Make a fulfilling life happen comes from bold moves. Trying is not a way to live but a way to avoid it. Life is not short we just spend unconscious amount of time trying, that delay to start living it.

Do or Do not; There is no Trying – Yoda

What is it that inspires you every day? Are you on this situation where you find yourself in a routine that is draining all your true desires and dreams right to the “survival mode”? However you actually feel like you are giving your best by trying to do the best.

Well I have news for you. What if I told you that “trying” simply doesn’t exist? Yes! That’s right! So if you think that you are trying to be and do the best every day in you life… You simply have not. You’re not even doing the smallest tiny effort to achieve self-realization! (Take a deep breath) You are not doing anything… there’s inertia all around you. And don’t take my word for it; see it for yourself! Pay attention to the results in the most important areas of your life and see what is happening.

Imagine that someone is holding a pencil in the hand. Then that person asks you to try taking it away. That’s when you “try” to take it simulating that you will rip the pencil off of his hand. Or maybe, do a slow motion action pretending that you will take it. (Are you imaging the picture? Great! Ok!) The person that is holding the pencil insists that you take it. And then you do take it. Well, now I ask you… Where is “trying” there? So you can see there is none! You take the pencil or you don’t. There’s nothing in between. Trying it’s an illusion that actually we choose to support a mediocre way of living. It is so normal in the popular context to say: “But, I am trying!” And for some people that’s enough. Like saying that in fact, whatever they are doing describes their best. And that’s terrible, don’t you think? To have a great life purpose, wonderful talents, driven personality and just for whatever reason choose to stay in a comfort zone.

Every one of us has a purpose that no one else may complete because it is our calling. Pretending that you are trying your best to have a fulfilling life is to survive walking in a never ending road of regrets. You are so much better than that!

Let me give you some hints so you may expand your life and perspective of it. Here go four simple steps…

Be willing to be guided. To commit yourself is hold you accountable. Surround yourself with people that already master what you are learning to do. It’s not enough to have talents; we actually require exposing ourselves to knowledge and committed practice on distinction that makes us the best by being excellent and bold in every aspect of our lives.

Be Aware of your Mindset. Be aware of your promoter thoughts and mindset. Those that affect in many ways (not always for good) every decision you make in your life. Align you inner field and make miracles happen by staying in the present moment.

“The past is History. The Future is a Mystery. The Present it’s a Gift. That’s why its call Present. (Kung Fu Panda)

Put your Talent in service of your purpose and enjoy it! Identify your mastery in life. If you ever feel bored it is because you’re not doing something important. Make yourself useful and find a source of inspiration. So you get inspired and move forward making the difference while you’re having an outrageous time!

Just do it! Be passionate and you will not have time to be nervous. There is no trying when you are spontaneous and focus. Life is either a daring adventure or nothing at all! So live your life like you mean it and do not waste one more minute of it “trying”. Better expand yourself by doing and making things happen. Remember: By going deeper you will go far… Start your journey today!

Author's Bio: 

Saritza is founder of Fine Edge Coaching, a company devoted to teaching high caliber leaders to reach up their mastery manifestation in their life. Creator of high-impact master leadership programs in Puerto Rico. Known as “Nada Coach” for her talent of awaken masters out of conventional leaders. She supports leaders to translate their leadership power into consciousness and inner connection by mastering their life purpose.

Certified Yoga teacher(Yoga Alliance),latin magazine collaborator, formal ICF & Top Women Coaches member. Certified Coach, Speaker and transformational trainer specialized in master leadership skills and distinctions. Through her workshops, intensive coaching programs, tele-seminars and written resources, for over ten years, she have support every client and mentor to create and experience a master mindset to achieve, by distinctions application, the meaningful and balanced life they pursuit.

She delivers high- impact master leadership workshops in Puerto Rico, Dominican Republic, United States, Mexico and Latin American transformational communities. Saritza provides through specific coaching tools, high-impact experience of personal and spiritual wellness & awareness, creating direct results in every area of the participant’s life. Attracting and evoking spiritual community in their leadership practice.

Saritza is well respected expert known for combining strategic and spiritual leadership techniques with inspiring and powerful mastery context that works.