You are still stuck trying to be the same as everyone else…
Judging your every thought and word before you let it out because you want to be sure that it will be accepted by everyone…
And so, you blend right in and get NOTHING that you want!
You think that just because people want something ... Views: 810
Do you ever do this thing where you keep holding back on doing the thing you are great at, while staring at the thing you think you want to be good at?
Let me try to explain…
For a long time, I would look at the prophets, seers, healers that would come round my church and think that I had ... Views: 810
So many people walk around hating themselves…
Hiding themselves behind frumpy clothes…
Hiding themselves by not saying what they really think…
Hiding themselves by settling for relationships where they are not ... Views: 807
There is something decadent about getting everything you want…
You kinda want it all…
But there is a part of you that also wonders if you really do want it all…
Why?
Because there is a part of you that knows it is not always easy to get everything you want…
And you are not sure if you want ... Views: 807
I see you…
Walking around with a cage around your heart…
You think that you have to be hard, callous, calculating in this world…
And so you hide from the world…
Because that is not who you are…
But you have been hurt…
Hurt badly…
By those who should have loved ... Views: 807
This morning, I got caught up again in trying to know before taking any action whatsoever, if something would work or not…
I fell for it again…
I got to thinking and overthinking what text to put in my adverts for Facebook…
Trying to go see what others had done…
Trying to see the end before ... Views: 803
Let me prepare you a little by saying, I intend to sound uncaring and harsh and unfeeling but it is mostly because I love you!
And you need to be free of this craziness…
Let’s begin…
I have person upon person tell me their sad story of woe when it comes to their finances…
“Oh, everytime I ... Views: 802
There is a longing within you…
To know yourself…
To know higher power…
It has always been there…
Always whispering within you…
YOu have been to the religious institutions and they have attempted to dam the hole within you…
But something has been missing… STILL!
And yes, you have tried to ... Views: 800
So, you are spiritual and maybe you even have a religion to go along with it…
And yet, you are struggling to get your message out there…
You have this big idea of a ministry that will help people connect more with their creator, a product that will really help people, a service that you can ... Views: 799
The car door opened and I was thrown out…
Behind me, I had the car roar as though it was going to drive off without me and I turned to shout “Wait for me!”…
But I was surprised to find that the car was shorter than I was…
Which is okay if you are an adult, you kinda expect that unless it a ... Views: 799
Can I let you into a ‘not-so-secret’ Facebook advertising trick?
One that could start the revolution of your business, especially if you are one of those fairly established businesses with a client list…
(And if you do not have a list of people who have bought from you, maybe ... Views: 798
Yep, I know it sounds harsh…
I want your attention, leader!
You have a calling…
A message…
A purpose…
A mission…
And instead of doing it with gusto, you give into fear…
And you go chase money in work you dislike…
And then you tell me and anyone who will listen that you are not motivated ... Views: 798
I have never fit in…
Never been a regular kind of girl…
Not black enough to fully understand my African family or be understood by them…
Not white enough because, well, I am simply not white Views: 798
Most of the time when I ask people what their challenges are, they come back and tell me it is a lack of money, a lack of finance, a lack of the green stuff that makes the world go round…
And I listen to them and depending on what stage we are in our relationship because some people just do ... Views: 797
You know what… I am not your regular business coach that is only going to talk to you about numbers and statistics and conversion rates and all that…
Important stuff for sure, kinda but only relevant when you are showing up and doing the work consistently…
And right now, you are ... Views: 796
I see you, at the bottom of the mountain, looking up at the hugeness of it…
And you wonder if you have what it take to climb up to the top…
And unlike most who would then walk sadly away back to their boring old life because they think they do not have what it takes…
You decide to begin ... Views: 795
There are two ways to sell something – Sell it yourself or get someone else to sell it for you. And with the wonderful stories of the super entrepreneurs that get their stuff into the mainstream high streets, it is every one’s dream to do this too. The problem, of course, is that a lot of ... Views: 794
A few days ago, I was at a Christian Woman’s Conference. I was the keynote speaker there and as I love to talk, it went incredibly well and I adored every minute of it. I got to speak with amazing people as well to help them come up with ideas for moving forward. It was ... Views: 793
So, you have listened to this guru and that guru telling you exactly how things MUST be done…
They have given you the instructions and you follow it to the letter…
Surely this is how life and business must work – That person said it and so it must be so!
Right?
But then nothing ... Views: 792
Right now, you are living this version of life which is ok but not quite awesome and you cannot quite see how to switch sides…
You know there is something more, you catch a glimpse of it and you long for it…
And yet, you are still here on this side of the coin…
Where ... Views: 791
You are already a leader…
People already look up to you…
People depend on you and sometimes, the weight of that is overwhelming but you don’t crack…
You keep showing up for them…
Even though you KNOW there is more to you!
But you thought that being ... Views: 790
Aaaargh, I am watching you…
Seeing you doing exactly the same old, same old nonsense over and over again…
Each time, you coat it in reasonable sounding nonsense that allows you ONCE AGAIN to lay down your dreams and give way to the fear and procrastination…
And yet you keep lying to yourself ... Views: 789
You are a hidden warrior…
You have always had a shield about you…
Covering up the person you really are…
Wanting that approval from people who want you to play a lot smaller than you want to.
And you have given in, and hidden parts of you because it was easier…
It helped you get along with ... Views: 788
So, this morning, I decided to level things up…
I mapped out the plan for where my daily £10, 958. 90 was going…
Why that number exactly?
Because for whatever reason, I have decided currently that £4 million pounds is what I am working towards as a yearly sum?
You have heard me mention the ... Views: 788
Yes, I get it…
You are afraid…
When you consider all the things you really dream of doing, you get worried that it is too big…
Too much for someone who has lived a fairly normal life to date…
A fairly mundane existence where you tried and failed to do what you were told to do but you still ... Views: 787
Most spiritual peeps feel they have a call to do the work of changing lots of lives…
And they willingly give themselves to that call…
However, they cannot do as much as they want to because they also feel compelled not to learn how to do the real work of building a sustainable ... Views: 787
It is easy to look at people you see as successful and think that they have something you don’t…
It is also easy to envy them…
To judge them…
Or to put them on a pedestal…
Someone you can always aspire to…
But never quite be…
And yet…
There is no difference between ... Views: 786
The internet runs on WORDS, lots and lots and LOTS of words…
And I see people trying so hard to avoid it.
The problem is that even the offline world runs on words…
So, no, you cannot avoid content marketing and why would you want to?
People need to hear you, to listen in to what you ... Views: 784
Leader, as you jump on the success trail, the narrow path that is solely yours…
There will be reasons to jump straight off…
Whether it be sick children…
Aged parents demanding attention…
Partners who claim to feel neglected…
Bosses who demand more than your full attention…
Church leaders ... Views: 782
As I journal-ed and communed with Spirit this morning, I was reminded of going to my antenatal class before my first baby…
We had a midwife there, explaining about what to expect in childbirth…
And she said to tap into your inner animal when giving birth…
To make the sounds, give into the ... Views: 782
There are two kinds of pushing…
Two kinds of action taking…
And you need to know which one you are doing…
Is your pushing making you feel exhilarated as you realise just how powerful you are?
Is your pushing, your hustling the result of a desire for an awesome life for you and your ... Views: 781
Why would you put a barrier in place against creating wealth for you and for yours? I know you say you want it and yet, when it comes down to doing the work to create it, there seem to be barriers in place. Barriers that keep you stuck and trapped in a place of struggle and ... Views: 781
This morning, I had one of those moments of clarity that appear like a light being switched on after years of creeping around in the dark. It was instantaneous and it was on a subject that I thought I had conquered previously but I now realise there was even a deeper level to it.
And it ... Views: 781
Most people get into business with visions of glamour, of financial freedom, of changing the world with their product, service, business opportunity…
They know they have something good to offer and so they expect everyone to JUMP on them immediately…
They never want to work for another soul ... Views: 780
Of course, there are always reasons to stay stuck, to stay broke, to keep doing what you have always done, to avoid the pain of facing yoru financial situation, to not grow the business you desire…
There are always reasons and there will always be reasons…
The question to answer is ‘Do you ... Views: 779
When last did you take the time to really get clear about what you actually want?
I know it can seem a little scary to state categorically what you want, because you think that it might not happen and so, you make it not happen by never directly asking for what you want.
Here is a new ... Views: 778
You are so capable…
So full of drive and determination…
So full of big ideas and you know you are born for more…
Born to dominate in your chosen field though at times, you are uncomfortable with the idea of domination because really, all you want to do is make money doing what you love ... Views: 778
You have reached a level of success and now, you feel stuck there…
Because everyone expects certain things of you…
And now, you feel you have to be that person…
That person they want you to be…
Even though you feel called to be someone else…
And also ... Views: 777
Who on earth are you asking for guidance?
Your parents?
Your older friends?
Your pastor?
Or some other Spiritual Guru person?
I suppose that that sounds great and they are probably very wise about keeping you safe but do you want a ‘Create abundant wealth doing the work I WANT TO and am ... Views: 777
There is a switch inside of you, waiting, waiting, WAITING for you to flick it on…
When you flick it, you will suddenly realise that you have always been limitless…
That everything you desire could have been yours…
Whenever you wanted it…
If you would have just made the decision to create ... Views: 775
Have you ever been in a sticky business situation which you allowed to escalate because you did not know how to deal with it?
I have.
I have been in situations where I would lie in bed, worrying and worrying, unable to sleep, beating myself up and trying not to be a victim about ... Views: 771
Leader, you live a life that can feel pretty intense at times…
You have these big ideas…
This BIG vision…
You carry the weight of the world because everyone depends on you to tell them what to do…
You feel severe pressure at times to live out your calling!
And if you are also still holding ... Views: 770
You are a leader-champion and no one around you gets it!
You want soooo much!
And you have been ashamed about wanting it all, until now…
Because Leader, I tell you right now, that you want it all because you are perfectly positioned and designed to get it all but you have to let go of all the ... Views: 769
Yesterday, I had a bit of a scare and ended up back in hospital for a few hours…
And it made me think of you, the leader, making a new decision about who you choose to be, what you choose to do, what you choose to have…
When you choose to step into the mandate, the calling on your life, you ... Views: 769
You keep thinking it is an either-or situation…
That you can either have the money or impact/serve the people
And I am telling you that I am going to have both and I am creating a community of people who want both too…
(It is the Deliberate Millionaire Community, if you are wondering – ... Views: 769
Leader, you are pushing hard…
Doing the work…
And nothing is happening…
It is like you can see the end goal through a transparent film but you cannot break through it…
Fomr the outside looking in – It seems you go so far and then you pull back…
You then lose the sale…
Or some ... Views: 769
I know you have a calling that you desire to see fulfilled…
You want to see lives transformed by the power of what you have to say…
You want to teach, inspire, coach, motivate, heal so many people and you want to start doing it now…
And it is a given that you want to make money at it though ... Views: 768
You are waking up depressed…
Going to bed depressed…
Wondering when your breakthrough is coming…
Wondering when it will be your turn…
Wondering how long you have to be strong for…
When things will get easier…
When life will seem more fun…
When the heavens will open and throw lots of money ... Views: 766
So much energy…
So much vigour…
You gave it your all…
You showed up!
You spoke your truth!
You did the videos!
The livestreams!
Wrote the blogs!
Did the quote images!
Oh yes, YOU PLAYED FULL OUT…
For about ... Views: 766
You are just about ready to quit…
Don’t!
You are fed up with the lack of response, you are fed up of putting yourself out there…
You are fed up of having passivity thrown back in your face as you try so hard to help people see how you can help them…
And you are ready to quit!
QUIT AND DO ... Views: 761