Why are women so attracted to the bad boys? You want love, you desire love but when a nice guy shows up in your life, you feel like running away. The man has an impressive resume, wants everything in life that you do, but you cannot seem to stop obsessing about the jerk who dumped you last month.

The reason we reject the nice guys is that our subconscious mind is filled with tons of lies and fairytales about love. We imagine being swept away with an amazing, fantastic man and no one ever seems to measure up to our expectations. Sadly, it is the one that hurts us the most that we create the biggest fantasy about in our minds.

To shift this, many people have success with visualization because they get to feel how love really is and recognize it when it shows up. Most women do not even know how it really feels to be loved and adored. To get your mind clear on what you want, start visualizing being with the love of your life. Get your body and mind used to the idea that you deserve love and that it is safe to love. You’ll find that not only changes your expectations but sends a magnetic energy out to the world to draw the man to you.

My Attract the Love of Your Life program walks you through the visualization. Amazingly, many people find their life partner within one to three months of listening to the program on a daily basis. You can always do it on your own, but the CD is available if you need to be guided through the process.

Author's Bio: 

Debra Berndt, Certified Clinical Hypnotherapist, Dating/Relationship Expert, Author, Speaker, Dating Coach and creator of AttractLoveToday.com. Berndt's online self-hypnosis store is the fastest growing provider of self-hypnosis products. Debra has appeared internationally on radio and television promoting the power of the subconscious and self-hypnosis to attract true love.

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