believes it to be a workplace friendship, the other believes it to be the single most dangerous threat to a marriage possible. These two viewpoints do not fall neatly into gender camps, but there is a commonality ...
Views: 3278(1 vote) - Emotional vs. Sexual Cheating -- Which is More Devastating? - by Submitted on May 10, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraCheating is a sure-fire way of ruining a relationship whichever way you look at it. Of course it’s no longer news that when someone cheats on a partner, trust is lost and there is always little chance of getting it back. While this may be an all-too familiar concept for most people, the only ...
Views: 2738(2 votes) - Envy, Jealousy, and Shame - by Submitted on Sep 24, 2015 from Darlene LancerEnvy, jealousy, and shame are inextricably intertwined. Envy and jealousy are primal emotions that frequently overlap. They’re commonly first felt in the form of sibling rivalry and oedipal longings. A child innately wants mommy and daddy all to him or herself and feels “excluded” from the ...
Views: 1824(2 votes) - For The Love Of Money: The Truth About Financial Infidelity - by Submitted on Mar 25, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraFinancial infidelity, you may not know about it, but you may guilty of it. Financial infidelity is every bit as damaging to the relationship as the physical one. As one husband says, “It’s one thing to fool around. It’s another thing to fool around with my hard-earned cash.” When money ...
Views: 943(2 votes) - Getting Over Infidelity in Marriages: Why Having an Affair Is Not the End - by Submitted on Apr 19, 2011 from Nea Joy JusticeInfidelity in marriages is one of the worst forms of betrayal. Sadly, couples often can’t figure out the difficult task of getting over infidelity, thus it is one of the leading reasons for divorce all over the world. Let’s take a look at why infidelity surviving seems so impossible. ...
Views: 2397(1 vote) - Has your honey got the eye? - by Submitted on Apr 07, 2011 from Gina HardyI love the feeling of writing this because I know I have been a keen watcher of people who have “the eye” over the years. I was indeed many a time on the receiving end of boyfriends past, who had the eye. I have heard a gazillion times “oh he /she definitely has the eye.” It seemed a common ...
Views: 1203(1 vote) - How to Affair-Proof Your Marriage - by Submitted on Jun 01, 2012 from Sharon RivkinAccording to statistics, 45 or 55 percent of married women and 50 to 60 percent of married men engage in extramarital sex at some time or another during their relationship. An affair is one of the most difficult challenges a couple can face, and nothing destroys a marriage faster than marital ...
Views: 2252(3 votes) - How to Cope with Life After Infidelity in Your Marriage - by Submitted on Apr 04, 2011 from Andrew HunterIt can be difficult to deal with things after you discover your husband had an affair. Your life gets thrown through upside-down and it seems like there’s nothing “solid” you can hold on to, if you know what I mean. Here, I’m going to help share with you a few tips on how to adapt to life ...
Views: 1287(1 vote) - How To Get Him Back Even If He’s Involved With Someone Else - by Submitted on Mar 25, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraYour greatest fear now realized- you can feel your airways tightening, your stomach aching and your head spinning. The love of your life, the only man that you can only see yourself with, has a new girlfriend. All hopes of happy ending now flushed down the drain. And when things seemed down ...
Views: 15583(2 votes) - How to Read Emotional Affair Signs? - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2011 from Tammy DavidsonIf you know that emotional affairs at work are common and that your husband or wife seems distant lately, your imagination may be in overdrive, suspecting them of infidelity. Whether they are cheating physically or emotionally, the emotional affair signs are very similar to those of a spouse ...
Views: 4594(1 vote) - Husband Cheated? Here’s What to Do Next - by Submitted on Jan 20, 2011 from Lisa Penn-JamesWhen you learn that the husband cheated, the partner you built your life around was unfaithful to you, the sense of betrayal can be almost unbearable. In a single moment, you are ripped from the life that you knew and have felt safe in. Your relationship and marriage was an important foundation ...
Views: 1592(2 votes) - If You Want to Catch Your Spouse Cheating Don't Do This - by Submitted on Dec 02, 2009 from Daryl CampbellThere are enough loose threads and half baked explanations just hanging out there which would make anyone suspicious. It's gone on long enough so now it is time to clear the air. But when you do confront your spouse on whether they are having an extramarital affair, they give you the whole ...
Views: 892(2 votes) - Is It Good To Date A Married Man Who Is Not Happy In His Marriage? - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2011 from Francis NmeribeOut there, there might not be any issues with the question of whether it is good to date a married man who is not happy in his marriage. However, in some religious orders, this is completely unacceptable. Dismissing with a wave of the hand any questions asked by young single adults, no matter ...
Views: 5297(2 votes) - Is Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Worth It? - by Submitted on Dec 08, 2009 from Shane BoydIf you’ve been cheated on then you know the feeling that fills your stomach after you found out about the affair. You also know all too well the anger and emotional discord this selfish act has caused you and the sleepless nights it has left behind. After the initial anger and heartbreak pass ...
Views: 1955(3 votes) - Is Your Husband Cheating on You? The Truth May Shock You - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2011 from Andrew HunterIt can be tough to question whether or not your husband is cheating on you. Your mind is racing, looking over his behaviors and actions trying to evaluate if it all adds up or if there is anything that seems out of place. Sometimes it can feel like putting a jigsaw puzzle together in the ...
Views: 1079(1 vote) - Is Your Spouse Cheating? Here Are 3 Signs to Help You Find Out - by Submitted on Nov 21, 2009 from Daryl CampbellLife's short so have an affair. That's the tagline of a certain website that specializes in helping married people go the extra mile and have an extramarital affair. By all accounts business is very good for this company. You do not know if your spouse has decide to go that far and contact ...
Views: 991(1 vote) - Life For Rent: Confessions Of A Mistress - by Submitted on Mar 25, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraThe mistress, you can’t hate her enough. If you can skin and burn her alive, you know you would. You can’t help but be overwhelmed with anger. But stop, pause and ask yourself- is all that hatred and anger worth it? “When a wife gets into all kinds of trouble to get even, she is only ...
Views: 1130(1 vote) - Loyalty and Infidelity - by Submitted on Dec 07, 2009 from Gregory MorganNothing strikes fear in the heart more than the thought that your mate is cheating on you with someone else. Yet every year more and more marriages and engagements are destroyed by infidelity. What leads normally rational people to commit the one irreversible act that is sure to kill off the ...
Views: 3014(1 vote) - Marriage After An Affair When He Cheats (For Women, Why Men Cheat) - by Submitted on Dec 07, 2009 from Shane BoydMarriage after an affair is not impossible, but it can feel like it at times. What do you do if your husband cheats on you? Should you divorce him or try to work it out? That answer to that really relies on you and how deep your love for him is. But to digress a minute, if you’re going to ...
Views: 3049(3 votes) - Marriage, Monogamy, and Infidelity: 7 Varieties of Secretly Non-monogamous Marriage Partners - by Submitted on Jan 12, 2010 from Scott & Stephen PetulloA happy, monogamous, life-long, traditional marriage is almost universally desired, yet has been proven time and time again through high divorce and infidelity rates and legions of unhappy couples to be, in most cases, an idealistic, unrealistic notion trumped by the reality of human ...
Views: 3592(6 votes) - Married and Cheating - How to Get Revenge and Blow Up Your Marriage - by Submitted on Nov 24, 2009 from Daryl CampbellNobody had to tell you. Your intuition has never let you down although in this instance you wish it had. There were just too many things that didn't add up. Your spouse started taking better care of themselves. That is something that you had been urging them to do for years. So why now? Then ...
Views: 1819(1 vote) - Married and Cheating - When One Wrong Beats Another - by Submitted on Nov 19, 2009 from Daryl CampbellThe statistics on married and cheating spell it out pretty clearly. Forty one percent of people admit to having an extramarital affair. And nothing reinforces those numbers like the recent trends of certain websites whose sole purpose is to encourage people to cheat on their significant ...
Views: 861(1 vote) - Married But In Love With Someone Else - by Submitted on Sep 20, 2011 from Joe BeamYou probably never meant for it to happen. It’s not as if you went looking for a lover. However, once you fell in love with another person than your spouse, things got rather intense. You’re already in what some refer to as an emotional affair. Perhaps you’ve gone further and the relationship ...
Views: 16919(2 votes) - My Spouse Had an Affair - Where Do We Go From Here? - by Submitted on Nov 15, 2009 from Martez LaytonMaking the right decision at this emotional crossroad will affect you, your spouse and your children. Due to the nature and the pain of dealing with an affair, it is very important not to make decisions from the emotions of anger or bitterness. This is the time in your life where deeply rooted ...
Views: 2396(1 vote) - Professional dating agencies can help you meet your perfect match - by Submitted on Dec 29, 2012 from Zurek leInternet dating is considered as a globally accepted platform for meeting your partner. The schedules are so busy that you may not have much time for yourself and so this is very hard for you to lure some time out of that daily routine and find your soul mate. So professional dating agencies in ...
Views: 1439(2 votes) - Saving a Marriage After an Affair - How Do I Deal With The Obsessive Images in My Mind? - by Submitted on Feb 13, 2011 from Lisa Penn-JamesGetting over obsessive and haunting images of your husband cheating - Is a big part of saving a marriage after infidelity. These images keep coming back like a horror movie in your head, causing loss of sleep, decreased appetite and even difficulty to focus and perform simple daily tasks. If ...
Views: 1202(2 votes) - Signs He Is Cheating - by Submitted on Feb 11, 2010 from Andrew HunterNobody would like to be cheated on. It is always an exceptionally crippling and embarrassing thing to endure. Sadly, there are certain individuals these days that will cheat on you. Listed below are a number of distinctive clues your man is cheating on you and what you might do to fix your ...
Views: 1585(1 vote) - Signs Of A Cheating Spouse - Be Alert! Learn Now For The 7 Signs Of A Cheating Spouse - by Submitted on Jan 17, 2011 from Johnny WayneMost often, signs of a cheating spouse are not easy to see and recognize.It can become 50-50 because spouse is good when hiding extra marital activities.When you observe one sign of a cheating spouse, it is not enough to confront immediately your spouse and ask him/her about cheating.The truth ...
Views: 1842(2 votes) - Signs Your Ex Wants You back - How To Read The Signs - by Submitted on Aug 31, 2009 from Catherine KOZARHere are some of the major signs your ex wants you back. They try to reach you with no particular reason. They are always in places where you seem to be. You have heard on the grapevine that they have no interest in new relationships. Their appearance seems to have improved. They seem to ...
Views: 1871(2 votes) - Surviving An Affair Through Communication - by Submitted on Feb 08, 2011 from Brenda StewartYou and your spouse are willing to save your marriage and try surviving an affair but your communication skills are not very good. Here are 4 ways for you to apply to both nonverbal and verbal communication. Guidelines to communication for surviving an affair 1. Be open in your ...
Views: 965(2 votes) - Surviving Infidelity: It Doesn't Have to Mean The End for You - by Submitted on Oct 10, 2011 from Joe JamesSurviving Infidelity in any relationship can be difficult, but it is possible. There are many things that one should consider when they are walking down this road. First, ask yourself if your relationship is worth saving once all trust has been broken. There are many different issues to take ...
Views: 910(1 vote) - The 2 Shocking Ways That Most Affairs Are Discovered - by Submitted on Mar 25, 2011 from Andrew HunterIf your husband is cheating on you, then he is probably taking preemptive actions to cover his tracks. He is making excuses for being out of the house, deleting internet history, or has some code name for his mistress on his cell phone. But despite all of these precautions, most affairs will ...
Views: 7024(1 vote) - The 3 Telltale Habits of a Cheating Husband - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2011 from Andrew HunterIf you’ve been wracking your brain wondering if your husband is cheating, let me take you into the mind of a cheater. Here I’ll be sharing with you the 3 habits of a cheating husband. First of all, a cheating husband lives in a constant state of anxiety that he will be discovered. This may ...
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