Victor Gold B.S. M.S., is a holistic health educator specializing in erotic spirituality. He shares a private practice with his tantric partner, Aimee Lyndon-Adams in San Rafael, California. Victor's recently published book, "The Potency Principles: Transforming Sexual Energy into Spiritual Power," demystifies tantric sex with such amazing clarity that many readers will be inspired to reinterpret their own sexual behavior.
Men, in particular, have been burdened with several erroneous assumptions regarding sexuality that has hindered their spiritual progress. Perhaps the most destructive myth is that ejaculation is the highest expression of male sexual power and virility. Nothing could be further from the truth. Unlike women, when men ejaculate they lose vital energy. Sexual energy is vital for spiritual growth. Rather than depleting ourselves of vital energy, as men, we need to learn how to cultivate and transform sexual energy. Seminal retention techniques were developed to promote male well being and to provide complete female sexual satisfaction. Accomplished male lovers have learned to substitute orgasm(s) for ejaculation. Yes, they are two distinct physical processes that can be separated out from each other. This is the basic fundamental skill for accomplished male lovers in the "new" sexual paradigm. Once this skill is mastered, the habitual male sexual routine of ejaculating with every orgasm will be seen for what it is --- sheer lunacy. In other words, withholding genital release, especially when in a high state of sexual arousal, is a major vehicle for accelerated spiritual growth.
Victor has been featured in several instructional videos including Deborah Sundhal's, "Tantric Journey into Female Orgasm" and Joseph Kramer's, "The Best of Vulva Massage." Victor Gold's website address is www.sexualhealingnow.com
The sexual urge has been grossly misunderstood and slandered by both the uninformed and the evil minded. The line that divides sex and spirit is extremely thin, if it exists at all. The failure to acknowledge both the inherent unity of sex and spirit, and the importance of cultivating sexual energy are two of the foremost limiting factors in modern sexology.