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Group therapy is a highly effective treatment modality for sex addicts. It reduces shame and denial, limits isolation, increases socialization skills and the development of empathy. The process fosters the development of intimacy and helps sex addicts develop the coping skills they need to meet ... Views: 1395
You ARE Love
By Jan Denise
From the time we learn the word “no,” we begin to get the message that what we would do naturally is “bad.”
As young children, we can’t make a distinction between our behavior and ourselves, so we buy into a lie—the lie that in order to be good enough we have to ... Views: 1395
Unfortunately, alcohol and drug abuse does not discriminate. Whether you are lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, heterosexual, a religious individual or otherwise, substance abuse and addiction affects everyone.
Drug and Alcohol Abuse in the LGBT Community
The Substance Abuse and Mental ... Views: 1394
One out of six people struggle with addiction, and fortunately much has changed in terms of how we go about approaching what was such a taboo subject for so long. One of the ways we see this dramatic shift is through the many young people who speak more openly with one another about their ... Views: 1393
For many, one of the most rewarding and fulfilling volunteer opportunities out there is cuddling babies in the neonatal intensive care unit. Parents of premature infants try their best to spend as much time as possible in the hospital with their newborn, but it is impossible to spend day and ... Views: 1393
This book review is part of a series that covers the topic of Addiction and Recovery. Addiction is a condition of being habitually or compulsively occupied with or involved in something. Recovery helps you restore yourself to a better state or condition. John McMahon is the Official Guide to ... Views: 1391
Do you have an addiction problem?
You’re reading this because you are looking for information about “addictions”. I address this to two groups of people in particular.
* The person who thinks s/he has a problem.
* The person trying to drink/drug/behave in moderation.
Many are here because ... Views: 1391
Oregon's present state of health has been checked as poor in recent days. The Oregon Health Authority: Addictions and Mental Health Division has come under fire. It was concluded that Oregon has an abysmal track record for people completing their addiction treatment programs, and was only ... Views: 1390
We start with the mistakes that should be avoided at any cost in case you do not wish to lose the opportunity of being interviewed.
13 –Unprofessional e-mail id: cutie_catherine@coolid.com, pingme_peter@dumbmail.com, chocolicious_cake_jennifer@stupendousmail.com, etc. are not allowed at any ... Views: 1386
Recovery is a term used in reference to illness and injury. In like manner, recovery can refer to a process of returning to health from a mental disorder or substance dependence. A recovery model is often used for addiction recovery, and stresses principles of hope, supportive relationships, ... Views: 1386
I am reminded by fellow coach Phil Evans of the following truth. The most common 'theme' that I introduce to new clients when working in the Life Coaching realm, is the critical importance of being true to oneself! It's just so darned easy to get into doing everything for everybody else, but ... Views: 1386
Stop and think about your life to this point; are you happy with the direction your life has taken? Have recent major changes in your life thrown you off? Many people dislike change, but change is essential to everyone's life and is the only constant. Yes, even if you don't like it, change is ... Views: 1382
-we all need it
So far, it’s been a really interesting day. Things are now quiet, and I am reflecting on a few things that have happened lately.
In response to one of my journals, I got some very constructive feed back on content and approach, and some constructive feedback on my web site ... Views: 1382
"We are our own dragons as well as our own heroes, and we have to rescue ourselves from ourselves.” – Tom Robbins, Still Life with Woodpecker
I’ve walked away from many relationships, both platonic and romantic, over the past two years. Those people may never understand my decisions, but I ... Views: 1379
THE FACE in the MIRROR
On of the greatest compliments I have ever had from a client is that in our relationship, I was a great mirror for him.
The mirror is an inexpensive tool all those seeking improved self esteem have at their disposal. It is a tool I often make a primary one in working ... Views: 1379
For a number of years, I have been told resentments will tear me apart if I don’t deal with them. I was told, and it remains true today, that resentments are like a tenant in an apartment building who occupy space but pay no rent. The space in my head is at a premium, and I need it to be ... Views: 1377
I was going through my roommate’s socks in the dark looking for his stash when the lights came on. He grabbed my arm, and spun me around shouting, “What the hell are you doing?” He didn’t tell anyone else, but when he calmed down he made me promise I would get myself straightened out. I promised ... Views: 1377
As substance abuse professionals, social workers, 12-step sponsors, or just concerned friends and family we often find ourselves at odds with one another. Wanting what is best for each situation, utilizing every concept and theory forged from our experiences. Experience, education, and ideals ... Views: 1377
Healing Your Hungry Heart: recovering from your eating disorder, By Joanna Poppink
Chapter 1 Unreal to Real: Snapshots of My Story
"Self-observation is an instrument of self-change, a means of awakening."
-- George Gurdjieff
I started making myself throw up when I was thirteen ... Views: 1376
Lot of people support porn, they know from inside that porn does harm in their lives, but they don’t oppose porn and they don’t like the people who oppose porn. Why?
Why they support porn?
Because porn gives something to them. Porn satisfies them, Porn relieves them, Porn gives happiness to ... Views: 1376
Drug addiction is a serious problem in our society, and the most troublesome part is teenage drug addiction. Our children are being exposed to dangerous drugs at early ages, and often times they are exposed through their family members as. With drugs available in many places, it's hard to ... Views: 1374
It is important for children to be educated about alcohol abuse as well as other controlled substances so that they may be in a position to make the right and safe decisions in life. Communication and open discussion is key to preventing teens from going down an alcohol or drug using path. When ... Views: 1374
Yeah, when he hits bottom he'll be ready. A user has to hit bottom before he will change. Sooner or later she will hit bottom. Then she'll be ready to get some help.
Raise the Bottom.
This whole idea of "hitting bottom" is out of date. Some people will wait years-even decades-for their ... Views: 1374
In the U.S. more than 4 million people struggle with crystal meth abuse or addiction and as many as 12 million reports to have tried it at least once. With nearly 500 tons of the drug produced each year, the drug is readily available, but at what cost?
Although there had been a short decline ... Views: 1373
Do you own your life?
"The meaning of life is to give life meaning." -- Ken Hudgins
When we own our lives, we accept what we've inherited and the experiences we hold in our memories. We also claim our right to create new conditions if we're not happy with what's come before. We assume ... Views: 1373
Implied Consent Law
Each person who drives in the state of Pennsylvania is deemed to have given his/her consent to one or more chemical tests of their breath, blood, or urine upon a lawful request. A request is considered lawful where the police have reasonable grounds to believe the person ... Views: 1371
What Is Our Real Purpose?
Is A.A. a religion? Is it a medical treatment program? Bill Wilson cautioned AAs to remember that clergymen and physicians were the “experts”; and then cautioned that AAs were merely their assistants. Is A.A. today, then, still a Twelve-Step program where ... Views: 1368
Dual diagnosis treatment is designed for the people who are suffering from addiction of drug and alcohol and at the same time face many mental disorders. Such people with dual addiction and mental disorder are in urgent need of treatment in order to come over with their physical and mental ... Views: 1367
When a loved one is struggling with substance abuse, it is important to know that there are significant gender differences in drug and alcohol recovery.
Women and men develop dependency to alcohol and different types of drugs for different reasons. These gender differences are pertinent to ... Views: 1366
At the risk of offending my reading audience the title of this article drips with sarcasm to
drive home a point. It’s probably no surprise to any of you men that as a group we have
been reluctantly dragged by the tide of reformist movements that have revamped gender
roles. ... Views: 1365
Change Your Thinking!
When You Change Your Thinking...
You Change Your Beliefs.
When You Change Your Beliefs...
You Change Your Expectations.
When You Change Your Expectations...
You Change Your ... Views: 1364
Finding an addiction interventionist for your loved one is a positive step in the right direction. While an intervention is not always successful, if you truly care about your addicted family member, you need to try it. We're here to help you in the search for an addiction ... Views: 1364
For many people in South Africa, the summer season (from October to March) is known as the silly season – a time when partying, over indulgence, relaxation and fun are normal occurrences. For recovering addicts and alcoholics in a Twelve Step help group however, this time of year can ... Views: 1362
Many people don't know drugs by that name, they know it by the name tragedy. Because that's what it brings in the vast majority of its users, total tragedy. It's been proven that drug education classes prevent tragedies, by enrolling yourself, your child, or your own family you'll learn the ... Views: 1362
In energy healing terms, an addictive substance or behaviour is something that one partakes in to alleviate anxiety. And to most people, that seems totally against everything they believe in. Surely addictions and habits are just because of weak will-power? Surely the person they know and love ... Views: 1361
Many people do not understand why or how other people become addicted to drugs. They may erroneously imagine that the individuals who utilize drugs and alcohal need moral standards or self control and that they could stop their medication utilize just by deciding to. As a general rule, ... Views: 1359
Life Out of Whack? H.A.L.T.
Today is February 9, 2011 and it is mental health awareness day in Canada. A reminder to all, 20% of the total population suffers from a “mental health” issue in their life. Be aware of it, and if you are in that 20%, have the courage to seek help. There are no ... Views: 1355
"Gina" (not her real name) came to see me today, and we did EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques) for when she was separated from her son. And what came up in the session was a reason why she became addicted to cocaine, thereby losing her son.
Gina has been clean since going to rehab nearly ... Views: 1354
Los Angeles and Hollywood is known for its fast pace of life making California one of the highest states suffering from drug and alcohol addiction. The positive thing is that they also have more drug rehabs than any other state. Actually many addicted individuals travel from all over the country ... Views: 1354
MORE-THAT FIRST STEP (forgiveness)
As usual, my coaching mentor, Dr. Randin Brons has hit a very good topic with this week's Idea Engineer.
Recently I did a blog on that first step that sparked very good response. Response indicates that it caused some thought, and I love to do that internally ... Views: 1352
People who become victims of heroin addictions are increasing on a daily basis. In order to comprehend the power associated with heroin addiction, it is important for the people to have a clear understanding about the intensity of withdrawals. When you addicted to heroin, a series of changes ... Views: 1350
SPIRITUALITY-SOME THOUGHTS
I work with people who simply put, want to make major change in their life.
The reasons vary and may include addiction, abuse, stress, and depression. The common denominator is that the zest for life is not what they want and personal relationships are stressed or ... Views: 1350
Within 24 hours of your last cigarette your chances of a heart attack decreases. Within 72 hours your bronchial tubes relax, making breathing easier and your lung capacity increases. Soon after, in the next two weeks to two months your circulation improves so that walking and exercising becomes ... Views: 1349
What do we truly refer to when we speak of addictions? What do I mean when I say that I´m addicted to something, be it a substance such as nicotine, alcohol or heroine, or be it an activity, such as sex, gambling or work? What is the major driving force pushing me to addictive behavior? In my ... Views: 1347
The best time to introduce strategies for drug and alcohol prevention is during the teenage and high school years. During adolescence, most teens begin to look for acceptance and peer pressure plays an important role in their life as they explore ways for validation and to help them through the ... Views: 1347
We are all addicted to some form of chemical released in our bodies. In may be a socially accepted addiction such as requiring praise in your life, approval from others or being part of a team. Some addictions would be labeled positive and some negative, but they are all addictions never the ... Views: 1346
Once I was attempting to relate to a young man who was a die-hard cocaine addict. He snorted eight balls almost daily (or so he confessed). I do not challenge my clients as the important information is not in how much or how often they use but why they use. He challenged my level of ... Views: 1346
KNOW YOUR DREAM
You've got to create a dream. You've got to uphold the dream.
If you can't, go back to the factory or go back to the desk.
--Eric Burdon
Way back when, back when I made a decision to go into the “people helping” business as a profession, I had a dream. I formulated the dream ... Views: 1346