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- "Meet Your Man 2013 Challenge" Day #1 - Get Some Serious Mojo Going in the Self-Love Department! - by Submitted on Jan 04, 2013 from Marni BattistaAloha Dignity Daters, and welcome to the “Meet Your Man 2013 Challenge – 3 Steps to Tell the Difference Between a Player and the Guy Who Is Looking For Love!” Woot to the Woot Woot! Here’s the deal: 2013 is the year of a new you. If you’re over falling for the same types of men and feel like ...
Views: 1167 - "Unveiling the Rich Tapestry: Exploring Diverse Muslim Wedding Traditions Across the Globe" - by Submitted on Jan 11, 2024 from Pokuri Akashhttps://www.matchfinder.in/muslim-matrimony https://www.matchfinder.in In the tapestry of global matrimonial customs, Muslim weddings stand as vibrant threads intricately woven into diverse cultural landscapes. While the essence of Islamic traditions unites these celebrations, the ...
Views: 501 - "What Was Cute In Romance May Become Acute In Conflict” - by Submitted on Sep 12, 2018 from Oliver JR CooperA number of years ago I read a few books by David Richo, and this is someone who really knows what he is talking about. Whether it is relationships or self-development in general, his books are packed full of insights. When I read two of his books towards the end of 2013, I had recently gone ...
Views: 1109 - "Woman at the Well" Series - by Submitted on May 12, 2012 from Cameron A Bailey SrHello. Everything, our very being, consists of a myriad of interdependent relationships. From the relationship we have through this post, to the relationship between the molecules that forms the atoms of the objects of life. We have the physicist, chemist, gynecologist, urologist, welder, ...
Views: 1766 - 'Much better than sex': Facebook, AOL & the Platform Play - by Submitted on Feb 11, 2011 from Janelle ListonFacebook’s peak as a platform continues to have important parallels with America On Line’s rise and fade inside final dot com bubble era. As I wrote spine in November 2009 In 1994 America On-Line trailed Compuserve and Prodigy, a 3rd subscription alternative in the way you hooked your ...
Views: 1113 - 'Safe' Strategy Is Your Downfall - by Submitted on Sep 10, 2009 from Jan DeniseINSIDE RELATIONSHIPS BY JAN DENISE RELEASE: FRIDAY, SEPTEMBER 11, 2009 'Safe' Strategy Is Your Downfall We've all tried to put what we hoped a hot prospect would see as our "best foot" forward, while trying to hide our "worst foot." Predictably, we fall on our face. If we want an ...
Views: 1360 - (8 WAYS)HOW TO ADD EXCITEMENT IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP. - by Submitted on Dec 27, 2020 from Abduljabbar Ramadhan AliIf you have been looking for ways on how you can add excitement to your relationship, this is definitely the right spot for you. We all want excitement in our relationship and that is what everyone is seeking in a relationship. All relationships must go through several stages. In ...
Views: 744 - *** Dating Anxiety? Four Steps to Getting Off the Couch - by Submitted on Feb 06, 2010 from Dr. Diana KirschnerYou'll do anything other than looking for a partner online -- watch TV reruns, clean the bathroom, complain about your dating troubles, or even call your mother. You freeze up and question yourself repeatedly when it's time to meet someone for coffee, make the next call, date, or move on to the ...
Views: 7332 - *** Eight Steps to Finding Love in 2010 - by Submitted on Feb 06, 2010 from Dr. Diana KirschnerNew Year's Eve has come and gone and with it another Party with no one you really wanted to kiss at midnight. No love to share it all with. Looking forward to that again? Well, you can change your love life by following a whole new dating plan for this coming year. You can make a ...
Views: 2074 - *** Fall Back to Love: The Autumn Dating Advantage - by Submitted on Sep 13, 2008 from Dr. Diana KirschnerIt’s easier to fall in love in the fall! Singles roll up their sleeves and work more proactively on their dating, so there’s more love to go around. There are three reasons for this. First, singles, like all of us, raised in the rhythm of a school calendar, are conditioned to buy ...
Views: 1365 - *** Letting Go and Feeling Good - by Submitted on Sep 02, 2007 from Debi BerndtWhether you are searching for the love of your life, on a mission to lose weight, or just trying to get your business off the ground, there may be a time when things are not moving forward. When feeling stuck, you may start to give attention to what is not happening and what is wrong. Focusing ...
Views: 1096 - *** The Five Secrets of Getting Lucky In Dating and Love - by Submitted on Sep 12, 2008 from Dr. Diana KirschnerSome people seem to have all the luck, especially when it comes to dating and love relationships. Meanwhile many of you have had your hearts broken over and over and over again. You wonder, what are the secrets to having luck in love? Well, here they are! I’ve worked as a psychologist ...
Views: 1535 - ****Fear of Intimacy in Dating - by Submitted on Jul 19, 2007 from Debi BerndtMany singles think they want a relationship, but are really afraid of commitment and intimacy with someone that really cares for them. These hidden fears from past hurts and possible abuse have put an armor of protection around their heart. They reject available men who treat them nice, while ...
Views: 1609 - ***10 Things Women Should Do To Be Safe on First Dates - by Submitted on Mar 07, 2014 from Dr. LeslieBeth (LB) WishYes, it can happen to you—the date with the man you always wanted. But don’t let your enthusiasm compromise your safety. Get smart and take the following precautions ahead of time. How to Protect your Safety on Dates 1. Tell Friends and Family. Let your family, ...
Views: 2001 - ***3 Steps for Finding Your Deeper, Sexier Speaking Voice - by Submitted on May 12, 2014 from Nancy DanielsThere is no doubt about it. You have a deeper, sexier speaking voice. Even if your voice is nasally, there is a remedy. All it takes is the knowledge of how to discover your true voice and some practice in making it a habit. 1. Your first step is to learn to breathe with the support of ...
Views: 1922 - ***7 Ways that Dating for Marriage Differs from Just Regular Dating - by Submitted on Jun 04, 2014 from Amy SchoenOne of my clients, Mindy, has never been married and in her late 30‘s has been dating and been in several relationships off and on for most of her adult life. When she started coaching with me she was in relationship with a professional man in his early 40’s for about 2 years ...
Views: 2975 - ***7 Ways to Date Successfully as an Introvert - by Submitted on Jun 05, 2014 from Amy SchoenMy clients all have different personalities! Some clients have more outgoing, extroverted personalities where they do not have any problem meeting people and have more of a problem choosing a good partner for themselves. Then there are more introverted clients that I work with who are more ...
Views: 2751 - ***8 Ways to Prevent Turning to Mush around Single Men - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerI've heard the same thing from so many women this week that I had to ask you if this sounds familiar: "I'm generally a very friendly, confident gal...unless I'm in the company of a single man—especially one I'm attracted to. In that case I turn into mush." Why is it that when we meet or ...
Views: 2496 - ***A Dating Coach’s Reflections on 12 Years of her Marriage! - by Submitted on Jul 31, 2014 from Amy SchoenThis past weekend was my 12 year wedding anniversary with Alan. This is a major milestone for me. My first marriage ended abruptly in year eleven when I was 36. So I had a huge gremlin about whether I would make it past eleven years in this marriage this time around. We have had our ups ...
Views: 2619 - ***Almost Smart Cookie Tips: Falling for Falling in Love Traps - by Submitted on May 19, 2009 from LB WishMy research on strong women's relationship problems revealed that over 40% of women liked lots of excitement in their relationships. They were drawn to men who offered a high-energy life style. Typical dates included private jets to the latest event, hobnobbing with the rich and famous and ...
Views: 1253 - ***Animal Magnetism and the Male Speaking Voice - by Submitted on May 13, 2009 from Nancy DanielsConsider the following scenario: there are two men both equally attractive. One has a voice that is warm, rich and deep. The other man has a voice that is soft, high-pitched, wimpy. Which man do you think women will find more attractive? If you guessed the man with the dynamic voice then ...
Views: 4275 - ***Are Men With Deeper Voices More Attractive? - by Submitted on May 06, 2011 from Nancy DanielsThere is no doubt that women judge a man’s attractiveness by more than just his looks. Two qualities that the female sex takes note of are a man’s confidence and his voice. A deep, rich sound is definitely more alluring to her ears than a high-pitched, nasal whine or a weak and wimpy squawk. ...
Views: 6066 - ***Are You Dating Like a Politician? - by Submitted on Feb 03, 2008 from Debi BerndtAs I watched the debates over the last few weeks, I kept wondering, “Who is telling the truth?” Politicians create their persona and tout their opinions on issues based on what image is going to give them the most votes. The same with dating, most men and women go out on dates with ...
Views: 1241 - ***Are Your Working Against Yourself? - by Submitted on Apr 21, 2008 from Debi BerndtA frequent complaint I hear from my clients is that the things they have been focusing on have not manifested yet. They are doing all the “right” things, believing in themselves, changing their attitude and listening to their self-hypnosis. Even though their thought process has changed ...
Views: 1126 - ***Changing The Movie Of Your Love Life - by Submitted on Nov 23, 2007 from Debi BerndtHave you ever wondered why it is so easy for others to be in a relationship and you struggle so much in dating? Are you familiar with the feeling of being left out of your friends’ coupled dinners and feeling the ache of loneliness every Valentine’s Day wondering when it was going to be your ...
Views: 1210 - ***Creating Your Year - by Submitted on Dec 30, 2007 from Debi BerndtInstead of living another year on autopilot, what if your New Year’s Resolution was to consciously create each day as you go through the year? Unfortunately, we often fall into the same traps and habits no matter how much we vow to make changes in our life. The reason for our struggles is that ...
Views: 1036 - ***Dating & Life - Here Comes the Judge - by Submitted on Jul 19, 2007 from Debi BerndtThis is a story I’ve heard many times. It is a good reminder of how to be judge-free of life’s events. A young farmer and his wife gave birth to a son in a small village. The villagers around him proclaimed, “What good luck! You have a son to help you in the fields.” ...
Views: 1044 - ***Dating Over 40: Why He's Not Asking You Out (Part 2) - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerContinuing from yesterday, it's important to make yourself memorable when you are dating. There are tons of women out there; you want to be the one he wants to know. When you follow this advice and get your story out in the right way, the guys who are good matches will take notice. They are ...
Views: 2613 - ***Dating Over 40: Why He’s Not Asking You Out (Part 1) - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerI can answer this in three words: You’re not memorable. That’s it. Whether it’s the hot man you had a nice chat with at the local coffee shop or the guy you had a great first date with, getting him to ask you out can take some skill. Yep, I said skill. You’re not 18 anymore, and the ...
Views: 2456 - ***Dating Pitfalls: Twelve Types of Women to Avoid - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2009 from LB WishDating Pitfalls: Twelve Types of Women to Avoid Introduction Most of us want a happy and fulfilling romantic relationship. However, there are many people whose personalities and personal issues may give us more grief than joy. Below is a list of negative traits and personality issues that ...
Views: 2279 - ***Dating Rejects - Why Aren't You That Into Him? - by Submitted on Nov 07, 2007 from Debi BerndtWhy are women so attracted to the bad boys? You want love, you desire love but when a nice guy shows up in your life, you feel like running away. The man has an impressive resume, wants everything in life that you do, but you cannot seem to stop obsessing about the jerk who dumped you last ...
Views: 1080 - ***Dating? (Exactly) What to Say to Men in Difficult Situations - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerIn dating, good communication is the key to meeting and attracting men…especially the right men. It's also the key to developing and maintaining fulfilling relationships. One of the most important ways I support my coaching clients (www.datelikeagrownup.com/coaching) is by helping them ...
Views: 2349 - ***Dealing with Dating Disappointments - by Submitted on Aug 04, 2007 from Debi BerndtIf there is one thing for certain, disappointment is a part of dating. Most people are in denial of this realization. They believe that they are going to join an online dating service and magically "the right one" will show up immediately. Many have that expectation because of the stories heard ...
Views: 4973 - ***Do You Want a Deeper Voice, a Bigger Voice, or Both? - by Submitted on Feb 19, 2012 from Nancy DanielsThere is a commercial in which an announcer is looking for a speaker who has a big voice. What is unnerving about this commercial is that the terminology regarding the voice is wrong. As the commercial plays, you hear someone saying the lines in a progressively deeper voice. So what is the ...
Views: 7003 - ***Finding Peace In The Holiday Season - by Submitted on Oct 28, 2007 from Debi BerndtThe holidays often bring up a variety of emotions. The expectation that we should be feeling jolly and grateful throughout the season can create a tremendous amount of pressure. Uncomfortable emotions such as stress or loneliness can have us seeking external ways to “fix it.” We look for joy in ...
Views: 1004 - ***For Singles: 5 Key Relationship Questions for Creating Your New Year Attraction Plan for Dating - by Submitted on Dec 30, 2011 from Amy SchoenThe New Year is upon us. It's time for a new beginning, turning over a new leaf, and for renewing our hope of finding love this year. Now is the time to think about how you want the coming year to be for you. You get to create what is possible for you. Here are some relationship questions and ...
Views: 3577 - ***Four Keys to Creating a Great Love Relationship - by Submitted on Sep 26, 2008 from Dr. Diana Kirschner"All happy families resemble one another. Each unhappy family is unique in its grief.” ~Tolstoy, Anna Karenina Personal excellence in your love relationship is not achieved by reading couples love advice or self-help books or dumping the problem partner you're with and going on to ...
Views: 1500 - ***From Desperate Anger to Blooming Passion - by Submitted on May 02, 2014 from Emma ViglucciThe season of renewal is finally here and with it comes an invitation to awaken to life. Note the blue skies, the sun shining, birds chirping, flowers blooming. What an enchanting time to be alive. The possibilities are countless. As we are coming out of hibernation, it is time to look around ...
Views: 2135 - ***Getting Into The Zone On Your Date - by Submitted on Dec 26, 2007 from Debi BerndtWhen you think of getting in the “zone,” you might automatically think of an athlete. The zone is actually a state of mind that can be applied in any area of life. Whether you are going on a job interview, playing golf or having a first date, accessing the zone can help you be your best. ...
Views: 1236 - ***Getting Over Short-Term Relaltionship Break Ups - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2009 from LB WishTips for Getting Over Short-Term Relationship Break Ups Break up are always painful, but it’s not just the long-term relationships that cause such anguish. Short-term ones hurt in a different way. Their brief arc tends to be more intense and passionate. Think of a rollercoaster, filled ...
Views: 1006 - ***Has Your Dating or Love Life Tanked? - by Submitted on Sep 26, 2008 from Dr. Diana KirschnerI was on the Today show recently doing a segment about what to do when life doesn’t work out the way you want it to. The panel included terrific authors Rene Syler and Amy Cohen and the talented Debbie Nigro, a founder and Chief Executive Girlfriend of firstwivesworld.com. Here are the ...
Views: 1574 - ***Have an Amazing First Date: Success Tips and Strategies - by Submitted on Jun 02, 2016 from Valeria ChubaAre you currently dating, or about to start dating? Then you absolutely need to listen to this new episode of the Get Sex-Smart podcast. Dr. Valeria Chuba and sex coach Sarah Martin share expert tips and strategies on how to have a great first date. This includes: choosing the right location for ...
Views: 8687 - ***Healing Jealousy In Dating & Relationships - by Submitted on Jan 31, 2008 from Debi BerndtOne time or another, we all had an experience of jealousy in our romantic life. Whether we were cheated on, left for someone else or simply found ourselves competing with a girlfriend for the attention of single man, jealousy is an ugly feeling. The green monster makes us feel hopeless and ...
Views: 1368 - ***Hopelessly Single - by Submitted on Oct 15, 2007 from Debi BerndtMy coupled friends used to always give me reassurance that “my guy was on his way.” I tried to believe them but, after six years without a serious relationship, a strong sense of hopelessness was churning inside. For years I struggled with my perpetual aloneness and fought to keep my attitude ...
Views: 2947 - ***How to Move on After a Break up - by Submitted on May 02, 2014 from Dr. LeslieBeth (LB) WishPerhaps the end of your most recent relationship is a good thing regardless of who did the leaving. But now what’s the best next step for you? Every situation has different details, but here are the top things to consider that emerged from my research and work with thousands of ...
Views: 1828 - ***How To Recover From a Breakup - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2007 from Debi BerndtMost people that arrive at my office for relationship issues have recently gone through a painful breakup. They want to know how to cope with a breakup with their boyfriend, spouse or even just their latest fling. They experience bad breakup depression and wonder if there is a light at the end ...
Views: 1381 - ***How to Turn Fear of Dating into Fun Dates - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerWhen you think of dating – especially online dating – do you feel any fear? Do you get even a tiny twinge of terror? If your answer is "yes," you are not alone. In fact, I think you're among the majority. The women I'm coaching often tell me about situations they describe as "scary." Here ...
Views: 2050 - ***If You Sound Like a Wimp, You Are Guaranteed Not to Get the Job or the Girl! - by Submitted on Jun 29, 2011 from Nancy DanielsI just received a phone call from a young man who asked if I was hiring. I am not hiring; however, were I looking for help with my business, this man would definitely not be on my list of candidates. He sounded like a wimp; and, while I did not use those exact words, I suggested that in ...
Views: 3764 - ***Is Your Dating Coach Truly Qualified to Give You Dating Advice? - by Submitted on Dec 21, 2011 from Amy SchoenWho is offering their dating advice to you -- a 23 year old staff writer at a newspaper? Or how about a twenty –something guy who can successfully pick up women? How about a 30 year old woman who thinks she successfully met her match online and is not even engaged? What about a gay 30 year old ...
Views: 3995 - ***Is Your Dating Life Predictable? - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2008 from Debi BerndtDuring times of uncertainty in your dating life, you may often wonder what lies ahead. Is he going to be arriving in your life soon, or do you have to bear another wedding season at the singles tables catching bouquet after bouquet? In desperation, many single women consult psychics to discover ...
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